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22 TheChronicle December 21, 2007 23 TheChronicle December 21, 2007 THE ISSUE Every week we turn the spotlight on one of the important issues........... in the community Our loss must not be in vain T wo families united in grief by the car crash that killed their teenage sons have become the first to pledge support for The Chronicle Too Young To Die campaign. The families of 16-year-olds Tristan Cook and Dominic Arnold want to highlight the risks of reckless driving to prevent others losing a child to a car crash. The Christleton High School sixth- formers died as passengers in a car driven by 18-year-old Michael Wood, of Hoole, which crashed on the A41 near Dragonhall on December 10 last year. Wood, also a Christleton sixth- former, was last week convicted of careless driving at the time of the crash, and dangerous driving earlier that night, when he performed handbrake turns, wheel spins and a long overtake close to a bend on the A41. It was Tristan’s father, Haydyn Cook, who first asked Chronicle readers to pledge to help cut road deaths. His wife Dorothy, Tristan’s mother Meriel Pritchard and Dominic’s mother and stepfather Erica and Damien Murphy, are also supporting the campaign to raise awareness about reckless driving. Meriel, a lecturer at the Social and Communications Studies department at Chester University, said: “There is something extraordinarily fundamental about the pain when you lose your own child. Something physical as well as emotional just rips you apart.” Meriel was the first parent to find out about the crash, when a police officer called at her Littleton home. She said: “I got woken up by the doorbell ringing incessantly at 3am. I was on my own in the house and as I came downstairs I thought to myself ‘why is he ringing so hard?’, then I saw the silhouette of someone standing there who was clearly not Tristan. “I opened the door, the police officer asked if I was Tristan’s mother and I said: ‘Just tell me he is all right’. He told me to sit down and I knew at that point. From then on it felt as though I was living in a film and as though the script had almost been preordained and I was just observing what was going on.” Meriel called her ex-husband Haydn at his home in Rowton, where he lives with his wife Dorothy. He remembered: “The police thought Tristan was 19 because he had fake ID on him. For a moment your heart leaps at the thought it might not be him – you wouldn’t wish this on anyone else, but there is a glimmer of hope and you grasp at it. “I had to go to identify the body. You just don’t believe you are ever going to have to do something like that. “He just looked intact – we heard later that he had horrific internal injuries but he just had a little bit of blood on his ear and that was the only outward sign of what had happened.” The family is now facing a second Christmas without Tristan. Hadyn said: “We are going to have as good a Christmas as we can. Last year we put Tristan’s Christmas presents on his grave. We will go to the service at Christleton church and we will visit Tristan’s grave there. “When people are driving I don’t think they realise the risk and the potential consequences of what they are doing – to snuff out two lives is just so awful.” The week of the crash, Dominic’s mother and stepfather were in Australia for a wedding. They last spoke to Dominic on Saturday, December 9, when he told them The Meadows were flooded. Hours later they received a call to say their son was dead. Damien said “You can’t really grasp the enormity of it. The 24-hour journey back was just horrendous, but we were numb.” Erica added “The worst thing was walking back into the house and seeing how he had left it – things like a half-finished glass of Coke on the table and his wet towel still on his bedroom floor. It was still wet. It was just horrendous.” Of the Too Young To Die campaign, Damien said: “We want something good to come out of this because we don’t want other families to experience what we have experienced. It is such a waste of two good, solid, young men who were always going to give more to the world than they took out of it.” Erica added: “The driving age should be raised to 18 because they are too immature at 17. There ought to be a probation period before they are fully licensed and they should do the Pass Plus advanced driving course. They shouldn't be allowed more than one passenger or to drive after 10pm.” Grieving families are first to support our new campaign to reduce the number of young people killed on Cheshire roads REMEMBER ALWAYS: Parents Haydn and Dorothy Cook, Meriel Pritchard and Tristan’s 14-year-old sister Tamsin. IC191207tribute By Rebecca Edwards Make a pledge to help save a life in 2008 The Chronicle believes too many young drivers and passengers die on Cheshire roads every year. We want to make 2008 the year when fatality and injury rates for under 25 year olds fall in Cheshire. In the Too Young To Die cam- paign we pledge to publish a series of articles throughout 2008 high- lighting the need to respect the roads. We will campaign for changes in the law and improved education for young people before and after they start to drive. We believe changes in attitude must start at community level so we are asking you, our readers, to sign our online pledge at www.chesterchronicle.co.uk and