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VCM's May 2013 Edition spotlights the upcoming Island Of Praise on South Padre Island featuring known Christian Artist - Josh Wilson! Memorial Highschool's Carissa Ortegon on Mission Trips; Casting Crown Pics; Articles on marriage, control; committment, power of words, motherhood; special event announcements; new books and music releases; and so much more! Pick up your copy today or register online to get VCM delivered in your email box!

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Motherhood p24

June 8th-Schlitterbahn WaterparkJosh WilsonJosh Wilson

Island of Praise welcomes

…Send Mep12

“I never fully understood that Jesus is all that I

need until he was all that I had.”

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indexFeatures 8 Casting Crowns//VeggieTales Pics!12 Carissa Ortegon // Mission Trips20 Roy & Cindy Cervantes // IOP 201326 Forgiven Motorcycle Ministry28 Kids Talk About God30 Fellowship of Christian Athletes32 Books34 Events // New Releases36 Music Spotlight: Josh Wilson36 96.9 KVMV Top 9 Tunes

On The CoverJosh Wilson Live In ConcertIsland of Praise - June 8 South Padre Island

National Columnists10 James MacDonald16 Lysa Terkeurst18 Greg Laurie38 Dave Ramsey

Valley Contributors14 Abram Gomez22 Jerrell Jobe24 Theresa Valladares32 Miguel Paredes

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Roy & Cindy Cervantes of Island of Praise

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Smile…Casting

Crown Pics!Photos by Lance Krueger

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Scholarship Presentation:

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On Friday, March 29, Diego Vela from Harvest Christian Academy in Edinburg was awarded a

soccer scholarship from the Lindenwood University in Belleville, Illinois. Diego was Christian Soccer League Champion in the valley and a District TAPPS Champion, also he was awarded with the TAPPS District Soccer MVP award. Congratulations Diego! ~VCM

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Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, “This man began to build and was not able to finish.” Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? Luke 14:27-31We have been going through seven words that can shape and change your family. Three were healing words: forgiveness, blessing, and honor. Now we reach the last of three building words: truth, church, and finally, commitment.Many of us know commitment is a powerful tool for family transformation, but we haven’t really considered the conditions commitment requires.Every family you respect and admire—and rightly so—has problems, too. In a fallen world there are no perfect families. But at the center of those that are healthy is this word: commitment. Commitment is a total, unswerving, unalterable lifetime decision to do life together under God. Commitment is a powerful tool for family transformation.You say, “Well, I want commitment like that in my family.”

Here are four characteristics you need in your commitment or it won’t be the power God wants it to be in your home:

• First, commitment must be total. It’s not conditional or temporary. We’re in this for the long haul. The worst moments and difficult situations don’t change the fact we’re family. It’s the context in which we live out what we believe about life.

• Second, commitment is a powerful tool for family transformation when the cost is calculated. Jesus said, “Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.” Count the cost. The cross there is a symbol of hardship. Commitment is not easy.

• Third, commitment is going strong when the course is finished. Notice the alternative: “Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him.” The word mock means literally to play with or tease a child. “Billy, you couldn’t finish your tower. What were you thinking?”

• The final characteristic of powerful commitment is when the price is paid. You see, a price is going to have to be paid. Jesus gives another illustration in verse 31: “Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able…” Families who stay together and keep growing, only until hardship comes or conflict arises never experience the power of commitment.

Don’t miss the power of commitment in your family. Ask God to participate in your life together.

Journal -What part of commitment needs fresh attention in my family?

-When and how will I address that need?

PrayFather, Your Son taught and demonstrated commitment by carrying out Your will in the world and obtaining our salvation. Thank You for letting go of Him for our sake. Help us as a family to identify places where our commitment can be strengthened by Your Word and Your presence. We want Your power to be exercised in our family life.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen

Commitmentby James MacDonald

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Carissa Ortegon, 17, McAllen Memorial High school Junior; attends Valley Community on Sunday & The Family Church on Wednesdays.

The Ortegon Family (pictured left to right):

Dianni, Ysabella, Carissa, Victor, Deldi

What Ministry type of organizations do you belong to?At school I’m apart of Fish Connections and Ministry Group - Teen Mania Ministry Global Changers.What is Fish Connections?It’s at our school…we have bible study, worship, prayer and conversations…all grades attend. We started out with around 5 kids and now we’re over 20. They’re like family. God is working and transforming each one in our group. How did you get plugged into Teen Mania - Global Expeditions?I had a friend of mine who was already involved and she was really excited for me to go too.Where have the Mission Trips taken you?Dallas, New York, Panama & Baja. Zam-bia, Africa is next!What did you do while there?While in Panama, we mainly did chil-dren’s Ministry. It wasn’t all just that. That was what we trained for. We did so many other things…like hut-to-hut ministries.What’s that?Hut-to-Hut Ministries is basically servant evangelism. We would walk around the neighborhoods and get to know people.How important was that?It was crucial. It was more than just pre-senting the gospel in 2 minutes. It was spending hours upon hours with different families…explaining the gospel while dig-ging into the Word. It was the beginning of discipling them.How long were you in Panama?a month!And Mom, how did you feel about her being in Panama for that long?The most amazing thing for me was that I was only able to talk to her twice and I missed a couple of call on top of that! I said thank you Lord because I got to listen to her voice mails…As a parent you want your child to grow in Christ yet when it’s time to let them go on Mission Trips around the world…how do you as a mom let your child go?It’s been a growing process with God…I’m having to really trust. So the first trip we kept her close and only sent her to Dallas for about a week. She was only 13!

When she left for Panama, I had people getting after me about letting her out of the country. It was not an easy thing, but I realized that she belong to Him. This is her calling. It’s been tough but worth it. It’s always tough to let them grow up and “lose” them but it’s exciting to “lose” them to the Lord!And Baja, how different was that trip?It was really different. My team was so solid. We built a house for a family and had a Vacation Bible School for the kids in the area and I was one of the main translators.Share something special that happened on that trip…I think of the last day of VBS. We normally prepare a bible les-son but my leader shared that we are going to do some-thing different. My leader shared that we were going to share out testimo-ny and I was like ‘I knew it!” God woke

me up that morning to get me ready to share.

We were outside, the Pastor preached and shared the Gospel. It was so genu-ine. We really felt God’s presence. There was this man who was in a walker. He walked really slow...you can tell some-thing was wrong with his legs. He took a long time to get to the front. We started praying for him and laid hands on his legs. As we were praying and I felt the Holy Spirit speak through us and use us. He stood up and started walking without his walker! It was amazing. As we were driving off in our bus we saw him go-ing up the hill without his walker! Praise

God! People came and got to know the Lord and people were healed. Just like in the Bible when the gospel was preached and miracles would happen….we saw that first hand! Miracles Happen!

It’s just so incredible that, that’s the God I serve. He heals people! …and that’s just one story!

How has this effected your look in high school?It has given me a bigger heart for people at my school. God has given me eyes for wherever I’m at. Today on the bus, I was able to share the gospel to a girl who was sitting near me. She accepted Christ!

