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Your 20s compose undoubtedly the most pivotal time in your life. While there are plenty of

temptations and distractions, the decisions you make here are truly what dictate your future, as

the weak fail and only the strong survive.

Do you have what it takes to become a monumental success? Or will you live out a life of

mediocrity? The choice is up to you. While many think they have all the answers and the keys to

success, we have seen those people make the same pitfalls too many times before.

This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for the life that you want for yourself. You

manifest your own destiny during these crucial years.

Every move you make is a test. Don’t f*ck it up. These are the 20 Mistakes You Don’t Want To

Make In Your 20s.

20. Working for money, not for building your dreams

Never do anything just because it’s convenient for you. Look to challenge yourself and build

your own dream instead of building someone else’s. Even if it doesn’t exactly make sense now,

create something with great value so you can cash out big.

Always look to the future and never for immediate compensation. What are you going to do with

those weekly wages anyways? Stop being so entitled and pretending like you deserve cash,

prizes and vacations just yet. You will soon realize once you’ve made it that making money

doesn’t make you happy. It’s the journey.

19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love

While all of your friends might be doing it, don’t fall into the trap of a relationship. Sure it seems

like the right thing to do, but your 20s are entirely too crucial for your personal growth for you to

be focusing on fulfilling the wishes of another individual.

Not only does it make you complacent with where you are in life, but it makes you boring. When

your business is at stake and your future is resting on your shoulders, the last thing you need is to

be bogged down by an insecure lover rushing you home.

Get out there, meet new people, test the limits and have fun. It will take you to the places you’ve

only dreamed of going.

18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to

become one

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Instead of going overboard on the Gucci monogram and bottles in the club, as if you just signed

to Rocnation, spend that time focusing on your career.

Every second counts and if more time is spent pretending to be the person you want to be instead

of becoming that man, then you’ll sink in quick sand without even knowing it.

A real man is willing to make sacrifices. If you aren’t down to put in the work, then please don’t

act like you are. You can enjoy the success when you actually attain it.

17. Making friends instead of earning trust

The in-crowd may be tempting, but you’ll probably fall victim to surrounding yourself with

social climbers. We know you feel entitled to celebrate, but please relax. It’s never attractive

when you act as though this is the last time you’ll ever see this in life.

Make connections with people based on trial and error, not presuppositions and drunk ranting

about what they can do for your business.

If you ever want people to take you seriously, then you have to take them seriously. Just because

you think you trust someone doesn’t always mean you can. Heed any red flags in the past before

jumping into any kind of venture with them.

16. Not caring because you only live once — that’s for fools

We all are guilty of irrational decision-making in our 20s. Fast people and fast times with money

in your pocket always lead to over-extending yourself.

A life of partying, heavy drugs and pretty much having that YOLO attitude will leave you flat on

your ass. Get focused and lock into what you’re supposed to be doing. If you don’t know what

that is, then you better figure it out ASAP.

15. Making all your wants, needs

Expensive women and cheap thrills coupled with the expensive sneakers should not be on the list

of your needs. Setting the foundation for your business and team is far more important than

updating your wardrobe and chasing sex.

Distinguish between what you want and what you actually need. Make sure your priorities are in

tact or you will lose your track.

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14. Forgetting that family comes first

Those who supported you before anything deserve to be taken care of when you reach your

success. If you aren’t doing this for the ones you love, then you’re not doing it right. Family

comes first, no matter what happens. If you work for whom you love instead of just yourself, you

will get far.

13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything in life

Hold yourself accountable for everything. At the end of the day, all you have in the world is

yourself — so go hard. Don’t look to anyone for answers and instead of making problems, create

solutions.

Whether it was that job you wanted, the funding you needed or the love you think you can’t live

without, there is no one that can be held accountable in this universe except for you.

12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve down time

Unless you’re chilling with Victoria’s Secret models in Monaco this weekend, you shouldn’t

even be thinking about taking a break anytime soon. You need a vacation?

What have you accomplished? Mark Cuban spent seven years building out his first business

before he even took a break. Don’t get lazy now.

11. Sticking with jobs that didn’t teach you anything

A bad job is like an unhealthy relationship. Truthfully, the only reason you’re there is because it

is the safest and easiest thing you know.

Any job or relationship that allows for you to get comfortable should be avoided at all costs. The

last scenario you could ever want is becoming like the rest of those miserable 40-somethings

faced with weekends of minivans and soccer practice.

