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True Love : True Love :
3rd Nov 20112
GPYC. Indonesia
Dream Big?
Vision = Wawasan It gives clear goal and mission Source of imagination, creativity &
inspiration source of Zeal and Drive Source of Team work
We endeavors to bring our human family together within every level of society.
When we heal the family….
we heal the world.
The traditional family is the cornerstone of society and the first school where love is learned.
Moral standards exist to protect us and promote the health of our families.
Family is the very base in providing character education training and leadership education.
Human Dimension
Biological
Social & cultural
Value
PhysicalPhysical law govern every thing: eg: Jump from high building – injury or die
Biological law in control , eg : breathing 、heart beat 、 sleep 、 sex…..
Human behavior 、 eg :attire 、 food 、 shelter 、 manners…
Morality, in search of ideal, truth, beauty & goodness
Bio law
Logic of
LoveBuilding ideal FamilyBuilding ideal Family
A life of true happiness
Joy & happiness has many level Joy & happiness has many level
Spiritual creation
Relationship are Interconnected
individual to Global
Politic
Social
Media
Family
Education
Economic
Environment
World
Media
Individual
Nation
Religion
Cultural & Artistic
The Challenges: The Feeling About SEX, sexual organ & sexual things
• Yucky
• Bed & Bad
• Porn• Shy
• Taboo • Pleasure
distorted view
Many kinds of unhappiness & problems..
Single Parents
Orphans
Out of wedlockAIDS
DivorceWars
10
Family BreakdownFamily Breakdown
What Is The Most Important To You?
Family
Love
Money
Knowledge
Special someone
power
House
Building Nation of Prosperity, One Family at a timeBuilding Nation of Prosperity, One Family at a time
Individual happiness
Family stability National
strengths
Individual happiness
Family stability National
strengths
The Most Important things
1.Family
2.Love
3.God
4.Money
5.Education
6.Friends
Character —Foundation for Strong Marriage
Character —Foundation for Strong Marriage
Are They Balanced?Are They Balanced?
Career Preparation
Career Preparation
Marriage PreparationMarriage
Preparation
Where to Nurture our Heart?
FAMILY
The SchoolThe School
of Loveof Love
Ideal Leader & society
Begins from an ideal family
Spiritual Moral - Ethical
• Experience God's Love
• Learn Principles of Life
• Character Development
• Live for Others
4 realm of Heart 4 realm of Heart ( 4 Spheres of Love)( 4 Spheres of Love)
in the Family : in the Family :
Parental HeartParental Heart Conjugal HeartConjugal Heart Sibling’s HeartSibling’s Heart Children’s HeartChildren’s Heart
Natural Order in the Family
Vertical Order
Vertical Order Individual Individual
OrderOrderIndividual Individual
OrderOrder
GrandGrand
parentsparents
GrandGrand
parentsparents
ParentsParentsParentsParents
BrotheBrotherrBrotheBrotherr
SisterSisterSisterSister BrotherBrotherBrotherBrother SisterSisterSisterSister ChildrenChildrenChildrenChildren
Horizontal Order
Horizontal Order
Natural Order in the Universe
Natural Order in the Universe
Vertical Order
Vertical Order Individual
OrderIndividual
Order
Center of Center of GalaxyGalaxy
Center of Center of GalaxyGalaxy
SunSunSunSun
EarthEarthEarthEarth MarsMarsMarsMars JupiterJupiterJupiterJupiter
Horizontal Order
Horizontal Order
MercuryMercuryMercuryMercuryVenusVenusVenusVenus
The Four Realms of Love The Four Realms of Love
Child’s Love Child’s Love Sibling’s LoveSibling’s Love Spouse’s LoveSpouse’s Love Parent’s LoveParent’s Love
Culture & TraditionCulture & Tradition
Heart
mind
Father Mother
TrustTrust
LoveLove
Selfish
• Commitment
• Aspiration
• Principle & value
Grow of Heart ・・・
Family
Society
Nation
World
Building a High Trust CultureBuilding a High Trust Culture
Heart
& mind
Leader Member
TrustTrust
IntegrityIntegrity
Self-interest
• Commitment
• Aspiration
• Principle & value
Transformation begins ・・・
Family
Society
Nation
World
Expanded capacity to
give and receive love
Live for others = Way to maturing character
Matured Matured
CharacterCharacter
Maturing Maturing
CharacterCharacter
Stage OneStage One
Stage TwoStage Two
Stage ThreeStage Three
Expanding the heart
Live for others voluntary is a process…
ParentalParental
HeartHeart
MaturingMaturing
HeartHeart
Parental Parental
Conjugal Conjugal
Sibling Sibling
Children Children
UnwillingUnwilling
HeartHeart
Servant $$$$$ Servant $$$$$
Slave Prisoner Slave Prisoner
Wife
YoungerSibling
Parents
Children
P.LP.L
ElderSibling
PURE love in family
4 great love4 great love 1. Children‘s Love1. Children‘s Love
2. Sibling‘s Love2. Sibling‘s Love
3. Conjugal Love3. Conjugal Love
4. Parent‘s Love4. Parent‘s Love
In the center, There is In the center, There is Pure Love Based on Pure Love Based on purity between purity between husband and wife.husband and wife.
husband
Every love Every love & Only LoveOnly Love
““ Love for EveryoneLove for Everyone““
The more you share this love, the happier you are.
