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A brief article on several scandals surrounding swamis, yogis and ashrams in the west and in India and the circumstances conducing to and leading to such misconduct ,including sexual misbehavior are analysed. No mention is made of any specific yoga ashram or yogi but the general weaknesses are pointed out. Several precautions and warnings are high lighted for a yoga student from the West.
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Yoga,Yogis,GurusandSex
Scandals
NKSrinivasan
Theyogaworldhadseenseveralearth-quakesofsexscandals
associatedwithgurus,yoga'masters'andteachers.Having
watchedtheyoga-domforthepastseveraldecadesandbeinga
practisingyogiandteachertosomestudents.beingIndianby
birth,havinghadadvancededucationatoneoftheIvyleague
schoolsinUSA,IfeelthatIamsufficinetlywellinformed
andmaturedenoughtowriteaboutthescandalsthathadbroken
outwithgurus/yogis.
Ialsotakethisopportunitytoexplaintheroleof
teachers/gurusinIndian/Hinduperspective.Thisisimportant
becausetheconceptandroleofaguruortraditionalteacher
cannotbeeasilyunderstoodorappreciatedbywesternstudents
whoenrollforacourse,spendafewweeksinaschoolor
ashraminIndiaoraregularclass/retreatintheWest.
AsIsurveythescene,startingfromthedaysofMaharishi
MaheshYogiofTM,Icouldseehowcorrupt,mentally,morally
andspirituallytheybecome;itis,indeed,shocking.Thefair
nameofHinduspiritualityisbeingspoiledbythese
charlatan/bogusyogisandgurus.Iwritethiswithasenseof
painatthewayinwhichthehoarytraditionsofyogaand
spiritualtraditionsofIndiahadbeencompromisedbythese
greedy,lecherousteachersandhalf-bakedyogis.
YogisandPowerofwealth
SeveraloftheyogiswerepoorkidsbackinIndiaor
hailfromhumblemiddleclassbackground;theirparents
toiledhardtoeducatethemandsendthemtoschoolor
college.WhentheseyoungyogisarriveintheUSA,they
aredazzledbythewealthandaffluenceeverywhere,and
hearabouttheAmericandreamtomakemoneyandthegoal
of"pursuitofhappiness"extolledbyThomasJefferson,
oneofthefoundingfathersofAmerica.Soonenough
,withtheiryogaclassesfetchingmoneyandafewrich
devoteesorfemalemoneybags,theyacquirematerial
possessions---startingwithanewspankycarandalarge
house.Celebritystudentsarriveandalongwiththem,
themediacoverage,withTVinterviewsandmagazine
articlesandevenbillboardsinbigcitieslikeSan
Francisco.
Manyunbeleivableachievementsareattributedtothese
half-bakedyogis.Theyaresupposedtohaveauthored
hundredsofbooks---mostlyshortjuvenile'chapter
books'writtenbytheirdotingfemalestudentswhoare
mostlyEnglishmajors.Oftenthebooksaretranscribed
talksofshallowdepths,givenintheevenings,witha
smatteringofSanskritwordsandexpressions.Manyhave
notreadanyofthescriptureoreventheBhagavadGita,
toanydepth.Thebooksareeditedprofuselytocaterto
thelocalmarketofwesternreaderswhoarereading
aboutHinduphilosophyoryogaforthefirsttime.
Withmoneyflowingin,theyoungyogisoonacquiresa
ranchstyleashramwithfancyname[forinstance"New
Mathura"]oftenbequeathedbyawealthycorporateguyor
distraughtrichwidow,seeking'enlightenment'orat
leastmentalpeaceatthefeetofthemaster.[Oftenit
isthepersonaltragedythatbringsapersontothese
charlatan-gurus.]Theashramsoonhasseveral
rooms,cottages['kutirs']andconferencehallsbesides
yogastudiosforthecomfortofstudentswhocomefor
extendedweek-endsorretreats----afertilegroundfor
promiscuityandgentlenight-life.
Oneyogiboughtapalatialmonasteryspacewithmore
than100rooms.Anotherwantedanewtowntobemadeona
dryranch.SoontheymovearoundinRolls-Roycesorlimos
drivenbytheirfavoritefemalechelas.One
charlatan-yogiwhowasaninstructorinalocalcollege
inIndia,becamerichinUSAandownedmorethan90
Rolls-Roycesaspartofhisassetsinhisranch,before
certaincriminalchargeswereclampedonhimandhewas
drivenoutofthecountry.
Withtightsecurity,body-guardsandsurveillance
cameras,theyogi,amanof'superiorwisdom'ordivine
dispensation,movesinhiswalledcity--likeaprince.
OneBritishpoliticainwrotenearlytwocenturies
ago:"Powercorrupts;Absolutepowerabsolutely."Howtrue!
Theyogiisnomoreamanpursuingspiritualgoalsor
teachingspiritualpath,butacorporateexecutiveor
CEO,maximisinghisprofits.Hemayinvestinrealestate
andotherdealstosecuresteadyincomefromthe
earningsthusfarcollected.
