“TURN YOUR NEGATIVE THINKING TO POSITIVE”

Life could be so much better for many people,if they would just spot their negative thinking habits and replace them with positive ones.

PREPARED BY

REENA PILLAI

TGT (SOCIAL SCIENCE)

Situation 1 says:

I will be happy once I have a house, a car…………

My solution says: Learn to be happy with what you have ,where you are right at this moment.

Situation 2 says:

I wish I were as pretty, as talented as everyone else.

My solution says: Stop comparing yourself to others and look at your strengths and successes however small

Situation 3 says:

Seeing others becoming successful makes me jealous and resentful.

My solution says: Look not at those above you in the social ladder but those below you

Situation 4 says:

I am a miserable failure …….I can not seem to do anything right.

My solution says: See your successes and ignore your failures.

Situation 5 says:

I am going to beat so and so no matter what…..I am better than him. And there is no way I will help him succeed….he might beat me.

My solution says: Learn to think in terms of abundance rather than scarcity.

Situation 6 says:

Why do these bad things always happen to me?

My solution says: See bad things as part of the ebb and flow of life.

Situation 7 says:

You cannot do anything right! why can’t you be like……

My solution says: Take the mistakes or bad behaviours of others as an opportunity to teach

Situation 8 says:

Your work frustrates. It’s super lame.

My solution says: Learn to interact with people in a more positive way …it makes others feel good and it makes you feel better yourself.

Situation 9 says:Insulting people in retaliation.

My solution says: Try to understand their problems more and what problems are they going through?

Situation 10 says:I don’t think I can do this …..may be some other time.

My solution says: Find ways to make yourself a success at your goal. If you fail try again…

Thanks in millions for the patient hearing……..

Have a wonderful Saturday….