1.Brothers and sisters 2.Children3.Parents
““Love for Only oneLove for Only one““
This love should not be This love should not be Shared. Shared.
husband & wife husband & wife - Centered on pure love- Centered on pure love
Love for EveryoneLove for Everyone
MarriageMarriage
Love for Only oneLove for Only one100%?100%?
True Love & False Love
True LoveTrue Love False Love
UnconditionalUnconditional Live for greater good Live for greater good Eternal Eternal Unchanging & Unchanging &
ResponsibleResponsible UniqueUnique AbsoluteAbsolute Give and ForgetGive and Forget Bring peace & HappinessBring peace & Happiness
conditional Selfish individualism temporarily, false changeable,
Irresponsible Give and remember
greed Vengeance, enmity Discriminate Bring pain and sorrow
TRUE LOVETRUE LOVE
PURE LOVEPURE LOVE
UnconditionalUnconditionalGiving and forgetGiving and forget
Getting biggerGetting biggerFor sake of othersFor sake of others
Love for everyoneLove for everyoneThe greatest loveThe greatest love
Starting point of True loveLove for only one
The most important love
Pure Love Pure Love && True True LoveLove
Question Question ::
What is the most precious thing in your What is the most precious thing in your life?life?
Why / For what you were born as a Why / For what you were born as a
man or women?man or women?
What is the most important / significant What is the most important / significant
organ in your body?organ in your body?
What is the most important organ ?
Love organ• without love organ, where would true love blossom and be perfect ?
• where would new life form ?
• How could blood lineage be
passed on ?
Love
Life
Lineage
Love
Life
LineageUM ASIAUM ASIA
Absolute Sex & True Family Absolute Sex & True Family
Who is the owner of our sexual organ?
It’s our spouse !
Pure love is the Best gift we can offer to our spouse Husband & wife give 100% pure love to each other mentally,
spiritually and physically
From there , we can build an ideal family which accomplish 4 Great
realms of Heart.
The most
important organ in our
body
LoveLove
organorgan
ConscienceConscience
IndividualIndividual
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
ConscienceConscience
SpouseSpouse
IndividualIndividual
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibilityWith freedom comes responsibility
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibilityWith freedom comes responsibility
ConscienceConscience
SpouseSpouse
IndividualIndividual
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
The Significance of Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
ChildChild
HOLY
Sacred
HOLY
Sacred
LifeLife
LineageLineage
Sex
Sex
LoveLove
ConscienceConscience
Sex is linked to the deepest aspects of our LifeSex is linked to the deepest aspects of our Life
Question Question ::
Why? Why ? Why ?Why? Why ? Why ?
Why your love organ is in your spouse hand ?Why your love organ is in your spouse hand ?
If so, then what is the relationship between If so, then what is the relationship between
you & your love organ ?you & your love organ ?
Freedom & Responsibility: Individual
• Without restraintWithout restraint
• To be responsible… To be responsible…
to fulfill the greatest to fulfill the greatest dream.dream.
Responsible means
No complains – criticize – contemn Find solution Take challenges & difficulties as an
opportunity to grow That’s the character building
Private victory before Public
• Self -GovernanceSelf -Governance
• To be responsible… To be responsible…
to fulfill the greatest to fulfill the greatest dream.dream.
Every entity has its purpose of existence If we don’t use it as it was intended….
Prostitute,
Sex affairs
Premarital Sex
=> abortion, AIDS
Sex in Marriage
=>Bring Birth,
Mature Conjugal Love, Create LineageRight
Use
Wrong Use
Love
Organ
Happiness
Sadness
Bitterness
Problems
The most precious gift offered at time of marriage.
The gift of pure love has the highest value
The most important point in the education for young people
Importance of Abstinence & Keeping Pure Love Before
Marriage
Importance of Abstinence & Keeping Pure Love Before
Marriage
把那一個給最心愛的終身伴侶呢?
貞潔貞潔 婚前性行為婚前性行為Pure LovePure Love
Which one you will choose for your most loving spouse ?
