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How “U” Can SuccessfullyAdjust to American Culture

Advice for International Students & Scholars Visiting the U.S.

The “U” Shaped Arrow

ContactSurprise

CopingStruggle

ConflictStress

Clash or CollisionShock / Sadness

(Mostly Below the Surface)

Conne

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Suppo

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ChangeSelf-identity

ConfidenceSuccess“A high-low-high

roller coaster”


A Shallow “U” Curve Is Possible

Factors Affecting the Depth of Culture Shock Duration of time Distance culturally Denial of cultural differences Disposition Diversity capability Depth of language ability

Levels of Culture Shock

MentalEmotionalSpiritualPhysicalSocial

Academic


Culture shock begins with cognitive dissonance, often at a sub-conscious level. It may impact some or all areas of life.

DisharmonyDepression

Loss of missionSleep loss, etc.

IsolationPoor grades

Key to Success

The key to success in a new culture is toadapt yourself through a positive mental attitude!

Positive MentalAttitude

Positive Mental Attitude

ContactSurprise

CopingStruggle

ConflictStress


Conn

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ChangeSelf-identity

ConfidenceSuccessA = Approach as an adventure

D = Do not live in denialA = Accept differencesP = Practice humor

A-D-A-P-T

The “Water Closet” (W.C.) Story[1]The story is told of a husband and wife from England who were planning a vacation trip to the Untied States. Part of their plans included a week long stay at a campground. They were going to be staying in old fashion cabins. They had heard from some friends who had previously traveled to the U.S. that the "rest rooms" (toilets) were sometimes located quite a distance from the cabins. This concerned the wife, so she decided to write to the Camp Director.

Dear Camp Director,My husband and I are hoping to stay at your campground for one week

this winter. Before we finalize our plans, I would like to know where the "W.C." is located.

Sincerely,Mrs. Johnstone

The “Water Closet” (W.C.) Story[1]

When the Camp Director received the letter, he was rather confused as to what the W.C. referred to. When he asked his staff for some help, one of them replied, "I bet I know what she is referring to. She wants to know where the "Welcome Center" (WC) is located. The Director immediately agreed immediately and wrote the following letter:

The “Water Closet” (W.C.) Story[1Dear Mrs. Johnstone,

The W.C. that you asked about is located 10 miles from the camping area. This may seem like quite a distance to travel, yet there is a bus shuttle that you can use. It passes through the camping area several times a day. Please keep in mind, though, that the W.C. is closed after 5 PM and all day on Sundays!

We have found that some of our visitors are little shy and do not like to visit the W.C. alone. Please do not worry. The bus driver is well trained and he will take you directly into the W.C. and introduce you to our W.C. greeters. You will soon discover how friendly Americans can be. Since the view from the W.C. is so spectacular, many people plan to stay for a least a few hours. Our friendly staff will be availabe to answer any questions you might have. I can promise you this: You’ll never be bored or lonely at the W.C.!

If you let me know when you will be using our W.C. for the first time, I will meet you there. I always enjoy giving our international visitors a special welcome. Plus, it will give me a good reason to go again. It is has been several weeks since I last went to the W.C. If you have any more questions, please let me know!

Sincerely,The Camp Director

The “Water Closet” (W.C.) Story[1

What is the lesson to be learned? We need to learn to allow ourselves to make mistakes and laugh at ourselves when we do. We need to practice humor instead of becoming critical and frustrated.

Positive Mental Attitude

ContactSurprise

CopingStruggle

ConflictStress


Conn

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nSu

ppor

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ChangeSelf-identity

ConfidenceSuccessA = Approach as an adventure

D = Do not live in denialA = Accept differencesP = Practice humor

A-D-A-P-T

T = Take time for renewal

An Essential Principle

Home Country: Needs met by direct power

UnconsciouslySwitched

United States:Needs met bybattery power

You need to take time torecharge your batteries!

Remember: “U” Can Succeed!