Being real…not being shallow but having that heart to really speak with them and have the heart like Jesus. Sharing the love of Christ in a real way…a way they get.How has that effected your friends?They tell me…Carissa, I see this Joy that is different about you. You make my day so much brighter. People know that they can come up and talk to me, ask me question and get a real answer.How about your friends, are they going on Mission Trips too?It’s great to see how God is working in each of our lives. There are about 10 of us going on different Mission trips this year. My friend Karla is going to Nepal…Amy is going to India, Saul and my sister

Isabella are going to Brook-lyn, Orly is going to Alaska, Paul and Donovan are going to Ecuador, Eli and Ruby are going to South Africa. Stephen is going somewhere….he doesn’t know where but he knows

... Send Me”Christian & Stephanie Torres of Valley Christian Magazine sat down with Carissa Ortegon, a junior at McAllen Memorial High school to discuss how she and a number of her friends have reached out and made a difference simply by saying… “I’ll go

Going on a short term mission trip is something everyone should experience…everybody can be used

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God is calling him to go somewhere. It’s not because I or someone else went on a mission trip. They see the impor-tance of sharing the Gospel.

Share about your local group Fish Connections.We are at Memorial High school.

We raise all our own funds and through the group we started Missions Monday. We sell candy…it’s been amazing to see God provide for all our needs and even go beyond. God has touched our hearts. We are reaching out both here at school and abroad. God is moving. God is making himself known through us.

We meet on Thursdays in an art room at Memorial High school in McAllen. On Mondays, we make things to sell to help raise money for missions. Money is not what we’re looking for…I’d much rath-er have prayer!

This is my heartbeat. I know this is God’s calling for me. God has given me a big-ger heart for his people. It’s so real.Carissa shared her declaration of being a world changer...Today, I will live honorably through my thoughts, actions, and speech. I choose to be full of faith; I will not only be a hearer but a doer of the Word of God. I will serve before I demand, I will love and not hate, and I will give before I take. Today, I choose to make a difference in this world and to be a part of something bigger than myself. I choose to dedicate my life to prayer and ask God for His miraculous power and the courage to do the impossible. I will make Godly relationships a priority in my life as I esteem others higher than myself. To-day, I will live my life in such a way that I Will Change the World.If somweone had questions on how to go to a mission trip, what should they do?They should ask me!! Ask their church. Pray about where they should go….God will lead you where you should go. No matter your age…God can use you. You can make a difference. 1 Timothy 4:12 Don’t anybody look down on you because you are young. Set an exam-ple for the believers…..No matter how young or old you are…God wants to use you! You have to be ready to say Send Me! You can change the world!What if someone says they’re not qualified to go on a mission trip?I’d say you’re right! You’re not quali-fied…the Lord will make you qualified! If I try to go out on my own strength and use my own words…it’s nothing! I’ll fail. I have to let God take control. He will give me the words to speak…it’s through Him that each one can make a difference. You have to be obedient and do it. It’s scary but the Holy Spirit will be with you. Will you let Him lead? Will you follow…

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Yet, there are challenges and tests we must go through to refine our character and strengthen our faith. Last month, we began to look at the life of Joseph located within the pages of Genesis. Joseph had a destiny, and it was to serve a much greater purpose than he ever realized. Nevertheless, Joseph had to experience a series of tests that would enable and equip him for the assignment the Lord had placed over his life. One of the early tests he had to endure was the Pit Test. Joseph was delivered from the pit by being sold as a slave. He found himself in the house of Potiphar, who was an officer of Pharaoh. Because the Lord was with him, Joseph was made an overseer in his house. Even in this part of the journey, Joseph is not exempt from tests and temptations. The wife of Potiphar desires to sleep with Joseph, but he refuses. In an unguarded moment, she grabs his garment and accuses him of sexual harassment. The anger of Potiphar is aroused, and Joseph is thrown into prison.

Prison is a confined place with limited access and liberty. Joseph ended up in prison because he made the right choice. He was wrongly accused. Sometimes you will feel like you are in your own personal prison even when you have been obedient to God. But it is just another test. Maybe you feel confined to a certain location but you know that you know God has you there. Maybe you feel imprisoned at your job because you choose integrity over deceitfulness. Or, maybe you feel incarcerated by your current season of life and spiritual parole seems to be a farfetched fantasy. Again, it is only a test. Here are several things we can learn from Joseph while he was in the prison.

1The Prison teaches you to keep GOING. This specific test would be the longest

Joseph would have to endure. It lasted two years! Perseverance is necessary ingredient for a person to complete the journey. It is the steadfastness of doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success. Joseph could have lost hope, but he kept moving forward. There will be times where you may not be able to move forward physically, but at least you can move forward in your mind and spirit. God wants to teach us how to keep going when others would have stopped. Destinies are not found in comfortable places or comfort zones. The prison teaches me to remain under, and to stand fast. Abraham waited 25 years for the birth of Isaac. Moses waited 40 years until he appeared before Pharaoh.

David waited 13 years before he assumed the throne. Don’t give up because you are closer than you think!

2The Prison teaches you to keep DOING. Even while in prison, Joseph did not

stop what he was capable of doing. The scripture teaches us that Joseph was made the overseer of the other prisoners. Some of us don’t feel like giving our best because we don’t like our environment or the current conditions. Because of our dissatisfaction with our jobs, we perform poorly and we withhold what we are really capable of doing. Yet, this could be a test to see if you will still produce what God has placed inside of you. It could possibly be a temporary holding place! Pay attention to the spider. A spider can be placed inside a home or outside among the bushes. Wherever you place it, the spider is going to produce webs. Why? Because of the internal skill set and genetic makeup it possesses. You will always produce what is on the inside of you. If you have greatness on the inside, it will come out even in the dark obscure places. If you have faith on the inside, it will manifest in the middle of a storm. God wants to see if He can place you somewhere and you be the change!

3The Prison teaches you to keep SERVING. Joseph might have been in a

prison, but he was not alone. There were other prisoners that were serving time as well. You may have been so focused on you that perhaps you didn’t notice the people around you in dire need of hope and grace. What if God placed you there to be a blessing to them? Understand that you are gifted to be a blessing. Your gift could be the solution to their problem. Joseph used his gifts to serve others. One version of Scripture states that “he took care of them” which means he literally ministered to their needs. Because of his willingness, he interpreted dreams for a baker and butler while in prison. It was his service to their needs that became the means to his final deliverance. At that moment, it seemed to have no great significance in his life. He was just serving. But, it was his faithful ministry in the prison that opened the door for a far greater ministry in the palace. Joseph released interpretations while in prison. Paul and Silas released praises while in prison. Don’t let the prison stop you from releasing what God has placed inside of you. Others are depending on your gift and service to set them free!

Do not be afraid of the PRISON TESTS of life. Be encouraged to know that if God be for you, who can be against you?

The Journey of Joseph THE PIT TEST // Part 2

is the Executive Pastor at Valley International Christian Center in San Benito, Texas. He serves under the Leadership of Bishop Jaime Loya, and

is a graduate of Southwestern Assemblies of God University. Abram has helped to develop leadership in various ministries and programs at

VICC. He and his wife, Rebecca, currently reside in Harlingen, TX and are parents to Isabella Claire.

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We all have a destiny. Through Christ, we all have been favored

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14 years ago I was stuck in a

rut of want. There was an opportunity that looked

so promising. A publisher expressed genuine interest

in my writing. It seemed to be right. It felt right. I wanted it to be right. It

must be right!

