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Yoga, Yogis ,Gurus and Sex Scandals N K Srinivasan The yoga world had seen several earth-quakes of sex scandals associated with gurus, yoga 'masters' and teachers. Having watched the yoga-dom for the past several decades and being a practising yogi and teacher to some students. being Indian by birth, having had advanced education at one of the Ivy league schools in USA, I feel that I am sufficinetly well informed and matured enough to write about the scandals that had broken out with gurus/yogis . I also take this opportunity to explain the role of teachers/gurus in Indian/Hindu perspective. This is important because the concept and role of a guru or traditional teacher cannot be easily understood or appreciated by western students who enroll for a course,spend a few weeks in a school or ashram in India or a regular class/retreat in the West. As I survey the scene, starting from the days of Maharishi Mahesh Yogi of TM,I could see how corrupt, mentally,morally and spiritually they become ;it is, indeed, shocking.The fair name of Hindu spirituality is being spoiled by these charlatan/bogus yogis and gurus.I write this with a sense of

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A brief article on several scandals surrounding swamis, yogis and ashrams in the west and in India and the circumstances conducing to and leading to such misconduct ,including sexual misbehavior are analysed. No mention is made of any specific yoga ashram or yogi but the general weaknesses are pointed out. Several precautions and warnings are high lighted for a yoga student from the West.

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Yoga,Yogis,GurusandSex

Scandals

NKSrinivasan

Theyogaworldhadseenseveralearth-quakesofsexscandals

associatedwithgurus,yoga'masters'andteachers.Having

watchedtheyoga-domforthepastseveraldecadesandbeinga

practisingyogiandteachertosomestudents.beingIndianby

birth,havinghadadvancededucationatoneoftheIvyleague

schoolsinUSA,IfeelthatIamsufficinetlywellinformed

andmaturedenoughtowriteaboutthescandalsthathadbroken

outwithgurus/yogis.

Ialsotakethisopportunitytoexplaintheroleof

teachers/gurusinIndian/Hinduperspective.Thisisimportant

becausetheconceptandroleofaguruortraditionalteacher

cannotbeeasilyunderstoodorappreciatedbywesternstudents

whoenrollforacourse,spendafewweeksinaschoolor

ashraminIndiaoraregularclass/retreatintheWest.

AsIsurveythescene,startingfromthedaysofMaharishi

MaheshYogiofTM,Icouldseehowcorrupt,mentally,morally

andspirituallytheybecome;itis,indeed,shocking.Thefair

nameofHinduspiritualityisbeingspoiledbythese

charlatan/bogusyogisandgurus.Iwritethiswithasenseof

painatthewayinwhichthehoarytraditionsofyogaand

spiritualtraditionsofIndiahadbeencompromisedbythese

greedy,lecherousteachersandhalf-bakedyogis.

YogisandPowerofwealth

SeveraloftheyogiswerepoorkidsbackinIndiaor

hailfromhumblemiddleclassbackground;theirparents

toiledhardtoeducatethemandsendthemtoschoolor

college.WhentheseyoungyogisarriveintheUSA,they

aredazzledbythewealthandaffluenceeverywhere,and

hearabouttheAmericandreamtomakemoneyandthegoal

of"pursuitofhappiness"extolledbyThomasJefferson,

oneofthefoundingfathersofAmerica.Soonenough

,withtheiryogaclassesfetchingmoneyandafewrich

devoteesorfemalemoneybags,theyacquirematerial

possessions---startingwithanewspankycarandalarge

house.Celebritystudentsarriveandalongwiththem,

themediacoverage,withTVinterviewsandmagazine

articlesandevenbillboardsinbigcitieslikeSan

Francisco.

Manyunbeleivableachievementsareattributedtothese

half-bakedyogis.Theyaresupposedtohaveauthored

hundredsofbooks---mostlyshortjuvenile'chapter

books'writtenbytheirdotingfemalestudentswhoare

mostlyEnglishmajors.Oftenthebooksaretranscribed

talksofshallowdepths,givenintheevenings,witha

smatteringofSanskritwordsandexpressions.Manyhave

notreadanyofthescriptureoreventheBhagavadGita,

toanydepth.Thebooksareeditedprofuselytocaterto

thelocalmarketofwesternreaderswhoarereading

aboutHinduphilosophyoryogaforthefirsttime.

