Why Men Cheat!

Is having more than one woman a badge of honor amongst men or are they simply unsatisfied with one woman?

For years, both women and men have studied this subject and are simply unable to come up with a real definitive answer as to why men cheat! Studies have shown that there are more available men than available women and this tends to tip the scales in favor of the man. But is that enough for him to cheat? Some women who have experienced relationships where infidelity was an issue have always looked internally to try to identify with what could possibly be the problem. Women tend to think that somehow, their unfaithful man and his wayward eyes are a result of something they lack. Even when caught in the act, the woman will often size up the competition with an extensive analysis wondering what it is about her. Keep in mind that she is forced to assume what attracted her guy to the other woman to begin with, because he is certainly not going to tell her the truth. At least not the truth that she wants to hear or will ease her broken heart.

And so it begins for the female who has just learned that her love, her partner in life or significant other has cheated! Many men will say that talking to another woman is not cheating. Some will even say that kissing another woman is also not a sign or sure tale of infidelity. Now the extremists will attempt to convince you that having sex with

someone outside of the relationship is nothing more than sex if there is no emotional attachment and thus not cheating either. Are these men delusional? Or is there something that they are not getting in the relationship that causes them to look elsewhere? Is the lack of fulfillment with one woman a reflection on her deficits or is it his inability to control his natural hormones and urges to be with someone of the opposite sex? One may never get the answer to this question and who knows if there even is one!