help make a difference. Drivers – Report any reckless driving you see on the roads. Lead by example – drive safely, take care on the roads, check your vehicle regularly. Parents – talk to your child about the risks and responsibilit- ies of being a driver and a pas- senger, make sure they realise how many young drivers and pas- sengers die on the roads each year. Teenagers – Tell your friends if you don’t like the way they drive. Don’t ride in their car if you aren’t comfortable. Make it clear you don’t agree with the boy racer culture. Make it clear that drivers – male or female – who take risks are not attractive. If you have been affected by a tragedy on the roads, call Rebecca Edwards on 01244 606415 Family continues Dom’s conservation fight to save orang-utans ANIMAL lover and strict vegetarian Dominic Arnold’s memory lives on through his family’s work to rescue orphaned orang-utans in Borneo. His mother and step-father Erica and Dami- en Murphy decided to give funeral donations to the orang-utan conservation projects at Chester Zoo, because they knew their son would have approved. The couple and their daughter Rebecca,19, visited the animals in the wild in Borneo last August and hope to raise further funds for the foundation featured on the BBC’s Or- angutan Diary series. Erica said: “Dom had every David Atten- borough DVD, he loved animals, he was al- ways having a go at us for eating meat. Damien added: “There has to be something good to come out of this. Deforestation is destroying the orang-utan’s habitat and leav- ing the babies orphaned. If we can save some of them, it will be something good.” The couple say they will remember Domin- ic as an entertainer who taught himself to juggle, unicycle and played the drums. Erica said: “On holiday he would spend his time juggling for all the other little children – they would follow him along the beach like the pied piper. “We would be sitting out in the garden and he would come out and just start entertaining us. “He loved skiing with his father, kite surfing and scuba diving. His Christmas present last year was to dive with Wilma the sand shark at the Blue Planet Aquarium, but of course he never got to do it.” The couple say they are grateful to every- body who helped them through the last year, and for the tributes to Dominic and Tristan mounted across Chester. Erica wears orange clothing every day in memory of Dominic and to mark the work they are doing for the orang-utans. Orange flowers have also been planted at the crash site and the family wore orange ribbons every day to the court trial. MEMORY LIVES ON: Erica Murphy presented Mike Jordan of Chester Zoo with donations for their orang-utan projects in Dominic’s memory. Tristan was a live wire TRISTAN Cook will always be re- membered as “a joker with a generous heart,” say his family. His father Haydn says his son was proud to have just reached six feet tall. He said: “I will never forget his big feet and hairy legs sticking out from under his dress- ing gown, because he often got up late. “He had started in the lower sixth and was just beginning to realise he was going to have to do a bit of work. “He had an ambition to start a nightclub called ICE, and he and his friends started a Young Enterprise group called ICE Enter- tainments and held their first business meet- ing in our house annexe. “I took over cans of coke for them and I left the empty cans over there for months, be- cause they reminded me of Tristan.” Tristan was best man aged 11 when Haydn and his step-mother Dorothy married in 2001. Dorothy said: “He had a really good voice but used to mess about. He was a joker, it was him who started calling me Dorf when he was a little boy, and it stuck and then turned into the Dorfmeister.” Tristan’s friends acted as coffin bearers at his funeral and his mother Meriel Pritchard says they were an important part of his life. “The previous summer he went to Newquay with a big group of friends, and was due to be booking a holiday to Ibiza the Monday after he died. “He had a big smile on his face when he told me his friends had agreed to wait until he was 17 so he could go with them to Ibiza – he was really touched by that.” Meriel added: “He was a live wire, he loved sport and music. He lived for the moment and that, ironically, is probably linked to the way he died, because he would have view it as being a fun night out with his friends. “He wouldn’t for a moment have understood the potential consequences of that.” Meriel said the Leeds United supporter was proud of his roots in North Yorkshire before moving to Chester when he was nine. He was interested in fashion and designer clothes and was due to work his second shift at Next the morning after he died. Meriel added: “The only good thing that has come out of this experience has been the extraordinary support and love that our friends and colleagues are offered. We want to say how grateful we are to all of them.” Next week – Tristan’s sisters talk about the loss of their brother. A JOKER: Tristan Cook. A Chronicle campaign Pledge your support for our new campaign at www.chester chronicle.co.uk CLICK ON NOW have been eaten For recipes and practical tips to help you reduce food waste visit www.recycleforcheshire.org.uk We buy and then waste around £8 billion on food that could County and district councils working together in partnership

