DivorceDivorce
Family SociologyFamily Sociology
DivorceDivorceHow has the divorce rate changed How has the divorce rate changed over time?over time?
How is the divorce rate measured?How is the divorce rate measured?
Who is more likely to divorce?Who is more likely to divorce?
What are the social and economic What are the social and economic explanations for higher divorce explanations for higher divorce rates?rates?
What is the effect of divorce on What is the effect of divorce on adults and children?adults and children?
Measuring Measuring DivorceDivorce
Crude divorce rate Crude divorce rate – the number of – the number of divorces per 1000 in the population.divorces per 1000 in the population.
Why is this a poor measure of divorce?Why is this a poor measure of divorce?
Crude divorce rate is a faulty measure Crude divorce rate is a faulty measure because it includes members of the because it includes members of the population not at riskpopulation not at risk
Refined divorce rate Refined divorce rate – best measure; – best measure; the number of divorces per 1000 the number of divorces per 1000 married women over age 15married women over age 15
Measuring Measuring DivorceDivorce
Current Divorce RatesCurrent Divorce Rates
Between 1960 and 1979, the Between 1960 and 1979, the refined divorce rate rose from refined divorce rate rose from 9.2 to 22.89.2 to 22.8
From 1979 to 1996, the rate From 1979 to 1996, the rate dropped from 22.8 to 19.5dropped from 22.8 to 19.5
In 1997 the refined divorce In 1997 the refined divorce rate was 19.8rate was 19.8
Annual Divorce Rate per 1,000 MarriagesUnited States, 1860-2010
Measuring Measuring divorcedivorce
Women marrying today have about a Women marrying today have about a 50 percent chance of divorcing – but 50 percent chance of divorcing – but that is if trends remain the samethat is if trends remain the same
50 percent of first marriages will 50 percent of first marriages will EVENTUALLY end in divorce – but EVENTUALLY end in divorce – but remember that is over the lifetime of remember that is over the lifetime of a marriage!a marriage!
Divorce could occur in the 2Divorce could occur in the 2ndnd year of year of marriage or the 10marriage or the 10thth year. year.
Measuring Measuring divorcedivorce
What is the divorce rate? What is the divorce rate? In a given year your risk of divorce is much In a given year your risk of divorce is much
lower than 50 percent!lower than 50 percent!
We use the We use the refined divorce raterefined divorce rate: the : the rate of divorces per 1,000 married women per rate of divorces per 1,000 married women per yearyear
For example, in 2001 about 20 out of 1,000 For example, in 2001 about 20 out of 1,000 married women got divorced married women got divorced
In other words, 2 percent received a divorce in In other words, 2 percent received a divorce in 20012001
Measuring Measuring divorcedivorce
For those in their first marriage, who For those in their first marriage, who did divorce…did divorce…
They were married, on average, 8 yearsThey were married, on average, 8 years
Source: http://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/p70-125.pdf
Latest data on Marriage Latest data on Marriage and Divorce Rateand Divorce Rate
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/divorce.htmdivorce.htm
Geography of Geography of DivorceDivorce
The divorce rate varies by stateThe divorce rate varies by state
Which state(s) do you think have a higher Which state(s) do you think have a higher divorce rate and why?divorce rate and why?
Nevada…easy divorce lawsNevada…easy divorce laws
Which state(s) have lower divorce rates and Which state(s) have lower divorce rates and why?why?
Massachusetts – may have to do with Massachusetts – may have to do with stricter alimony laws or high percentage of stricter alimony laws or high percentage of CatholicsCatholics
Source: Source: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvss/divorce_rates_90_95_http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvss/divorce_rates_90_95_99-10.pdf99-10.pdf
“I’m surprised I’m still single, I thought I’d be divorced by now”
How is divorce related to How is divorce related to social, demographic, or social, demographic, or
economic changes?economic changes?Social norm change: As more people divorceSocial norm change: As more people divorce Response: The stigma associated with divorce Response: The stigma associated with divorce
lessenslessens
Economic change: Increase in women working for Economic change: Increase in women working for paypay Response: Women can afford to leave unhappy Response: Women can afford to leave unhappy
marriagesmarriages
Demographic change: Increased incidence of Demographic change: Increased incidence of divorce divorce Response: More children will grow up in single-Response: More children will grow up in single-
parent familiesparent families
Why did the divorce rate Why did the divorce rate increase from 1960s – increase from 1960s –
1980s?1980s?No one can say for sure what No one can say for sure what explanation is more important.explanation is more important.
Some argue that the introduction of Some argue that the introduction of
no-fault divorce lawsno-fault divorce laws are responsible for are responsible for the rise in divorces. the rise in divorces.