10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it

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You can be aware of the trends, but never follow them. If all your time is spent trying to adjust to

your surroundings, you’ll get lost in the crowd all the more easily.

Success and greatness are constructed by trendsetters themselves, not those who latched on to

what’s currently trending. We hope that you don’t have any aspirations to look like your favorite

rapper. Temptation to be influenced by those who you aspire to be like is easy, but no one finds

his or her calling while following in the footsteps of another.

9. Failing to energize those around you

Although you may sometimes think there is a lack of talent in your networks — this is never the

case. It is your sole responsibility to inspire, encourage and drive those around you to succeed.

Failing to do so only confirms that you fall victim to that which you accuse others of. Change

and greatness can be sparked everywhere, but bring it upon yourself to trigger it.

8. Thinking you need to stop learning and growing

You have more zeros at the end of your bank statement and stamps in your passport than you had

ever imagined. Don’t consider this your victory lap, but rather as a taste of greatness. Do you live

to enjoy the moments you dreamed of or a lifetime of unimaginable success?

The common misconception that once things are in your favor, you no longer have to put in the

3:00AM work hours is a dangerous problem. The fewer nights that you’re willing to put in the

work, the fewer opportunities you will have to celebrate your achievements in the future.

7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back

Your 20s will be accompanied with a slew of poor investments by both you and those around

you. Whether rich or poor, there will always be someone in your circle that will need a helping

hand. If you ever think you’re going to see that money again, you’re sorely mistaken.

If there were a plan of action and re-investment, then the truth is that you will not see $1 back.

Times are tough, especially in your 20s and finding a route back to financial freedom is often

seen only when winning the lotto or signing your first deal with Ca$h Money Records.

Of course miracles do happen, but the probabilities that you’ve essentially given the money away

are far too high.

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6. Investing in relationships with the wrong values

Your love life is an investment — and the smarter the deals you execute, the savvier of an

investor you become. Instead of navigating through an ambiguous investment in which you

shower your lover with cash and prizes for existing, make sure he or she will demonstrate

positive returns. Your love life should have a solid ROI.

5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add no

value to your life

You’ll be sucked down into the abyss right with them if you don’t cut the fat of the group.

Family and friends could have been great to you as a child, but if they no longer hold the value

and inspiration that is needed for you to thrive in life, then cut them loose.

The only individuals you should be surrounding yourself with are those that challenge your ideas

and motivate you to find the next solution to your problems. No, not the pessimistic assh*les

who shoot down your ideas with their negativity, but rather the ones who genuinely want to see

you succeed no matter what you do in life.

4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending every

dollar you have

If our check is for $9, then we’re most likely spending $30. Between credit cards, school loans

and every other avenue for attaining a quick dollar, our need for immediate gratification is worse

than ever.

The truth is it’s about making more money, not saving it. But at the same time, if you have no

means for expanding your revenue channels, then you must be able to save a few dollars here

and there. No one likes to have to walk to work because he blew every dollar at LAVO.

3. Not wrapping it before tapping it

If you don’t want to have a child then you better limit your excuses. As vulgar as it may sound,

sometimes there are only a few options in life, so you must avoid all potential margins of error.

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The road to success is not paved with having responsibilities of children and your future wife to

be. This is a somewhat lonely journey that you must take by yourself and those you love will be

able to celebrate with you after.

2. Dating unstable people with mommy and daddy issues

We need to control the invincibility we all feel when it comes to both men and women. Whether

she’s a stripper or he’s a frat bro, we feel the need to be the knight in shining armor for our

lovers.

As chivalrous as this may seem, we hate to break it to you, but you will never be able to change

anyone. By setting yourself up for a losing battle, you’ve only ensured your misery for the next

few months. She’s clingy for a reason, don’t be her Dr. Phil. And if he doesn’t have ambition

now, he never will.

1. Forgetting that karma is a huge b*tch

Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved, stealing your friend’s girlfriend or plotting

against an ex-partner, we must always remember that karma is the biggest b*tch we’ve ever met.

There is nothing more true than the fact that whatever goes around comes around, and you are

not immune to the cosmic forces that be. We’re not asking you to go on your Mother Teresa

pilgrimage, but don’t be surprised when reality catches back up with you and brings you to your

knees. Be a good person. You’ll get further in life.

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