“With the exception of the imperial offspring of the Ming dynasty and the dauphins of pre-Revolutionary France, contemporary American kids may represent the most indulged young people in the history of the world”

Elizabeth Kolbert (SPOILED ROTTEN: Why do kids rule the roost?)

Today’s Teenagers

There are always exceptions to the rule where we read of amazing children.

That said, ours is a culture of kids who are growing into “big kids” or “adultescence”: “An adult who continues to participate in and enjoy youth culture.” (wikipedia).

Common for Teens of Today

Other Cultures

Jews: Boys(13)/girls(12) – obligated to keep the commandments of the Law of Moses (Torah); (boys) take part in the worship services; form binding contracts; testify before religious courts; marry.

3rd world countries: children (as early as 3 years old) work to benefit their families. It is expected.

It is Possible ~ Responsible by 12 It is reasonable to expect our children to be

responsible by the age of 12: Ladies: cook, care for young children, etc. Men: labor, seeking true wisdom, etc.

Let’s use God’s inspired word to lead us in a biblically sound standard “divine expectations for our teenagers”

Jesus12 Years Old

Passover Feast: Lk. 2:41-52 Jesus’ parents made the trip: every year. Vs. 41-42 Jesus stayed behind. Vss. 43-45 His parents found him… vss. 46-48a

in the temple in the midst of teachers Listening to teachers; asking them questions (Teachers) were amazed at His understanding and questions

He spoke to his parents with maturity. Vs. 48b-49 He subjected himself to his parents. V. 51 Conclusion: Jesus increased in wisdom/stature; in favor with

God and men. V. 52

EXPECTING MORE FROM OUR CHILDREN TODAY

Teenagers should obey immediately If your child does not obey immediately then that he has chosen when/if he will obey: it is on his terms, not those over him. If your child obeys but not kindly (respectfully): then he has not displayed honor to his parent. Eph. 6:2 (cp. 1 Jn. 5:3)

Teens Should Not Be Reminded:

To wake up, do their work (school, home, chores). To show respect to all people: siblings, parents,

others (friends, adults). Ultimately, parents should expect that their

teenagers to live as adults: with purpose, destiny, and responsibility.

Conclusion Do you expect what the parents expected from Jesus?

Teens: are you patterning your life after the twelve year old Jesus?