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Where Is the Love?Students Eschew Campus
Romance
Abby Fritch And
Tiffanie Heestand
College Romance
Campus romances are becoming a thing of the past
Gone are the days of sorority houses and dorms being marked with candle-passing ceremonies signifying a new engagement
No longer are “The Old Pump” at Purdue University and “Kissing Tree” at Transylvania University major hot spots.
College life today has become competitive Students are focused on careers Many students aren’t going to college to look
for their spouses anymore.
Martial Hunting Ground
According to a study conducted in 1992 containing 3,432 adults•23% of married couples reported
meeting in school or college
•While 15% reported work as the place they met their spouse
Martial Hunting Ground
According to a 2006 Harris Interactive study of 2,985 adults•14% of people who are married or in
a relationship say they met in college or school
•While 18% claim to have met at work
Reasons
Researchers cite a couple of factors as the reason for the decline in married/dating couples meeting in college•Young adults are delaying marriage
• 15 years ago the median age for first marriage for men 26.3 and women 24.1
• Today the median age for first marriage is 27.5 for men and 25.5 for women
Reasons
•Credential Inflation• An increase in the qualifications required
for many skilled jobs
•Flexibility to relocate freely
•Ability to immerse themselves in new work
•Educational Opportunities
Relationships
College students today feel light relationships won’t compromise what they want to do in their future, such as where to go to grad school or what job they should take
Students today are having fun on group date
Also they find deep, but platonic male-female friendships are easier (more common)
Dating
Concerned Parents need not worry, many young adults return to traditional dating after graduation
Young adults today want to find a quality person, good person to marry
Stronger Marriages Forged on Campus or the Work World?
Sue Shellenbarger’s Opinion
Concerned after she reported the fewer college students are finding their mates on campus, and report the office replaces school as the Number 1 place for pairing up.
Today’s numbers of young males not marrying till 27.5 and women not till 25.5 are the highest levels ever recorded by the Census Bureau since 1890
This new trend toward marrying later is proceeding at a breakneck pace
Sue Shellenbarger’s Opinion
Saw the same trend when she looked at her own family• Sue’s parents met in high school • Her older siblings met their spouses in
undergraduate school • Sue waited until after she established her career
and began working before she met and married her husband
• Her three Gen-X kids followed in her footsteps and waited until they began working to met and marry their spouses
• While her two Gen-Y kids, aged 17 and 20 claim they will wait even longer to get married
Sue Shellenbarger’s Opinion
Feels college campuses should be the place where college students meet their potential life partners
College life allows you to observe each other as whole people across many contexts, including work, social, residential, and extracurricular life.
Sue Shellenbarger’s Opinion
Feels the office romance tends to be shaped more often by a partners’ relative power, influence, job skills and/or status
Office lovers have less of an opportunity to get to know their partners in the broader context of an around-the-clock community
Office romances are often more pushed for spending time together than college romances
Sue Shellenbarger’s Opinion
Maybe instead of focusing on where we met our spouses, we should think more deeply about why we choose them
In the end why we choose them should be the most important factor, not if you met them in college or at work