But it never came to pass.In my most mature moments I reasoned, “It wasn’t meant to be. I trust God and believe in His perfect plans.”In my not-so-mature moments I wondered, “God, this isn’t fair. Why do You keep saying no?”And in my immature moments I whined, “God, do You care this hurts me?”Have you ever been there?Ruts of want are tough places to be stuck.When God says no, we are sometimes tempted to wonder if He loves us. In reality, it’s because He loves us, He sometimes says no.Read that last sentence again and rub it into your heart. The hurting part. The part that throbs and aches when you see others getting the exact opportunity you want. You fake a smile to hide the pain.God brought this change of perspective to me through a baking disaster that happened to my youngest daughter Brooke. She came to me at 9 o’clock one night and asked if she and her friend could bake a cake.Hope, Brooke’s older sister, had offered to help and I was too tired to argue the incessant pleas of a nine-year-old.So, the girls began to bake.Brooke measured and poured, whipped and stirred, and carefully placed a batter-filled cake pan into the oven. Then she turned on the oven light and watched the cake bake. Her cake became her whole focus. She couldn’t stop looking at the cake and grew increasingly impatient with the slow-passing minutes on the timer.

Escaping the Rut of Want

By Lysa Terkeurst

“Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Proverbs 16:3 (NIV)

Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times best selling author and speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith through following Jesus Christ. As president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa has lead thousands over the past 15 years to help make their walk with God an invigorating journey. In the midst of her ministry, though, Lysa is a real, everyday woman who simply

seeks to glorify God through her life and family.

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Nothing kills patience like solely focusing on the object of your desire. And tragically, impatience becomes the breeding ground for compromise.About 30 minutes into the 45-minute baking time, the cake looked done. It smelled done. Brooke and her friend wanted it to be done. She reasoned it must be done!Hope helped retrieve the cake and placed it on the counter to cool.And it wasn’t long until the cake imploded.The cake couldn’t withstand the pressure of an undone center ... and neither can we.If we obsess over the cake and make it our whole focus, character atrophies. If we make growing in godliness our obsession and keep our focus on God, our character matures. And a mature character makes for a solid and well-done center.I thank God every day for every “no” He has graciously allowed and continues to allow in my life. Our key verse Proverbs 16:3 teaches, “Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Through placing my focus on God, I have embraced His plans for me, and I trust that a “no” from Him is really a blessing.I used to pray, “God, let me, let me, let me!”I now pray, “God, please never let my success outgrow the character necessary to handle it.”Indeed, it’s because God loves us, He sometimes says no.Dear Lord, although I don’t always understand, thank You for saying “no.” I know that You do so as a measure of protection for me. Help me to embrace Your best for my life, Father. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Reflect and Respond: What “no” have you thanked God for lately?Soak in the truths of our key verse and power verses. Then, think about instances in the past where a “no” from God has really been a blessing in disguise. Use these tools in an area of your life that needs reminding of His faithfulness now.

Power Verses: Psalm 31:14-15a, “But I trust in you, LORD; I say, ‘You are my God.’ My times are in your hands.” (NIV)Proverbs 16:9, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” (NIV)

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Greg Laurieis Senior Pastor of Harvest Christian Fellowship

in Riverside, Calif. He began his pastoral ministry at 19 by leading a Bible study of 30 people.

Since then, God has transformed the small group into a church of 15,000 plus, one of the largest

churches in America. For more, visit www.greglaurie.com.

Used by permission from Harvest Ministries with Greg Laurie, PO Box 4000 Riverside, CA 92514

Statement One“Father, forgive them for they know not what

they do.” Luke 23:34Do you realize that you are in need of the Father’s

forgiveness?

Statement Two“Today you will with Me in Paradise.” Luke 23:43Have you realized and confessed Jesus as your personal

Savior?

Statement Three“Woman, behold your son.” John 19:26

Jesus is concerned for us and provides for all of us. _______________________________

Statement Four“My God, My God, why have You forsaken

Me?” Matthew 27:46Jesus was forsaken so we don’t have to be.

Statement Five“I thirst!” John 19:28

This personal statement reminds us that Jesus is not only God, but He also was man. Jesus identifies with our

needs.

Statement Six“It is finished!” John 19:30

Jesus paid for our sins, and sin’s control over our lives is broken!

Statement Seven“Into Your hands I commit My spirit.” Luke 23:46

You can entrust your life into God’s hands.If you are reading this today and you’ve never committed your life to Jesus Christ, would you click [Knowing God

link] and confess Him as Your Savior and Lord?

The Power of Christ’s Words

By Greg Laurie

Christ’ passionate love for the world is evident in His statements from

the Cross:

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What is island of praise - IOP?IOP is a worship event held at South Padre Island

that was created 5 years ago. We do it because its worth it. People are connected in a huge way. So many people are at the island and may for the first time hear the gospel through song. We donate our time and give away the money that IOP raises to different local and national charities. This year we are partnering with a non-profit group called Crossroads Academy. They will be offering GED classes along with a food bank. We are asking people to bring canned food or clothing to assist Crossroads Academy as they get ready to assist many here in the Valley.

Tell us the history of IOP?When we first started back in 2007 we started with 1

stage and 9 bands all held at Isla Blanca Park. The 2nd year, we had 2 stages and 18 bands. The 3rd year we grew to 3 stages and partnered with Schlitterbahn Water Park. That year we formed a 501c3 non profit. Last year it grew to 6 stages and this year we are praying to have 4 stages at Isla Blanca Beach and 2 at Schlitterbahn Water Park!

Where Are This Years Stages Going To Be Held?

The Main stage at Schlitterbahn is located by the main entrance. There is a big Palapa and the lazy river flows right next to it. The second Schlitterbahn stage is planned to be toward the middle of the park where the new park connects with the existing known park. We are planning on having 10 bands on the side stage and 8 bands plus our Josh Wilson on the main stage. (We are excited about Josh Wilson by the way….) Along with 4 additional stages out at Isla Blanca Park.

IslandValley Christian Magazine sat down with Roy & Cindy Cervantes of Island of Praise to get a behind the scenes look into this incredible valley ministry.

of Praise

How Many People Usually Attend The Event?

We usually have around 8,000 people at Isla Blanca Park and another 8,000 at Schlitterbahn. It’s one of the largest Christian Music events in South Texas.

What prompted you all to start IOP?We were going to church at BT McAllen and back

one night at BT when Jobe Gonzalez lead a night of worship. We were so touched that we started looking to take what happened outside the church. We went to the island and next thing we knew we had a license agreement to host our first event. We had incredible help from the Mayor of Port Isabel - Joe Vela

What Should People Expect At Iop?They should expect an outpouring of God’s love that

day. Through music…song. It’s not an event where you will be preached at or hit over your head with a bible. We are aware that there are many non-christians there at the beach and we want to share the love of Christ to them in a non-threatening way. They are getting God’s word through the words of the songs that are being sung by worship leaders from across the valley. They aren’t just bands there to perform but they are actual worship leaders from all across the valley. They are giving of their time to share God’s love and watch what God will do through that. God has restored lives and brought people to the knowledge of Christ through this event. We prepare for an entire year for this event. There are and have been praying for people. People will sense God’s love and presence that day!