Withmoneyflowingin,theyoungyogisoonacquiresa

ranchstyleashramwithfancyname[forinstance"New

Mathura"]oftenbequeathedbyawealthycorporateguyor

distraughtrichwidow,seeking'enlightenment'orat

leastmentalpeaceatthefeetofthemaster.[Oftenit

isthepersonaltragedythatbringsapersontothese

charlatan-gurus.]Theashramsoonhasseveral

rooms,cottages['kutirs']andconferencehallsbesides

yogastudiosforthecomfortofstudentswhocomefor

extendedweek-endsorretreats----afertilegroundfor

promiscuityandgentlenight-life.

Oneyogiboughtapalatialmonasteryspacewithmore

than100rooms.Anotherwantedanewtowntobemadeona

dryranch.SoontheymovearoundinRolls-Roycesorlimos

drivenbytheirfavoritefemalechelas.One

charlatan-yogiwhowasaninstructorinalocalcollege

inIndia,becamerichinUSAandownedmorethan90

Rolls-Roycesaspartofhisassetsinhisranch,before

certaincriminalchargeswereclampedonhimandhewas

drivenoutofthecountry.

Withtightsecurity,body-guardsandsurveillance

cameras,theyogi,amanof'superiorwisdom'ordivine

dispensation,movesinhiswalledcity--likeaprince.

OneBritishpoliticainwrotenearlytwocenturies

ago:"Powercorrupts;Absolutepowerabsolutely."Howtrue!

Theyogiisnomoreamanpursuingspiritualgoalsor

teachingspiritualpath,butacorporateexecutiveor

CEO,maximisinghisprofits.Hemayinvestinrealestate

andotherdealstosecuresteadyincomefromthe

earningsthusfarcollected.

Moneypowerandmediapublicitycorruptthemindofthe

yogi.Hebecomesacharlatan,tryingtoprotecthis

interestsfromnowon.

Heforsakesthesimplelifestyleoftrueyogisin

India.Furthermoreheforsakesthegreatestassetofa

yogi--humility.Hebecomesarrogant,abuseshis

followersandeventhreatensthemwithdireconsequences

iftheyletouthissecretmisconductaround.

YogiandtheSevaconcept

Karmayogaisthepathofself-lessserviceforthepoor

andtheneedy--likeMotherTheresa,forinstance.

Ourmodernyogisgaveanicetwisttothispathto

acceleratetheircorporategrowth.Theywouldexpect

naiveyoungonesintheashramtodovolunteeringin

theashramkitchenordormsorgarden,as'seve'tothe

guruandthecommunityofstudentsintheashram,who

arewealthyenough.Thisserviceissupposedtopurify

themindsofthestudents,inbetweentheir

meditationalpractice.Whilevolunteerserviceforanhourortwointheashram

forfreelunchmaybeacceptable,manyashramitesare

forcedtoworkfor8hoursormoreintheseplaces.

Thisisasubtleformofexploitationbythegurus.

Potbelliedgurus

Itisatthisstage,withwealthandpowerincreasing

exponentially,gurusovereatandbecomeobeseandpot

bellied---theycannottouchtheirtoes...why,they

cannotevenseetheirtoes!Unlikegenuineyogiswho

practiseyogaregularly,thesepseudoyogisbecome

inactiveandlettheiryoungstudentsteachothersor

trainpoorqualityinstructors.Theyspendtheirtime

amassingwealthorpolitickinginhighcircles.Itisno

wonderthatmanyofthemdiefairlyyoung,sayaround50

to60years,unlikeTkrishnamacharyawholivedupto102

yearsorIndraDeviwhoalsolivedupto102yearsorBKS

Iyengarwhoteachesnowattheageof94.

