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Unit 5Part A

Thanksgiving

1.Background Knowledge

2.Warm-up Questions

3.Language Points

The end

Thanksgiving Day in America is a time to offer thanks, of family gatherings and holiday meals. A time of turkeys, stuffing, and pumpkin pie. A time for Indian corn, holiday parades and giant balloons.

The Pilgrims who sailed to this country aboard the Mayflower were originally members of the English Separatist Church (a Puritan sect). They had earlier fled their home in England and sailed to Holland (The Netherlands) to escape religious persecution. There, they enjoyed more religious

tolerance, but they eventually became disenchanted with the Dutch way of life, thinking it ungodly. Seeking a better life, the Separatists negotiated with a London stock company to finance a pilgrimage to America. Most of those making the trip aboard the Mayflower were non-Separatists, but were hired to protect the company's interests. Only about one-third of the original colonists were Separatists.

The Pilgrims set ground at Plymouth Rock on

December 11, 1620. Their first winter was devastating. At the beginning of the following fall, they had lost 46 of the original 102 who sailed on the Mayflower. But the harvest of 1621 was a bountiful one. And the remaining colonists decided to celebrate with a feast -- including 91 Indians who had helped the Pilgrims survive their first year. It is believed that the Pilgrims would not have made it through the year without the help of the natives. The feast was more of a traditional English harvest festival than a true "thanksgiving" observance. It lasted three days.

Governor William Bradford sent "four men fowling" after wild ducks and geese. It is not certain that wild turkey was part of their feast. However, it is certain that they had venison. The term "turkey" was used by the Pilgrims to mean any sort of wild fowl.

Another modern staple at almost every Thanksgiving table is pumpkin pie. But it is unlikely that the first feast included that treat. The supply of flour had been long diminished, so there was no bread or pastries of any kind.

However, they did eat boiled pumpkin, and they produced a type of fried bread from their corn crop. There was also no milk, cider, potatoes, or butter. There was no domestic cattle for dairy products, and the newly-discovered potato was still considered by many Europeans to be poisonous. But the feast did include fish, berries, watercress, lobster, dried fruit, clams, venison, and plums.

This "thanksgiving" feast was not repeated the following year. But in 1623, during a severe

drought, the pilgrims gathered in a prayer service, praying for rain. When a long, steady rain followed the very next day, Governor Bradford proclaimed another day of Thanksgiving, again inviting their Indian friends. It wasn't until June of 1676 that another Day of Thanksgiving was proclaimed.

In 1863 President Abraham Lincoln appointed a national day of Thanksgiving.The date was changed a couple of times. In 1941, Thanksgiving,the fourth Thursday in November, was finally chosen by Congress as a legal holiday.

1.When did you leave home for the first time?

2.Did you choose your university by yourself? Why or why not?

3.Do you feel you are regarded as an adult at home?

4.Why are young people so eager to move out of home?

5.Describe something special about the way you are raised in your family

Par.I Soon they will be together again, all the people who travel between their own lives and each other's. The package tour of the season will tempt them this week to the family table. By Thursday, feast day, family day, Thanksgiving day,Americans who value individualism like no other people will collect around a million tables in a ritual of belonging.

Par.II They will assemble their families the way they assemble dinner: each one bearing a

personality as different as cranberry sauce: and pumpkin pie. For one dinner they will cook for each other, fuss for each other, feed each other and argue with each other. They will nod at their common heritage, the craziness and caring of other generations. They will measure their common legacy-the children.

Par.III All these complex cells, these men and women, old and young, with different dreams and disappointments will give honour again to

the group they are a part of and apart from: their family. Families and individuals. The "we" and the ‘I'. As good Americans we all travel between these two ideals. We take value trips from the great American notion of individualism to the great American vision of family. We wear out our tires driving back and forth, using speed to shorten the distance between these two principles.

Par.IV There has always been some pavement

between a person and a family. From the first moment we recognize that we are separate we begin to struggle with aloneness and togetherness. Here and now these conflicts are especially sharp. We are, after all, raised in families ... to be individuals. This double message follows us through life. We are taught about the freedom of the ‘I' and the safety of the "we". The loneliness of the ‘I' and the intrusiveness of the "we". The selfishness of the "I" and the burdens of the "we".