No-fault divorce laws No-fault divorce laws made it easier to made it easier to seek a divorceseek a divorce
No fault divorce – distribution of marital No fault divorce – distribution of marital property is no longer based on faultproperty is no longer based on fault
Instead distribution is equitable – each Instead distribution is equitable – each person gets an equal shareperson gets an equal share
Why did the divorce rate Why did the divorce rate increase from 1960s – increase from 1960s –
1980s?1980s?1) Attitudes towards divorce have changed as 1) Attitudes towards divorce have changed as divorce has become more common – i.e. the divorce has become more common – i.e. the stigma attached to divorce has lessened stigma attached to divorce has lessened
2) More young married women in the labor 2) More young married women in the labor forceforce
Now that wives can support themselves – as Now that wives can support themselves – as they are more likely to be employed - they they are more likely to be employed - they have an alternative staying in an unhappy have an alternative staying in an unhappy marriagemarriage
In sum – today - not necessarily more In sum – today - not necessarily more unhappy marriages… unhappy marriages…
Now it is easier to leave an unhappy Now it is easier to leave an unhappy marriagemarriage
Individual Individual characteristicscharacteristics associated associated with divorcewith divorce
AgeAge
People who marry as teenagers are more People who marry as teenagers are more likely to divorce than those who marry at likely to divorce than those who marry at older agesolder ages
Why?Why?You will likely still be developing and changing in You will likely still be developing and changing in major ways when you are a teenmajor ways when you are a teenANDANDMany teen marriages result from an unintended Many teen marriages result from an unintended pregnancy – not a good basis for a marriagepregnancy – not a good basis for a marriage
HOWEVER new research shows that HOWEVER new research shows that marrying after age 35 is linked to higher marrying after age 35 is linked to higher rate of divorcerate of divorce
Individual Individual characteristics characteristics
associated with divorceassociated with divorceEducation levelEducation level
Those with Those with lower level of educationlower level of education are are moremore likely to divorce than those with higher levels likely to divorce than those with higher levels of educationof education
IQIQ
Higher IQ may indicate greater problem Higher IQ may indicate greater problem solving ability, which may help couples work solving ability, which may help couples work through issues that arise in their marriagethrough issues that arise in their marriage
Individual Individual characteristics characteristics
associated with divorceassociated with divorceRace & EthnicityRace & Ethnicity
Regardless of educational level, African-Regardless of educational level, African-Americans have higher rates of divorce Americans have higher rates of divorce than whitesthan whites
Percent No Longer in First Marriage by Race/Ethnicity
Source: National Survey of Families and Households, 1987
Predicting Predicting DivorceDivorce
Divorce is a process Divorce is a process
Often, there are signs of trouble Often, there are signs of trouble long before the divorcelong before the divorce
People report trouble long People report trouble long before they actually decide to before they actually decide to divorcedivorce
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
The most talked about consequence The most talked about consequence of divorce is the effect it has on of divorce is the effect it has on children.children.
Given the rates of divorce in the late Given the rates of divorce in the late 1970s and early 1980s, about two-1970s and early 1980s, about two-fifths of all children will have fifths of all children will have experienced a marital disruption by experienced a marital disruption by age 16.age 16.
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
A major problem is that many women A major problem is that many women and children do not receive child and children do not receive child support, even when it is court support, even when it is court orderedordered
2/3 of families with no father present 2/3 of families with no father present who were supposed to receive child who were supposed to receive child support, actually do receive supportsupport, actually do receive support
Only 48 percent of families actually Only 48 percent of families actually receive receive anyany support support
Child Support Data, Child Support Data, 20072007
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
Most mothers still retain custody of Most mothers still retain custody of children after a divorcechildren after a divorce
Custody involves decisions about Custody involves decisions about who will have responsibility for the children?who will have responsibility for the children?where will the children live?where will the children live?
Legal custody refers to having the right to Legal custody refers to having the right to make important decisions about the child’s lifemake important decisions about the child’s life
Physical custody refers to where children Physical custody refers to where children actually liveactually live
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
Most mothers still retain custody of Most mothers still retain custody of children after a divorcechildren after a divorce
Joint custody is becoming more commonJoint custody is becoming more common
Joint legal custody – based on the idea Joint legal custody – based on the idea that parent’s responsibilities towards that parent’s responsibilities towards their children have not changedtheir children have not changed
Joint physical custody - children spend Joint physical custody - children spend at least 33% of their time with each at least 33% of their time with each parentparent
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
Joint physical custody is growing Joint physical custody is growing
Children spend substantial time in the Children spend substantial time in the household of each parent – but in household of each parent – but in reality mothers still have custody more reality mothers still have custody more of the timeof the time
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
Father involvement Father involvement
Why do fathers fade from children’s Why do fathers fade from children’s lives after divorce?lives after divorce?