Where will IOP be this year?Wow, we are bringing in Josh Wilson on the main

stage inside Schlitterbahn. We are also brining in Raul

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Sanchez at Isla Blanca Beach. Raul is without a doubt one of the top 10 accordionists in the country. We are also having one stage specifically for Christian rap….this should connect with the younger crowd.

When can people start getting there?If they want to beat traffic, before 12 o’clock! Bands

are playing all day so really whenever you can get there. The Event starts at 10 am and goes through 8:00 pm.

How much does this cost?At Isla Blanca, all the events are free but if you want

to park your vehicle at Isla Blanca, they charge $5. Schlitterbahn tickets are $30. That includes all the access to the park, all the bands and the concert with Josh Wilson. Tickets normally cost $55…so you are getting a great value!

Where could people get tickets?www.islandofpraise.com has a complete listing

people and places that are selling tickets.

How can someone get involved?Send an email to us at [email protected].

We will respond and see how best they could serve and get involved! Bands…get your request in early! We already have over 60 bands registered!

Last thoughts...We will have Pastor Pepe Cervantes of Lifeline in

Harlingen sharing a message of hope and peace that day as well. We are excited and can’t wait to offer this to the people of the RGV! Praise be to God!

of Praise

Here is a partial listing of some

of the Bands and Worship teams that

will be featured:Raul Sanchez - Miami Fl

BT McAllenLife line Church - Harlingen

Abundant Grace Church - Edinburg

Trinity Worship Center - Pharr

CanzionLiving Word Church - Alto BonitoRiver of MercyAlianza Cristiana Del Valle

- EdinburgFirst Baptist Church - MissionHighest Praise - MissionThe Hero PrevailsRenuevoMessengers

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It was during the later part of the year, in the middle of the1800’s, that a fascinating story emerged within an

obscure Russian village, in a small church, deep within the heart of a nameless peasant. It was a Sunday like any other. The lowly peasant entered the back of the church just as the New Testament book First Thessalo-nians was being read. He took his seat and began to listen to the words of the text. As the Apostle Paul’s clos-ing comments were being read a particular statement, the seventeenth verse of the fifth chapter, captivated his heart. “Pray constantly.”

The words echoed deep within his being. Immediately, his mind began to race, “Pray constantly? Without ceas-ing? Is this possible?” The more he pondered this verse, the more he wondered, “is Paul actually serious?” After all, life is full of busyness and distractions, necessities and circumstances that require our full attention. How can

one possibly pray always, without ceasing?

He began to dig through the pages of Scriptures. To his sur-prise, he found other plac-es where Paul instructs us to “Pray in the Spirit on all oc-casions” (see Eph. 6:18, Col. 4:2, 1 Tim. 2:8). He quickly made his way back to the little church in search of the minister to inquire how one might obtain to such a life-style of continuous prayer. To his demise, the minister ac-knowledged the admonition

of Scripture to pray without ceasing, but could not offer any practical means by which one might pursue such a reality.

The more the little man thought about these verses, the more his heart longed to know what they meant and how he could learn to pray as the Apostle commend-ed. With an aching heart, the peasant gathered his only possessions, a knapsack with dry crusts of bread, a Bible and the clothes on his back and set out on a journey that time would only tell where.

He first found himself sitting at the feet of the most popular preachers of his day. Sermons resounding with affirmations of the power of prayer, necessity of prayer, even filled with a call to pray, but none could instruct him in how to pray unceasingly. Everyone had a theo-ry or theology of prayer, but none an actual practice thereof. Where could someone be found who lived a life of ceaseless prayer? Day after day, as his search con-tinued, the insatiable desire within him to know such a prayer-filled life grew more and more.

Venturing away from the cities, he began to travel along distant roads and remote villages. His unquench-able hunger for God sustained his disabled body through the long days, sleepless night and countless miles as the months passed by.

One day the peasant was passing by a small village. As providence would have it, an elderly man joined him along the way and began inquiring about the purpose of his journeys. The peasant began to recount to him the past year: the incident in the church, the verse from Thes-salonians and his tireless search for knowledge regarding prayer. The elderly man led him into his simple dwelling quarters and they continued to talk.

“There are many types of prayers in Scripture,” ex-plained the elderly man. “There are prayers of confes-sion, adoration and praise. As well as, prayers of asking, seeking, petitioning, interceding and listening. The Bible is filled with many different types of prayers. There is a time and place for each of these, but I will teach you how to train your heart to pray without ceasing.”

“The ceaseless Jesus Prayer,” he continued, “is a con-tinuous, uninterrupted call on the holy name of Jesus Christ with the lips, mind, and heart; and in the aware-ness of His abiding presence it is a plea for His blessing in all undertakings, in all places, at all times, even in sleep.”

“How do I do this?” inquired the peasant.“In the Gospels,” the elderly man explained, “there

once was a man who had an incomparable desire to see Jesus. His name was Bartimaeus. He spent his days sitting by the roadside begging, for he was blind. He had heard of the miracles Jesus performed, the teachings that flowed through his lips and the healing that were brought by the mere touch of his hand. Bartimaeus’ chance finally arrived, as Jesus was passing down the road where he was sitting. The crowds began to swell. Voices began to rise in the streets. This Bartimaeus’ heart began to pound within his chest. As the crowds grew, he became more of a stepping-stone than human by-stander.

In desperation, he began to cry out in a loud voice, ‘Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!’ What else could he do? The crowds prevented him from standing up. Further, even if he found his footing, being blind, how would he know which way to go? So, he did the only thing he knew to do. He began to cry out in a loud voice. At first, no one paid him any attention. Again and again he cried at the top of his lungs, ‘Jesus, Son of David, have

A Peasant’s Journeyby Jerrel Jobe

JERRELL JOBE is a teaching pastor at Palm Valley Church in Mission. He is married to Charissa and has three children :

Micah (10), Naylah (7),and Avi (5).

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mercy on me.’Those standing near by became annoyed at his bark-

ing. They told him to be quiet. They rebuked him like an unruly kid throwing rocks on the playground. But, this was Bartimaeus’ chance, and as far as he knew, his one and only chance. At the top of his lungs he shouted. With all of his might he cried out, ‘Jesus…’

Jesus stopped. Amidst dust filled streets, the pressing of the crowd and the clamor of the masses, Jesus heard the broken hearted bellows of Bartimaeus. Jesus stopped, knelt down and looked into the dark and lifeless eyes of Bartimaeus. With a word, Jesus pronounced healing. In-stantly, Bartimaeus was healed, as his eyes opened to the panorama landscape about him.”

The elderly man, then begin to reflect on the Gospel account. “Many blind men would have never cried out. Others, may have cried out, but at the first rebuke would have cowered back into silence. Not so with Bartimaeus. He would not be discouraged. He could not be distract-ed. He resolved to refuse to stop crying out until Jesus stopped or forever passed him by. Fortunate for him, Je-sus stopped.

