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Building motivation for youth leaders.
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MOTIVATIOMOTIVATIONN
FOR FOR YOUTHYOUTH
LEADERSLEADERS
OvervieOvervieww
1.1. IntroductionIntroduction
2.2. MotivationMotivation
i.i. LearningLearning
ii.ii. Spiritual Spiritual Intelligence (SQ)Intelligence (SQ)
iii.iii. Know thyselfKnow thyself
iv.iv. Try everythingTry everything
3.3. ConclusionConclusion
Ten Lessons from
Noah's Ark
Everything I need to know,
I learned from Noah's
Ark.
ONE: ONE: Don't miss Don't miss the boatthe boat
TWO: TWO: RemembeRemember that we r that we are all in are all in the same the same
boat.boat.
THREE: THREE: Plan Plan
ahead. It ahead. It wasn't wasn't raining raining when when
Noah built Noah built the Ark. the Ark.
FOUR: FOUR: Stay fit. Stay fit.
When you're When you're over 60 years over 60 years old, someone old, someone may ask you may ask you
to do to do something something really big.really big.
FIVE: FIVE: Don't listen Don't listen to critics; to critics; just get on just get on with the with the job that job that needs to needs to be done. be done.
SIX: SIX: Build Build your your
future on future on high high
ground.ground.
SEVEN: SEVEN: For For
safety's safety's sake, sake,
travel in travel in pairs.pairs.
EIGHT: EIGHT: Speed isn't Speed isn't always an always an advantage. advantage. The snails The snails
were on board were on board with the with the
cheetahs.cheetahs.
NINE: NINE: When When you're you're
stressed, stressed, float float
awhile.awhile.
TEN: TEN: Remember, Remember, the Ark was the Ark was
built by built by amateurs; the amateurs; the
Titanic by Titanic by professionals.professionals.
1. 1. INTRODUCTINTRODUCTIONION
MotivationMotivation
Constantly trying Constantly trying to “motivate their to “motivate their people”people”
This is the This is the problemproblem
You cannot You cannot motivate peoplemotivate people
BUT, BUT, you can set an you can set an example and create example and create an environment an environment where they will where they will motivate themselvesmotivate themselves
““Start by doing what is Start by doing what is necessary, necessary,
then what is possible, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing and suddenly you are doing
the the impossibleimpossible.”.” St. Francis of AssisiSt. Francis of Assisi
When you are When you are inspired by inspired by some great some great
purposepurpose
All your thoughts All your thoughts break their break their boundsboundsYour mind Your mind transcends transcends limitations,limitations,Your Your consciousness consciousness expands, andexpands, andYou find yourself You find yourself in a new great, in a new great, wonderful worldwonderful world
STIMULUS & RESPONSESTIMULUS & RESPONSE
STIMULUSSTIMULUS RESPONSE RESPONSE SPACE SPACE
In that space, lies our freedom and power to choose our response.
In these choices lies our growth and happiness.
Taking InitiativeTaking Initiative
Self-empowermentSelf-empowerment What is the best I can do under What is the best I can do under
these circumstances?these circumstances?
