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    Verbal and Non Verbal

    Communication

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    If we spoke a different language, we wouldperceive a different world (Wittgenstein).

    Language is the roadmap of a culture. It tells you

    where its people came from and where they aregoing (Brown).

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    Serves as a communication exchange

    Organizes people into groups according to

    age, gender and even socio-income level

    Allows individuals to engage in cooperative

    activity

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    What is language?

    Language is a set of shared symbols or

    signs that a cooperative groups of people

    has mutually agreed to use to create

    meaning.

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    Language Variations:Accent

    Dialect

    Argot (a private vocabulary peculiar to a

    co-culture)Slang

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    Language as it Reflects Cultural Values:

    High and Low Power Distance (formal/informal)

    Individualism and Collectivism

    High and Low Context

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    Verbal CommunicationLanguage & Culture:

    The Essential Partnership

    Multicultural Interactions:Speech Rate slow down!

    Vocabulary avoid jargon

    Monitor nonverbal feedback

    Checking (so do you mean?)

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    Nonverbal Communication(The Silent Language):

    Messages of Action, Space,Time and Silence

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Usually responsible for first impressionsDoesnt lie (a clenched jaw shows youre

    angry or stammering speech shows that

    youre nervous)

    Is culture bound

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Two General Classifications

    1. Those primarily produced by the body

    (appearance, movement, facial expression,

    eye contact, touch, smell, and paralanguage)

    2. Those combined with setting (space, time andsilence)

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    There is a story about the presidential debate of Nixon and Kennedy in

    1960 where people listening via radio awarded the victory to Nixon while

    those watching the debate on television awarded the victory to Kennedy.

    This was explained by the fact that though President Nixon had very

    persuasive words during the debate, he was tense, sweating and seemed

    quite uncomfortable. On the other hand, President Kennedy was relaxed

    and able to convey a positive and convincing body language during the

    debate. Since that incident, researchers have demonstrated that a

    message is perceived in 3 different ways:

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Body Language (kinesics)

    Kinesics are the physical cues that are visibleand send a message about 1) your attitudetoward the other person, 2) your emotional

    state, 3) your relationship with the environment

    Kinesics includes body posture, body motion,gestures, facial expressions, eye contact.

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Eye Contact

    In American culture, we reveal whom we like and dislike just by the amountthat we look at them. We generally look most at those whom we like . In

    general, people avoid looking at someone they dont like.

    As people increase their liking for one another, they increase the amount

    of mutual gazing that they do. (Mutual gaze is when two people are looking

    into each other's eyes). The most obvious example of this occurs along thecontinuum of relationships. Romantic relationships have the highest

    amount of mutual gaze.

    What about other cultures?.

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Sense of Touch (haptics)

    Who can touch whom, where, when and how

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Physical Appearance:

    Body artifacts (clothing, piercings, tattoos) and

    attractiveness

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Environmental Factors

    Elements of setting that affect how we feel

    and act (color, temperature, lighting, room

    design)

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Space and Distance (proxemics)

    Personal space (intimate, personal, socialand public

    Seating

    Furniture arranging

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Time (chronemics)

    Informal time (how late is late?)

    Perceptions of past, present and future

    Monochronic (fixed) and polychronic (holistictime) (Edward T. Hall)

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Paralanguage:

    Paralanguage are the sounds that dont have written

    form that modify meaning or convey emotion.

    Includes: rate, sounds, murmurs, gasps, volume,

    pitch, inflection, laughing, high speed

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Silence : East vs. West

    What is real is, and when it is spoken it

    becomes unreal. (Buddhism)The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

    (American saying)

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    Nonverbal

    Communication

    Artifacts

    Elements of the environment that

    communicate by virtue of peoples use of

    them.