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It is a primary study made on how parents in the current scenario are becoming hyper due to competition
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HYPER PARENTIN
G
What is Hyper
Parenting??
Definition.
Hyper Parenting.
We use "hyper-parenting" to describe a style of child-rearing that has - perhaps inadvertently -- become the prescribed way to raise children in middle and upper middle class families. Hyper-Parenting, and its logical consequence - over-scheduled families- have evolved from the belief that within every parent is the power -- and obligation -- to craft the perfect childhood for our kids - one that will guarantee a successful adulthood in the impossibly competitive new e-world.
Causes of
Hyper Parenti
ng...
1.Nuclear families
2.Competition
3.Bad experience
4. Media
5. Social status
6. High Expectations
Behavior of
Hyper Parents
.
1. Anxious/ eager/curious
2. Over possessive
3. Protective
Problems caused because
of Hyper
Parenting.
CLASHESCOMMUNICATION GAP
RIVALRY
HEALTH PROBLEMS
STUDIES
INSECURITY
MONEY MANAGEMENT
LOW SELF ESTEEM
ANTI-SOCIAL ACTIVITIES
Effect of
Hyper Parenti
ng..
On children:-
Mother/ Father fixation
Over obedience
Over dependence
Bullying
Adjustment problem
Self care
Stressed or Burn out
Clashes and Abuse
Obese
Suicidal attempts
Social Deprivation
or Anti social activities.
On Parents:-
Stressed
Burn out
Hyper Parenting in Special Children..
Survey Analysi
s…
The survey was done on 110
children.30 children were of age group 1-7yrs
and80 children were of age group 7-21yrs
Graphs or
Critical Analysis
…
Age group:- 1-
7yrs.
Do you boil all the things that you give your baby?
Yes No
36.66% 63.3%
Do you feel it is necessray to send your child to Pre-school.
Yes No
73.33%
26.66%
Do you send your child for extra curricular activities?
Yes No
50%
50%
Do you celebrate your childs birthday?
Yes NO73.33%
26.66%
Have you ever celebrated or attended theme parties
Yes
No60%
40%
How many timnes in a month do you shop for your child?
1 to 2
3 to 4
5 to 6
7 and above
6.66%
46.67%
6.66%
40.33%
Do you take tension or get hyper if your child skips a meal?
Yes
No
36.67%
63.33%
Do you purchase games which help in de-velopment of your child?
Yes
No
90%
10%
Do you compare your child with other children?
Yes
No
33.33%66.67%
Has your life changed after your child's birth?
Yes
NO
20%
80%
Age group:- 7-
21yrs.
Do you feel tutions and coaching classes are necessary for children?
Yes
NO
21.25%
78.75%
Do you send your child for tutuions or coach-ing classes?
Yes
No
15%
85%
Does your child go for multiple tutions?
Yes
No
43.75%
56.25%
Does your child appear for competitive exams?
Yes
No
35%65%
Do you call your child when he is not at
home?
Yes
NoIf yes,how many times?
1 to 2
3 to 4
5 and more
32.5%
67.5%
11.25%
32.5%43.75
%
Do you feel that all demands of children should be fulfilled?
Yes
No
50%50%
Does your child go for extracurricular activ-ities?
Yes
No73.75%
26.25%
How much time in a day do you spend with your child?
1 to2
3 to 5
6 to 10
11 and more
25%15%
60%
1.25%
Do you feel that your child should be the best in whatever he does?
Yes
No
35%
65%
Do you celebrate your child's birthday?
YesNo
If yes,how?
Small party
Lav-ish party
22.5%
77.5%
41.94% 58.06%
Ways of
Coping….
• Limit Activities.
1. Limit Activities.
2. Give Yourself A Break.
3. Buyer Beware.
4. Be Unproductive.
5. Trust Yourself.
6. Encouraging Independence.
7. Practicing Non Interference.
Case
Study...
A mother is very possessive about her children she always went to pick and drop her children. She was very concerned about her children she took proper care of their food, clothes etc. She also came in the breaks of the school to give them food in secondary school all students used to look at them and due to this the other students used to be away from the child after some years when the child grew big the child had big adjusting problems in college he was unable to make decisions in college nor was able to adjust with the new surroundings. The child somehow managed to adjust with the college atmosphere the mother felt a gap and also felt lonely and it was difficult for her to digest this fact but was later able to adjust.
Interview…
•Do you go for much tuition?Yes I go for 3 tuitions.
•Do you give extra competitive exams?Yes many like rashtra-
bhasha,rajya- bhasha,homi-bhabha ,cyber olampiad,ioel
•Do you like to give extra competitive exams?
No I like only some of it but my mother fills all the form and forces me to give it. (Emotionally blackmails me)
•Do you feel the burden as u do so many activities like giving exams and attending tuitions?
Yes I feel tired as the whole day I am studying completing homework and sometimes I can’t complete my school projects due to tuition homework don’t like when all my friends are playing in the evening and I have to go to tuition at that time.
•Are you compared by your parents?Yes whenever they think I am not
studying properly they compare me with other students.
•What do you do in the vacations?I go to classes for the next
year of math’s and science and go for dancing classes.
•Are you allowed to go out for picnics in school?
No I am not allowed as my mother feels something will happen to me if I go on a picnic.
Thank
you.