20 THINGS TO STOP DOING TO YOURSELF

STOP SPENDING TIME WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE

If someone wants you in your life they’ll make room for you Don’t fight for a spot

It’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the people who stand by your side when you’re at your worst that are the truest of friends.

STOP RUNNING FROM YOUR PROBLEMS

Face problems head on Give it your 100% at all times to face the

issues in your life Life isn’t perfect, the sooner we realize that,

the more we will enjoy the perfect moments

STOP LYING TO YOURSELF

You aren’t getting anywhere if you don’t trust yourself

Know your limits, and push against them when possible

STOP PUTTING YOUR OWN NEEDS ON THE BACK BURNER

You are the most important person in your life

Do what you love, and don’t question it. If you love it, it’s worth doing, end of story.

STOP TRYING TO BE SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT

You are the only person who can be you, and that is what is important

Don’t change so people will like you, make changes so that you will like you.

If you are yourself than the right people will love you

STOP TRYING TO HOLD ON TO THE PAST

It happened, there is a reason it didn’t kill you, it was there to make you stronger

Start a new chapter of your life story every day, and leave the tortures of yesterday in the past.

If you enjoyed something from the past, make it part of your future

STOP BEING SCARED TO MAKE A MISTAKE

So what? Give it a try, if it doesn’t work, at least you can say you tried.

Every success has failures behind it, and every failure leads to success

If you make a mistake, there is always tomorrow to fix it

You end up regretting things you never did, way more than the things that you did.

STOP TRYING TO BUY HAPPINESS

It’s been said many times and many ways, money can’t buy happiness.

The only things that can make you really happy are completely free

STOP BEING IDLE

Don’t think too much, you’ll create problems in your own mind

Evaluate situations and take decisive action You cannot change what you refuse to try

STOP THINKING YOU’RE NOT READY

If you think you’re not ready, you never will be ready

Be ready to take a risk and dive in to an awesome opportunity

Things are going to change, it’s what you do with those changes that makes you strong.

STOP TRYING TO COMPETE AGAINST EVERYONE ELSE

Don’t worry about what others are doing Do what makes you happy, and do it to the

best of your ability Concentrate on beating your own records

everyday Success is battle between you and yourself.

STOP BEING JEALOUS OF OTHERS

Count your own blessings not someone else’s Work to get what you want, and don’t ask for

things that others have

STOP COMPLAINING AND FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

Don’t think too much, you’ll create problems in your own mind

Evaluate situations and take decisive action You cannot change what you refuse to try

STOP HOLDING GRUDGES

Forgiveness is not saying: “What you did to me is okay” it is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”

STOP LETTING OTHERS BRING YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL

Refuse to lower your standards Don’t accommodate those who refuse to

raise their standards

STOP WASTING TIME EXPLAINING YOURSELF TO OTHERS

Your friends don’t need it, and your enemies won’t believe it anyways

Do what you believe is right

STOP OVERLOOKING THE BEAUTY OF SMALL MOMENTS

Enjoy the little things One day you may look back and discover

they were the big things The best moments in your life will be the

moments you spend smiling with people you love.

STOP TRYING TO MAKE THINGS PERFECT

Life is messy There is no such thing as a perfect life, only

perfect moments It’s okay for things to get hard for a while

STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR TROUBLES

The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on you, and you alone

If something doesn’t go your way, don’t blame it on the person involved, work hard to change it

Take responsibility for your own life

STOP TRYING TO BE EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE

It’s impossible You’ll burn out Remember that sometimes making someone

smile can change the world

STOP WORRYING SO MUCH

Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.

If you’re worried ask yourself will this matter in one year’s time, three years, five years? If the answer is no, then it’s not worth worrying about.

STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO HAPPEN

If that is what you focus on, that’s what will happen

Positive thinking is at the forefront of every success story.

If you wake up thinking something wonderful is going to happen, you will often find something wonderful will happen

STOP BEING UNGRATEFUL

No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up thankful for what you do have.

Think about what you have, not what you are missing.