This is the way it is with prayer. There are countless things in life that try to muffle our prayers, numerous circum-stances that will emerge causing our cries to become silent. Many are those who simply allow the distractions of the mundane to strangle out the life of prayer within.

If you want to learn to pray without ceasing, go find a solitary place. Simply start by calling out as Bartimae-us did, ‘Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me.’ Don’t stop. You will be tempted with weariness, boredom and laziness. Don’t stop. Keep calling out to God.

Know that every demon in hell will set itself against you, for the forces of darkness shudder at a life that deter-mines to live in unbreakable communion with the Father of Creation.” The elderly man encouraged him to call out to God and never stop.

The peasant took the counsel of this wise teacher to heart. He made his way outside of town and took res-idence in a small hut on a lowly farm. In the days and weeks that passed, this barren hut became a palace filled with the presence of God.

Several hours each day, the peasant would read his Bible and say this simple prayer. It wasn’t so much that these words were magical; after all, repeating the same sentence over and over could seem rather monotonous and mechanical. The words simply served as a guide for his thoughts, something to keep him from mentally wan-dering all over the place, as people tend to do in times of prayer.

Thousand upon thousand times a day, the peasant prayed this prayer. As he woke up in the morning, he found everything within him longing to be with God. As he lay down at night, he sensed the nearness of God’s presence. Throughout his day and his interactions with others, he found himself overwhelmed with joy and peace. As he walked into town and among the busy merchants, he noticed himself more caring, loving and kind toward others.

After some time, the peasant went back to visit the el-derly teacher. He described his experiences over the past several weeks. How distractions, boredom and laziness had all came to visit him, yet he persevered. He shared how he had at first endeavored to pray this simple prayer a hundred times, then a thousand, then five-thousand, then twelve-thousand times a day. He reflected how at some point, he simply stopped counting, for even when

he stopped praying with words in his mind, it was as if his heart kept praying. The words of his mind had become the prayerful reality of his heart.

The teacher explained that this is how the spiritual life often works. At first there is some type of spiritual disci-pline or practice that one engages. It may be simple, and at first, seemingly mechanical. Such disciplines are not to earn good favor with God or acquire one’s sal-vation. They merely assist in doing as the Apostle Paul instructed when he encouraged us to “train yourself to be godly” (1 Tim. 4:7).

The elderly man continued to explain that the natural result of disciplined training and frequent practice can be compared to a wheel of a machine that has been given a push and then the machine works by itself; then the wheel needs only to be oiled and nudged for the machine to keep working.The peasant’s mental and ver-bal praying “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me,” served as a means to get the wheel moving.

This practice, as monotonous and mechanical as it may seem, resulted in a life-long, joy-filled, prayerful-commu-nion between this peasant and the Living Christ.

While I may not pack my bags and begin roaming city to city, I find my heart longing to take a similar journey as this Russian peasant. Though there are various seasons of life and different types of prayers, I too desire to know what it means to pray constantly?

Lately, I’ve been taking various phrases from Scripture, committing them to memory and then, like the Russian peasant, praying them over and over as I go about my day. I’m beginning to understand what he meant when he said, though his mind stopped saying the words, something deep within his heart keep on praying.

Do I still get distracted? Yes. Am I at times bored? Afraid so. Do I ever battle laziness? I wish it weren’t so. But, like the Psalmist, more and more, “my heart cries out to the Living God.” Perhaps this is my own journey to ceaseless prayer.

•How do you practice Paul’s admonition to pray without ceasing? •How do you pray in a way that keeps you as con-

scious as possible of Christ’s presence within you?

SPIRITUAL PRACTICEBegin by taking two-minutes a day, select a verse or

phrase and simply pray it over and over to God. This can be a great way to give your first moments to God in the morning or the last moments to God at night. This can be done at stoplights or while taking a walk. More im-portantly than the words themselves, or the amount of time spent, is how these words and this time assists you in developing an ongoing, uninterrupted conversation with God. Over time, pay attention to your level of awareness to God’s nearness and the longing within your heart to be with-God more and more.

The following are a few possible phrases that can be used:-Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me…-Abba, I belong to You…-Holy Spirit, fill me with Your power…-The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want…In prayer we seek God. We do not seek peace, quiet,

tranquility, enlightenment, we do not seek anything for ourselves. We seek to give ourselves . . . to God. He is the all of our prayer. -M. Basil Pennington

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T he promise of motherhood is similar to the fairy tale we believe of mar-

riage. We dream of our children adoring us and picking up their toys, asking to read books and finding favor with friends. We envision our children excel-ling and going to college and getting degrees and all along saying “I owe it all to my mom”….like I said a fairy tale.

One never fully expects the demands of sleepless nights, diaper changes, the “no” and “mine” phase of toddlers or the “oh gosh mom you’re so embarrassing” phase of teenagers.

Motherhood by far is the most challeng-ing aspect of my life. Like other working moms I’ve got to balance career and family and try to maintain my sanity. At times the demands as you know can be overwhelming.

I’ve been blessed with two wonderful boys-Cord and Diego.

Cord is my firstborn and he is articulate, witty, smart, soft-spoken, analytical and ambitious. His goal since age 10 is to attend Stanford University and play on the PGA Tour. He excels at school with-out much effort. He wants to be a role model. Cord not only looks up stats on his favorite golf players but looks at their faith. He knows God has a purpose for his life. He calls himself a “nerd” just like his mom. Cord is the coolest teenager I know. His little brother adores him.

My Diego is 11 years old. He is funny, compassionate, diligent and has a smile that melts my heart. He has to work twice as hard as his peers to finish schoolwork and socially he struggles. He was diag-nosed with a form of Autism-Pervasive Developmental Disorder at age 8. He has characteristics of Attention Deficit Disorder, Autism and Obsessive Compul-sive Disorder.

As a physician I saw the early signs-the extreme tantrums, poor eye contact, speech delay, the social withdrawal- but as a mom I couldn’t accept it. Why? How? Is it my fault? Will I have to start him on meds? Did I return to work too soon? What kind of future will he have?

I would often pray that God would heal him and repeatedly felt like it was an un-answered prayer. It was difficult for me to hear him say “why can’t I be normal?”, when I myself had asked God the same.

We’ve shared tears regarding his strug-gles. He has difficulty reading social cues and is very concrete in his rationale. As he becomes older he realizes he is differ-ent. What kid doesn’t want to fit in with peers? He would frequently ask me “why was I born this way?”

How could I as a physician have the abil-

TheresaValladares

She is married to Enrique Lopez and has two wonderful sons,

Cord and Diego. They are members of The

Family Church and she practices family medicine in Pharr.

MotherhoodBy Theresa Val ladares , M.D.

ity to help others with their health issues and yet have no answers for my own son? I felt like a failure as a mother.

As a believer I turn to the word for an-swers. I searched and searched for a cure, for direction and one scripture started to stand out above all…

Psalm 139:13-16You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous-how well I know it. You watched me as I was formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was

born. If I am to believe the word as the truth, then God sent me this child just as he

was meant to be. My job is not to change his creation but to embrace the unique-ness and the blessings that come through this “diagno-sis”. God sent me Diego to change me and to learn from him.