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veryw

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eturn

thespotlighton

oneofthe

importantissues...........in

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munity

Our

lossm

ustnot

bein

vain

Twofam

iliesunited

ingrief

bythecar

crashthatkilled

their

teenage

sonshave

becomethefirst

topledge

support

forTheChron

icleTooYoungToDiecam

paign.

Thefam

iliesof16-year-olds

Tristan

Cook

andDominicArnold

wantto

highligh

ttherisk

sofreck

lessdrivin

gtopreven

tothers

losingachildtoa

carcrash

.TheChristleton

High

School

sixth-

formers

diedaspassen

gersinacar

drivenby18-year-old

Michael

Wood,

ofHoole,w

hich

crashedontheA41

near

Dragon

hallonDecem

ber10last

year.Wood,also

aChristleton

sixth-

former,w

aslast

week

convictedof

carelessdrivin

gatthetim

eofthe

crash,an

ddan

gerousdrivin

gearlier

thatnight,w

henheperform

edhandbrake

turns,w

heel

spinsanda

longovertake

closetoaben

donthe

A41.ItwasTristan’s

father,H

aydynCook,

whofirst

askedC

hron

iclereaders

topledge

tohelp

cutroad

deaths.

HiswifeDoroth

y,Tristan

’smother

Meriel

Pritch

ardandDominic’s

motherandstepfath

erErica

and

Damien

Murph

y,arealso

supportin

gthecam

paigntoraise

awaren

essabou

treck

lessdrivin

g.Meriel,a

lecturer

attheSocial

and

Communication

sStudies

department

atChester

University,said:“T

here

issom

ethingextraordin

arilyfundam

entalabou

tthepain

whenyou

loseyou

rownchild.S

omething

physical

aswellasemotion

aljustrips

youapart.”

Meriel

wasthefirst

parenttofind

outabou

tthecrash

,whenapolice

officercalled

atherLittleton

home.

Shesaid:“I

gotwoken

upbythe

doorbellringingincessan

tlyat3am

.IwasonmyowninthehouseandasI

camedow

nstairs

Ithoughttomyself

‘whyisheringingsohard?’,th

enI

sawthesilh

ouette

ofsom

eone

standingthere

whowasclearly

not

Tristan

.“Iopen

edthedoor,th

epolice

officerasked

ifIwasTristan

’smotherandI

said:‘Justtell

meheisallrigh

t’.He

toldmetositdow

nandIknewatthat

point.From

thenonitfelt

asthoughI

waslivin

ginafilm

andasthoughthe

scripthadalm

ostbeen

preordained

andIwasjustobservin

gwhatwas

goingon.”

Meriel

calledherex-h

usban

dHaydn

athishomeinRowton,where

helives

with

hiswifeDoroth

y.Herem

embered:“T

hepolice

thoughtTristan

was19becau

sehe

hadfake

IDonhim.Foramoment

yourheart

leapsatthethoughtit

mightnotbehim–you

wouldn’twish

thisonanyon

eelse,bu

tthere

isa

glimmerofhope

andyou

graspatit.

“Ihadtogotoiden

tifythebody.Y

oujustdon

’tbelieve

youare

evergoin

gtohave

todosom

ethinglike

that.