Moneypowerandmediapublicitycorruptthemindofthe
yogi.Hebecomesacharlatan,tryingtoprotecthis
interestsfromnowon.
Heforsakesthesimplelifestyleoftrueyogisin
India.Furthermoreheforsakesthegreatestassetofa
yogi--humility.Hebecomesarrogant,abuseshis
followersandeventhreatensthemwithdireconsequences
iftheyletouthissecretmisconductaround.
YogiandtheSevaconcept
Karmayogaisthepathofself-lessserviceforthepoor
andtheneedy--likeMotherTheresa,forinstance.
Ourmodernyogisgaveanicetwisttothispathto
acceleratetheircorporategrowth.Theywouldexpect
naiveyoungonesintheashramtodovolunteeringin
theashramkitchenordormsorgarden,as'seve'tothe
guruandthecommunityofstudentsintheashram,who
arewealthyenough.Thisserviceissupposedtopurify
themindsofthestudents,inbetweentheir
meditationalpractice.Whilevolunteerserviceforanhourortwointheashram
forfreelunchmaybeacceptable,manyashramitesare
forcedtoworkfor8hoursormoreintheseplaces.
Thisisasubtleformofexploitationbythegurus.
Potbelliedgurus
Itisatthisstage,withwealthandpowerincreasing
exponentially,gurusovereatandbecomeobeseandpot
bellied---theycannottouchtheirtoes...why,they
cannotevenseetheirtoes!Unlikegenuineyogiswho
practiseyogaregularly,thesepseudoyogisbecome
inactiveandlettheiryoungstudentsteachothersor
trainpoorqualityinstructors.Theyspendtheirtime
amassingwealthorpolitickinginhighcircles.Itisno
wonderthatmanyofthemdiefairlyyoung,sayaround50
to60years,unlikeTkrishnamacharyawholivedupto102
yearsorIndraDeviwhoalsolivedupto102yearsorBKS
Iyengarwhoteachesnowattheageof94.
YogisorPlayBoys
Therichandpowerfulyogissoonattractcelebrities,
hollywoodstarletsandrock-starmusicianswhonotonly
bringinlotofmoneyandmediapublicity,butcertain
elementsofmoralturpitudeandsexualperversions.
Onehighlevelyogi'initiated'youngnovicesinbubble
bath;anotherinswimmingpoolsandsoon.Theaustere
styleoffunctioningsoonchangestotrivialceremonies
andperversionswithsexualovertones.Someoftheseare
labelledas'tantric'methodstoarousethesleeping
kundalnifromMuladharachakraforthe
less-knowledgeablestudentsandpartners.
Ifyoureadtheyogaliteratureofthepast50years
ofgrowthofYogainthewest,youwillfindnumerous
instancesofsexualexploitation/abusebesides
flirtationsbytheyogis.Oneyogiwinkedatastarlet
duringherbirthdaypuja,perhapswithbadintentions
andgothisreputationruinedsignificantly.Another
wellknownyogi,whohailedfrommyneinighborhoodin
India,hadtheaudacitytostealthegirlfriendofhis
disciple,professingtoteach'advancedmethods'under
hisroof,soonsiredachildthroughher.Ayogiwho
studiedunderagreatmasterinIndiaandwasrespected
forhisspecialyogicpowersofshakti-pathofraising
kundalinipowerhadasecretpassagetotheharemof
femalestudentsforhissexual'experiments'.Another
yogiofgreatlineageopenlysoughtsexualfavorsfrom
femalestudentsandwassuedinthecourtbutdeniedany
wrongdoing.Anotheryogi,whenfacinglegalchargesfor
sexualexploits,paidahugecompensationorsettlement
moneyinUSAandquietlywentbacktoIndiaand
apparentlycommittedsuicideinhisashramnearthe
Himalayas.
Therehadbeenmanyallegationsevenongreatoneslike
SwamiVivekanandawhichwerenotprovedor
substantiated.Buttherecentinstanceshavebeen
painfullywelldocumentedandcourtcases
followed...somewithout-of-courtsettlements.One
advancedphilosophercarriedonhisaffairwithhis
secretary'swifeformanyyears,sendingherto
clandestineabortionclinicperiodically.Thesecretary
wasalsosuedforfinancialimpropriety.Anotheryoung
self-styledyogimarriedhissecretaryandlefthis
devoteesinthelurch.InarecentinstanceinIndia,a
yogiwastakentocourtbyhisownwifewhocouldnot
toleratetheflirtationsofherhusband.
InHindutraditions,ayogineednotbeacelibate.He
canbeafamilyman,withwifeandchildren.Thetwo
illustriousexamplesofhouse-holderyogisareT
KrishnamacharyaandYogendraofYogaInstitute[Santa
Cruz,Mumbai]amongothers.Thereare,ofcourse,monks
whoareyogisandtheywouldbecelibate.
Butmodernyogispretendtobecelibatesandcarryon
theirsexualactivitiesorperversionswithseveral
women.Someevenjustifythishorriblebehaviorasdue
tocompulsionsfromadoringfemalesaroundthemand
theirinabilitytocontroltheurges.
