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CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
How to quieten your inner critic
Beyond the Books Online Series
Niamh KeanePsychologist @ headspace Toowoomba
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Who is your inner critic?
“I’m such a failure…”
“My hair is so horrible…”
“No one wants to hear my opinion…”
“I can never get anything right…”
“I’m not good enough for this…..”
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Poll 1
What kinds of things does your inner critic pick on?
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Where did it come from?
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Why do we do this to ourselves??
• To get our attention
• To alert us to danger
• To motivate change
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
What can we do about it?
• Be aware of your inner critic – what is it saying?
• Ask yourself – what if that wasn’t true?
• Practice self compassion
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Self Compassion explored..
• Notice the suffering
• Respond with warmth and a desire to help
• Offer understanding and kindness
• Accept imperfection without judgement
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
• Acting the same way towards yourself!!
• Acknowledge your pain and care for yourself
So Self Compassion is….
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
• Pain = unavoidable discomfort that comes into our lives
• Resistance = any effort to ward off pain, such as tensing the body or thinking about how to make the pain go away
• Pain x resistance = suffering
What we resist persists…
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Self-Compassion reduces suffering
• Acknowledge your inner critic
• Respond to it as if you would to a good friend
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• Reduces anxiety, depression, stress, over-thinking, perfectionism, body shame, fear of failure
• Greater compassion and empathy to others
• More forgiveness of others
More reasons to practice Self-Compassion
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Tips for practicing Self Compassion
• Do something you enjoy every day, for at least 5 minutes
• Plan to have breaks in your day, your week, your year and allow yourself to take them
• Spend time with people who support and care for you
• Seek support from a trusted friend or a therapist if you need a reminder
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Support available at USQ..
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Mental Health First Aid Training
USQ offers a two-day Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) training program. This program is designed to help you:
– recognise the signs and symptoms of mental health problems
– learn how to help people in the early stages of these problems
– know where and how to refer people to get help
– understand what types of help are effective– know how to assist in a mental health crisis
until professional help arrives
Email: [email protected] to register your interest
Support available at USQ..
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For students
USQ Student Services
usq.edu.au/studentservices
Toowoomba: +61 7 46312372
Ipswich & Springfield: +61 7 34704400
Book online: https://accesshub.usq.edu.au/
Support available at USQ..
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For staff
Employee Assistance Program
https://www.usq.edu.au/hr/healthsafe/eap
Face to Face or via Phone
Contact: 1300 360 364
Support available at USQ..
CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081
Support available elsewhere..
• 7 module self help course in self compassion: (http://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/resources/infopax.cfm?Info_ID=57)
• Free course on mindfulness based stress reduction: (https://palousemindfulness.com/index.html)
• Daily mindfulness app for phone or computer: (http://smilingmind.com.au/)
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Support available elsewhere..
Headspace: www.headspace.org.auCounselling and referral service for young people aged 12- 25 years. Also supports parents.
Relationships Australia: www.relationships.org.auFamily and relationship counselling as well as a range of specialist counselling services.
Lifeline: www.lifeline.org.au24 hour crisis support and suicide prevention.
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Poll 2
How confident do you feel that you could recognise and respond to your inner critic after
this webinar?
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“Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend”
Kristin Neff
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CRICOS QLD00244B NSW 02225M TEQSA:PRF12081