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GOWNS FLOWERS PHOTOGRAPHY CAKES HAIR & BEAUTY HONEYMOONS STATIONERY ENTERTAINMENT Everything you need to plan your perfect day Featuring: Ten Venues Real Brides The Meaning of Myths Bridal Gown Showcase Your Local Wedding Scene SPRING/SUMMER 2012 www.yourweddingscene.co.uk Making The Perfect Speech Wedding Planner Everything Toastmaster

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Your Local Wedding Scene is here to give you, the modern bride, a helping hand. It’s packed with ideas and hints on how to make your wedding day unique and special. You will notice that the main focus of our magazine is on the word ‘local’ as 90% of your wedding will be booked locally and we therefore wanted to ensure that all the services highlighted are available on your doorstep.

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GOWNS FLOWERS PHOTOGRAPHY CAKES HAIR & BEAUTY HONEYMOONS STATIONERY ENTERTAINMENT

Everything you need to plan your perfect day

Featuring:

Ten Venues

Real Brides

The Meaning of Myths

Bridal Gown Showcase

Your Local

WeddingScene

SPRING/SUMMER 2012 www.yourweddingscene.co.uk

Making The Perfect Speech Wedding PlannerEverything Toastmaster

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ContentsCongratulations on your engagement! You are about to begin an exciting journey that will take you towards the most memorable day of your life.

Your Local Wedding Scene is here to give you, the modern bride, a helping hand. It’s packed with ideas and hints on how to make your wedding day unique and special.

You will notice that the main focus of our magazine is on the word ‘local’ as 90% of your wedding will be booked locally and we therefore wanted to ensure that all the services highlighted are available on your doorstep.

Use our pull out Wedding Planner to manage your time effectively during the build up to your special day. We have included plenty of hints and tips on making sure your big day is the not just the most memorable day of your life, but that it is also stress free and the most enjoyable day of your life.

There are tips on how to make your day different, there are in-depth features on local venues and what they can offer you, we have some amazing Honeymoon ideas, and many products and services to give you inspiration and ideas to give your day the WOW factor...

You should embrace the planning of your big day, however, if you find it too difficult or stressful, there are always plenty of people on hand willing to assist you, so do not be afraid to ask for help.

Good luck and best wishes for the future.Heidi x

4-13 Bridal Gown Showcase 14-15 For the Guys

16-17 Brides Maids

18-19 Mother of the Bride

20-21 Cambridge Golf & Conference Centre

24-27 Getting the Venue Right

28 Myths & Meanings

29 Wedding Hymns & Music

30-31 Greetham Valley

32-35 Make the Perfect Speech

37 Seasonal Flowers

Publisher – Heidi Semple, Scene Marketing 01780 783613

Advertising – Charlotte Charlesworth, [email protected]

Editorial Contribution – Becky Twelvetree & Vanessa Adamson,

Wedding Market.

Designer – Sarah Wright, email:[email protected]

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38 Stationery tips

41-43 Your Essential PULL OUT Wedding Planner

44 Everything Toastmaster

45 Having your cake and eating it

46-49 Hair & Beauty help, advice & tips

52-53 Real Brides – Hinchingbrook House

54-55 POSH Venue

57 Gift ideas

60-61 Honeymoon Ideas

62-63 Golden Pheasant Wedding Venue

64-65 Something Different

66-67 Great Northern Hotel Wedding Venue

68-69 Normanton Church – Civil Ceremonies

70 Essential Photographic Tips

74-75 Stapleford Park Hotel Wedding Venue

76-77 Haycock Wedding Venue

78-79 Scalford Hall Wedding Venue

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Straight or sheathThis is a great shape for accentuating a tall

figure by elongating the line of the body, and

flatters a fairly straight, rectangular figure with

small bust and hips, avoid if you are curvy.

So you’ve found your perfect

fit, he’s everything you’ve

wanted, but what do you

wear? What’s your perfect

dress for your special day?

Here we give you a few tips to

help you choose what to wear

on your wedding day.

You will come across various

shapes and styles during

your search for the perfect

dress. By picking the perfect

silhouette to suit your shape

- you can ensure you will feel

beautiful on the day.

FullThis glamorous style is designed to impress

and as a bride to be, even if you don’t end up

buying one - you should definitely try at least

one of these on. It isn’t very often that you

can wear such a gown, but with the fabulous

corsetry and soft floating skirts this style can

create a tiny waist and hide anything from

the waist down.

Bias-cutPerfect for petite frames and for slim torsos

with shapely hips, the fish-tail effect that

the bottom sweeps out beautifully into a very

graceful train and balances out the hips.

A DRESS to impress

PrincessThis gown looks great on all shapes and

sizes. It flows from bodice to skirt without

defining lines, and with clever detailing it

brings out the best in your figure and dress

- perfect if you want to give yourself height,

and keep your dress classical and elegant.

Two-piece straightTwo-piece dresses are great for figures

that are not necessarily in proportion. For

example if you have a size 12 torso and a

size 14 hip, but still want to accentuate your

great figure, a corseted bodice with separate

skirt may be just what you are looking for.

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A-lineThis gown has an empire-style bodice which cuts under the bust.

This can be extremely flattering regardless of bust size providing

you get the neckline right. Smaller busted women should go for a

scoop neckline and a small amount of detail around the bodice and

larger busted women should opt for a square or cowl neckline which

accentuates the curve but hides a little cleavage to create a sensual

effect.

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1. AT WHAT AGE DO YOUR BOYS SUITS START?We offer formal wear for boys from about age 3 upwards

– or about 3ft tall. Jacket sizes start at 20” chest and

trousers at 18”waist with an 18”outside leg.

2. WHAT HAPPENS IF WE DAMAGE ANY OF OUR HIRE SUITS?All* outfits worn by adults are covered against accidental

damage by our own insurance scheme (A.D.I*) for which

a small charge per outfit is made. A security deposit of

£50.00 per outfit is required with all children’s clothes

hired. *White or Ivory Suits, Fob Watches and Walking

Canes are excluded from A.D.I. cover

3. CAN WE TAKE THE SUITS ABROAD TO GET MARRIED?Yes, and a 50% reduction off our normal weekend hire

rates is available for the second and third weeks of hire.

4. WHEN CAN WE COLLECT OUR SUITS?All hire garments for Saturday weddings will normally be

available for collection 9 days before your function.

5. WHAT IF SOMETHING DOES NOT FIT?Don’t panic! Most of our hire stock is owned by us and

kept on our own premises, and therefore we can normally

accommodate a change of size or effect an alteration very

swiftly, as long as we are notified early Monday morning

(for Saturday Weddings).

Suit HireAt A Formal Affair we offer an unrivalled selection of formal wear to hire. For stylish dinner suits, exclusive wedding attire and an extensive selection of fancy waistcoats and accessories,

A Formal Affair has it all.

TOP 5 FAQ’S

For any further information or to book a consultation,

please do not hesitate to call us on 01733 260930

or send us an email at [email protected].

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Cambridge golf and Conference Centre

At Cambridge Golf and Conference Centre, we aim love to create the wedding day of your dreams. From the initial planning of the day to the moment when the very last guest leaves the venue, our capable team will look after all your needs. Our function rooms create the perfect ambience for your wedding, set amongst countryside our outside areas offer beautiful views which provide a relaxed setting for your special day.

If you prefer a smaller and more intimate wedding for up to 60 guests, our St Andrews Suite is perfect for you. The room has a lot of character and boasts two large folding patio doors not only giving the room extraordinary views across the countryside but also provides plenty of natural light.

For larger wedding breakfasts for up to 90 guests, we can offer our John Letters Suite. It is our largest function room with its own private bar and balcony, overlooking the patio area below and the fresh English countryside. Situated on the first floor, it is easily accessible by lift or stairs, and has a direct access to the patio via a spiral staircase. The room has a separate area for a disco and is perfect for evening parties for up to 150 guests.

Four of our suites have been granted a Civil Ceremony License, so you do not have to look any further to arrange your wedding day.

We can also help you arrange chair covers, a florist, a photographer, the table decorations, disco and more.

When it comes to food – let your imagination flow, as our team of Chefs can offer you almost everything, from a hog roast or a summer BBQ to a more formal sit down meal.

Perfectly placed just off the A14 between Cambridge and Huntingdon.

Cambridge Golf and Conference Centre

Cambridge Road • Hemingford Abbots • Huntingdon •PE28 9HQ

www.cgcc.co.uktel.: 01480 499681

Your wedding coordinatorGija Melnupe

e-mail: [email protected]

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GUESTSGet this one out of the way first - if you sit down with your families and partners, and work out the maximum number of guests you will be inviting, this will give you an idea of the size of venue you will need. It will also help when planning your budgets and what venue to choose - for example will there be lots of children? Will you need separate areas where the older guests can enjoy the quiet away from the disco, does it have plenty of parking - the option for overnight stays and is it easy for people to get to using public transport, or disabled access? Will we be able to use our own caterers, supply our own drink, place a marquee etc, etc?

Once all of this is established and you’ve decided on either a civil ceremony or church, you can start your hunt for the perfect venue.

THE HUNTIf your time is short and you like to keep informed go online. By using search engines you can place your key words such as, ‘Wedding Venues Peterborough UK’ which will bring up a list for you to look at. Many sites such as www.hitched.co.uk will have venues in your criteria listed, and if you’re looking for inspiration or are planning to get married away from the local area this is a great place to start.

• Wedding Magazines will give you ideas ofhow certain weddings work in different types of ways, and many regional magazines will hold adverts for venues, so if you see one pick it up! • Civil ceremony venues have licences for amaximum number of guests. Keep an eye on the venues you fall in love with and make sure that there is enough room for your guests - • negotiate- if it’sslightlyoutofyourbudget• ask if you could have a simpler wedding

breakfast, and serve wedding cake as a dessert, or stick to 1 bottle of each on the table. Many venues will also hold mid-week events or Sunday weddings at a reduced cost - it’s worth looking at what savings can be made if you switch to a Friday or Sunday Wedding.

