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WhatGodIntended.com
CONTROLCONTROL
PlacaterPlacater BlamerBlamer
DistracterDistracterRationalizerRationalizer
Thought
Emotions
Relationships
Non-Relational
CONTROLCONTROL
PlacaterPlacater BlamerBlamer
DistracterDistracterRationalizerRationalizer
BlamerBlamer
PlacaterPlacater
RationalizerRationalizer
DistracterDistracter
DRIVERSDRIVERS
AngerAnger
AnxietyAnxiety
AbsentAbsent
ShameShame
LOVELOVE
DescriptiveDescriptiveNon-Non-ControllingControlling
PeacefulPeacefulTruthfulTruthful
Ephesians 4:15
While continually speaking the truth . . .
Ephesians 4:15
While continually speaking the truth in Love . . . {for the other person’s benefit}
Colossians 3:12
“Clothe yourselves, as
the chosen of God, holy and permanently
loved with intestines of tender mercies”
Colossians 3:12
“Clothe yourselves, as
the chosen of God, holy and permanently
loved with responses of tender mercies”
God’s Anger Management
Psalm 30:5 For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for a lifetime; Weeping may last for the night, But a shout of joy comes in the morning.
Unhealthy Communication
Leaves People in the Dark
How To Be Biblically Angry
• Share the feelings
• Share the thoughts
• For the other person’s benefit
• Trusting God
Hurts Are Important
Hurts reflect Hurts reflect your deepest your deepest values! They values! They define who you define who you are!are!
Rationalizer
IIGGNNOORREE
IIGGNNOORREE
IIGGNNOORREE
Rationalizer
IIGGNNOORREE
IIGGNNOORREE
Rationalizer
IIGGNNOORREE
Rationalizer
WithdrawnWithdrawn
CondescendsCondescends
To deal with people in a patronizingly superior manner
Distracter
In PainIn Pain
WretchednessWretchedness
TTRRAASSHH
TTRRAASSHH
TTRRAASSHH
Placater
DefenselessDefenseless
DepressionDepression
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Blamer
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EXPLODEEXPLODE
Don’t let it lead to sin! Don’t wake up with it! Don’t give devil a foothold! Don’t use it to justify wrong! Don’t speak inappropriately! Don’t hurt the Holy Spirit! Don’t get bitter!
Ephesians 4:26 - 29
Get Angry Enough
To Become ACTIVE! (28)
To EDIFY! (29b)
Ephesians 4:26 - 29
The Spirit of ForgivenessEph. 4:30 Stop
grieving the Spirit 4:31
Let all bitterness, wrath . . be put away from you,
4:32 Be kind, tender hearted, forgiving
Spirit is Present PERMANENTLY
Spirit takes away HATE
We cooperate by FORGIVENESS
Don’t Blow Snow
• Communicate• What you Feel• What you Think• And Forgive
Don’t Hang Onto Hurt
• Learn the art of forgiving
• Allow the Holy Spirit to work Eph. 4:30-31
• Just like GOD 4:32
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