Hello, I'm Wendy Glenda Shuttleworth; I love meeting people who are interested in celebrating life through the quality of their relationships, either in current committed partnerships or their dream partner in the future, or with their relationship with their children, family and friends.  I am a mom, an intuitive, educator, author, wife, counsellor and psychic, with both corporate and one on one experience, who loves people and life.  I have loads of qualifications, yet to live it fully in a meaningful way has always been my challenge. ……

How to be spiritual yet stay focused on earthly objectives and reality in the now.  I have developed energy techniques and ways of living to try and be practical in a spiritually aware way.  To live in a positive reality while not judging whether it is positive or not but accepting it as it is.  I am human and trying to do it the best way I can and share my experiences while helping others to avoid the mistakes I’ve made. I was abused sexually as a child and again later in my adult life (verbally and physically).  While being abused and seeing the energy and patterns behind it was difficult.  I struggled for many years to trust and love myself knowing that I had a part to play in the abuse and that the poor me pattern kept attracting more abuse in different forms.  I’ve learned that we all, and yes I mean all, have patterns, poor me to abusive is like a pendulum and we tend to play both parts.  I have survived and found my own love for myself, and my own inner joy.  It hasn’t been an easy journey for me and my life mission now is to make this journey as easy as possible for others who might be in similar circumstances. I would like to share my experiences and lessons with you.   The most important things I learnt were that there are no coincidences, and that you can never change another, but you can create your own reality and decide how others will treat you.Come with me on a journey of exploring this phenomenal concept. Thank you and keep in touch! Wendy Glenda Shuttleworth, wendy@yoursoulpuzzle.co.za

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Relationship Rescue Workshop What are your co dependent patterns, power plays and patterns?

These games are a big part of all of our lives, ....weather we admit it or not....

"Poor me" or "abuse/anger" or "sulking", or “acting up for attention” or many other learned behaviours are what we use in relationships if we are not careful. We use what worked for us in our past relationships, in our childhood, how we got attention as a child and how our parents interacted with each other and other people. When I say what worked for us, I mean what got us attention and therefore energy, whether it was negative or positive attention.

Some people become distant or avoiding, which allows them to feel safer in the relationship or situation as they let no-one near them. If they are not near you, how can they hurt you? They can't hurt you, but you are hurting yourself much more. Are you clingy or avoiding, or what are your learned co dependent patterns?

The joke of our patterns is that we think they will lead us to happiness. In reality they are what keep true happiness away.

Accept all your pieces and then choose what parts of your puzzle you want to highlight and act out, the shadow parts or the light parts. I choose to live consciously. Remember you may have been given the pieces but you also chose to accept them. Some pieces were given to you that you chose not to accept, in fact some were almost forced on you, but you still chose not to accept them. Some of your parents’ values and beliefs you rejected, some you accepted.

Now choose what you would like to accept and play.

Your Soul Purpose Workshop Let me help you find your Soul Purpose

Workshop Objectives:• To discuss your vision, strategy and goals • Your wheel of life/ goals, Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, threats, Your goals, Tasks and

accountable and Vision board• stop sabpotaging yourself

•BELIEF and habits REFRAMING (Neuro linguistic programming, Reality shifting exercise, The door),• Visualisation and Review / success log

Team Company Relationship Rescue Workshop Workshop Objectives:• To discuss your Group / couple vision, strategy and goals and how these link to your personal vision,• Your Group wheel of life/ goals, Your Group goals, Tasks and accountable and Vision board• Group EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

•What you see, is what you get, lens accuracy, Beliefs, values, attitudes and stereotype•BELIEF and habits REFRAMING (Neuro linguistic programming, Reality shifting exercise, The door),•First love and how love changes, •The ego, Mapping my Group, Co dependence, Assertiveness, Games people play, Group effectiveness, Group dynamics, Group BEHAVIOR, participation skills, Task roles, Team building and maintenance roles, Individual roles or dysfunctional behavior, Influence and Decision-making procedures,

•Physical intimacy, TRUST• Visualisation and Review / success log

• Team Company Relationship Rescue Workshop What You Get ... A 3 day Intensive Workshop (run by Author and other co facilitators....) And a Workshop Manual Your Own Company Vision Board, Goals and tasks New agreed behaviours Teas and Lunches on Workshop Days

Achieving Deliverance

Step 1: Death: Despair / Desperation/ Anger, Lose/ lose, empty,

Step 3: Day to Day: Scarcity, Win/ lose, Possessiveness, You or me, Basic functions, Habits and routines, Listless, Depression

Step 5: Deliverance/ Completion: Take responsible for life and own reality, love, Breakthrough, Win / win, Abundance, You and me

Step 4: Dawning: Productive, I must win, Accumulation, Me, then you, Trustworthy and faithful, Take responsibly for self

Step 2: Decay: Apathy, I don’t care, Feeling of missing something, Blaming, Stuck in heavy negative energy, unfaithful, Lethargy, Feel like a victim

Your Soul Development Workshop Where are you NOW? Let me help you keep on the your path ….

Step 6: Detached involvement Lack of judgment/ It is

Counselling/ Coaching/ healing/ body talk

Counselling/ Coaching Hello, I'm Wendy Glenda a spiritual trainer, coach and counselor, certified Transformation and change agent and I'd love to meet you if you're passionately committed to courage’s change. I have had extensive experience in counseling form Life Line to corporate to private individuals. Let me help you through your process. Healing and Body Talk I have had extensive experience in chakra balancing, body talk, healing with crystals and oils, ultimately it is about adjusting your life style to suit your body and soul.

“True Genius System, ™ is a solution based performance management tool that is geared toward benefiting both the employer and employee. “ Rebecca (CEO) Ditebogo

“FANTASTIES!” Andrew, CEO Predeks

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