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Child’s SELF-RESPECT’S effects
Adlerian Perspective
Child’s Discouragement vs.
Encouragement
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
Child’s failures and weaknesses
Likes and reinforcements (qualities)
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
Highlighting the ne-gative side in any situation
Highlighting the positive side in any situation
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
Conditional acceptance; only if it complies with certain standards
Trust the child's ability "to cope with" problems and difficulties
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
OVERPROTECTION - lack of trust in the child
EXPERIENCING - as the essence of life attempt
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
Outstanding perfor-mance at any price (PRESSURE)
Progress, improvement
understanding their needs
Discouragement Encouragementfocuses on...
Perfection - lack of confidence in the child’s ability to be useful, or could contribute some-thing
Recognising the child’s utility and his contribution in the family
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effecton child’s SELF-ESTEEM
Passive Participation - strong FAILURE perception
Participare activă – încredere în capacitatea de a învăța
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
Pessimism - sees the defeat before attempting
OPTIMISM tied to results - ENTHUSIASM
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
It feels unloved, disapproved, rejected, isolated
He feels that he has a place and he is loved
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
Afraid to face and try to "cope" problems - DESPERATION
Look easier life issues– he has COURAGE
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
Give it up when he is wrong
Develop the courage to be IMPERFECT
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
Lack of confidence in the ability to be successful - the feeling of being incapable, stupid
The feeling that can "meet" the challenges of life.
NEGATIVE Effect POZITIVE Effect
on child’s SELF-ESTEEM
The feeling of being unimportant, worthless, useless
It feels important, valuable, useful
Silvia Souca psihoterapeut adlerian
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