Those whom have taken time to interact with Diego will tell you how he has influenced them. They all

comment on his capacity to love. Ironi-cally, we believe autistic children don’t want this contact. Spend enough time with Diego and you will see that’s not true. It just takes more commitment and building of trust.

I believe that every child has come to this world just as God has intended. He never labeled his children “normal”. That was society…that was me and you!

Ask any mother of a “special needs” child if she has not changed and per-haps grown spiritually. You will see a resil-ience and protectiveness that is the mir-ror image of God’s love for us…

”As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you. Isaiah 66:13.

My son has a heart for God. He is the prayer warrior of our house. This child whom is at times not accepted by his peers is the first one to pray for someone he sees struggling. He misreads social cues and doesn’t understand sarcasm

but that also gives him the capacity to forgive without hesitation. He never holds a grudge. He inspires me to do the same.

His world is black or white, Right and Wrong, no gray zone. Diego doesn’t lie and can be painful-ly blunt but he doesn’t do it to hurt others. He thrives on routine and structure. No compromises. That’s what God wants for us too.

Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by renewing of your mind.

My child like every other child has a pur-pose and God has great plans for him. I wasted too much time believing any-thing else. I encourage you to spend time with those you deem different. Lis-ten to what God is trying to tell you. The posters and information for autism says “autism speaks”. I believe what it should read is “listen and be still”.

My Diego has made me a better Chris-tian, physician and mother. I no longer pray for his healing but rather I pray for the patience and guidance to direct him on the path that God has for him. I pray that He sends people into our lives that will take time to understand him and to love him. And those prayers have al-ways been answered.

I am more prepared on those days he struggles and asks me those same ques-tions. My answer is simply this “you are made in HIS image and you have a call-ing on your life and I love you just the way you are!” Isn’t that what we all long to hear?

So my image of idyllic children prais-ing their mom has changed…it is now I who say “I owe it all to my children.” My prayers are also simpler….

Thank you God for the blessing of what I once considered an unanswered prayer. Forgive me Lord for the times I ques-tioned you and failed to be thankful in all circumstances of motherhood…thank you for choosing me to be their mother. Thank you...Thank you…Thank you!

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“God created moms to cook most of the time and to water the chickens,” says Jed, 8.

Well, Jed, either you have some strange chickens, or your mom needs more farm experience. As for the cooking, let’s hope your mom’s chicken casserole contains poultry that someone has fed and not just watered.

“God created moms because they could go shopping while me and my dad go hunting,” says Jacob, 7.

As a guy who hates to shop, that makes perfect sense to me. And while the guys are hunting, Mom will “teach girls about makeup,” says Kristin, 10. “He also created moms for girls to tell about problems we can’t tell dads. Thank you, God, for creating moms.”

As Kathryn, 12, says, “It’s nice to be able to talk about things. I know because I have a mom.”

Listening is important, but “moms were made to have fun with their kids,” says Alex, 10. “You might think your mom is old, but really in-side, she is a kid just like you,” adds Kristen, 9.

Yes, you might be amazed that your mom likes to have fun, but even more amazing is that moms will love you even when you’re not so much fun. “Moms will love you even if you fight a lot,” says Adrienne, 10. “They are probably here so they can take care of their kids. But, that’s just my guess.”

Good guess, says Mallory, 7: “I think moms were made to hug you. I think that God made moms to kiss you, too. I think moms were made to fix your hair.”

Not only are moms good for hugs and hair, but also hassles, says Beth, 9: “God created moms because we need somebody to get onto us and say things like, ‘Clean up your room now!’”

Beth, you might consider what your mom does for you. J.T., 7, be-lieves that “God made moms to do stuff without getting mad.” In fact, “Moms do most of the dirty work around the house,” adds observant Andrew, 10.

All right, let’s get down to basics, says Justin, 9: “God created moms to give birth to people so that the earth’s population will grow.”

Remember, Mom was there in the beginning. You were kicking, screaming and making a mess in your diaper. Part of Mom’s job is to remind you of your humble entrance into this world, says Stephen, 10: “God made moms to embarrass you in front of your friends. Moms are made to be there for you always, and you’ll always be their baby.”

So why do moms put up with us? Erica, 7, has the answer: “The Lord loves me so he made a person of love and faith to tackle the job of

me, and that is my mom. She loves me so much. I am her love of love.”

Nick, 7, says it another way: “God made moms so they could be like God.”

How many times have we seen mothers claim innocence for sons who have committed the most heinous crimes? A mother’s uncon-ditional love is based on her capacity to love, not on her children’s worthiness.

In the same way, God’s love is not based on our worthiness. We have all sinned against God. The irony is that the one who lived perfectly and loved unconditionally was tried, convicted and cru-cified as a common criminal to pay the penalty for our rebellion against God.

Whether or not you’ve been blessed by a mother’s love, remem-ber that the greatest love of the greatest mother who ever lived is only a reflection of God’s perfect, unconditional love.

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlast-ing life” (John 3:16).

Wise King Solomon knew the power of a mother’s sacrificial love when he ordered that half of the baby be given to each of the arguing moth-

ers. He knew the real mother would give up her claim to being the child’s mother so that her baby boy could live. Read about it in I Kings 3:16-28.

Why did God create Moms?

Carey Kinsolving’s Kids Talk About God syndicated column is distributed by Creators Syndicate. KidsTalkAboutGod.org features a Bible-lesson archive of all columns. Kinsolving is the co-founder of the RGV Children’s International Arts Festival. For details, go to www.KidsTalkAboutGod.org

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A Note from Nathan…Hey Everyone, we are very excited about this years banquet FCA. It is going to be a great time of food, fellowship, and FUNdraising. Your financial support makes an eternal impact on the lives of the kids in our community by helping to buy them Bibles & send them to FCA Camp. Several of our students from across the Valley will be at this year’s banquet with silent auction items, and 100% of the funds raised though the auction will go towards sending students to the FCA Weekend of Champions Camp on April 26-28. Come be a part of this years Banquet. You’ll be glad you did. I’ll see you there. I might even outbid you. I tend to be rather competitive. Blessings,

Nathan JonesNathan JonesMulti-Area Director

Fellowship of Christian [email protected]

COACHES CAMPHorseshoe Bay Marriott Resort - Horseshoe Bay, Texas

Thursday—Sunday, July 11th to 14thCome and enjoy the fellowship of other members of the

coaching profession as you learn key principles of successful living as a “Coach” in an environment that is fun and understands coaches.

LEADERSHIP CAMPHardin-Simmons University - Abilene, TX

June 10th to June 14thDFW FCA Sports Leadership Camp

Dallas Baptist University – Dallas, TX – www.dfwfca.orgJune 24th to June 28th

SPORTS CAMPS

FCA Golf Camp – HSU, Abilene, TXJune 10th to June 14th

Texas Tech University - Lubbock, TXJune 21st to June 25th

Texas A&M University - College Station, TXJuly 1st to July 5th (Subject to change)

COLLEGE EXTREME River Bend Camp – Glen Rose, TX

January 25th to 27th Camp scholarships are available through local FCA Offices.

FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THESE CAMPS GO TO:

Please buy a sign and scholarship for a kid to go to camp. It’s that easy! You’ll be glad you gave!