• Askpeopleabout theirweddingday -visitpotential venues for a meal, or book one of their evening events and assess their planning and organisation. Remember it’s your day - you’ve spent months organising it and when you hand the event over, you want to be confidant that theirEventsCoordinatorisincontrol.Ask toseepicturesofpreviouseventsheld inthe venue - this will give you an idea of what it looks like dressed. Consider photography,

STAPLEFORD PARK

Secluded in the heart of some of England’s most picturesque and enjoyable countryside, it is a magnificent 17th Century House with a relaxed country home atmosphere.www.staplefordpark.com

Not only can you have your Wedding Reception at London Road, you can actually get married there and say ‘I do’ overlooking the pitch.

www.theposh.com

GREETHAM VALLEY

Make your special day complete by choosing Greetham Valley in the heart of rolling Rutland countryside as your wedding venue.www.greethamvalley.co.uk

POSH GROUND

WEDDING VENUE

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CAMBRIDGE GOLF & CONFERENCE CENTRE

Perfect for small and intimate weddings as well as large parties. The quiet countryside location creates an ideal setting for your special day. www.cgcc.co.uk

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NORMANTON CHURCH

are there plenty of places for you to get great photographs too?

If you’ve already attended a wedding at a venue you’re considering - ask what else has been done in the past, different to the one you attended.

Visit the venue around the time of year you will be getting married, if you have the luxury of time, to ensure you are happy with the outside space and planting - court yards look very different in May than September.

MAKING YOUR MOVEOnce you’ve established your short list - ring round and get brochures sent - if they do not

send them out at your request - consider what else may not get done. Ask questions, ask asmany questions as you can and go with a list of things you need to know, before you sign on thedottedline.MeettheEventsCoordinator-ifyou like them you’ll feel more at easy leaving the planning of your day in their hands. Get recommendations of suppliers they work with, look at online reviews and above all once you’ve bookedthevenue,stayintouch.Aslongasyoucontinue to build a relationship with the venue, your day will run smoothly.

Many venues in the Peterborough area have years of experience when holding weddings and are popular choices for residents, such as Orton Hall,TheMarriotandTheCresset-butifyou’re

looking for something a little different and don’t want to go too far - have a look at these venues we’ve picked out as ‘ not to be missed’, all within 45 minutes of Peterborough.

Barnsdale Hall – 001572 757901 www.barnsdalehotel.co.ukBurghley House – 01780 752451 www.burghley.co.ukHambleton Hall – 01572 756991 www.hambletonhall.comThe Bull Hotel – 01733 561364 www.peterborobullhotel.comThe Marriott – 01733 371111 www.peterboroughmarriott.co.ukThe Baskervilles– 01778 560010www.thebaskervilles.co.uk

GOLDEN PHEASANT

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Normanton Church is a stunning venue that offers possibilities unsurpassed by any other. Steeped in history, you can break religious tradition whilst retaining the timeless elegance of architectural style.

The Georgian house with its permanent marquee attached is a perfect venue for the wedding reception you desire.

www.thegoldenpheasant.net

GREAT NORTHERN HOTEL

Situated in Peterborough city centre, this 150 year old classic Victorian hotel remains an oasis of historical charm, with a delightful garden. www.thegreatnorthernhotel.co.uk

The perfect Wedding Venue for parties up to 240, We offer both bespoke and packages starting from £7300.www.macdonaldhotels.co.uk

BARNSDALE LODGE

Barnsdale Lodge is full of character and modern country charm and the function rooms are elegant and stylish, which enables it to accommodate many themes. www.barnsdalelodge.co.uk

THE HAYCOCK

SCALFORD HALL

A 3 star country house hotel with 88 bedrooms, fine dining and spacious conference and special event facilities.www.scalfordhall.co.uk

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Real life bride | BarNsdale lodge

my figure and I instantly fell in love with the 2nd dress i tried on which was a beautiful ivory silk dupioni strapless gown with a chapel length train by Justin Alexander. I always thought that it was a cliché when people say you know which is ‘the dress’ for you when you try it on, but this was definitely the case! With only 6 months notice we were working on a tight deadline but Gemma ensured the dress would be available for the day.

I was so impressed with the service I received on my initial visit to Miss

Barnsdale Lodgea venue withoutcompromiseHaving looked at several venues within the area we knew as soon as we saw Barnsdale Lodge it was the place for us.

Not only did we hold our reception in the Barn Suite Ballroom which is a beautiful converted barn, we also married there. The ballroom has an elegant yet relaxed feel with its silk draped ceiling and chandeliers through to the grand piano and comfy seating area. We married in November and the weather was crisp and bright and the beautiful countryside which surrounds the lodge made for stunning backdrops on our photos as did the picturesque courtyard.

The day itself was simply perfect, Paul Freeman (General Manager) and his team were on hand from start to finish to ensure that everything ran like clockwork. The food which was served throughout the day was outstanding and several of our guests commented on the quality and how delicious it was.

One of my biggest concerns when planning my wedding was that I did

not want it to feel like a production line and at Barnsdale this simply did not happen as they offer a personalised and tailor-made service. Right from our very first visit to Barnsdale we were made to feel welcome. I simplye would not hesitate to recommend the Lodge as they made our special day a truly magical affair.

The Brides OutfitHaving looked over a few bridal magazines I could have felt overwhelmed with the sheer volume of styles available. Having been recommended a few local bridal boutiques my mum and I called on Miss V Bridal in Market Deeping, which was a relatively new boutique. The atmosphere in the boutique was warm and welcoming and Gemma instantly made me feel at ease. Gemma produced a number of dresses for me to try that she felt would suit

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V that I called up the other boutiques that I had made appointments with and cancelled them!

The BridesmaidsI had 2 bridesmaids and 1 flower girl in attendance on the day. I had originally hoped for navy dresses but despite an extensive search, I never felt happy with any i viewed. I therefore opted for a deep aubergine colour and found exactly what I was looking for in Debenhams bridal

range. The girls wore full length slightly flared dresses which were teamed with matching boleros. My Flower Girl wore an ivory tulle dress again from Debenhams which i matched up with a fur bolero.

The FlowersI knew from the offset that I did not want the more modern hand tied bouquet but I also wanted to shy away from the more traditional full bouquet. I opted for orchids

as the main flower and having spoken with my cousin who is a professional florist (Flowers By David) we decided upon a delicate purple freesia and small rosebuds for my bouquet along with a slightsprinkling foliage. The bridesmaids carried smaller versions of my bouquet & the table centre pieces along with the venue itself were also decorated using the same flowers.

“ ”The day itself was simply perfect, Paul

Freeman (General Manager) and his team

were on hand from start to finish to ensure

that everything ran like clockwork.

Photography by Jim Harrison

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Mr & Mrs ParkinsonThe Honeymoon We booked our honeymoon through the team at Inspirational Travel who are based in Wittering. The team there specalise in tailor-made holidays and honeymoons and after much discussion we decided that we would take our honeymoon in the Maldives. With its powder soft sands, warm azure blue waters and tropical temperatures it sounded like the ideal dream destination.

We opted for a 12 night stay split over two islands. Our days were spent soaking up the sun on the beautiful beaches that surround the island, snorkelling on the resorts superb house reef and pampering ourselves in the stunning Spa. We opted for a water villa which came with its own private plunge pool, sheer bliss! The cuisine served was simply out of this world and we over indulged on more than one occasion!! The staff were superb and ensured that we came away with many happy memories that will stay with us forever.

Barnsdale Lodge cont...Real life bride | BarNsdale lodge

Maldives

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Mr & Mrs Parkinson

Maldives

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This saying dates back to Victorian time and

the full version is ‘something old, something

new, something borrowed, something blue

and a silver sixpence in her shoe:

Something Old: Represents the link with the

bride’s family and the past. A common solution many

bride’s choose is to wear a piece of family jewellery or their

mother’s or grandmother’s wedding dress.

Something New: Represents good fortune and

success in the bride’s new life. The wedding dress is often

chosen as the new item.

Something Borrowed: To remind the bride

that friends and family will be there for her when help is

needed. The borrowed object might be something such as a

lace handkerchief or an item of jewellery.

Something Blue: Symbolises faithfulness and

loyalty and dates back to biblical times when blue represented

purity. Frequently the bride’s garter is the blue item.

A Silver Sixpence: in her Shoe is to wish the

bride wealth, both financial and happiness.

Wedding Veil: The wedding veil hides the bride’s beauty

and wards off evil spirits. Another explanation is that during the

times of arranged marriages the bride’s face would be covered until

the groom had commited to the marriage.

Where to Stand: Symbolises faithfulness and loyalty

and dates back to biblical times when blue represented purity.

Frequently the bride’s garter is the blue item.

A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe is to wish the bride wealth, both

financial and happiness.

The bride stands on the left of the groom during the marriage

ceremony to allow his sword arm to be free ready to fight off other

men who may want her as their bride.

Confetti: Confetti has replaced rice or grain in modern times,

the rice was thrown at the bride and groom to encourage fertility.

Wedding Bouquet: The throwing of the wedding

bouquet was introduced from America and it is said that who ever

catches the bouquet will be next to be married.

Wearing Pearls: To some, pearls represent future tears

and are a bad sign. However, to others, the wearing of pearls takes

the place of the bride’s real tears, thus she’ll have a happy, tear-free

wedded life.

The Threshold: Carrying the bride over the threshold

protects her from any evil spirits that may be lurking in the new home.

