Let’s Play Together
It’s fun to play with my friends.
Part 1: Getting My Friend’s Attention
We play with toys at recess. We play with lots of friends.
Sometimes when I talk to a friend, he does not answer.
Hey – Hey kids – Hey
do you want to play?
I have to get his attention. I have to look at my friend. I have to say his name.
Jordan. Jordan, listen…
I can get in front of my friend. I can look at him and say his name.
Matthew?
Sometimes, I have to keep trying. I can tap my friend on the shoulder. I can look at her and say her name again.
So, to get my friends attention, I need to:
Look at himSay his name
Tap her on the shoulder
Keep trying.
Matthew?
Getting My Friend’s Attention
Look at herSay her name
Tap her on the shoulder
Keep trying.
“Social Power” Point
It’s fun to play with my friends.
Part 2: Sharing and Taking Turns
Sometimes, my friend has something that I want.
I wish I had a soccer
ball to play with…
I need to use my words to ask for the toy.
First, I’ll look at my friend and say his name.
I’m glad Teddy didn’t just grab
it from me.
Corey, can I use that ball?
Then I will ask for the toy. I will put out my hand when I ask for the toy. That helps my friend know what I want.
Shelly, can I use
your game ?
My friend might say, “Sure, I’ll give you the toy”. That’s called sharing.
Kaylie, can I
play with that
dinosaur?
Sure, Sami, I’ll give you the toy.
After a while, I can let my friend have another turn. That’s called taking turns.
Here Greg, you can have
this back.
Or, if she isn’t ready to share, she might say, “Not right now.”
Not right now…I’m still using
these.
HINT: If you say,
Not right now.
Use a polite voice.
I can wait a little while. I can play with something else while I wait. Maybe my friend will share the toy later.
I’ll keep playing with the blocks,
maybe Brendon will let me play
with the airplane later.
It is fun to play with friends. Sharing and taking turns with toys means that everyone has fun.
Sharing and Taking Turns: Sharing means letting my friend use
something that I am playing with. Taking turns means that both friends
get to play with the toy. I’ll try to remember the rules about
Sharing and Taking Turns: When I want something my friend has, I can look
at my friend and say his name. I can put out my hand and ask for it. He might say OK and give me the toy – then I
can let him have a turn later. Or, he might say “Not right now”. Then I’ll find
something else to play with for awhile.
It’s fun to play with my friends.
So, What Do You Think? What
should you do if
you would rather
just play by
yourself for
awhile?
Sharing and Taking Turns
He’ll give me the toy
I can give him a turn later
I’ll find something else to play with for awhile.
I can ask again later.
If he says “OK”: If he says, “Not right now”:
When I want something my friend has, I can look at my friend and say his name.
I can put out my hand and ask for it.
“Social Power” Point