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Since 1954, the Fellowship of Christian Athletes has challenged athletes and coaches to impact the world for Jesus Christ. FCA is cultivating Christian principles in local communities nationwide by encouraging, equipping and empowering others to serve as examples and to make a differ-ence in their family, school, and community. Reaching over two million people annually on he college, high school, junior high and youth levels, FCA has grown in to the largest inter-denom-ination sports ministry in the world. Through this shared passion for athletes and faith, lives are

being changed for current and future generations.

FCA Camp has been the greatest experience of

my l ife ! Anyone who has not gone to FCA Camp

is miss ing out on one great experience ! ”

“It was intense.”

“I’m athletically faster in my sport and spiritually stronger

with God.”

If you would like to sponsor an Athlete to Summer Camp

call Robin at 956-994-1121 today!

FCA Camp Scholarship Campaign

FCA Camps are a time of “Inspiration and Perspiration” for athletes who want to reach their potential through comprehensive athletic and spiritual training.

How YOU can make a difference

Buy a Sign for $500.

By participating in our camp scholarship campaign, each

Donor will have their name (or company name) on their

own 24” x 18” double sided sign which will be placed at

FCA events held throughout the year in your area.

Every sign sold represents one Athlete’s FCA Camp

Scholarship.

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FCA Vision To see the world impacted for Jesus Christ through the influence of athletes and coaches.

FCA Mission To present to athletes and coaches and all whom they influence the challenge and adventure of receiving Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, serving Him in their relation-ships and in the fellowship of the church.

FCA Core Values Our relationships will demonstrate steadfast commitment to Jesus Christ and His Word through Integrity, Service, Teamwork and Excellence.

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In More or Less, Jeff Shinabarger calls readers to create their own social experiments to answer the question, “What is enough?”

It all started with one idea: What would happen if we created a culture in which we gave away whatever was more than enough for us? How would our habits change if we shed the excess of money, clutter, and food in our lives? In More or Less, readers will learn how to draw a line of “enough” in their consumer choices, how to see generosity as a chance to experience freedom in a greedy world, and how to make small changes now that will help others forever. As Shinabarger reminds them, defining “enough” is more than a responsibility—it is an opportunity to give hope.

What if you stopped looking for a “soul mate” and started looking for a “sole mate”—someone who will live out with you the great purpose of God? What if dating isn’t about finding “the one” but making a wise choice so you can better serve the One who loves you most? What if God didn’t design relationships to make you happy but to make you holy? In The Sacred Search, Gary Thomas will transform the way you look at romantic relationships. Whether you are single, dating, or engaged, Gary’s unique perspective on dating will prepare you for a satisfying, spiritually enriching marriage even before you walk down the aisle. As Gary reminds us, a good marriage is

not something you find—it’s something you make.

It would not take me long to write a list of one-thousand complaints, frustrations, and disappointments. This fallen world seems to have nothing but trouble at every turn. We know God is good, but we can easily get caught up in the fog of doubt and discontent. This dense fog can keep us from seeing the beauty of life that is all around us.Ann Voskamp has written a brilliant book, One

Thousand Gifts, in which she first confesses her difficulty seeing the good in life with the dark clouds that seem to surround us. She shares a deep loss that ruined her family and had a deep and lasting negative impact for years to come.In Voskamp’s poetic first-person narrative style of writing -- as she tells how she discovered a way to live life more fully -- her words refresh and revitalize your literary senses.In her unique way, she challenges us to consider thanksgiving a lifestyle that is more than a holiday that is celebrated once a year. For Voskamp, giving thanks

has become the spark of a deeper relationship with God and a key to living life more fully.She laces eucharisteo (the Greek word for “giving thanks”) as a theme from the beginning of creation through Christ’s sacrifice on the cross. A statement that bellows subtly throughout is “eucaristeo—thanksgiving—always precedes the miracle.” She notes that before some of the miracles, there is a dose of thanksgiving to the Father. Looking for a miracle? Give thanks more often, and God may show Himself.Voskamp’s journey allowed her to see and experience ugly-beautiful. “That which is perceived as ugly transfigures into the beautiful. The ugly can be beautiful. The dark can give birth to life suffering can deliver grace.” Through the eyes of thanksgiving, this is where suffering meets grace. Of Christ the Scriptures say, “There was nothing beautiful . . . about his appearance” (Isaiah 53:2). Voskamp remarks, “He became ugly that we might become beauty.”Voskamp’s writing is fantastic and her journey is one that you can try for yourself. This book has helped me to remember to be more thankful for what is before me every day that God gives. The discontent stench is slowly subsiding with the aroma of thanksgiving.Let God show Himself more brilliantly as you live a life of thanksgiving.

One Thousand GiftsAnn VoskampZondervan

Book Review

by Is a teacher at Edinburg North and earned his

Masters in Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary.

He is married to Brenda and has four children: Diego (10), Karla and Andrea (7), and Charis (3).

More or Lessby Jeff Shinabarger

The Sacred SearchBy Gary Thomas

Miguel Paredes

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If you are a local band or singer and would like to participate, send us your contact information along

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June 17Building 429

Pharr Events Center

May 10Chick-Fil-A Leadercast

May 3Mercy Me Mcallen Convention center

June 8 IOP - Island of Praisewith Josh WilsonSouth Padre IslandSchlitterbahn Waterpark

May 10, 6-10p Jitterz 10 Year Anniversary Celebration

1625 N. Conway, Mission TX

The First 10 YearsGateWay WorshipLooking back at what God has done in the first years of Gateway Church can be heard and seen in the worship songs of the first 10 years. Gateway Worship The First 10 Years is a compilation and reflection of what God has done at Gateway and a reminder that he’s got incredible things in store for our future as we keep giving Him everything in worship. With song titles including O The Blood, Stay Amazed, Revelation Song and other favorite worship songs, The First 10 Years is an album that will take you into the heart of worship and connect you with the vision that began as Gateway Church.

MadeHawk Nelson

The 2013 release will be the sixth studio album from the Christian rockers. This project reflects an evolution for the band with a new lead singer in long time Hawk guitarist Jon Steingard. The change has made room for growth where they could stretch both their musical prowess and lyrical expression. the end-product is a matured pop sentiment that allows you to sense the band’s transformation while still infusing their unique, fun, contagious, signature sound.

Bring Your NothingShane and ShaneShane & Shane will release their new album ‘Bring Your Nothing’ on 14th May. The self-produced project was recorded at the group’s own Wellhouse recording studios in Dallas last month. It is said to be “a musical expedition that features everything from jazz to pop/rock, folk as well as modern worship.”

New Releases

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Mrs. Olmos 1st Grade had an Art Show, here we have Mr. & Mrs. Garza and Grandma with student Michael Gaza. Students studies Van Gogh and Paul Klay and they created their own paintings using the styles of the artists.

Edingburg Scenic Wetlands visits Mrs. Olmos 1st grade class to

teach the Butterfly Cycle. Students include: Preston

Lopez, Sophie Garcia, Kenneth

DeLa Garza, Jared Mercado.

Spirit Day at Agape, Mrs. Olmos 1st grade created their own t-shirts to show for Spirit Day.

1st grade students at the National Butterfly Center with Jeff Glassberg, founder of the Butterfly Center.