Snippets of symbols and myth meanings

Wedding hymns and music

Having the right hymns can make a real difference

to your wedding. The priest who is conducting the

service will want to meet with you to discuss the music,

hymns and readings you would like to use. You may

have some favourites which make deciding easy, but if

you are not a regular church-goer or if many of your

friends are not, you may want to think carefully about

which hymns to choose.

If there is going to be a choir, they will be able to take

a lead with the singing, but otherwise you want hymns

which everyone can sing easily and understand.

Normally, up to three hymns can be incorporated into

Christian church wedding ceremonies, featuring at the

beginning, middle and end or the service. However, all

of this is at the discretion of your officiant, so make sure

you check out what wedding hymn options are open to

you before making the final decision.

How do you go about choosing hymns? Churches

sometimes have a tape of the choir singing some of the

most popular hymns. You could borrow this to listen to

together. The priest may make some suggestions to you

or lend you a hymn book. There may be an opportunity

to meet the organist or choirmaster and they will help

reassure you about your hymn choice.

When getting married in a registry office, you can

choose your own music that reflects the day. Some

venues limit the choice to three songs, one when you

are entering, one when you are signing and one when

you are leaving. You may also like to have music played

whilst the guests are being seated. It also depends on

the length of the service as to how many songs you will

need so it’s best to check with the venue first.

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Our chefs pride themselves on their tempting cuisine and are happy to discuss your plans with you - perhaps tasty platters of canapés on arrival, followed by a full sit-down wedding breakfast then a delicious buffet for your evening guests. Sample menus and suggestions are available on request.

Our wedding co-ordinator and master of ceremonies are dedicated to ensuring the planning and running of

Greetham Valley in Rutland...

We can help you arrange other essential services as required: florist, photographers, videographers, music, entertainment, balloons, table decorations, transport, wedding cake, favours and more.

your special day is smooth and relaxed as possible, taking care of every tiny detail.

We are licensed for civil wedding ceremonies, should you prefer an alternative service venue to a church or registry office.

Your guests will appreciate the opportunity of staying overnight in one of the 35 bedrooms in our contemporary 3* Hotel if any of them have travelled from afar - or if they simply want to enjoy themselves to the full and don’t want to drive home. Some may even wish to make a long weekend of it and perhaps stay in one of our lovely 4* Lodges or in Mill Cottage for a short break - perfect for a family or groups of friends to self-cater or enjoy meals in the hotel.

Dreaming of the perfect setting for your wedding celebration? Make your special day complete by choosing Greetham Valley in the heart of rolling Rutland countryside as your wedding venue.

We can accommodate up to 220 guests in the Rutland Suite - our glorious banqueting room with a balcony overlooking the lovely landscape of the valley and lakes of the golf courses. If your plans include a more intimate reception - we can do that too! Our Lakeview Suite and Valley Restaurant are ideal for smaller parties and enjoy the same superb view.

Normanton Church FOR YOUR CEREMONY Set on the south east shore of Rutland Water, Normanton Church is a truly stunning, unique civil ceremony venue; teamed with the contemporary, professional service at Greetham Valley Hotel, this inspired venue combination offers the best of both worlds.

The Church is more suited to smaller ceremonies as it holds a maximum of 70 which includes the registrar, photographer, Bride and Groom! The Church can be booked all year round, 7 days a week depending of course upon the availability of the registrar.

Greetham Valley will prepare a bespoke package to include this superb ceremony venue and can handle all arrangements right up to your big day, acting as your one point of contact for both venues. We would ask, however, that you contact the local registrar yourselves.

Hotel, Golf & Conference Centre

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... the perfect setting for the perfect day

Greetham Valley Hotel, Golf and Conference CentreWood Lane | Greetham | Oakham | Rutland | LE15 7SN

t: 01780 460444 e: [email protected] www.greethamvalley.co.uk

For further information or to make an appointment to meet our wedding

co-ordinators, please contact us on:

(01780) 460444 Email: [email protected]

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Wedding | sPeeches

First step, understanding the speechThe pressure is on for you to write the

speech before you even begin to think

about any aspects of delivering it. Find

a time and place to be alone away from

distractions as you will need to give this

some real attention. Speeches should

be thought about and planned months

before the day and then fine tuned and

worked upon. Initially, as you sit down

to make a start on it for the first time, it’s

not unusual to get a mind block and start

to doubt what it is you should be writing

and where on earth to start.

Firstly, it’s definitely not ideal to copy

someone else’s speech, it would be

the quick win but would not be from

the heart, and that’s where wedding

speeches should start, from the heart.

This is personal to you and should sound

sincere and be delivered in line with your

personality and terminology.

Either your wedding is looming or it’s your son’s/

daughters or best friend’s day, you’ve got an

important role to play and a nerve racking speech

not only to write but to stand up and deliver.

Wedding Market’s showroom in Elton offers one

to one and face to face help on speech writing and

delivery but here’s some top-line tips and advice to

start you off on the right track:

The order of speeches traditionally take

place after the wedding breakfast but

it’s more and more accepted that they

are delivered before the meal to allow

everyone to eat free of nerves.

The usual order of the speeches follows

something like this:

1. Toastmaster/venue coordinator

introduces the speeches

2. Father of the bride or someone close

to the bride

3. The Groom

4. The best man

5. The bride/bridesmaid/any other

speaker

After the toastmaster or appropriate

person has gathered everyone’s

attention in the room the father of

the bride opens the speeches, and in

simple terms, says the following:

• thankseveryoneforbeingpartofthe

day

• thankspeoplewhocontributedtothe

costs of the day

• complimentsthebride

• welcomesthegroomtothefamily

• toaststhebrideandgroom

The Groom then stands to deliver his

speech and starts by:

• thankingthefatherofthebrideforhis

toast

• thankstheguestsforattendingand

for gifts they supplied

• thanksbothsetsofparents–givesgifts

• complimentshisbride

• thankshisbestman/men&toaststhe

brideandbridesmaids–givesoutgifts.

The best man then stands and:

• thanksthegroomforaskinghimtobe

best man

• commentsonthecouple,andtells

anecdotes about the groom

• readsoutanymessagesfromabsent

friends and relatives

• toaststhebrideandgroom.

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The bride and bridesmaid may or may not

want to speak and either is fully accepted.

If the bride speaks she reiterates the thanks

already given, especially for the gifts and

thanks anyone else who may have been

missed, friends of the family, the cake

maker, photographers and other services

and finally compliments her groom.

All speakers also have the opportunity to

add a story or two, jokes and heartfelt or

witty comments to their speech. Although it

may seem obvious to some who everybody

is, all speakers should all also introduce

themselves at the start of speaking for the

benefit of guests of guests, if delivered well,

introducing yourself at your own wedding

can also provide a giggle factor from a large

proportion of the guests.

There’s no hard and fast rule on how long

you should speak for but all speakers

should attempt to keep speeches fairly short

and leave the audience wishing that there’d

have been slightly more.

On what you shouldn’t include there are

some real lines not to cross such as there

should be NO SWEARING… not only for

the sake of any children in the room but

for the offence that it could cause to many

guests and also be caught on video for

many years to come.

You must be sincere and totally positive in

anything you say; therefore, as tempting

as it may be, there should be no mention

of ex partners of the bride and groom,

compatibility issues, rows or previously

failed marriages.

The PlanPreparation and research, can anyone

in their family circle provide you with

material too? Send out an email, do

some research, ask some questions,

especially of the mums and dads, you’ll

be amazed what funny little stories and

hideous pictures or cinefilm may then

unfold.

Think also about any appropriate props

you could use, for example the father of

the bride could produce baby toys, first

paintings of the bride as a child or even

a shocking picture from her teen years.

The best man could show photos on a

projector of some bad fashion days of his

best friend and groom. Props keep people

entertained but be cautious using any that

could cause offence or upset anyone.

Next is the really easy part as you now

know what’s expected you can begin to

break down your speech, add in your own

stories and props and we’ve even given

you sample headings to get you started,

we’ll offer this example from a best man,

who is tasked to be the most entertaining

of all the speakers:

Heading 1 – Introduction and thanks

Thank the groom for his toast to the

bridesmaids, then introduce yourself, say

how long you’ve known the groom and

the couple.

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Heading 2 – How you met the groom

and/or the couple, how the couple’s early

communications kept the phone company

in business to how his hobby of football

has now taken a downhill move towards

pink cushions and soft furnishings!

Heading 3 – one or two warm or funny

old stories.

There’s loads you can do here, some

things already mentioned plus - In your

speech you could compare the couple’s

names to known celebrities of the same

name or tell everyone the origins and

meanings of each of their names with

a funny twist. Use material from any

hobbies and interests they have from

trainspotting to bungee jumping to loving

Elvis, there’s got to be something funny

to quote to everyone but keep it open

enough to not be an ‘in-joke’, involve

everyone Show any pictures and slides

whilst still talking and keep them quick.

If you’ve got a camcorder in the family

you could make a short and emotive

film of what people think of the couple or

even humourously re-enact the couples

meeting and engagement with family

wearing wigs and playing characters.

Similarly, if you’re a bit creative why not

tell or create a story about them in the

form of a poem or a limerick. Bring other

people in the room into your stories where

possible.

Heading 4 – Wedding Related Story

- make a famous funny quote about

marriage or the wedding, or about

something that happened the year they

met or got engaged, or about the proposal

–there’susuallyanearmishapthatcan

be told which relates to this wedding day

. Play on the couple’s zodiac signs? You

can even pull something out of your hat

if you’re wearing one! Make it interesting,

how about giving a quiz type speech

and getting guest participation, perhaps

a guess the answer from a), b), c), d)

Heading 5 – Read messages from absent

family and friends.