YogisorPlayBoys

Therichandpowerfulyogissoonattractcelebrities,

hollywoodstarletsandrock-starmusicianswhonotonly

bringinlotofmoneyandmediapublicity,butcertain

elementsofmoralturpitudeandsexualperversions.

Onehighlevelyogi'initiated'youngnovicesinbubble

bath;anotherinswimmingpoolsandsoon.Theaustere

styleoffunctioningsoonchangestotrivialceremonies

andperversionswithsexualovertones.Someoftheseare

labelledas'tantric'methodstoarousethesleeping

kundalnifromMuladharachakraforthe

less-knowledgeablestudentsandpartners.

Ifyoureadtheyogaliteratureofthepast50years

ofgrowthofYogainthewest,youwillfindnumerous

instancesofsexualexploitation/abusebesides

flirtationsbytheyogis.Oneyogiwinkedatastarlet

duringherbirthdaypuja,perhapswithbadintentions

andgothisreputationruinedsignificantly.Another

wellknownyogi,whohailedfrommyneinighborhoodin

India,hadtheaudacitytostealthegirlfriendofhis

disciple,professingtoteach'advancedmethods'under

hisroof,soonsiredachildthroughher.Ayogiwho

studiedunderagreatmasterinIndiaandwasrespected

forhisspecialyogicpowersofshakti-pathofraising

kundalinipowerhadasecretpassagetotheharemof

femalestudentsforhissexual'experiments'.Another

yogiofgreatlineageopenlysoughtsexualfavorsfrom

femalestudentsandwassuedinthecourtbutdeniedany

wrongdoing.Anotheryogi,whenfacinglegalchargesfor

sexualexploits,paidahugecompensationorsettlement

moneyinUSAandquietlywentbacktoIndiaand

apparentlycommittedsuicideinhisashramnearthe

Himalayas.

Therehadbeenmanyallegationsevenongreatoneslike

SwamiVivekanandawhichwerenotprovedor

substantiated.Buttherecentinstanceshavebeen

painfullywelldocumentedandcourtcases

followed...somewithout-of-courtsettlements.One

advancedphilosophercarriedonhisaffairwithhis

secretary'swifeformanyyears,sendingherto

clandestineabortionclinicperiodically.Thesecretary

wasalsosuedforfinancialimpropriety.Anotheryoung

self-styledyogimarriedhissecretaryandlefthis

devoteesinthelurch.InarecentinstanceinIndia,a

yogiwastakentocourtbyhisownwifewhocouldnot

toleratetheflirtationsofherhusband.

InHindutraditions,ayogineednotbeacelibate.He

canbeafamilyman,withwifeandchildren.Thetwo

illustriousexamplesofhouse-holderyogisareT

KrishnamacharyaandYogendraofYogaInstitute[Santa

Cruz,Mumbai]amongothers.Thereare,ofcourse,monks

whoareyogisandtheywouldbecelibate.

Butmodernyogispretendtobecelibatesandcarryon

theirsexualactivitiesorperversionswithseveral

women.Someevenjustifythishorriblebehaviorasdue

tocompulsionsfromadoringfemalesaroundthemand

theirinabilitytocontroltheurges.

Manywesternwomenassociatetheiryogigurus/teachers

withextra-ordinarypowersacquiredthroughyoga

,besidessomecharismaorphysicalcharm.Unfortunately

suchclaimsarefalseorself-propagated,withoutany

verificationandoftenhearsayreports.Itisdefintelypossibletoacquirecertainintuitive

powersandpowersofhealingbyadvancedyogiswhohad

livedstrictlivesandpractisedlongandhardformany

manyyears.Suchyogisarerarelyseenundertheglare

ofmediapublicity.

Theseyogi-charlatansdonotcomeunderthat

category.Theydonotpossessevenmoderatecleanliness

ofmindtoacquiresuchpowersorqualities.Manyof

themhadreadthePatanjaliYogasutraswithachapter

onsupernatural[siddhi]powers---thatisall.The

naivewesternstudentsaredupedcleverlybythese

yogisandtheirpromoters/students.