Par.V We are taught what Andre Malraux3 said: "Without a family,man, alone in the world, trembles with the cold." And taught what he said another day: "The denial of the supreme importance of the mind's development accounts for many revolts against the family." In theory, the world rewards "the supreme importance" of the individual, the ego. We think alone, inside our heads. We write music and literature with an enlarged sense of self. We are graded and paid,

hired and fired, on our own merit. The rank of individualism is both exciting and cruel. Here is where the fittest survive.

Par.VI The family, on the other hand, at its best, works very differently. We don't have to achieve to be accepted by our families. We just have to be. Our membership is not based on certificates but on birth. As Malraux put it, "A friend loves you for your intelligence, a lover for your charm, but your family's love is unreasoning: you were

born into it and of its flesh and blood."

Par.VII The family is formed not for the survival of the fittest but for the weakest. It is not an economic unit but an emotional one. This is not the place where people fiercely compete with each other but where they work for each other. Its business is taking care, and when it works, it is not indifferent but kind.

Par.VIII There are fewer heroes, fewer stars in

family life. While the world may glorify the self, the family asks us, at one time or another, to submerge it. While the world may abandon us, the family promises, at one time or another, to protect us. So we commute daily, weekly, yearly between one world and another. Between a life as a family member that can be nurturing or smothering. Between life as an individual that can free us or flatten us. We hesitate between two separate sets of demands and possibilities.

Par. IX The people who will gather around this table Thursday live in both of these worlds, a part of and apart from each other. With any luck the territory they travel from one to another can be a fertile one, rich with care and space. It can be a place where the ‘I' and the "we" interact. On this day at least, they will bring to each other something both special and something to be shared: these separate selves.

travel travelled, travelling (British English)

traveled, traveling (American English) travel widely :go to many different places

travel around :go to different places over a period of time: I met Tim while I was travelling around

travel light :without taking many bags

travel the world/country: to go to most parts of the world or most parts of a particular country

well-travelled/widely travelled :having travelled to many different countries

Travel [U] is only used for the general activity of moving from place to place: He came home after years of foreign travel.

The -ing form of the verb travel is also used widely with a similar meaning: I do a bit of travelling abroad (NOT travel ( s )).| travel/travelling expenses | air travel/travelling by air

If someone moves from place to place over a period of time, you talk about their travels: Did you go to Rome during your travels? | He's on his travels again.

travels, journey, trip, voyage, flight

A particular time spent and distance covered when you go somewhere is a journey, especially if it is long or travelled regularly: I get tired of the journey to work every day. | The journey to Darjeeling was awful - I was sick all the way. (NOT travel ).

A journey to a place and back that is not made regularly, and is perhaps short, is a trip. This is my first trip abroad. | The kids are going on a trip to the castle. | How long does the trip take? ( travel would not be used in any of these).

A journey by sea or in space is a voyage, and by plane a flight. You take a flight or trip and make or go on a voyage or journey (but NOT a travel ).

GRAMMAR Travel ( v ) is not often used transitively except when you are talking about: travelling the country/the world. Otherwise it is usually intransitive and a preposition is used with the place involved: He travels a lot/all over the world. | We travelled to Paris/in India/ through many foreign countries (NOT travelled many countries ).

a completely planned holiday arranged by a company at a fixed price, which includes travel, hotels, meals etctourism n.

tourist n.

tourist attraction:a place or event that a lot of tourists go totourist industry

tourist trap :a place that many tourists visit, but where drinks, hotels etc are more expensive

tempt v.

1. to make someone want to have or do something, even though they know they really should not

e.g.:If you leave valuables in your car it will tempt thieves.

be tempted: I'm tempted to buy that dress even though it's expensive.

2. to try to persuade someone to do something by making it seem attractive :

tempt sb into doing sth: The ads hope to tempt people into buying their brand of coffee.

tempt sb to do sth: free gifts to tempt people to join

temptation n.

resist/overcome (the) temptation :not do something, even though you want to)

give in to (the) temptation :do something although you know you should not

e.g.: I finally gave in to the temptation and had a cigarette.

tempting adj.

something that is tempting seems very good and you would like to have it or do it

it is tempting to do sth: It's tempting to just ignore her when she's this upset.

value n. 1. the amount of money that something is worth

increase/go down etc in value:Shares can go down as well as go up in value.

of value (=worth a lot of money):The thieves took nothing of value.

hold its value (=continue to be worth the same amount of money):It's a beautiful carpet - it should hold its value.