Why not add in some of your own funny

words to jokily mis-read some messages

and cards

Heading 6 – toast to the groom,

give them both your best wishes for the

future, tell them how much you admire

them and toast.

If you’re increasingly one of two best

men then share out the plan together and

make sure that you flow like a double act

who have clearly worked together on the

speeches and think about each other’s

personalities, it’s ideal you have similar

personalities and bounce of each other

and don’t try to make one speaker look

flatter than the other, this sharing applies

whether you decide to deliver speeches

at the same time or separately. There

shouldn’t be a duplicate of stories and if

one best man is less ‘outgoing’ than the

other then let the quieter of the two best

men speak first.

Writing the Speech word for wordNow you have a plan, a structure and

hopefully some material, props and

stories from other people you’re ready to

make a start on writing the actual word-

for-word content.

Don’t think about delivering it as such until

you think you have your first final draft.

Practice and refine Once you’ve written something down you

should practice it alone. Stand in front of

a mirror, grab a comb as a microphone

and put a suit jacket on and really get into

the role. Have a start, middle and end

to what you’re saying in your mind and

time yourself, remember there’s people

speaking before or after you so keep it

as short and concise as possible whilst

still getting all your messages across.

Cut words down where possible, and

talk whilst holding up props or playing

slideshows to cut down the overall time

of your speech.

Have a pen handy to change the speech

as you go, any words you stumble over

should be reworded to make them flow

naturally.

Make sure you’re heard and don’t mumble,

but don’t shout, think about getting and

using a microphone if you’re not normally

able to talk at a range that could reach out

to your 100 or more people in a room,

not being heard is the same as delivering

a bad speech.

Think about the tone and the most

appropriate way to deliver your speech,

your tone should be of sincerity whilst

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Delivering the speech on the day…First step, Mindset

Get into the right mind-set,

this isn’t a job interview, career

move or a sales pitch, and

‘hopefully’ you’re not trying to

influence anyone to buy anything

so everyone at the wedding is

positively willing you to do well in

your speech they’re not expecting

‘Peter Kay’ wit or a polished speech, they

do want warmth and fun about people

they all know and love. More importantly

think hard that equally, none of them

relish the thought of having to stand up

and address everyone, but this is the only

one time EVER that your audience will

want you to do well, will be in the right

frame of mind to laugh easily and will

need very little convincing to back you

and wish you well.

Here’s our tips to get you through the

delivery:

• Thinkpositive.

• Don’tdrinktoboostyourconfidence;it

will have the opposite effect.

• Don’tlookdownatthepapertoo

conveying any thanks, intimacy and

devotion when addressing your bride or

groom or daughter and friend but avoid

coming across too serious, your speech

should have gentle humour to keep your

guests engaged. The more thought you

put into ‘who’ you’re speaking to will also

help you understand what little anecdotes

and stories to tell within your speech.

• Playwithyourvoice,lookinamirror,

give yourself different characters,

move

around, be animated.

• Ensureyourpropswork,simulate

them

• Gettothepointwhereyouhave

memorised your speech and don’t

need your speech papers.

• CreateoneA4pieceofpaperwith

bullet points of what you’re saying on

for the day and for any freezes you

may have.

• Perfectyourspeechanddeliveritto

one person for their feedback, bounce

any concerns if you think you may

have overstepped the mark with any

prop or comment.

often, address the guests.

• SlowDown,don’trace,keepcoherent

• Breathdeeplyandfocusonyour

breathing

• Don’tshout,ifyoufeelshouting

coming, take a pause, or a drink of

water

• Ifyoudostartfeelingover-nervous,

scan the room as you speak, left, then

right, then middle and don’t look at

any one individual, look at the tops

of heads, it helps de-personalises

your speech.

And finally enjoy! Enjoy making people

smile, enjoy sharing your stories with

them and enjoy your contribution to the

big day. It and you will be great!

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AnEnglishsummergardenconjuresupflowersina huge

range of shapes and colours. Soft pink, lilac and sky

blue are prevalent in early summer, with stocks, sweet

peasandphlox inpinkandlilacshadesandblueCanterbury

bells, cornflowers and love-in-a-mist. Try mixing handfuls of

garden flowers with fresh green lady’s mantle, to set the colours

off and give a natural fresh-picked look. Or for a ‘country’

wedding later in summer, mix bright yellow sunflowers with white

daisies, adding corn or decorative grasses to complete the look.

Afavouriteflowerforearlysummeristhepeony,withitsblowsy

blooms in shades of soft pinks. Or sweet peas, with their heavenly

scent and delicate pastel petals – a little expensive to buy, but a

packet of seeds goes a long way!

A s the days cool, the garden puts on a heart-warming

display as the leaves turn and flowers in burgundy,

orange and dusky pinks predominate. Good flowers to use

are hydrangeas, with fabulous blooms in dusky shades, which

can be expensive but go a long way. Or ask around as many people

havehydrangeas in their gardens! Chrysanthemumscome ina

great range of autumnal colours, last well and are inexpensive and

dahlias should also be available. Try mixing berries and fruit with

your flowers to cut down on cost and to create a real autumnal feel.

A lovely flower to bring a touch of brighter colour is the nerine,

which has deeply divided flower heads in white, pink or red. Or

for larger arrangements consider adding trailing red stems of love-

lies-bleeding.

In winter gardens evergreen foliages a n d

berries predominate, leading to traditional red and

greenChristmasthemes.Oracoveringoffrostwillhighlight

branches and add sparkling white to the colour choice. Base

designs on green or silvery-grey foliages, including holly, spruce

and eucalyptus, adding touches of bright red flowers and berries

(e.g. carnations, chrysanthemums and hypericum berries). For

winterwhitethemes,simpleChristmasroseslookstunning,oruse

masses of white gypsophila, giving it a touch of sparkle for a frosty

look. Sprayed branches can also look amazing as they bring in the

structural elements of the winter garden.

Cymbidiumorchidsareattheirbestnowandtheirexoticflowerslook

fabulous in all designs, even floating in water for inexpensive table

arrangements. And foran impressivefloraldisplay try justa few

stems of burgundy amaryllis.

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Wedding | Flowers

Asthegardencomestolife,spring-floweringbulbs

emergeandareavailableinabundance.Coloursare

generally clear and fresh and cover the whole spectrum:

think of yellow daffodils, blue iris and muscari, hyacinths in

soft colours through pink and mauve, and tulips in shades of red,

orange, yellow and pink. Many of these also come in white. For

deeper colours, anemones are particularly striking with their dark

centres and petals of vibrant purple, blue and red. Flowering

bulbs look wonderful in posies, or mixed with branches of spring-

flowering blossoms for larger displays.

Other favourite spring flowers are ranunculus, with their brightly-

coloured or white blooms consisting of masses of tightly packed

petals. And if you are desperate for beautifully-scented lily-of-

the-valley,thenAprilwouldbethebesttimetogetmarried.

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Before the day1. Save the date cards: Essential if you are getting married on

a specific day, ie New Year’s Eve or abroad, so that your guests

don’t make other arrangements or know to save some annual

leave if you are getting married abroad. If your budget doesn’t

stretch to these, send a text or an email instead.

2. Invitations: When working out numbers needed, remember

you divide your total guest figure in half for the number of invites

required, as most people are in couples. There are a vast number

of different styles available, so contact a stationery company

early to narrow down which invitations match your theme and

your budget.

On the day3. Orders of Service: Whether you are getting married in

church or having a civil ceremony, it is a good idea to have an

Order of Service so that your guests can follow what’s going on

and it’s also a nice keepsake of the day. Be sure to check with

your vicar/priest that they do not offer this service free of charge.

4. Menus/Place setting cards/table plan/table numbers: Check with your venue if they offer any of the above free of

charge, as many do. If they don’t, then these items of stationery

can be bought to match your invitations.

5. Extras - such as wishing well or guest book: A post-

box or wishing well is a great idea if you have asked for money or

vouchers from your guests to keep them safe during the day. A

guest book or photo mount for your guests to sign is also a great

keepsake of your day. These can also be co-ordinated to match

your colour scheme.

6. Favours: It’s quite fashionable to make a donation to charity

instead of giving a specific favour. If you need a bespoke card

stating this to your guests (which can often be combined with a

place setting card), then speak to a stationery company for more

details.

After the day7. Thank you cards: Don’t forget the thank you cards! These

can be made bespoke by using a photograph of you from the

wedding and/or to correspond to the rest of your wedding

stationery. The inside can also be personalised to save on

writing them all out, which can be rather time consuming.

About the author: Sharon Macaulay is owner of SMAC Creations, providing bespoke wedding stationery. Visit www.smaccreations.co.uk for more details.

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WeddingStationery

Bespoke Favours

Table plans

Table names

Guest books

Wishing wells

Invitations

Contact Sharon Macaulay01775 630186

[email protected] 788988

Menus

Orders of service

Place settings

Thank you cards

Save the date cards

Tel: 01733 [email protected] www.bespokebuds.com

Central Peterborough location

The most exciting day of your life deserves the best of everything -

including the best flowers.

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Setyourweddingdate;and

explorenon-Saturdayoptions

whereyourbudgetwillstretch

alittlefurther.

Thinkaboutwhetheryou’dlike

toworkalongsideawedding

plannerandfindoneyoufeel

comfortablewithasthey’llhelp

youfromthebeginningtomake

itasmoothprocessandensure

youdon’tmissanything.

Lookintowhetherwedding

insuranceisrighttotakeoutfor

yourwedding.

Draftupyourguestlist

immediatelyfordaytime,night

time,groom’ssideandbride’s

sideanddon’tforgettoinclude

everyone’splusones.

