The Happiness Expert on Why
It’s Good to Be Good
Quotes from author Stephen G. Post
“Love is not a destination,
but a direction. It is the only
credible basis of human
flourishing.”
“States of joy and delight come from giving to
others. It doesn’t come from any dry action,
where the act is out of duty in the narrowest
sense.”
“When the happiness, security
and well-being of others
become real to us, we come
into our own… Creativity,
meaning, resilience, health and
even longevity can be
enhanced as a surprising
byproduct of contributing to the
lives of others.”
“When people are less focused on self and the
problems of the self, there is a kind of alleviation of
stress. There’s nothing like reaching out and
contributing to the lives of others to give a person a
sense of significance and purpose.”
“The best way to get rid of anger and grief is to
actively help others. It improves a sense of self-worth
and helps us connect with people. If there is one
secret to life - this is it.”
“Giving is the most
potent force on the
planet and will protect
you your whole life.”
“Happiness is a byproduct of living
generously. The single most
important predictor of happiness is
whether a person is living as much
for others as for self.”
“Have confidence that
you are the right
person, in the right
place, at the right time,
with the right gifts, to
help the person who is
greatly in need.”
“To rid yourself of negative emotional states,
you need to push them aside with positive
emotional states. The simplest way to do that
is to just go out and lend a helping hand to
somebody.”
“Science is showing us
that the transformation
toward greater love
that is taught in the
great religions has an
empirical credibility.”
Dr. Stephen Post is the best-selling author of Why Good Things Happen to Good People: How
to Live a Longer, Happier, Healthier Life by the Simple Act of Giving. He has been quoted in
more than 3000 national and international newspapers and magazines including the New York
Times, the Los Angeles Times, Parade Magazine, U.S. News and World Report, the Wall Street
Journal, and many more.
A leading expert on happiness, health, and success and a medical school professor for nearly three
decades, Stephen has authored dozens of articles in leading journals. Across North America,
Australia, Europe, Japan and India his positive psychology message impacts happiness, health,
success, creativity and even longevity.
As president of the Institute for Research on Unlimited Love, Stephen oversees the mission of
exploring the ways in which love shapes human health, development, motivations and actions.