“Hejustlooked

intact

–weheard

laterthathehadhorrific

intern

alinjuries

buthejusthadalittle

bitof

bloodonhisear

andthatwastheonly

outward

signofwhathadhappen

ed.”Thefam

ilyisnow

facingasecon

dChristm

aswithoutTristan

.Hadyn

said:“Weare

goingtohave

asgood

aChristm

asaswecan

.Last

yearweputTristan

’sChristm

aspresen

tsonhisgrave.W

ewillgoto

theservice

atChristleton

church

and

wewillvisit

Tristan

’sgrave

there.

“Whenpeople

aredrivin

gIdon

’tthinktheyrealise

therisk

andthe

potential

consequ

ences

ofwhatthey

aredoin

g–tosnuffouttwolives

isjustsoawful.”

Theweek

ofthecrash

,Dominic’s

motherandstepfath

erwere

inAustralia

foraweddin

g.Theylast

spoketoDominicon

Saturday,D

ecember

9,whenhetold

them

TheMeadow

swere

flooded.Hourslater

theyreceived

acall

tosay

their

sonwasdead.

Damien

said“Youcan

’treally

grasptheenorm

ityofit.T

he24-h

our

journeyback

wasjusthorren

dous,

butwewere

numb.”

Erica

added“Theworst

thingwas

walkingback

intothehouseand

seeinghow

hehadleft

it–thingslike

ahalf-fin

ishedglass

ofCoke

onthe

tableandhiswettow

elstill

onhis

bedroomfloor.It

wasstill

wet.It

was

justhorren

dous.”

OftheTooYoungToDiecam

paign,

Damien

said:“Wewantsom

ething

goodtocom

eoutofthisbecau

sewe

don’twantotherfam

iliesto

experiencewhatwehave

experienced.It

issuchawaste

oftwo

good,solid,youngmenwhowere

always

goingtogive

more

tothe

world

thantheytook

outofit.”

Erica

added:“Thedrivin

gage

should

beraised

to18becau

setheyare

tooimmatureat17.T

here

oughttobea

probationperiod

beforetheyare

fully

licensed

andtheyshoulddothePass

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ceddrivin

gcou

rse.They

shouldn'tbeallow

edmore

thanone

passenger

ortodrive

after10pm

.”

Grieving

families

arefirstto

supportour

newcam

paignto

reducethe

number

ofyoungpeople

killedon

Cheshireroads

REMEMBERALWAYS:

Parents

Haydn

andD

orothyC

ook,MerielP

ritchardand

Tristan’s

14-year-oldsister

Tamsin.

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606415

FamilycontinuesDom’sconserva

tionfighttosaveorang-utans

ANIMALlover

andstrict

vegetarianDominicArnold’s

memory

liveson

throu

ghhisfam

ily’swork

torescu

eorph

anedoran

g-utansinBorn

eo.Hismotherandstep-fath

erErica

andDami-

enMurphy

decidedtogive

funeraldon

ations

totheoran

g-utan

conservation

projectsat

Chester

Zoo,becausetheyknewtheirson

wouldhave

approved.Thecoupleandtheirdau

ghterRebecca,19,

visitedtheanimalsinthewildinBorneolast

Augustandhope

toraise

furtherfundsfor

thefoundation

featured

ontheBBC’s

Or-

angutanD

iaryseries.

Erica

said:“Dom

hadevery

David

Atten

-borou

ghDVD,heloved

animals,h

ewasal-

ways

havin

gagoatusforeatin

gmeat.

Damien

added:“There

hastobesom

ething

goodtocom

eoutofth

is.Deforestation

isdestroyin

gtheoran

g-utan’s

habitat

andleav-

ingthebabies

orphaned.Ifw

ecan

savesom

eofth

em,itwillbe

somethinggood.”

Thecouplesay

theywillrem

ember

Domin-

icasanentertain

erwhotaughthimselfto

juggle,u

nicycle

andplayed

thedrums.