Decideonyourweddingparty

frombestmantotheflower

girlandannouncethematthe

sametimeasthedate–be

clearatthispointifthey’re

expectedtofinancetheirown

clothesandhire.

Draftabudget,understandwho

iscontributing.

Thinkaboutthetimeyou’d

liketoholdyourceremony,later

orearlierinthedayasthis

affectscateringand

entertainment.

Decideonachurch,registry

officeorlicencedvenueandbook.

Decideonreceptionvenue

andbookandconfirmcatering

arrangements.

Bookaprovisionalnumberof

onsiteaccommodationor

nearbyhotelroomsforguests

stayingovernightaswellasa

roomforyourselves.

PLANNING A weddingCOUNTDOWN

monthsbefore 12

Bookentertainmentfortheday

andevening.

Bookaphotographer.

Visitweddingfayresforideas.

BuyWeddingMagazinesand

createascrapbookofcuttings

ofideasyougetfromthem,

thismayhelpyoubuildyour

ownthemeandcolour

preferences.

Sendoutsavethedatecards

andthinkforwardastowhether

youwanttomatchthesame

styleofinvitations,thankyou

cards,tableplansandmenus.

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Buyamarriagelicense.

Createaweddinglistand

distributeittoyourguests.

Menshouldstartwritingtheir

weddingspeeches.

Contactguestswhohavenot

yetrsvp’d.

Decideonyourceremonymusic,

orderofserviceandvows.

Lookforanyextrassuchas

giftsforthebridalparty,forthe

groomandanysurprisesyou

canimplement.

Checkyoursomethingnew,

borrowed,blue,oldisinplace.

Haveaconversationwithyour

weddingsuppliers,ensure

everythingisontrack.

Havearehearsal.

Packforyourhoneymoon.

Wearyourweddingshoes

aroundthehousetobreakthemin

daysbefore 7

monthsbefore 3

monthbefore 1 Printyourorderofservice,

menu’s,placecards,tablenames.

Haveyourfinaldressfitting

Haveahenandstagnightor

weekend.

Pickupweddingoutfits.

Ringallofyourwedding.

suppliersfromthevenuetothe

entertainmentandreconfirmall

thearrangements.

Finalisenumberswithyour

catererandyoureventdresser

forchairandtabledressingand

getyourtableplanprintedwith

thefinalseatingarrangement.

Thinkaboutyourskinandbody

regimeandinvestinsome

productstousedailyrightupto

thebigday.

monthsbefore 6 Thinkaboutwhatyou’llbe

providingtoeatanddrinktoyour

guestsandliaisewithacaterer.

Lookforadressandexplore

gettingonemadebya

dressmakertogettheexact

styleyouwantandanabsolute

one-off.(Yourbridesmaidscan

alsobedesigneduniquelyby

yourdressmaker)arrangedress

fittings.

Shoparoundlookingfortiara,

shoes,veil,jewellery,makeup,

hairpinsandthinkaboutwhat

thebridesmaidsarewearing

toointheirhairandjewellery.

Bookafloristandweddingcars.

Thinkabouthoneymoonsand

passports.

Haveaconsultationwitha

cakemaker.

Haveaconsultationwitha

venuedresser.

Buyweddingrings,or

commissiononestobemade.

Chooseandorderfavours.

Haveahairandmake-uptrialto

giveyourselfplentyoftimeto

growandrestyleifnecessary.

Bookhairandmake-upstylists

foryourday.

Requestcontractsfromall

ofyourweddingsuppliers

whichoutlineallservicesand

productsprovidedtoinclude

prices,vatanddeliverycharges.

Designandsendoutwedding

invitations,advise

accommodationdetailsto

thosewhoneedit.

Buildyouremergencywedding

kit,plasters,stainremover,

stickytapeforholdingbitsin!

Ifit’sforecastrain,buyabridal

umbrella.

Givetheringstothebestman.

Giveyourbestmanorplanner

alistofalltheweddingservices

andcontactnumbersand

anylistsofwhatserviceisbeen

delivered.

Ensureyouhavecurrencyfor

yourhoneymoon.

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For a 2pm ceremony:

9.00 It’s going to be a long day, lie in for as long as you can.

9.15 Get in a nice relaxing bath with aromatherapy bubbles

and candles.

9.45 Eat a good breakfast, regardless of those tummy butterflies.

10.00 Drink your normal coffee or tea, no champagne just yet!

10.30 Welcome in your bridal party, make sure they all help you

get ready and have a role to play. Assign the sending of

your thank you cards to a member of your party.

11.00 Welcome in your hairdresser and make up artist, they

know what they’re doing from rehearsals.

11.15 Welcome in your photographer/s who will start shooting

your party getting ready in line with the preparations you

did with them in consultations.

Have a celebratory ‘half’ glass of champagne with your party

and thank them for all of their help.

13.30 First car arrives and takes mother and bridesmaids to church.

13.45 Second car takes the bride and her father.

13.58 Stand outside the church with your father and bridesmaids

waiting to turn from a Miss into a Mrs.

The rest of your day is a whirlwind of vows, thanks, laughs, tears,

entertainment opening emotions you never thought you had. Enjoy

it. Your photographer, planners and bridal party will all ensure it goes

swimmingly well.

Takeitoffworkasaday’s

holiday–havealiein.

Haveafternoonteawithyour

mum,noweddingtalk.

Pickuptheweddingcakeor

ringandensureit’sonitsway.

Groomtogogethishaircutand

abarbershave.

Bridalpartytohavenailsdone

Practicewritingyourmarried

name,createyournew

signature.

Layoutyourdress,jewellery

andassociateditems.

Getoutyourthankyoucards

andstarttoaddressthemand

writeinasmuchasyoucan.

The morning of the wedding

Thedaybefore

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The role of the toastmasterWhat is a toastmaster?A toastmaster is a polished public speaker and keeper of order and

timelines at any important event and is a valuable addition to any

wedding, whether big or small. Sometimes also referred to as a master

of ceremonies and their role is to basically organise your day to run

seamlessly, put people at ease and ensure that all the correct formalities

and etiquettes are carried out. They will traditionally wear a smart coat

of the brightest red making themselves easily recognisable by everyone.

How do you know what to look for when choosing a toastmaster?Toastmasters have a highly trained mix of skills and personalities. A

sense of humour is vital, that they should have great organising skills goes

without saying but a sense of charisma, charm, look of professionalism

and the ability to make flawless public speeches is paramount.

Why would we use a toastmaster for our small wedding?Toastmaster’s know weddings inside and out, and chances are that they’ll

already know your venue and some of the staff as well. They will be

attending to everyone’s needs whilst looking for anything that could be

going wrong well before it has. They can eliminate speeches overrunning,

photographers missing shots and help catering staff with timings to serve

hot and unspoiled food at the right time.

Traditionally a good toastmaster has a fair few weddings under their

belt, a lifetime of experience and will also be able to give you good early

guidance on what works and what doesn’t and can be an absolute asset

to have on board well before the day itself. Some will even help with

speech writing and arrangements before the day.

Services include some or all of the following:

• Arrivingatthevenueanhourbeforethebridetocheckall

arrangements are in order

• Receivingandwelcomingguests

• Attendingtoolderguestswithseats,coats,facilities

• Receivingthebrideandgroom

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• Assemblinggroupsforthephotographer

• Sayinggrace

• Housekeeping

• Etiquette

• HealthandSafety

• Dealingwithanyissueswiththevenueorothersuppliers

• Circulatingtheguestbookforsigning

• Announcingthespeechesinorderandproposingtoasts

• Announcingthecuttingoftheweddingcakeandensuringthatthe

guests can take photos of the event

• Constanttimechecksoneverythingthroughoutthedayfromthe

tables and candles to food and wine to the correct placement of gifts

and bouquets and the starting of the music.

Does anyone train or govern toastmasters?

Aguildofinternationalandprofessionaltoastmastersdoesexistalongwith

other UK associations who provide specialised training to toastmasters.

Booking and Costs

Wedding Market’s well recommended toastmaster already has 22 bookings

for 2012 so our advice is that you should look at booking a toastmaster at

the same time as you book your venue. Expect to pay somewhere in the

regionof£350foragoodtoastmasterfortheday.Don’tbeafraidtoask

what experiences they have and if they’re a member of the guild or an

association. On the day itself your toastmaster will have been working

tirelessly for you so you should make some provision for them when

finalising numbers with your caterers.

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Wedding CAKEOtherthanyou,yourcakeisoneofthemostphotographedaspectsofyourday,andapartyoutrulysharewithyourguests,soit’simportanttogetthecakeyoureallywant.

Nicola Denbigh, owner of Little Cakes, has some tips on choosing your perfect wedding cake.

1 Have a look around to see what style of cake you like, but

don’t limit yourselves to a version of someone else’s! Inspiration

can come from your flowers, wedding stationery, details on the

bride’s dress, décor inside the venue… pretty much anything! It’s

always worth asking your cake designer to work with your ideas

and suggest some other designs for you.

2 Each cake designer has their own style, so if you want a

traditional cake, don’t go for one who specialises in contemporary

cakes, and vice versa.

3 Arrange to meet before you sign on the bottom line! It’s good

to make sure you’re on the same wavelength, to chat through

ideas and, most importantly, to taste the cakes.

4 If you have a budget in mind, don’t be afraid to say so!

The cost of your cake is determined by the size and level of

decoration, but if your dream cake isn’t within your budget, ask

your cake designer to work to your budget and come up with

other options in a similar style.

5 Always check to see if your cake designer charges for delivery

and set up, as this can dramatically increase the overall cost of

your cake.

