How to build your self confidence

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  • 1. PAPER CHAPTER 6 How to Build Self ConfidenceName of Group : 1. PujiCahyaningrum(17)2. PutriSanuria.R.L(18)3. ViviKristiyani(26)D3 of Business Administration Department State Polytechnic of Malang 2013/2014

2. How to Build Self Confidence Self confidence is attitude which allows individuals to have positive realistic views of themselves and their situations. The most people often feel not confident. It comes from ourselves, it happens because we feel there is something wrong from us. Self confidence cant be obtained easily or just need overnight to get it, but need some process to achieve it. It needs dedication to realize that you can be a good human for your future. There are some ways to build your self confidence :1. Understanding your discomfort. What makes you feel uncomfortable? For example, in English class we feel less active so that makes you feel uncomfortable in the classroom. Anything that makes you feel unworthy, ashamed, or low . Then try to identify and write it down on piece of paper. And start feeling the positive ones on the text.2. Talk about it with friends and the special ones. If by writing your problem is not enough help, you can talk with your friends or family. To talk about it to anyone who we believe and can give advice that is best for us. Then this will make your mind more lighter and happier.3. Bounce back from your mistakes. Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have discomfort. At the some point in life, we may not feel enough. Thats the reality that life is never flat. Depending how we react to it. Take lessons in each issue and give yourself spirit.4. Identify Your Success. Every person is born with their own talents and strengths, find something that is you. For example, you are an expert in a particular field then focus to develop it. Express themselves through art, music, writing and others. Look for something that you enjoy. When you feel begin to expert in a particular 3. field, then everything will be easy to develop your confidence. Add your various interest of life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends.5. Be thankful for what you have. Sometimes, you dont have the self confidence because you havent feel enough of something yet. Whether its money, luck, your performance, and so on. By realizing and appreciating what do you have, you can put down the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding the inner peace will do wonders for your confidence. 6. Be positive, even you dont feel the same way. Dont feel pity at yourself because it makes everyone believe that you are nothing. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. Dont be afraid to show your strengths and qualities to others. By doing so, you strengthen the ideas in your mind and boost your growth in a positive direction.7. Accept the praise gracefully. Dont roll your eyes and say, yeah, right, or shrug it off. Dont be arrogant about it and try to humble but take it to heart and respond positively by saying thank you and give smile.8. Look in the mirror and smile. By looking in the mirror and smile every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run. Its good to raise your confident.9. Fake it. Along everything of your condition that can make you feel happy, make your life as happy as possible. Act be a confident human can built your confident. 4. Pretend like a confident human with version of you will make you believe about it and you will feel confident of yours.10. Stick to your principles. It might be difficult, but if you dont have something or principles that you can believe in, you dont have anything. If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything. Dont care about problem that will come to your life, you must be consistant that from this day you will stay with your principles that you have.11. Help others. You must be know that if you are kind to the people around of you and making a positive difference in other peoples live for example you must say thank to people who help you finish your problem. You will know that you can be a positive force in the world and it will boost yourself confident.In brief, there are many ways to build our self confidence. So, we have to take that ways to our life. And its necessary to build our self confidence to face our life and give a good contribution to ourselves and help others. And just believe to ourselves like a proverb says, Be yourself. There is something that you can do better than any other. Listen to the inward voice and bravely obey that. (Isam Alfirdauz)