Erica

said:“Onholiday

hewouldspen

dhis

timejugglin

gforallth

eotherlittle

children

–theywouldfollow

himalon

gthebeach

likethepied

piper.“Wewouldbesittin

goutinthegarden

and

hewouldcom

eoutandjuststart

entertain

ing

us.“Heloved

skiingwithhisfath

er,kitesurfin

gandscubadivin

g.HisChristm

aspresen

tlast

yearwastodive

withWilmathesandshark

attheBluePlanetAquariu

m,bu

tofcou

rsehenever

gottodoit.”

Thecouplesay

theyare

gratefulto

every-body

whohelped

them

throughthelast

year,andforthetribu

testoDominicandTristan

mounted

acrossChester.

Erica

wears

orangecloth

ingevery

dayin

memory

ofDominicandtomark

thework

theyare

doingfortheoran

g-utans.

Orangeflow

ershave

alsobeen

planted

atthecrash

siteandthefam

ilywore

orange

ribbonsevery

daytothecourttrial.

MEMORYLIVESON:

Erica

Murphy

presentedM

ikeJordan

ofChester

Zoo

with

donationsfor

theirorang-utan

projectsin

Dom

inic’sm

emory.

Tristanwasalive

wire

TRISTANCook

willalw

aysbere-

membered

as“ajoker

with

agen

erous

heart,”

sayhisfam

ily.Hisfath

erHaydn

sayshisson

wasprou

dto

have

justreach

edsixfeet

tall.Hesaid:“I

willn

everforget

hisbig

feetand

hairy

legsstickin

goutfrom

under

hisdress-

inggow

n,becau

seheoften

gotuplate.

“Hehadstarted

inthelowersixth

andwas

justbegin

ningtorealise

hewasgoin

gtohave

todoabitofw

ork.“Hehadanambition

tostart

anightclu

bcalled

ICE,an

dheandhisfrien

dsstarted

aYou

ngEnterprise

groupcalled

ICEEnter-

tainmentsandheldtheirfirst

businessmeet-

inginourhouseannexe.

“Itook

overcansofcoke

forthem

andIleft

theempty

cansover

there

formonths,be-

causetheyrem

inded

meofT

ristan.”

Tristan

wasbest

managed

11whenHaydn

andhisstep-m

otherDorothy

married

in2001.

Dorothy

said:“Hehadareally

goodvoice

butused

tomessabou

t.Hewasajoker,it

was

himwhostarted

callingmeDorfw

henhe

wasalittle

boy,anditstuckandthenturned

intotheDorfm

eister.”Tristan’s

friendsacted

ascoffin

bearersat

hisfuneralan

dhismotherMerielP

ritchard

saystheywere

animportan

tpart

ofhislife.

“Thepreviou

ssummerhewenttoNewquay

withabig

groupoffrien

ds,andwasduetobe

bookingaholiday

toIbiza

theMonday

afterhedied.“Hehadabig

smileonhisface

whenhe

toldmehisfrien

dshadagreed

towaituntil

hewas17sohecouldgowiththem

toIbiza

–hewasreally

touchedbythat.”

Merieladded:“H

ewasalive

wire,h

eloved

sportandmusic.H

elived

forthemomentand

that,iron

ically,isprobably

linked

totheway

hedied,becau

sehewouldhave

viewitas

beingafunnightoutwithhisfrien

ds.“Hewouldn’t

foramomenthave

understood

thepoten

tialconsequ

ences

ofthat.”

Merielsaid

theLeeds

United

supporter

was

proudofh

isroots

inNorth

Yorkshirebefore

movin

gtoChester

whenhewasnine.

Hewasinterested

infash

ionanddesign

ercloth

esandwasduetowork

hissecon

dshift

atNextthemorningafter

hedied.

Merieladded:“T

heonlygood

thingthathas

comeoutofth

isexperien

cehasbeen

the

extraordinary

support

andlove

thatour

friendsandcolleagu

esare

offered.Wewantto

sayhowgratefu

lweare

toallofth

em.”

■Nextweek

–Tristan’s

sisterstalk

aboutthe

lossofth

eirbroth

er.

AJOKER:

Tristan

Cook.

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