BALANCING MY 3-SELF
BALANCING MY 3-SELF SPIRITUAL
ACADEMIC
RELATIONSHIP
The Height you Attain is Determined by the Capacity to translate
Vision into Capacity
VISIONTHE ABILITY TO IMAGINEAN ASPIRATIONAL DESCRIPTION OF WHAT
YOU LIKE TO AHIEVE OR ACCOMLISH IN THE MID-TERM OF LONG-TERM
FUTURE.
FACTS OF LIFE3PS OF LIFEPOWERPEOPLEPROGRESS
3 LS OF LIFE LORDLEARNLEAD
3GS OF LIFEGODGOODGAIN
3MS OF LIFEMASTER MANMIND
3MS OF LIFEMASTERMATEMISSION
LET US TRY TO REARRANGE THE THEMEMASTER
SPIRITUALMATERELATIONSHIPMISSIONACADEMIC
TO CONNECT --------- YOU NEED THE MASTER!!!
LIFE WILL NOT GIVE YOU WHAT YOU DESERVE BUT WHAT YOU DEMAND
DESERVE: It is right that you should have it.
DEMAND: A very firm request for something.Something that
somebody needs.
MATT 7: 7 ASK, SEEK, KNOCK----- DEMAND
WHAT DO YOU DESERVE IN LIFE?
WHAT DO YOU DEMAND FROM LIFE?
THEME TEXTECC 12:1Remember now thy creator in the days of thy
youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when
thou shall say, I have no pleasure in them
ECC 12 :1 LIFE IS NOT PLEASANT ANYMORE( We live in a Polluted
world)LIFE WILL NOT GIVE YOU WHAT YOU DESERVE. IF YOU DESERVE IT,
THEN DEMAND IT. ASK FOR IT LOOK FOR IT SEEK IT{EDUCATION, MARRIAGE,
MINISTRY, CAREER E.T.C}
MEANING OF LIFELearnInspireFightExcel
MEANING OF LIFEthe meaning of life is to give life a meaningThe
meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to
give it away
Lead Inspire Friends Energy
BALANCING MY SPIRITUAL AND RELATIONSHIP SELF
THE MANS CONCEPT 3 STAGES OF A MAN (M-A-N)IF A MAN IS TO SPEND
75YEARS ( 25 MORNING, 25 AFTERNOON, 25 NIGHT
MORNING: Preparation stage/Discovery/Activity/Learn/Use/
Drilling/forgiveAFTERNOON: Manifestation stage/
Develop/Productivity/Skills/Useful/GiveNIGHT: Relaxation stage/
Deploy/ Act/ kill/ Useless/ Leave
S/NMorningAfternoonNight1Preparation stageManifestation
stageRelaxation stage2DiscoveryDevelop Deploy3ActivityProductivity
Act4LearnSkills kill5UseUsefulUseless6ForgiveGiveLeave
ECC 12:10-25Preparation stageDiscoveryActivityLearnUse (TIME
TALENT, GIFT E.T.C)Forgive
25-50Manifestation stageDevelopProductivitySkillsUsefulGive
THE LADDER OF MARITAL LIFE
S/NTIMEAGEDESCRIPTION1DAWN1-5EARLY CHILDHOOD2VERY EARLY
MORNNG6-11PRIMARY SCHOOL AGE3EARLY MORNING12-16DEVELOPMENT OF
SECONDARY SEXUAL CHARACTER4MID-MORNING17-22PRODUCTIVE
AGE5MORNING23-30MARRIAGEABLE AGE/CHILD BIRTH6LATE
MORNING31-39CHILDBIRTH/ TRAINING7EARLY AFTERNOON40- 50TRAINING /
REAPING STAGE8MID AFTERNOON51 & ABOVREAPING STAGE.