2.the importance or usefulness of something

of great/little value: His research has been of little practical value.

v. 1.to think that something is important to you: I value your advice. | a valued friend

2 [usually passive] to decide how much money something is worth, by comparing it with similar things : value sth at: We decided to get the house valued. | Paintings valued at over $200,000 were stolen from her home.

good value [ 口 ]( 钱 ) 花得值 , 值得买of no value 没有价值的poor value [ 口 ]( 钱 ) 花得不值 , 不值得 ( 花钱 )买put [set) little value on [upon] 对 ... 评价不高 ; 不怎么重视put [set] much [a high] value on [upon]

对 ... 给予高度评价 ; 重视 (I don't put much value on what he says. 我不重视他所说的话 )

set a value on 估价 , 评价 (I asked him to set a value on the pictures. 我请他对这些画估个价。 )

set at no value 认为没有价值 ; 毫不重视value oneself on [upon] 以 ... 自豪 ; 以 ... 夸耀自己We never know the value of water till the well is dry. [ 谚 ] 井干方知水可贵。

valuable adj.

invaluable adj.

辨析:costly expensive dear valuable invaluable

1. 都含“贵的”, “昂贵的”意思。2.costly 通常指“由于物品华丽、稀少而价格高的”, 如: costly jewels 贵重的宝石。 expensive 系常用词, 指“价格超过货物本身的价值或一般人的购买力”, 如: an expensive book 一本价钱贵的书。 dear 指“价格比通常情况或其实际价值高”, 如:Meat is dear these days. . 近日肉类很贵。

valuable 指“由于有价值很值钱而价格高的”, 如: valuable collections 贵重的收藏品。 invaluable 指“价值高得不能以钱来评估的”, 即“无价的”, 如: invaluable aid 宝贵的援助

assemble v.1 [intransitive] if a group of people assemble in one place, they all go there together e.g.:A large crowd had assembled opposite the American embassy.2 [transitive] to gather a large number of things or people together in one place

e.g.:Over the years we've assembled a huge collection of old books.3 [transitive] to put all the parts of something together:

e.g.:an easy-to-assemble kit

辨析: assemble collect gather

1. 这三个词都可表示“收集、聚集”的意思。2.assemble 指为了一定的目的把即将分散的人或者物集合为一个整体。

gather 是一般用语,指将分散的东西聚集在一起,用于人时,表示“聚集,集中”之意。

collect 与 gather 通用,指按计划进行收集整理,其对象一般是物,偶尔也用于人,意为“集合”

Practice

The pupils were told to _______ in the school hall at 4 PM.

_________ your papers and put them in the file.

You must _______ the students to your side.

My son likes ________ stamps.

The data have been ________ from many sources.

assemble

Assemble

gather

collecting

collected

personality n.

1.someone's character, especially the way they behave

towards other peoplee.g.: Childhood experiences have a strong influence on forming personality.

2.someone who is well known to the public, because they are often in the newspapers, on television etc

e.g.:a TV personality | a sports personality

辨析:disposition temperament temper personality

1.均含“性格”、“脾气”、“习性”的意思。

2. disposition 指“决定一个人思想或行为方式的心情或情绪” , 如 : a cheerful disposition 开朗的性格。

3.temperament 指“决定一个人本性的身体、情感和精神等方面的特质” , 着重“气质方面的特色 , 如 : 暴躁、怯懦等” , 如 :an artistic temperament 艺术家的气质。

4. temper 指“生来就具有的和后天获得的性情或脾气” , 如 : a hot temper 暴躁的脾气。

6.personality 指“个性”、“人格”、“性格” , 侧重“社交方面 , 即人与人的关系” , 如 : a boy with a strong personality 一个个性强的男孩。

5. temper 还应用于暂时的情景 , 指“心情”、“情绪” , 如 : I found him in good temper. 我发现他心情好。

A nod is as good as a wink (to a blind horse). (=A wink is as good as a nod.)

对瞎马点头和眨眼都一样 ( 指反正都看不见 ); 不必多说 ; 一暗示就明白。be at sb.'s nod (=be dependent on sb.'s nod)

完全听命于某人 , 受某人支配Even Homer sometimes nods.