Levels of initiativeLevels of initiative
Wait until told
Ask
Make a recommendation
“I intend to”
Do it and report immediately
Do it and report periodically
Do it
Creative ThinkingCreative Thinking
Breaking out of established patterns,Breaking out of established patterns, In order to look at things,In order to look at things, In different waysIn different ways
ChallengesChallengesPERSONALPERSONAL PROFESSIONAL/PROFESSIONAL/
ORGANIZATIONALORGANIZATIONAL
11 MoneyMoney 11 Workload, DeadlinesWorkload, Deadlines
22 Life Balance/Not enough Life Balance/Not enough timetime
22 Insufficient/ResourcesInsufficient/Resources
33 HealthHealth 33 Financial survivalFinancial survival
44 RelationshipsRelationships 44 Low trustLow trust
55 Raising `& disciplining Raising `& disciplining childrenchildren
55 DisempowermentDisempowerment
66 Self-doubtSelf-doubt 66 Change & uncertaintyChange & uncertainty
77 Uncertainty, ChangeUncertainty, Change 77 Staying current with Staying current with technologytechnology
88 Lack of skills, educationLack of skills, education 88 ConfusionConfusion
99 Lack of meaningLack of meaning 99 Job satisfactionJob satisfaction
1100
Lack of peaceLack of peace 1100
Lack of integrity in top Lack of integrity in top managementmanagement
““Lazy Intelligence”: Lazy Intelligence”: Do Less Achieve MoreDo Less Achieve More
LAZYLAZY
HARD-HARD-WORKINGWORKING
STUPIDSTUPID INTELLIGENTINTELLIGENT
FireImmediately
ExcellentStaff
Leave Alone ****Stars
2. 2. MOTIVATIOMOTIVATIO
NN
i.i.LEARNINGLEARNING
CivilizatiCivilization on StagesStages
Hunter/Gatherer
Information/Knowledge worker
Industrial
Agricultural
Wisdom
LearningLearning
Asking the right questionsAsking the right questions At the right timeAt the right time Remembering what is importantRemembering what is important
Adult LearningAdult Learning
Adults learn best when they take Adults learn best when they take charge of their own learningcharge of their own learning
Taking charge of your own learning Taking charge of your own learning is taking charge of your lifeis taking charge of your life
It’s not It’s not what you what you
don’t don’t know that know that hurts you,hurts you,
It’s what It’s what you know you know that just that just isn’t soisn’t so
You learn You learn best best
when you when you teach teach
anotheranother
Your Your learning is learning is internalizinternalized when ed when
you live ityou live it
Self-knowledgeSelf-knowledge
Best learned, not by Best learned, not by contemplation,contemplation,
But by actionBut by action
We mustWe must
Think anewThink anew Develop a new mind-set, a new skill-Develop a new mind-set, a new skill-
set, and a new tool-setset, and a new tool-set Move away from our ‘comfort zone’Move away from our ‘comfort zone’
KNOWLEDGE
ATTITUDESKILL
HABIT
ii.ii.SPIRITUASPIRITUA
LLINTELLIGINTELLIG
ENCEENCE(SQ)(SQ)
SQSQ
INTEGRITY
MEANINGVOICE
IntegrityIntegrity
Being true to one’s highest values, Being true to one’s highest values, convictions and conscienceconvictions and conscience
Make and keep promises – start Make and keep promises – start smallsmall
Educate and obey your conscienceEducate and obey your conscience
MeaniMeaningng
Having a Having a sense of sense of
contribution contribution to people to people
and causesand causes
VoiceVoiceAligning our Aligning our work with work with our unique our unique talents or talents or
gifts,gifts,our sense of our sense of
callingcalling
Ask yourselfAsk yourself
What does my life situation ask of What does my life situation ask of me now?me now?
What should I do in my present What should I do in my present responsibilities, duties, and responsibilities, duties, and stewardships?stewardships?
What would be the wise action to What would be the wise action to take?take?
iii.iii.KNOW KNOW
YOURSELFYOURSELF
Know thyselfKnow thyself
SeparatingSeparating Who you are and what you want to Who you are and what you want to
be,be, from,from, What the world thinks you are and What the world thinks you are and
want to bewant to be
Johari’s WindowJohari’s Window
SELF
OTHERS
know
know Do notknow
Do notknow
OPEN BLIND
HIDDEN UNKNOWN
Self-knowledgeSelf-knowledge1. YOU ARE YOUR
BEST TEACHER
2. ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY
3. YOU CAN LEARNANYTHING YOU WANT
TO LEARN
4. REFLECTION
Self-awareness =Self-awareness = Self-knowledge = Self-knowledge = Self-possession =Self-possession = Self-control =Self-control = Self-expressionSelf-expression
YOU MAKE YOUR LIFE YOUR OWN BY
UNDERSTANDING IT
iv.iv.TRY TRY
EVERYTHIEVERYTHINGNG
Reflection & Resolution Reflection & Resolution
Reflection – learning from the past – Reflection – learning from the past – looking back, thinking back, looking back, thinking back, dreaming, journaling, talking it out, dreaming, journaling, talking it out, asking for critiqueasking for critique
Reaction is not reflection – successes Reaction is not reflection – successes and failuresand failures
Resolution of conflictsResolution of conflicts
Conflicts & ResolutionsConflicts & Resolutions
CONFLICTSCONFLICTS RESOLUTIONRESOLUTION
Blind trust vs. Blind trust vs. SuspicionSuspicion
HopeHope
Initiative vs. Initiative vs. LimitationLimitation
PurposePurpose
Identity vs.. Identity vs.. ConfusionConfusion
IntegrityIntegrity
Intimacy vs. Intimacy vs. IsolationIsolation
EmpathyEmpathy
Generosity vs Generosity vs SelfishnessSelfishness
MaturityMaturity
Illusion v. Illusion v. DelusionDelusion
WisdomWisdom
PerspectivePerspective How you see things, How you see things, Your particular frame of Your particular frame of
referencereference
QuestionsQuestions1.1. When you consider a new project, do When you consider a new project, do
you think of its costs or its benefits?you think of its costs or its benefits?2.2. Do you rank profit or progress first?Do you rank profit or progress first?3.3. Would you rather be rich or famous?Would you rather be rich or famous?4.4. If offered a promotion that required If offered a promotion that required
you to move to another place, would you to move to another place, would you discuss it with your family before you discuss it with your family before accepting it?accepting it?
