“There is something within us that gives meaning to life, something that provides the basis for ranking our various needs,

wants and goals.”

What are values? Qualities, characteristic or ideas about which we

feel very strong.

Our values affect our decisions, goals and behavior.

They are standards to guide your actions, judgments and attitudes.

They define what is of worth, what is beneficial and what is harmful.

Base everyday choices on your values and goals.

Where do you get values?

Characteristics of Values Characteristics of Values

Values are personal Values are personal Our actions point to what we really Our actions point to what we really

value value Our values give us our perception of Our values give us our perception of

the world the world Inconsistent behavior may indicate an Inconsistent behavior may indicate an

absence of values absence of values Values change as experiences change Values change as experiences change

Where do you get values?

Different people and things influence you at different ages: Ages 1-7: Parents Ages 8-13: Teachers, Heroes Ages 14-20: Peers Ages 21+: Your values are established,

but you may test your values from time to time.

Types of Values Moral

What is right or wrong; thoughts or codes by which to live.

Examples?

Types of Values

Aesthetic Values that reflect your feelings

about what has beauty in nature and life.

They reveal appreciation for the way things look, sound, feel, taste and smell.

Types of Values Material

Values that reflect the possessions we own; the things on which we spend our money.

Types of Values

Intrinsic Values for things or ideas that have value to

us in their own right (antique car, a best friend, your grandpa)

Types of Values

Extrinsic – Values that are important because they help us gain other values or desired results. antique car is worth a lot of money You are friends with someone because they You are friends with someone because they

are good at a sport and they can help you get are good at a sport and they can help you get better.better.

Types of Values

Universal Values to which most people agree. equality, respect of others, life, world peace

Types of Values

Group Specific Values that differ from state to state or

region to region. US: value time – in hurry Europeans: value people – take time to

talk.

ActivityActivity

Complete “Insights Into Your Values”Complete “Insights Into Your Values”

Living My Values Activity

1. Fold piece of paper in half (hamburger style), leave folded.

2. List 10 things you spend your time doing (activities).

3. Turn page over. List your 5 most important values.

4. Open paper. Draw lines to match the value to the activity.

5. How do they match up?

6. Do you need to re-evaluate your values or how you spend your time?

If you remain in touch with your values, you will achieve your goals.

Base everyday choices on your values and goals.

Don’t climb a ladder that’s leaning against the wrong wall.

Values

Personal Pyramid

VALUES

Long Term Goals

Intermediate Goals

Daily Tasks