Premarital SexPremarital Sex
True love power bring true happiness
MindMindBody SpiritualSpiritual
growthgrowth
Physical growth
Mature character
Instinctual Love
Spiritual LoveMinMindd
Body MinMindd
Body心與體合一
遵守真愛的法則
Mature man & women
HappinessHappiness
Spouse’s SphereDraws on Other Spheres
Qualities Most Valued by Married Couples
Qualities Most Valued by Married Couples
CaringCaring HonestyHonesty TrustTrust FidelityFidelity CommitmentCommitment Willingness to Willingness to
sacrificesacrifice Sense of humorSense of humor
CaringCaring HonestyHonesty TrustTrust FidelityFidelity CommitmentCommitment Willingness to Willingness to
sacrificesacrifice Sense of humorSense of humor
Attractiveness
Wealth
Status
Attractiveness
Wealth
Status
Character
Beliefs
Ability to love
Character
Beliefs
Ability to love
Selecting a Marriage PartnerSelecting a Marriage Partner
Less Successful
Outer Traits focus
Less Successful
Outer Traits focus
Human Dimension
Biological
Social & cultural
Value
PhysicalPhysical law govern every thing: eg: Jump from high building – injury or die
Biological law in control , eg : breathing 、heart beat 、 sleep 、 sex…..
Human behavior 、 eg :attire 、 food 、 shelter 、 manners…
Morality, in search of ideal, truth, beauty & goodness
Bio law
Logic of
LoveBuilding ideal FamilyBuilding ideal Family
A life of true happiness
Joy & happiness has many level Joy & happiness has many level
Spiritual creation
Heaven
FatherFather MotherMother
True loveTrue love
True lifeTrue life
True lineageTrue lineage
Parental loveParental love – Should be True Parents love– Should be True Parents love
Children
Character Developmentthrough Four Spheres of Love
Higher spheres — Founded on lower spheres More unselfish & responsible Require effort
BirthBirth
Childhood(brother & sister)Childhood(brother & sister)
Son & DaughterSon & Daughter Husband & WifeHusband & Wife
Mother and FatherMother and Father
MarriageMarriageBlessingBlessing
Getting Getting older...deatolder...death and after h and after lifelife
Life, Love and Lineage in Family
“4 Great Realms of Heart”
* Parental Love *
* Conjugal Love *
* Sibling’s Love *
* Children's Love *
* Love
* Support
* Sacrificial
* Unconditional
* Fundamental
* Trust
* Love* Believe
* Rely
* Help
* Respect
* Serve
living together in harmony
Jonathan EdwardsJonathan Edwards was the first president of was the first president of Princeton University and one of the key religious Princeton University and one of the key religious leaders during the "Great Awakening" in America. leaders during the "Great Awakening" in America.
Max JukesMax Jukes. Jukes was a Dutch immigrant that . Jukes was a Dutch immigrant that arrived in New York in the early 1700's. He was an arrived in New York in the early 1700's. He was an atheist, an alcoholic who couldn’t hold a job, and atheist, an alcoholic who couldn’t hold a job, and married a prostitute.married a prostitute.
Nation’s Future: Based on Family
JONATHAN JONATHAN EDWARDSEDWARDS(1,394 descendants traced)(1,394 descendants traced)
13 college presidents13 college presidents
65 college professors65 college professors
30 judges 30 judges
100 lawyers 100 lawyers
60 physicians60 physicians
75 army and navy officers75 army and navy officers
100 pastors100 pastors
60 prominent authors60 prominent authors
80 public servants in other capacities including 80 public servants in other capacities including governors and ministers to foreign countries governors and ministers to foreign countries
3 United Stated senators3 United Stated senators
1 Vice-President of the United States1 Vice-President of the United States
Nation’s Future: Based on Family
MAX JUKESMAX JUKES(903 descendants traced)(903 descendants traced)
310 delinquents who never finished 310 delinquents who never finished school and died in poverty school and died in poverty
145 confirmed drunkards145 confirmed drunkards
190 public prostitutes 190 public prostitutes
285 had sexually transmitted diseases285 had sexually transmitted diseases
150 spent an average of 13 years in prison 150 spent an average of 13 years in prison
7 convicted murderers7 convicted murderers
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Nation’s Future: Based on Family
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61Prof. J.D. Unwin’s Study of 88 Civilizations
• Strong Family, marital fidelity
• Rise of Civilization
• art, science• culture• creativity
Family breakdown, pre-marital, Family breakdown, pre-marital, extra-marital sexextra-marital sex
Decline & Death of Civilizations Decline & Death of Civilizations (within 3 generations)(within 3 generations)
NO EXCEPTIONS!
Nation’s Future: Based on Family
ConclusionOwner of my Love Organ is my Spouse(keeping purity of mind and body)
The value of Love organ:Palace of Love, Life, Lineage, and conscience
Rule of LOVE that brings us Happiness:True love for everyonePure love for only one
Make it sure, Keep it pure!
Therefore, the proper use of conjugal love, is not only central to the well-being of the family, it is critical for social harmony and world peace. One Family Under God can be established by creating ideal families centered on true love.
Conclusion
Pure Love Pledge
The pure relationship of love between a man and a woman is a sacred gift, to be cherished and honored for the sake of building a true family, a healthy society, and world peace.
Once that love is consummated, it should never be broken.
Therefore, from now on, I commit myself to:
Respect and honor the purity in myself and others;
Practice true love as a child, friend, sibling, and parent;
Sharing my pure love only with my future spouse (Keeping purity);
Refrain from all sexual relationships before marriage;
Dedicate myself to absolute fidelity within marriage;
Encourage others to do the same.