6 Read through the contract before you sign. Also, make sure

your wedding insurance covers your cake, as well as the other

important aspects of your big day.e

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• Sienna-SprayTans

• LashPerfect–EyelashExtensions

•Nubar–GelVarnish

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Be a Beautiful Bride

We wanted to show you how good Jane Iredale make-up is at hiding uneven skin tones and even freckles. Zoe Roberts our real life model kindly allowed us to photograph her before and after her make-over.

AtZulaBeautySanctuarywealsoofferawiderangeofbeautytreatmentsfromslimmingbodywraps, tanning and waxing to specialist facials for beautiful glowing skin so you feel like a goddess all day long!

To book now contact us at: Zula Beauty Sanctuary | The Holiday InnThorpe wood | Peterborough | PE6 7NG | 01733 289905

Wedding make-up and bridal packages are an essential part of your wedding dayYour Wedding day is the most important

day of your life and is the day you will

remember forever. At Zula Beauty

Sanctuary we are experts at adding

those extra- special touches that will

make your day very special for you and

your bridal party.

We offer a complete wedding make-up service for the whole wedding group, from Bridesmaids to Mother of the Bride, and Mother-of-The-Groom. Let us assure you, you will all feel pampered and totally relaxed and be looking your absolute best on your very special day.

Jane Iredale, our choice of products are a completely innovative range of make-up, based on natural mineral ingredients, suitable for all skin types and so delicate they can be used immediately after facial treatments.

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Every Brides worst nightmare would be to wake up on their wedding day and feel their skin looks dry and drab, due to the stress of the build of the big day.

you want your hands and nails to match as everyone will be looking at your rings!

Monthly or twice monthly manicure treatments will maintain and condition your hands and nails. On the day you could opt for hard wearing nail polish or full nail extensions. Gel nails are the best way to ensure that you don’t chip a nail the morning of your day and will also last your honeymoon too.

Wedding Day PreparationEnsure a radiant look with these top tips from

To avoid this happening begin having regular facials from as early as 6 months before.

Get in to a regular skin care routine morning and night to ensure your skin won’t let you down and will look its absolute best with a lovely natural radiant healthy glow.

Now you have your Skin in its tip top condition that gives you the perfect canvas for your make up.

Trial make up should be done in advance to save you time and worry on the day and

so the artist will achieve the results that you envision. Keep the lipstick or gloss in your handbag or your brides maids handbag on the day for re-application– this is a minor detail which is often forgotten.

The best way to prevent mascara runs on this emotional occasion is to have individual eyelash extensions which give you fuller longer lashes and lasts between 2-3 weeks. Not only do these amazing lashes enhance the eyes but are also perfect for your honeymoon too.

So you now have perfect skin with make up and eyelashes looking amazing, next

Bronze £110• Hairtrial• makeuptrial• hairontheday• makeupapplicationontheday• Fileandpolish

Silver £175• Hairtrialandhairontheday• Makeuptrialandapplicationontheday• A60minuteprescriptivefacial• ½legwaxandEyebrowwax• Fileandpaintonhandsandtoes

Gold £230• Hairtrialandhairontheday• Makeuptrialandapplicationontheday• A60minuteprescriptivefacial• BackNeckandshouldermassage• Manicure• Pedicure• ¾legwaxandEyebrowwax

Platinum £280• Hairtrialandhairontheday• Makeuptrial&applicationontheday• Achoiceof75minutefacial• Achoiceofbodytreatment• Manicure• Pedicure• FulllegwaxandEyebrowwax• Eyelashandeyebrowtinting

Wedding packagesCall:01778590506

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Men’s Hair & Beauty packages also available

Wedding Hair

1 sophisticated sleek up doThis is a great versatile style to team with a detailed

dress, or whether you are just requiring something

sleekandcontempary,canbewarnanumberofways,

andisveryeasytocarryoffforallfaceshapes,works

greatwithhairaccessoriessuchastiarasorfacinators.

2 new romantic curlsEffortlessstyle,lookssleekandsophistcatednomatter

thelengthofyourhair,thislookisbestteamedwitha

straplessdress.

3 bohemian sheekTry a more detailed hair up to go with that simple

statement dress add detail and excitement to any

outfit or dress with this modern hair up works with

hairshoulderlengthorbelow,addvolumeorsleekness

acordingtoyourrequirements.

4 grecian waves A great way to add sophistication to any hair from a

graduatedbobtoaone lengthcutthis issoversatile

for all hair types, the loose & tousled effect of the

curls adds softness and interest , team with a full or

sweeping fringe for added softness, for the ultimate

effectwhynotfinishoffwithhairpearlsordiamonds.

andbeavailableforanyquickfixesthatyoumightneed.

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BEFORE AFTER

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01780 753773www.rnentertainments.co.uk

• Holdbouquetatananglesotheflowerscanbeseen bytheguestsasyouwalkuptheaisle.Ifyouhold thempointingstraightupalltheguests/ photographerswillseeisgreenery• Placearmontopofthepersonwhogivesyou awayastheywalkyoudowntheaisle.It providesspacetomanoeuvrewiththedress• Donothaveasweettooth?Howabouta weddingcakeoftieredcheeses?• Understandthemeaningofyourflowers. Flowershavealanguage,forexamplethe myrtleherbisthesymbolofloveandmarriage. Sowhenyoupickyourflowershavecolour, styleandmeaning• OnRSVP-ing,getyourgueststowritedowna songtitlethatremindsthemofyouboth,there

Jen’s Useful Tips

youhaveit–areadymadeandpersonalplaylistfor theevening’sentertainment!!• Marriageisabouttwofamiliesjoiningasone,why nothavealittlesandceremonywhereyoueachpour colouredsandintoaglassvase,notonlyisitsymbolic offamily’sjoiningbutitwillbeaconstantreminder ofyourunion.• Desperatetoseewhateveryonegetsuptoatyour wedding?Whynothavecamerasonthetablesto catcheveryone’ssmiles,oravideorecorderbeing passedaroundsoguestscanleaveyouamessage!

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With direct links by train and car and a journey time of

under 30 minutes from Peterborough the House, its grounds

and the beautiful interior provided a stunning backdrop for

what was a relaxed, beautiful and informal day.

The Bride & GroomChrissie Warn (nee Thorn), aged 29, works for Cambridgeshire County Council as a Recruitment Administrator. We were married in April 2011 and we’re expecting our first child in April this year.

How did Ben Propose?Ben (33) proposed on my birthday in 2009, which was also our fifth anniversary. I woke up in the morning and there was a trail of rose petals from the bedroom, down the stairs and in to the living room

Hinchingbrook House

where there was a massive love heart of rose petals and a vase of daisies, which are my favourite flower. When I turned around Ben was on one knee behind me and he asked me to marry him. He didn’t have a ring, but whisked me away to Antwerp in Belgium, where he had made appointments with diamond specialists. I got to pick out my own diamond and the setting, which was really exciting.

Where did you get married?Hinchingbrooke House, Huntingdon, it was a civil ceremony and everything took place at the venue.

How many guests?We had about 80 during the day plus another 80 in the evening.

Why choose the venue?It was a beautiful building with large grounds, perfect for lawn games. It also offered excellent value for money and suited our needs perfectly, with plenty of room for guests to enjoy the space and grounds.

Who were your chosen suppliers? The dress, a beautiful tightly fitted lace number, came from The Taylor’s Cat in Cambridge. The staff were really friendly and

Getting Married at Easter seemed a perfect

way to celebrate with family and friends and in

2011 the marriage of Ben & Chrissie took place at

Hinchingbrooke House, Huntingdon.

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Hinchingbrook House

provided excellent customer service. Chrissie’s mum made the cake, which was a simple lemon drizzle cake and decorated it too. A family friend took our photos. The rings came from Ernest Jones and the suits came from Moss Bros.

Where did you Honeymoon?We spent three weeks travelling across America via Amtrak. We started out in New York and ended up in Vegas. It was a really amazing journey. The scenery was just outstanding and the people were fantastic.

How did you decorate the venue? We didn’t decorate the rooms as the House is a 13th century building and already looked outstanding. Our flowers were yellow, cream and orange. The bridesmaid dresses were green, the flower girl dress was yellow. The groomsmen all wore matching colours, our centrepieces were similar colours, with mini eggs for favours and apples as name places.

What was your best memory of the day?Our first dance. We danced to Birdhouse in Your Soul by They Might Be Giants. It’s our favourite song and was just a lot of fun.

Would you change anything?I wouldn’t have changed anything. The day was just perfect, even if it was the hottest day of the year.

What the guests thoughtWe had a fabulous day at Ben & Chrissie’s wedding it was a beautiful venue and being someone who enjoys space and plenty of room to chill out or dance it was perfect. Lots of specialist diets were catered for and the food was outstanding being vegan for the day I wasn’t left feeling hungry after tucking into roasted vegetable coscous and salsa, whilst my other half enjoyed his lamb shank and all the trimmings. Lemon and lime pie followed along with a wonderful fruit salad drizzled in alcohol. As a mum of a 6 month old I was pleasantly surprised at the layout for my daughter and how easy it was to ensure she sat at the table also. The waiting staff were lovely and I was blown away by the venue a simple, beautiful wedding relaxed and very grand at the same time. And I have to say Chrissie’s dress was perfect for her elegant and intricate and very individual. A bit about Hinchingbrooke House, Huntingdon can be found at www.hhpac.co.ukBecky Twelvetree.

Mr & Mrs Warn

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Finding a perfect wedding ring is almost as hard as finding the perfect partner. Let us at Murano Silver help you with our UK made and sourced titanium, gold and platinum wedding rings.

Need the perfect gift for your Bridesmaid, Groomsman or Mother? Murano Silver has beautiful individual pieces that can create the “Thank You” you are looking for!

We also specialise in jewellery design, repairs and restoration.