Manywesternwomenassociatetheiryogigurus/teachers
withextra-ordinarypowersacquiredthroughyoga
,besidessomecharismaorphysicalcharm.Unfortunately
suchclaimsarefalseorself-propagated,withoutany
verificationandoftenhearsayreports.Itisdefintelypossibletoacquirecertainintuitive
powersandpowersofhealingbyadvancedyogiswhohad
livedstrictlivesandpractisedlongandhardformany
manyyears.Suchyogisarerarelyseenundertheglare
ofmediapublicity.
Theseyogi-charlatansdonotcomeunderthat
category.Theydonotpossessevenmoderatecleanliness
ofmindtoacquiresuchpowersorqualities.Manyof
themhadreadthePatanjaliYogasutraswithachapter
onsupernatural[siddhi]powers---thatisall.The
naivewesternstudentsaredupedcleverlybythese
yogisandtheirpromoters/students.
ThiscangooninIndiatoo.ButIndiabeingan
overcrowdedcountrywithlittleprivacyinanyashram,
suchnefariousactivitiesaresoonfoundout.Further
withgossip-mongeringintopgear,manyyogisorgurus
ofimmoralbehaviorwillbeexposedsoon.
WhatistrueGuru-Sishyarelationship?
Atrueguruleadsastudentthroughthe
difficultpathofyogaandspiritualgrowth
veryslowly.Hemaytakemonthsandeven
yearstoimpartthistraining.Furtherhe
watchesoverthestudenttominutely
understandhis/herbehaviourandgive
correctionsorsternwarningsfromtimeto
time.Wesaythataguruguidesthestudent
forlife...itisnotsimplyattendinga
structuredcourse,performedinahallor
taughtbycorrespondenceoron-linecourse..
Thissystemimpliesthatthegurucanatthe
mosttrainonly8to12studentsatatime.
SwamiSivananda[DivineLifeSociety,
Rishikesh,India],agreatvedantinandyogi
,didtrainonlyabout30studentsinhis
entirelife.
Masseducationofyogaisanotherthingall
together...ItisnotGuru-sishyatypeof
trainingatall.
Inmoderncontext,theyogisserveasmere
teachersandsotheycanbeforgivenfor
impartingpoortraining.Atthesametime
,thestudentsreceivepackagedlearning,
withoutlearningsubtlepoints.Therefore
onecannotexpecttheGuru-Sishya
relationshiptoflourishasinoldschools.
Thereisverylittleresponsibilityofa
guru/teachertowardshisstudents.The
relationshipisakintothatbetweena
collegeprofessorandhis/herstudents.
Insuchcircumstancesguruscannotexpect
totalsurrenderorallegiancetoa
guru.Thereforeitisneedlesstoregardguru
relationshipsintheclassicalHindu
tradition.
CaveatWithmylongexperienceaboutyogaand
yogis,Icanmakethefollowingcaveator
warningsforyogastudents:
1Checkthebackgroundoftheyogamasters
andtheirinstitutions.Iftheyindulgein
cultishpracticesandwalledenclosures,
withoutaccesstooutsideworld,shunthem.
2Checkalsoforpersonal,financialand
technicalbeckgroundofthemasterandhis
chiefinstructors.
3Avoidanypersonalencountersinclosed
doors,personalinterviewsorcloseted
instruction.
4Donotbelieveintheclaimsof
extra-ordinarypowersorsiddhissuchas
levitation,walkingonwater,
materialisationofobjects[sacredash,
metalobjectsandsoon]..Thesearecheap
tricksundercontrolledconditions.
Thereweregreatyogiswhocoulddivineyour
thoughts,bilocateorpredictyourfuture.
SuchmastersIdonotfindanymore.Somewere
thereoneortwogenerationsago.The
presentdayyogamastersareofmuch
inferiorcaliber.
Thechanceofyourfindingamasterwhocan
exhibitsuchpowers,eveninthehoary
Himalayas,isveryremote.
Themostcommonadvancedfeattheycan
exhibitisstoppingthepulseforafew
minutesandgettingburiedforsomelength
oftimewithoutfoodandoutsideair.But
thenstoppingthefunctioningoftheheart
andrevivingitiscommonwithCPR
techniquesandothermeansandneednotbe
consideredasupernaturalfeat.
5Finally,donotpartwithallyourmoney
orassetstoayogaorganisationorguruand
thenbecomedependentontheGuru...maintain
yourfinancialindependence.Youmaygive
largedonations,providedtheyareaccounted
forvalidexpenses.
Imustaddthattherearegreatyogis,with
sincereteachingtotheircreditand
considerableresearch/therapy
experience---thosegenuinelyinterestedin
theirstudents.Searchforthem.
Asthesayinggoes,ifthestudentisready,
theteacherwillcome---asthedivinelaw
operates..Butthegardenvarietyteachers,
withlotofadvertisementsandbillboards
topromotethemaremoney-makingcharlatans
andthedictum"CustomerBeware"appliesto
theworldofyogaaswell.
------OmTatSat---