Visits to children are painful Visits to children are painful reminder of failed marriagereminder of failed marriageFathers investing in new family if Fathers investing in new family if they remarrythey remarryCherlin speculates that fathers Cherlin speculates that fathers related only indirectly to children related only indirectly to children through wifethrough wife
Children & Children & DivorceDivorce
Rather than practicing coparenting after a Rather than practicing coparenting after a divorce, most families practice parallel divorce, most families practice parallel parenting: after several years – parents go parenting: after several years – parents go about parenting separatelyabout parenting separately
Father only families are growing rapidlyFather only families are growing rapidly
From 1980 to 1998 – the number of father-From 1980 to 1998 – the number of father-headed families tripledheaded families tripled
19 percent of single-parent families are 19 percent of single-parent families are headed by fathersheaded by fathers
4 percent of all children live in single-father 4 percent of all children live in single-father familiesfamilies
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Many studies have considered the Many studies have considered the effect of divorce on children’s:effect of divorce on children’s:
①① scholastic achievement scholastic achievement
②② conduct conduct
③③ psychological adjustment psychological adjustment
④④ self esteem self esteem
⑤⑤ social skills social skills
⑥⑥ relationships with parents relationships with parents
But many consequences are difficult to But many consequences are difficult to measure – especially long term effectsmeasure – especially long term effects
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Short-term effectsShort-term effects1-2 year crisis period1-2 year crisis periodChildren’s lives may be disrupted Children’s lives may be disrupted due to sale of family home due to sale of family home Decline in financial status due to Decline in financial status due to high chance that mom now high chance that mom now supporting family – possibly supporting family – possibly without child support without child support possibly having to reenter the job possibly having to reenter the job marketmarket
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Long-term effectsLong-term effects
Many studies find that children from Many studies find that children from divorced families experience lower divorced families experience lower levels of well-being across some of levels of well-being across some of these areas than do children from these areas than do children from intact familiesintact families
However, there are many However, there are many inconsistencies in these studies inconsistencies in these studies
Many studies don’t find significant Many studies don’t find significant differences between kids in divorced differences between kids in divorced and intact families and intact families
Effects of divorce on Effects of divorce on childrenchildren
Long-term effects of Long-term effects of divorce on childrendivorce on childrenResearchers reviewed the literature Researchers reviewed the literature from 1970 to 1980 find overwhelming from 1970 to 1980 find overwhelming evidence that after the initial trauma evidence that after the initial trauma of divorce:of divorce:
children are as emotionally well-children are as emotionally well-adjusted as children from intact adjusted as children from intact families. families.
Effects of divorce on Effects of divorce on childrenchildren
Long-term effects of divorce on Long-term effects of divorce on childrenchildrenLong-term studies show that after Long-term studies show that after controlling for socioeconomic status (SES), controlling for socioeconomic status (SES), adolescents who have experienced a adolescents who have experienced a divorce have only slightly lower levels of divorce have only slightly lower levels of adult adjustment. adult adjustment.
Adjustment is measured in several ways: Adjustment is measured in several ways: self-control self-control leadership leadership responsibilityresponsibilityachievementachievementaggressiveness aggressiveness gender-role orientationgender-role orientation
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Long-term effectsLong-term effects
My new research shows:My new research shows: Children from high conflict Children from high conflict
parents who later separate, are parents who later separate, are less likely to have conflict in their less likely to have conflict in their adult relationships …adult relationships …
compared to kids of high conflict compared to kids of high conflict parents who stayed togetherparents who stayed together
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Long-term effectsLong-term effects
Other researchers, who collected Other researchers, who collected data on families prior to divorce, data on families prior to divorce, found:found:
Many of the problems that associated Many of the problems that associated with children of divorced families were with children of divorced families were evident before the actual decision to evident before the actual decision to divorce divorce
Thus, researchers argue that Thus, researchers argue that conflict between parents conflict between parents is a is a fundamental factor that harms fundamental factor that harms children’s development and children’s development and produces behavioral problems produces behavioral problems
Effects of divorce on childrenEffects of divorce on children
Long-term effectsLong-term effects
• In sum, conflict in families may be In sum, conflict in families may be the cause of children’s problems, the cause of children’s problems, not the actual decision to divorce. not the actual decision to divorce.
DivorceDivorce• SummarySummary
• Divorce has increased steadily over Divorce has increased steadily over the 20the 20thth century century
• The biggest increases were during The biggest increases were during the 1960s-1970’sthe 1960s-1970’s
• Divorce rate has leveled off and has Divorce rate has leveled off and has begun to decline in the past few begun to decline in the past few yearsyears
• Conflict is bad for kids, not Conflict is bad for kids, not necessarily divorce in the long-termnecessarily divorce in the long-term
DivorceDivorce• SummarySummary
• Divorce has a greater adverse economic Divorce has a greater adverse economic effect on women than meneffect on women than men
• Short-term effects of divorce on children – Short-term effects of divorce on children – last 1-2 yearslast 1-2 years
• Long-term effects are still debated – more Long-term effects are still debated – more research and better data is neededresearch and better data is needed
• Conflict is the source of negative outcomes Conflict is the source of negative outcomes for kids – not just divorcefor kids – not just divorce