Murano Silver | 5 Market PlaceMarket Deeping | Peterborough PE6 8EA | 01778 347007

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THE WEDDING COUPLE

Giftcardsareagreat idea, ifa little

impersonal, but at least you know

thecouplecangetexactlywhatthey

want. Queensgate in Peterborough

offer this service. Therefore, the

choice is endless and with new

stores opening at the centre, they

willbesuretofindtherightitem.

Holiday vouchers for the couples

honeymoon can be a great way

to add value to their romantic

experience.Assomanycouplestend

to contribute to their own wedding

day, the funds for the dream

honeymoon can soon disappear. By

giving holiday vouchers they can

put this towards the cost of their

honeymoon,however,ifthisdoesn’t

inspireyou,thengivingaddedvalue

and a greater experience to their

already booked honeymoon, might

be the answer. Inspirational Travel

haveaweddinggiftservicewhereby

you can purchase a gift for the

coupletoenjoywhilstontheirdream

honeymoon.Forexample:aromantic

dinner on the beach, a picnic on a

deserted island, or an upgrade of

their meal basis to all inclusive. For

the more adventurous you could

purchase a helicopter or

balloonrideforthecouple.

There are many ideas that

youcanoffer,whichofcourse

willdependonthehoneymoon

destinationtheyarevisiting.

BEST MAN

For the best man, cuff links or a

hip flask are the traditional option,

but how about giving him a great

experience that he will really enjoy,

likedrivingacarroundaracetrack,

a round of golf, or even tickets to

see his favourite football team.

WitteringbasedGrangeLeisureoffer

Archery,ClayPigeonShootinganda

Hydrosphere,whichisgreatfun.

BRIDESMAIDS

Bridesmaids are much easier as us

girls love anything that looks nice,

smellsniceorfeelsnice,sojewellery

(charmbraceletsareasuperbideaas

the charm will always remind them

ofyourspecialday).Perfumeisalso

agreatideaorapamperdayatone

ofthenumerouslocalspa’swouldbe

perfect.Justgivesomethoughttothe

personandwhatyouthinktheywould

reallylike.

MOTHERS

The mothers of the bride and groom

veryoftenreceiveagorgeousbouquet

offlowersandsomesaythisisalittle

dated now. Why not consider a more

personalgiftlikeasilkscarf,aframed

photo of all the girls out on the hen

nightshowingthemothershavingfun,

and of course, my favourite, spoiling

herwithadayatRagdaleHalloralocal

beautyspa–believeme,theywilllove

itandthememoryofitwilllastmuch

longerthanflowers.

It is a very different time we live in and gone are the days

of buying those essential items required to build a home,

as most wedding couples have already built their nest.

Here are some brand new ideas for the modern couple.

Choosing GIFTS

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The Golden Pheasant team will

give your day personal attention

from beginning to end. They offer

a totally bespoke service, to include

covered chairs with a choice of

colours, tailored themes, menus,

entertainment and all in a fantastic

atmosphere, so whatever you want

or need to make your day perfect -

The Golden Pheasant will deliver.

The marquee can accommodate 100

guests in a formal sit-down setting

and 120 for a buffet style, or you can

have a more intimate setting in our

private dining room for up to 30.

The superb food served at the

Golden Pheasant is all home cooked

on the premises.

Food Options BBQ

Cold or hot buffet2-5 course meal

This is tailor-made service – so

you can sit down and discuss your

thoughts and suggestions with the

Chef, rather than fixed menus.

The magic comes when the team

puts it all together for you on the

day and ensures the day goes like

clockwork. You can be as involved

as you would like to be, or you

can avoid the stress and leave it to

the Golden Pheasant, and receive

constant care and attention plus

regular updates to give you peace of

mind.

The Golden Pheasant is located in a countryside setting, in Etton just a mile from Market Deeping and Glinton. The Georgian house with its permanent marquee attached is a perfect venue for the wedding reception you desire.

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Making your day special... down to the

last detail

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t: 01733 252387 www.thegoldenpheasant.net

The setting allows for a superb

backdrop to have your photographs

taken. There is an enclosed play area

for the children and further activities

can be booked, such as a bouncy

castle, giant Jenga, plus much more.

The marquee is air-conditioned to

keep your guests cool, or heated to

ensure comfort, allowing bookings

to be taken all year round.

Intimate weddings also catered for - up to 30 people

TO BOOK A VIEWING AND TO DISCUSS

YOUR REQUIREMENTS, TELEPHONE

THE GOLDEN PHEASANT

(01733) 252387

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Crystal Bouquets

Crystal Bouquets are a new and exciting product just

launched in December. These stunning handmade

crystal and feather bridal bouquets are handmade

to your colour specification but can also incorporate

families and friend’s old jewellery and broken brooches

or simply let the designer take your vision and make

something totally new up for you.... no two will ever be

the same. Matching bridesmaid’s posies, button holes

and headdresses and combs are also available and

prices start from just £5 for a button hole and £80 for

a stunning feathered bridal bouquet. Wedding Scene

readers ordering a bouquet in March & April will receive

2 free button holes for every bouquet purchased.

Wedding Market eat, breath and sleep wedding

trends and are constantly researching the markets,

attending local and national fayres looking for the

next new and unique offering for their wedding

couples. They’ve found some unique and exciting

new items for 2012 as well as developing their own

creations and ideas and the best news is that most of

these can be tailored

to your budget, taste

and colour schemes.

What’s new and different to book for 2012

All items are available through Wedding Market, Elton, PE8 6SQ.

Ice SculpturesDreamt about an ice sculpture on your big day but

always thought they were only for the rich and famous?

Not anymore -Be the envy of all the other future brides

at your day and have a shape commissioned from a

simple sketch, have a shoe, a love heart, your colour

scheme with butterflies embedded in it. Although we’d

never condone excessive alcohol consumption, these

sculptures can be made as luges which mean that

they can be a focal point and an attraction to your

guests for the evening. Prices start from £395.00 plus

delivery. Wedding Scene readers who book during the

months of March & April can take advantage of free

delivery worth up to £85.

Rotating Chocolate Pyramids

Another ‘new to the market’

is the stunning Ferrero Rocher

Rotating Pyramid. This is only

just recently designed by a

new wedding supplier so

you won’t have seen one

of these at any wedding

yet! They come filled with

481 chocolates, rotate

on a top table and look absolutely

stunning. Better still why not have 4 of them spinning

on a top table with different coloured chocolates

on them or 10 miniature ones as table centres. Truly

eye catching! There are more designs coming in

2012 to keep it fresh and new and if you want it as a

cake alternative we can place a small cutting cake

to replace the top 5 tiers. This is a stunning piece that

we can tailor to your needs and colour scheme. Hire

of the machine filled with 481 chocolates starts from

£295.00 +delivery

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Caricaturist

The wedding guests

will always want to be

entertained and what

better way than with a

skilled caricaturist. Everyone

loves to see a skilled

caricaturist in action; and a

good caricaturist will manage

to draw around 8 to 10 of your

guests per hour. Expect to pay

around £200 an hour.

Wedding Crackers

Interaction of your guests with each other is something

that we absolutely promote here at Wedding Market

that’s why we’ve got a new exciting range of interactive

favours in the final throws of design stage which are

a new buy for 2012. Wedding Crackers not only get

your guests pulling together, they double up as your

favour boxes, holding gifts for everyone and can be

personalised or made in a variety of colours and

sizes and can still contain the traditional favour fillings

such as sugared almonds. Prices start from £2.85 per

cracker including personalised design and coloured

ribbons to match your theme. Special Offer, Orders

placed before the end of April entitle Wedding Scene

readers to the free sugared almonds with orders of 100

crackers or more.

Cake ToppersWe just love these cake toppers, we take any electronic

photographs of you and get you made into a scarily

lifelike resin and clay sculptured figure where you’re

dressed in your suit and dress (designed from pictures).

They’re available with tiny veils, tiaras; bouquets and

can have tiny embellishments added to match the

dress and some of your colour scheme. Why not get

one made as surprises for the bride and groom. Prices

start from £55 for a single figure and £109 for a bride

and groom couple (+p&p). 2 free embellishments are

available for Wedding Scene readers for orders placed

before the end of April.

Memory Lane Pop-up

A new and stunning idea, why not

have a 6 foot pop up designed

and commissioned of the bride

and groom as a surprise to display

at their reception. Conversely have

one designed of your table plan,

no need for frames or tables and

easels, these just stand up on their 2

feet. Prices start from £99 +delivery.

Wedding Scene readers are eligible

for free delivery for orders placed

before the end of April.

Wow, a table centre with 12 tasty cookies of varying sizes

attached with ribbon colour of your choice. Have them

made in a shape with a ribbon colour of your choice.

Available to hire at £35 each including 12 different size

cookies attached. Delivery charges apply.

Cookie Bird Cage Table Centres

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The Great Northern HotelRestaurant & Banqueting

The Perfect Wedding Venue

To view this conveniently

located venue which is ideal

for friends and family travelling

from further afield by train

please call one of our dedicated

Wedding Co-ordinators who

will be delighted to assist.

Umesh Sewnundun MIH

General Manager

With all its Victorian splendour

The Great Northern Hotel is

a hidden gem in the heart of

Peterborough.

Reputed as a Wedding venue

we are carrying on the tradition

by hosting weddings with

a personal touch and pride

ourselves on exceeding your

expectations.

The elegant Carriages restaurant

is licensed for Civil Ceremonies

and Partnerships and is suitable

for up to 90 guests.

Our lovely Ballroom which

comes complete with its own

bar and dance floor is perfect

for a wedding breakfast for up

to 120 guests followed by your

evening reception for up to 200

guests.

For smaller, more intimate

weddings we have the elegant

Carriages Restaurant with

chandeliers and drapes or

our Garden Room with Oak

panelling and chandeliers.