1st Graders at Agape Christian School in Mission

have been busy bees!

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I never fully understood that Jesus is all that I need until he was all that I had.

1. Mercy MeTou Are I Am

CD: The Hurt and the Healer

3. Passionfeaturing Kristian Stanfill

One Thing Remains CD: White Flag

4. Audio AdrenalineKings and Queens

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2. Burning LightsI Whom Shall I Fear (God of

Angel Armies) CD: Burning Lights

5. Colton Dixon You Are

CD: A Messenger

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6 months ago, I woke up feeling lightheaded and sick to my stomach. I had no clue what

was wrong, but I figured I would feel better as the day went on. I didn’t. The next two mornings, I felt progressively worse, and finally, my strange symptoms culminated in severe chest and shoulder pain, difficulty breathing, and almost passing out. Becca, my wife, took me to the emergency room because we thought I was having a heart attack.

The doctor did a number of tests, and after 30 excruciatingly long minutes of waiting, he told me my heart was fine. He said that I had experienced a major panic attack, which simulated the same symptoms of cardiac arrest. I was so relieved, and we drove home thinking my experience was simply a one time thing. It wasn’t.

Over the next few months, I continued to deal with anxiety and panic attacks, some of which woke me up in the middle of the night. There were times I couldn’t feel my arms and legs, and other times I was sure my heart was going to beat out of my chest. I had to cancel a number of concerts while I tried to get everything under control.

Over and over I reminded myself what Paul said to the church in Philippi. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let you requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7). I needed the peace of

God to guard my heart and my mind, so every time I experienced a panic attack, I prayed for that. I would wake up each day and say,“God, this day belongs to you. I can’t make it without you. I literally can’t breathe without you. I need you to carry me.” And He did carry me, and He still does. He carried me through each day even before I experienced the anxiety, but I just didn’t realize it. It took these difficult moments for me to realize how much I need Jesus.

The truth is, we all need Jesus to carry us. We are lost without him. As Augustine said, “our souls are restless until they find their rest in You.” Maybe you struggle with anxiety. Maybe you’re dealing with something else, like divorce, abuse, financial troubles, or doubt. Perhaps everything seems to be going well in your life, but even if that’s the case, Jesus is the only one who can sustain you, whether you realize it or not. Colossians 1:17 reminds us, “He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.”

I still struggle with anxiety, but God’s peace has been palpable during my trials. He is teaching me how to truly rely on His strength instead of my own. He is teaching me that just as he holds this universe together, he also holds my heart.

My prayer has been, and will continue to be the chorus of my song, “Carry Me.”

“Carry me, carry me, carry me now, From my sinking sand to Your solid ground, The only way I’m ever going to make it out Is if you carry me, carry me, carry me now.”

-Josh

7. Hawk NelsonWords

CD: Made

8. Josh WilsonCarry Me

CD: Carry Me

9. Tenth Avenue NorthWorn

CD: The Struggle

6. TobymacSteal My Show CD: Eye On It

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For more financial help please visit: www.daveramsey.com

Dave Ramsey is a personal money-management expert and extremely popular national radio personality. His three New York Times best-selling books—Fi-nancial Peace, More Than Enough and The Total Money Makeover—have sold more than 6 million copies combined. His latest book,

EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the wTrenches,released in September 2011.

Dear Dave,My younger sister moved to Atlanta, and she came to live with my husband and me a few months ago. She’s 19, has a job, and is attending a local college. But even though she’s working, she hasn’t said anything about helping out with utilities or paying rent. We don’t need the money, but do you think it’s

time for us to push her out of the nest so she can start living as an adult?-Molly

Dear Molly,The way you’ve described your little sister makes me think she’s a pretty good kid. She’s doing all the right things for someone her age, and it doesn’t sound like you’ve got a party animal or drug addict in your home. In my mind, this is the kind of person you want to help.

In a sense, you’re acting as surrogate parents to this young lady. If it were my little sister, I’d let her live in the house without paying rent as long as she was living smart and moving in a positive direction. To me, this includes working, saving money, and going to college. At the moment, you’re

enabling good, positive behavior. You have a chance to be her biggest cheerleader and prepare her for the future.

But if things change and she starts behaving irresponsibly or living a lifestyle you don’t approve of, then it’ll be time to put the brakes on

the deal. But right now this kid’s a rock star. Thanks to the generosity and support shown by you and your husband, she can gain traction for a successful launch into the world as a smart, responsible adult. I think it’s awesome!—Dave

Dear Dave,Both of our daughters will start college next year. We have $25,000 set aside for each in their custodial accounts, but my financial advisor says we should take the money out because it will keep them from being awarded as much in scholarships and other assistance. What do you think?

JohnDear John,I disagree. It’s like saying you should quit your job to get food stamps. You guys obviously aren’t poor, and any financial advisor who says you need to fake being poor in order to get help is not a person whose advice I want to follow.

When your kids apply for scholarships and assistance, your entire financial picture will be assessed. More funding goes to kids from poor families than rich ones, but that’s only fair. Chances are, you fall somewhere in the upper-middle portion of the scale.

But no, I wouldn’t move the money or try to hide it. It’s just not honest to try and act like you’re poor when you’re not. I don’t believe in that kind of stuff.—Dave

“You’re Not Stunting Her”

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Some historians may argue that among the greatest restoration stories of mankind are the Europe-an Renaissance or perhaps the post-World War II era. The cultural movement known as the European Re-naissance roughly took place during the 14th through 17th centuries. This moment in history saw the face of Europe evolve with respect to its arts, architecture and long held science tenets. It also saw a rediscovery of the Greco-Roman classical knowledge and a rebirth of the study of Latin and vernacular languages. It served as a bridge between the Middle Ages and the Modern Era. Closer to home, America saw its restoration take place in the years that followed World War II. During this era, couples who could not afford families during the Great Depression made up for lost time. The mood in America suddenly became optimistic. At that time, the unemployment rate of the Great Depres-sion dropped dramatically and the economy improved substantially. The G.I. Bill empowered many honor-able service members to finish high school and attend college. As their skills were improved, so was the fi-nancial well-being of their families. But, without a doubt the greatest restoration that can take place is when a person does as Romans 10:9 instructs us to do. Romans 10:9 says: “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” The message is simple: invite Christ into your heart and make him your personal Lord and Savior. At that time, your restoration will be complete. Next He will do as Philippians 1:6 says, “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.” As you seek and strive to honor God with your life, He will reward you by allowing you to take on His characteristics. Hosea 14:4 says, “I will bring my people back to me. I will love them with all my heart; No longer am I angry with them.” I pray that you will invite Christ into your heart and allow Him to restore you! At my office, I also want to be part of your restoration plan, albeit in a different way. I pray that God will use me for His honor and glory in helping me address your needs. If you have been involved in an auto accident and/or other serious injury or if you have lost a loved one as a result of someone’s neg-ligence, I will do my best to restore some sense of normality to your life. I will also help you in matters involving family law, criminal law and real estate and will issues. As always, I bear in mind that in honoring God with the way I handle my business relationships I will be honoring you my esteemed client.

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attorney at lawRaul “Rudy” Rodriguez