智者千虑 , 必有一失。have a nodding acquaintance with

点头之交 ; 对 ... 略知一二

beyond (above,out of )measure

不可估量,极度,过分in ( a) great (large) measure

大部分set measure to 限制,约束

Take sb’s measure 估量某人(的品格、能力等)

complex adj.

1 consisting of many different parts or processes that are closely connected:

e.g.:There is a complex network of roads round the city.

2 difficult to understand or deal with:

e.g.:Mental illness is by its nature very complex.n. complex wholee.g.: The three building complex will include a library,

a museum and an office building.

辨析:

1. 都含“复杂的”意思。

2. complex 指“包含许多(尤其是不同的)部分, 因而比较难懂或难解释的”, 如: This is a complex problem. 这是一个复杂的问题。

complicated 指“各部分相互交错而变得错综复杂”, 如: What a complicated machine! I can't possibly use it. 这是一台多么复杂的机器! 我可不会使用它。

complex complicated intricate involved

intricate 指“包含许多详细和交叉的部分而显得错综复杂, 难了解的”, 如: It's a novel with an intricate plot. 这是一部情节错综复杂的小说。

involved 指“由于陷入某种麻烦与混乱而难以解决的”, 如: The real meaning of his remark is involved in ambiguity. 他这句话的真正含意难以捉摸。

wear out phrasal verb

1. to cause a lot of damage to something by using it a lot or for a long time so that it can no longer be used: e.g.:Damn! My camera batteries have worn out.

wear sth out: I've worn out the soles of my shoes.

2.to make someone feel extremely tired; exhaust

wear sb out: Two nights without sleep have worn me out.

be in general wear (服装等 ) 时髦的 ; 流行的 ; 时兴的be the worse for wear 被穿破 , 被用坏

Better wear out than rust out. 与其锈掉不如用坏 ; 与其闲死 , 不如忙死。wear away 磨损 , ( 时间 )消逝

wear down 磨损 , 使衰弱 , 疲惫不堪

wear off 磨损 [灭 ]; 损耗 ; 逐渐消失

Br.E Am.E

万亿支票秋天人行道电影

铁路

出租车

cheque

autumn

pavement

film

railway

cab

trillion

check

fall

sidewalk

movie

railroad

taxi/cab

billion

Br.E Am.E

地铁罐头节目荣誉轮胎分析执照公寓

tube/undergroundtinprogrammehonourtyreanalyselicenseflat

subwaycanprogramhonortireanalyzelicencedepartment

principle n.

basic truth; general law of case and effecte.g.:Life don’t seem to have any principles.

My father is acting on his principle.

They had acted on the principle that children were

best left to themselves. He objects to the principle of the thing, not to the

method. These machines work on the same principle.

on principle (=because of a moral rule you follow): I don't eat meat on principle.

on the principle that: We charge no fees on the principle that education should be available for all.

in principle

a) if something is possible in principle, there is no good reason why it should not happen, but it has not actually happened yete.g.:In principle you are entitled to a financial grant, but they're difficult to claim.

b) if you agree in principle, you agree about a general plan or idea without the details: e.g.:The scheme seems O.K. in principle, but I'd like to know more details.

on the principle of

stick to one's principles

A burden of one's own choice is not felt.

自愿挑担不嫌重 ; 自己的孩子背着不嫌沉。bear the burden and heat of the day

吃苦耐劳 ; 完成责任lay down life's burden [婉 ] 死burden with

使负重担 ( 如债务、捐税等 ), 麻烦

辨析: alone lonely lonesome

1. 均有“独自的”或“孤独的”之意2. alone: 陈述客观事实,“独自一人,没有同伴”,只能做表语,如: She was ~ at home.她独自一人呆在家里。

lonesome:“孤单的,寂寞的”,含有愁闷的意味,比 lonely更显凄凉,指地方“偏僻的,偏远的”,同 lonely, 可作表语或定语,如: get ~感到寂寞.

lonely: 带有感情色彩,可作表语或定语。指人渴望陪伴的孤独感受;指地方“荒凉的,偏僻的”,如: feel ~感到寂寞; a ~ village偏僻的村庄。

supreme adj.1 having the highest position of power, importance, or influence 最高位的;无上的e.g. : The most important law court is called the Supreme Court

2. [only before noun] the greatest possible 无比的;极度的e.g. : supreme courage in the face of terrible danger

supreme effort: It required a supreme effort to stop myself from giving up.