We will delight your guests

with a superb dining experience

which we believe is an important

part of the occasion.

Our stunning Hills Bridal Suite

complete with His & Hers is

the perfect way to end a perfect

day whilst your guests enjoy

one of our individually styled

bedrooms.

As every wedding is as individual

as you are, we will always

endeavour to accommodate your

requirements and make your

special day into a memorable

one.

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The Great Northern Hotel, Station Approach.Please call Kamla or Jane for further information

Tel: 01733 552 595

email: [email protected]

or visit:www.thegreatnorthernhotel.co.uk

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Normanton Church Normanton Church is a stunning venue that offers possibilities unsurpassed by any other. Steeped in history, you can break with conventional tradition whilst retaining the timeless elegance of architectural style. Having been deconsecrated in 1970, a style of venue unique in its design and water front location is available for civil ceremonies.

Its once doomed fate adds to the enchanting ambience of Normanton Church, which now stands a surviving treasure of the past. Rescued from the reservoir floor, the only thing this venue is flooded with, is light. The many windows not only illuminate

the arched interior of the venue, they offer picturesque views out across the water.

Exquisite beauty radiates in waves from this grade II listed building, built in the classical style. The church, originating from medieval times, was re-designed in 1826-9 by Thomas Cundy and his son, surveyors to the Grosvenor estate in Westminster.A unique atmosphere emanates from Normanton Church and it provides an ideal blank canvas for wedding decoration and a perfect backdrop for photographs. A Rutland icon,

Please note as the ceremony venue and registrars are separate entities, it is vital to ring and check that both Normanton Church and the Registrars are available for the same date and time before going through with any bookings. We work closely with our clients ensuring all negotiations are orchestrated flawlessly!

Normanton Church is stylistically evocative and truly a novel civil ceremony venue, guaranteed to create cherished memories doused in romanticism.

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Normanton Church

... the perfect setting for the perfect day

DIRECTIONS: Normanton Church is straightforward to find, on the South Shore of Rutland Water. Travelling from Stamford towards Oakham, on the A606, before the village of Empingham, take the Edith Western turn

off, on your left. Normanton Church at Rutland Water • Normanton • Rutland • LE15 8HD

Extra Information:• Now we can seat up to 102 people• Extra heaters for the colder months!• Full length mirror • Toilet facilities• Candles available to borrow (cream, church pillar candles)• New chairs in blue with gold rim

So, is it your dream to have a wedding on the water in one of the finest, most recognisable, buildings in the County of Rutland?

Find us on Facebook:Weddings on the Water or Normanton Church

Visitors Centre: 01780 686800

Candle-lit wedding by Sean Gannonwww.energyphotographic.co.uk

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1Meet your photographer; it’s important that you feel at ease with them. This will reflect in your photographs, and if they get natural shots of the guests enjoying themselves will help capture the unique atmosphere of the day.

2 Decideifyouwantformalornaturalshots,ormaybeamixtureof the two, and discuss with the photographer if this is what they can provide. If you are looking for something different such black and white shots find out if this is possible and if you will be able to see originals to decide which you prefer.

3 Research the photographers work and products they can provide such as photobooks, albums, and framed products. A goodphotographer will have invested time into finding good quality products from reliable sources.

Memories are priceless and with all

the excitement your big day will fly by

far too quickly.

Your wedding photographs are a

beautiful way to capture memories

from the day and even moments you

may have been unaware of. Here is some

advice to make sure you get the best from

your photographer resulting in amazing

images and making your recollections of

the day as special as possible.

Wedding Photography

4 Find out how long before you will get to see the images afterwoulds and how they will supply them. Time is needed after the big day for the photographer to go through the images and enhance if needed so that yougetthebestfromyourphotographs.Askaboutcopyrightandhowadditional prints and products can be purchased afterwards.

5 If you plan to have some specific shots give a list of them to your photographer so they can arrange the most efficient way to get the best images without disrupting the flow of the day or intruding on you and your guests enjoying the celebration.

6 Check your photographer will research the wedding venuesbeforehand and where possible visit to understand its lighting conditions and good photographic locations. They must find out the rules of photography during the service too as these can differ in places.

Credit and thanks to LMC Photography

Walkaboutphotography

Contemporary and vintage wedding photography

I capture your wedding day in an unobtrusive manner creating timeless

and memorable images

Packages from just £400Call Emma for an informal chat on

0752 396 1416or email

[email protected]

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taken

I also offer engagement sessions and bridal boudoir photography

(a great wedding gift for your husband-to-be)

Photographer & Digital [email protected]

07947 957063www.lauren-irving-photography.co.uk

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unique, unobtrusive, unposed...I aim to deliver timeless reportage and formal photography, capturing real expressions and spontaneous, once in a lifetime moments with the emphasis being on observation rather than participation.

By designing a bespoke photographic package around your own budget and requirements for the day I aim to make your wedding or civil partnership as special as possible. Please contact me for an informal chat or visit my website for more examples of my work and creative solutions I’ve designed for previous clients.

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This historic 17th Century coaching inn set in idyllic surroundings is the perfect venue for your wedding. The Haycock is situated in the un-spoilt village of Wansford-in-England and boasts award-winning gardens stretching along the banks of the River Nene.

Built from local stone and maintaining many of its original features, the Haycock radiates individual charm coupled with a warm and welcoming atmosphere. With a variety of rooms suitable for both civil wedding ceremonies and receptions, the Haycock is well equipped to cater for parties of all sizes ranging from 20 to 250 guests.

The mature gardens offer further possibilities, providing an attractive setting for drinks receptions and wedding photographs.

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Wedding FayreSunday 11th March

11-4pm Free Admission

Exhibitors to include:PhotographersCake Designs

Wedding Dresses & Cat WalkCar HireFlorists

StationersAccessoriesGift Ideas

01780 782223

Winter PackageAvailable in January, February,

March & November 2013

Price includes the following for up to 90 guests (including Bride & Groom) daytime

and 120 guests in the evening.

• RoomHireincludingCeremonyRoom

• DedicatedWeddingCo-ordinator&EventsManager

• ArrivalDrink

• Hair&MakeUpforBride&3Bridesmaids

• 3CourseWeddingBreakfastwithaGlassof Wine

• Flowersfortablecentrepieces(Posiesforguest

tables, long & low for top table)

• Glassof SparklingWinefortheToast

• Weddingstationery-Menus,Placecards

& Seating Plan

• WhiteChairCovers&Bows

• ThreeTierWeddingCake

(Fruit, Sponge or Cupcakes)

• EveningBuffet

• Photographer(4Hourscoverage,Allphotosondisk,

7x5 hardback wedding album with 50- 60 photos)

• Disco

• Bride&GroomFourPosterSuite

£8,500 inclusive of VAT Additional charges apply for an increase in numbers or any variations to the package menus and drinks offered. There will be no reduction in the fixed price of the package if certain elements are not required.

For more information please contact the Sales Team on

01780 782223 [email protected] www.macdonaldhotels.co.uk London Road, Wansford, Peterborough, PE8 6JA

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Welcome to

Scalford Hall

Planning Your Wedding We are only too happy to offer ideas and make suggestions - we are here to make sure your special day is as perfect, relaxing and enjoyable as possible. We will help you plan the day right down to the smallest detail to ensure that everything runs smoothly throughout the day.

Our red carpet welcome, cake table and traditional stand are included in all our Wedding Packages, and we provide you with an engraved Scalford Hall Cake Knife to keep as a memento of your special day.

It is impossible to appreciate Scalford Hall without visiting us for yourself. Please contact

Set amongst twelve acres of carefully landscaped gardens, at the heart of Leicestershire’s picturesque countryside, this unique property provides a refreshing change from contemporary venues, allowing our guests uninterrupted banqueting, welcoming private dining areas and gourmet menus.

We aim to create a tailor made event for every wedding reception, whether it is an intimate minimum of 20 guests or up to a maximum of 150 guests.

our Wedding Co-ordinator who will be delighted to welcome you for a personal tour and to take the opportunity to discuss your specific requirements in greater detail.

We look forward to having the opportunity of welcoming you and your guests to the Hall.

Civil ServicesWe are delighted to advise you that Scalford Hall has a Civil Ceremony licence, enabling you to hold your Marriage Ceremony and Reception here at the Hall. If you are looking to have a Civil Ceremony, we can assist you in contacting the Registrar and give you an insight into the procedures.

Registrar’s Office at County Hall in Leicester 0116 305 6565.

Exclusive Use of Scalford Hall Make Scalford Hall exclusively yours on this special occasion. However, exclusive use is only available Saturday and Sunday for a maximum of 120 guests.

The Wedding Breakfast We are delighted to offer you a variety of dishes to create your wedding breakfast. Should you wish to expand our menu or create your own, the Chef would be happy to meet with you to discuss your requirements. Our Buffet Menu provides a more informal atmosphere where guests can visit the buffet and select from a range of starters, carved meats and

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AccommodationYour happiness is important to us and we will take every care to ensure your day is perfect in every way. Take advantage of our 88 well-appointed en-suite bedrooms that ensure you have

all the comforts you and your guests will need.

The Bride and Groom stay over on their wedding night with our compliments.

Wedding FairSunday 25th March 2012, 11am – 4pm

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salads, a hot dish and a dessert selection. Vegetarian dishes will also be available.

We can also offer a wide range of additional options if required. These include a Fish or Sorbet Course, or perhaps our renowned local Cheese Platter, Chocolates and Petit Fours are also available as an accompaniment to coffee.

Evening Celebrations For your evening celebrations we are proud to offer what we believe to be the widest range of options available in the area, including barbeques, hog roast, traditional buffets, themed buffets and finger buffets tailored to your requirements.

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