5.5. Would you like to be a small fish in a Would you like to be a small fish in a big pond, or a big fish in a small pond?big pond, or a big fish in a small pond?
Your perspectiveYour perspective
If you think first of the cost of a project, If you think first of the cost of a project, or rank profit higher than progress, your or rank profit higher than progress, your perspective is short-termperspective is short-term
A person who would rather be famous A person who would rather be famous than rich is more ambitiousthan rich is more ambitious
If you would discuss a promotion with If you would discuss a promotion with your family first, you are more humane your family first, you are more humane than ambitiousthan ambitious
A big fish in a small pond – you may lack A big fish in a small pond – you may lack drive drive
TestsTests1.1. Know what you want, Know what you want, Know your abilities and capacities, andKnow your abilities and capacities, and Recognize the difference between the Recognize the difference between the
twotwo
2.2. Know what drives youKnow what drives you Know what gives you satisfaction,Know what gives you satisfaction, andand Know the difference between the twoKnow the difference between the two
MasteryMastery
Of the task at handOf the task at hand Requires absolute concentration, the Requires absolute concentration, the
full deployment of oneselffull deployment of oneself Absolute competenceAbsolute competence
Strategic thinkingStrategic thinking
““Unless you are a lead dog, the Unless you are a lead dog, the scenery never changes”scenery never changes”
The basic difference between an The basic difference between an ordinary man and warrior is that a ordinary man and warrior is that a warrior takes everything as a warrior takes everything as a challenge, while on ordinary man challenge, while on ordinary man takes everything as a blessing or a takes everything as a blessing or a cursecurse
VisionVision
Most people in Most people in organizations feel that they organizations feel that they
tend to work like thistend to work like thisIdentify 6 pointsIdentify 6 points
Different PerspectivesDifferent Perspectives
CommunicateCommunicate
Missions and visions
3.3.CONCLUSICONCLUSI
ONON
ReviewReview
1.1. IntroductionIntroduction
2.2. MotivationMotivation
i.i. LearningLearning
ii.ii. Spiritual Spiritual Intelligence Intelligence (SQ)(SQ)
iii.iii. Know thyselfKnow thyself
iv.iv. Try Try everythingeverything
3.3. ConclusionConclusion
QuestionsQuestions
What experiences were vital to your What experiences were vital to your development?development?
What were the turning points in your What were the turning points in your life?life?
What role has failure played in your What role has failure played in your life?life?
How did you learn?How did you learn? Are there people in your life you Are there people in your life you
particularly admire?particularly admire?
QuestiQuestionon
What can What can I be the I be the best in best in
the world the world at?at?
100 years from now100 years from now
It will not matter what kind of car I It will not matter what kind of car I drive,drive,
What kind of house I lived in,What kind of house I lived in, How much money I have, norHow much money I have, nor What kind of clothes I wear.What kind of clothes I wear. But the world may be a little better,But the world may be a little better, Because I was important in a Because I was important in a
life of childlife of child
““So I can see my dreams.”So I can see my dreams.”