the S-Commander 最高统帅S-Court (美国 )联邦最高法院 , 州最高法院S-Soviet (苏联的 )最高苏维埃the S-(Being) 上帝the supreme Pontiff 罗马教皇a supreme fool 大傻瓜supreme courage 最大的勇气supreme disgust 极端的厌恶the supreme test of fidelity 忠诚最后的考验

supreme good 至善reign supreme 占绝对优势a supreme measure 死刑the supreme end 最终 [最主要的 ] 目的the supreme moment 决定性的时刻 , 在最后一刹那 ; 在临终 ; 在最后关头

account for 1 to be the reason why something happens: e.g.:Recent pressure at work may account for his behavior.2 to give a satisfactory explanation of why something has happened or why you did something e.g.:How do you account for the sudden disappearance of the murder weapon?3 to say where all the members of a group of people or

things are, especially because you are worried that some of them may be lost

e.g.:Is everyone accounted for?

3 to make up a particular amount or part of something

e.d.: Imports from Japan accounted for 40% of the total.

5 there's no accounting for taste informal used when you find it difficult to understand why someone likes something or wants to do something

revolt v.

1 [intransitive] if a group of people revolt, they take strong and often violent action against the government, usually with the aim of taking power away from theme.g.:George III's repressive measures forced the

Colonies to revolt.

2 [intransitive] to refuse to accept someone's authority or obey rules, laws etc [+ against]:

e.g.:Public opinion will revolt against any further increase in taxes.

3 [transitive] if something revolts you, it is so unpleasant that it makes you feel sick and shocked

be revolted by/at: We were revolted by their cruelty.

en- prefixes前缀 1.en- 表示“置于 .. 之中”、“登上 ...” 、“使上 ...”e.g.:entrain 乘火车

encage 关入笼中

enroll 登记,记入名册中2.en- == make or cause to be,“使成某种状态”、“致使 ...” 、“使之如 ...” 、“作成 ...”

e.g.:endanger 使受危险 enlighten 启发,启蒙

enlarge 扩大,放大 enrich 使富足

3. en- == " 用 ... 来做某事 " 、“饰以 ...” 、“配以 ...”e.g.:enchain 用链锁住

enlace 用带缚

entrap 诱陷4.en- == 加在动词之前,表示“ in”, 或只作加强意义e.g.:enclose 围入,关进

entrust 信任,委托

enforce 强制执行

merit n.1 [countable usually plural] one of the good features of something such as a plan or system

e.g.:The committee will look at the relative merits of the two proposals.

2 [uncountable] formal a good quality that makes something deserve praise or admiration

3 judge sth on its (own) merits to judge something only by how good it is, without considering anything else

习惯用语:

1.according to one's merits

按价值 ; 按资质

2.have the merits

【律】在诉讼中处于有利的地位

3.make a merit of (=take merit to oneself for)

以某事居功自夸

4.make merit with sb.

理应受到某人的感激

5.on its merits

按事情的是非曲直 , 按实质说

6.on one's merits

按其本身条件 ( 或情况 )

7.stand on one's own merits

靠实力

辨析: merit value virtue worth

1. 都含 “优点”、“价值”的意思。2. merit 指“成就或品质中值得赞扬的优点” , 如 :

The merits of your plan outweigh the defects.

你制定的计划其优点胜过缺点。3.value 指“重要性”、“价值” , 如 :

I set a high value on his advice.

我认为他的忠告很有价值。

4.virtue 指“美德”、“优点” , 如 :

The great virtue of air travel is speed.

乘飞机旅行的最大优点是速度快。5.worth 着重指“人或物本质中的优点或价值” , 如 :

The worth of the new drugs is certain although all their uses are not yet known.

那些新药的价值是肯定的 , 尽管它们的用途尚未为

人们知道。

survive v.1. [intransitive, transitive] to not die in an accident or war or from an illness:

e.g.: Only 12 of the 140 passengers survived.survive sth: There are concerns that the refugees may not survive the winter.

2. [intransitive, transitive] to continue to exist in spite of many difficulties and dangers:

e.g.:A few pages of the original manuscript still survive.

3 often spoken [intransitive, transitive] to continue to live normally and not be too upset by your problems:

e.g.:I don't think I could survive another year as a teacher; it's just too stressful.