ThiscangooninIndiatoo.ButIndiabeingan

overcrowdedcountrywithlittleprivacyinanyashram,

suchnefariousactivitiesaresoonfoundout.Further

withgossip-mongeringintopgear,manyyogisorgurus

ofimmoralbehaviorwillbeexposedsoon.

WhatistrueGuru-Sishyarelationship?

Atrueguruleadsastudentthroughthe

difficultpathofyogaandspiritualgrowth

veryslowly.Hemaytakemonthsandeven

yearstoimpartthistraining.Furtherhe

watchesoverthestudenttominutely

understandhis/herbehaviourandgive

correctionsorsternwarningsfromtimeto

time.Wesaythataguruguidesthestudent

forlife...itisnotsimplyattendinga

structuredcourse,performedinahallor

taughtbycorrespondenceoron-linecourse..

Thissystemimpliesthatthegurucanatthe

mosttrainonly8to12studentsatatime.

SwamiSivananda[DivineLifeSociety,

Rishikesh,India],agreatvedantinandyogi

,didtrainonlyabout30studentsinhis

entirelife.

Masseducationofyogaisanotherthingall

together...ItisnotGuru-sishyatypeof

trainingatall.

Inmoderncontext,theyogisserveasmere

teachersandsotheycanbeforgivenfor

impartingpoortraining.Atthesametime

,thestudentsreceivepackagedlearning,

withoutlearningsubtlepoints.Therefore

onecannotexpecttheGuru-Sishya

relationshiptoflourishasinoldschools.

Thereisverylittleresponsibilityofa

guru/teachertowardshisstudents.The

relationshipisakintothatbetweena

collegeprofessorandhis/herstudents.

Insuchcircumstancesguruscannotexpect

totalsurrenderorallegiancetoa

guru.Thereforeitisneedlesstoregardguru

relationshipsintheclassicalHindu

tradition.

CaveatWithmylongexperienceaboutyogaand

yogis,Icanmakethefollowingcaveator

warningsforyogastudents:

1Checkthebackgroundoftheyogamasters

andtheirinstitutions.Iftheyindulgein

cultishpracticesandwalledenclosures,

withoutaccesstooutsideworld,shunthem.

2Checkalsoforpersonal,financialand

technicalbeckgroundofthemasterandhis

chiefinstructors.

3Avoidanypersonalencountersinclosed

doors,personalinterviewsorcloseted

instruction.

4Donotbelieveintheclaimsof

extra-ordinarypowersorsiddhissuchas

levitation,walkingonwater,

materialisationofobjects[sacredash,

metalobjectsandsoon]..Thesearecheap

tricksundercontrolledconditions.

Thereweregreatyogiswhocoulddivineyour

thoughts,bilocateorpredictyourfuture.

SuchmastersIdonotfindanymore.Somewere

thereoneortwogenerationsago.The

presentdayyogamastersareofmuch

inferiorcaliber.

Thechanceofyourfindingamasterwhocan

exhibitsuchpowers,eveninthehoary

Himalayas,isveryremote.

Themostcommonadvancedfeattheycan

exhibitisstoppingthepulseforafew

minutesandgettingburiedforsomelength

oftimewithoutfoodandoutsideair.But

thenstoppingthefunctioningoftheheart

andrevivingitiscommonwithCPR

techniquesandothermeansandneednotbe

consideredasupernaturalfeat.

5Finally,donotpartwithallyourmoney

orassetstoayogaorganisationorguruand

thenbecomedependentontheGuru...maintain

yourfinancialindependence.Youmaygive

largedonations,providedtheyareaccounted

forvalidexpenses.

Imustaddthattherearegreatyogis,with

sincereteachingtotheircreditand

considerableresearch/therapy

experience---thosegenuinelyinterestedin

theirstudents.Searchforthem.

Asthesayinggoes,ifthestudentisready,

theteacherwillcome---asthedivinelaw

operates..Butthegardenvarietyteachers,

withlotofadvertisementsandbillboards

topromotethemaremoney-makingcharlatans

andthedictum"CustomerBeware"appliesto

theworldofyogaaswell.

------OmTatSat---