THE LADDER OF LIFE (Stages of a Man)
S/NTIMEAGEDESCRIPTION1DAWN1-5EARLY CHILDHOOD2VERY EARLY
MORNNG6-11PRIMARY SCHOOL3EARLY MORNING12-16HIGH SCHOOL
AGE4MID-MORNING17-22COLLEGE
5MORNING23-30ENTRANCE INTO EMPLOYMENT6LATE MORNING31-39FULL
EMPLOYMENT7NOON (MID-DAY)40AGE OF NO FOOLISHNESS (PERMANENT BODY
CHANGE)8EARLY AFERNOON41- 50REACHING APEX OF CHOOSING
PROFESSION
9MID-AFTERNOON51-60VERY EXPERIENCED AND RETIREMENT
AGE10AFTERNOON61-65RETIRED BUT STILL ACTIVE (EXPERIENCED ELITES OF
THE SOCIETY)11LATE AFTERNOON 66-70COOL OF TIME
12EVENING71-75TIDY-UP TIME13NIGHT76-79TIME TO GO TO
BED14MID-NIGHT80BE FAST ASLEEP15ANOTHER81 ABOVECROSS-OVER
PERIOD
PART TWOHappiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance,
order, rhythm and harmony. ~Thomas Merton
To start, what does it mean to be balanced?
To me, it means that you have a handle on the the various
elements in your life and dont feel that your heart or mind are
being pulled too hard in any direction. More often than not, you
feel calm, grounded, clear-headed, and motivated.
The elements in life that require the most balancing can be
divided into two categories: internal and external. Oftentimes,
people focus on one more than the other.For example, you may find
that you focus on external things, like work, relationships, and
activities, and that you pay very little attention to what is going
on inside your heart and mind.On the other hand, you may find that
you spend so much time being self reflective that you sometimes
miss out on the experience of living.Other people may be fairly
balanced between the two but might want to balance out some
specific elements within each category; so I created this little
outline to help us better understand the beneficial components on
both ends of each spectrum.
LAWS OF BALANCELAW OF SUPERNATURAL: there is a force behind the
order (Good or Bad) for us it is good and that force is God,
Master, Maker, Creator, Deliverer. And the Force wants you to be
holy, serving Him and other in loveLAW SELF DISCOVERY: master
yourself and you will master your life. Know yourself and the style
that produces . Discover your talent , gift, traits(career path)LAW
OF VISION/ PURPOSE: without vision you are a prey to every win of
opportunity. Without purpose any destination is your bus stopLAW OF
DECISION: make up your mind to be nothing less. The deisions you
take tody are tomorrws reality
Internal (Mind, Heart, Health)
Mind: Challenging yourself intellectually vs. creating
opportunities for your mind to restHeart: Giving love vs. receiving
loveHealth: Eating, drinking, exercising properly vs. resting and
treating yourself to some extra yummiesSPIRITUAL:Serving The Lord
having a relationship
External (Work, Social, Family, Fun)
Work: Pushing yourself to achieve goals vs. seeing the bigger
picture and enjoying the rideSocial: Satisfying your social desires
vs. taking time for yourselfFamily: Fulfilling your familial
responsibilities vs. creating healthy boundariesFun: Allocating
time for things you enjoy doing vs. making sure you dont overdo
it
LAW OF COMMITMENT/CONCENTRATION:this is what transforms ideas
into reality. Without it, your decision cant stand (some av taken
decisions to marry as a virgin but broke it. Some to be a first
class, some to serve the lord but couldnt meet up(focus)LAW OF
HINDSIGHT AND FORESIGHT: look at the past, relate to the present
and project into future. You have faild once or misbehaved once is
enough. Must it happen again.
LAW OF REPUTATION: you are not just anybody, you are not
everybody but somebody. Build a reputation for yourself, have a
class. You dont take everything that comes. Imagine a male friend
slapping ur butts all in the name of playLAW OF
AFFECTION/RELATIONSHIP: this is it. Taste changes, level changes.
(Mind the givers and takers.) mind what they are given and what
they are taking. What does he/she want to take from you or give
you. Your money, body, virginity, connection. (Teach me maths)
LAW OF SACRIFICE/ SERVICE: the fact of giving up something
important or valuable to you in order to get or do something that
seems more importantE.g giving movies for weekly activities or
reahsal e.t.c. Pay the price.
SummaryThe secret of fulfilling, meaningful life is not in
pleasure, drink, job, fame or power ------ so where is itThe answer
is making God your priority( God os the God of order and
balance.THANK YOU