4 survive on to continue to live a normal life even though you have very little money:

e.g.:I don't know how you all manage to survive on Jeremy's salary.

5 [transitive] to live longer than someone else, usually someone closely related to you

e.g.:Harry survived his wife by three months.

rank n.high social position;distinct grade in the armed forces

e.g.:He is a person of rank;be careful how you speak to him.

A general is an army officer with a high rank. He will become a soldier of the highest rank. vi. to put in a class e.g.: Where do you rank Wordsworth as a poem? vt. to have a place e.g.:Does he rank among/with the failures?

certificate n. written or printed statement, made by sb in authority e.g.:You birth certificate tells people when you were born

When they passed the examination, the students got their certificates

The doctor signed a death certificate.

a health/marriage/medical certificate

健康证明书 /结婚证 /诊断书

flesh and blood 血肉,肉体;亲属,亲骨肉I must help my brother and sister because they're my own flesh and blood.

" 我必须帮助我的弟弟和妹妹 , 因为他们是我的亲骨肉。The character of the captain was not so well fleshed out as the others in the play.

船长这个角色不如剧中其他角色那么有血有肉。

常见表达:

go the way of all flesh 逝世one's pound of flesh 致命的债务in the flesh 本人;亲身make sb.'s flesh creep 使人战栗 , 使人毛骨悚然bad blood 敌意;不和;恶感

There is bad blood between them 他们之间感情不和。Blood is thicker than water. 血浓于水。make sb.'s blood run cold 使极度害怕make sb.'s blood boil 使勃然大怒

economic adj. 经济(上)的,经济学的 economical adj. 经济的,节约的 economics n. 经济学 economist n.经济学者,经济学家 economy n. 经济;节约;节约措施an economic crisis 经济危机

economic sanction 经济制裁an economic blockade 经济封锁

辨析: financial economic economical 这三个词都有“经济的”意思。 Financial 意思为“财政的,金融的”,侧重财政方面的因素。 Economic 则意思为“经济的,经济学的”,侧重于政治并称的经济。 Economical 意思为“经济的,节约的”,侧重于节约和储蓄。用于人时,意思为“节俭的,节约的”;用于物时,意思为“节约的,少用钱的,实用的”

Practice

Students in _________difficulties may apply for subsidies. 有经济困难的同学可申请补助。

financial

Things are getting better an better in the ________world.金融形势越来越好。financial

That country has a bright __________and practical prospect.那个国家经济前景光明。

economic

She is ___________with her money.她用钱节省。economical

What he suggested seems to be a more _________and more practical solution. 他提出的解决办法更经济,更实用

economical

compete v.1.to try to be more successful than another person or organization, especially in business

[+ with]: They found themselves competing with foreign companies for a share of the market.

[+ for]: She and her sister are always competing for attention.[+ against]: businesses competing against each other

compete to do sth: Several advertising agencies are competing to get the contract.

2 to take part in a competition or sporting evente.g.:How many runners will be competing in the marathon?3 can't compete with sb/sth to not be as interesting, attractive ,big,goodetc as someone or something else:

e.g.:Melinda was plain and knew she couldn't compete with her sister where boys were concerned. Small, independent bookstores simply can't compete with the big national chains.

辨析: abandon desert forsake quit

1. 都含有“放弃”、“遗弃”的意思。

2. abandon 强调“完全、永远地遗弃” , 尤其是指遗弃以前感兴趣或负有责任的人或物 , 如 :She abandoned her child. 她遗弃了她的孩子。

3.desert 强调“违背誓言、命令、责任、义务等” , 如 : The soldier deserted his country and helped the enemy. 那个士兵叛国助敌。

4. forsake 指“遗弃某人以前所爱的人或物” , 强调“断 绝情感上的依恋” , 如 :

She pleaded with her husband not to forsake her.

她恳求丈夫不要抛弃她。5. quit 强调“突然或不意地弃去” , 常指“停止” , 如 :

She quitted her job.

她放弃了自己的工作。

How to paraphrase this sentence:

Americans who value individualism more than people in other countries will also come back home for Thanksgiving, a ceremony emphasizing a sense of belonging.

How to understand this sentence?

Pavement: distance

The conflict of being raised in families and taught to be individuals bring about double values, which will always be with us all our lives.

We are taught that we enjoy freedom as an individual while we will surely be safe and secure in our family.