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    Ogbo Awoke Ogbo Coaching Newsletter

    Success Coach, 17B Salaudeen Akano St, Ogudu GRA, Lagos, Nigeria | (234) 803 488 0518 |

    Email: [email protected]

    January 6, 2010

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    Timeless Money Secrets Part 4B- Giving Wisely

    Give Your Way to Prosperity

    Timeless Money Secret #4: you become wealthy

    by giving, not by receiving. It is more blessed to give

    than to receive. The rich keep giving and the poor keep

    receiving. Dont be the one always receiving. Be the one

    always giving. Stop begging. Human beings were never

    created to beg. There is a difference between begging and

    asking. Begging comes from a position of weakness.

    Asking comes from a position of strength. The beggar

    has nothing to offer but the one asking has something to

    give. Ask and you will receive. It does not say, Beg and

    you will receive.

    Why Africa is Poor In the Midst of Plenty

    Africa is the Receiving Continent and this is why we are

    the poorest continent. For nearly 50 years since after

    independence, Nigeria is still receiving aid. What do you

    think of a 50-year old man that still wears napkin and

    sucks her mothers breasts? The Western world knows

    that is more blessed to give than to receive, so they keep

    giving us.

    Can the Poor Give?

    Mark founded Facebook (FB) when he was only 20 years

    old from his student hostel. Last week, FB recorded 350

    million subscribers around the world. Each time you click

    FB, 25-year old Mark Zuckerberg gets millions of dollars.

    In 2007, when Microsoft bought less than 2% of

    Facebook, Facebook was valued at $15 billion - not too

    bad for a 25-year old, is it? Like Mark, you can begin to

    create wealth the moment you start asking, What can I

    give?

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    Give Your Best to Your Employer

    If you work, are you giving your best to your

    employer? You say, My boss is stingy. He pays

    peanuts so I wont waste my energy. This is like

    the chicken and egg riddle. Are you getting

    peanuts because your work is peanuts or is your

    work peanuts because you get peanut pay? Life

    will pay you according to the quality of your

    work. Your work is a spiritual duty and when you

    do not do it well, your opportunity to progress inlife diminishes. This life will not promote you to

    the next level when you have not faithfully served

    in your current level. Whatever work you do, you

    are not working for your employer, you are

    working for yourself!

    How Can You Become a Good Giver?

    There are 5 basic qualities of good giving:

    1. Good giving comes from the heart

    2. True giving has no strings attached3. Does not seek to control or manipulate the

    receiver - some people give others in order to

    manipulate them. You will receive no reward

    for that kind of giving.

    4. Is done cheerfully, not grudgingly, because

    God loves a cheerful giver

    5. Costs you something-when you give to

    Motherless Babies Home,s do not give them

    rags and worn out shoes your children could

    not use.

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    TheWorstGiving

    Whatis theworstkindof giving?Theworstgiving

    is thatwhichdoes not elevatethereceiver in any

    way.Theobjectiveof yourgiving is toelevatethe

    receiver fromaweakposition to self reliance not

    to keep him dependent on you for handouts.

    Givingcankillapoororajobless fellowbecauseit

    robs him of theopportunity to exercisecreativity

    and solve his ownproblems.Poverty and hunger

    aregreatmotivators.PovertyisNotGood

    AfterIgraduatedfromtheuniversity22years ago,

    Ihadnojobfor about twoyears. I squatted ina

    slum, experienced many hungry nights, had no

    clothes andsufferedinsults.Ontheoutside, Iwas

    miserable but on the inside I was a dreamer.

    Becauseof whatIsuffered,Icametorealize that

    povertywas acurseandthat nooneshouldglory

    inpoverty. I wanted my children to experience

    greatness. It droveme todreambig dreams.And

    because dreams always cometrue, from that

    miserablebeginning, Ihaverisentowork twicein

    ShellandwithChevron.Ihavetraveledroundthe

    world,seengoodthingsandIlovewhatImdoing

    today. Ihavenot arrived yet. I am still learning,

    dreamingbiggerandgrowing.

    Timeless Money Secrets Part 4B - Giving Wisely

    Ogbo Awoke Ogbo started his career with

    Shell. Then, he moved on to Chevron. After

    years with Chevron, Ogbo returned to a much

    higher position of responsibility with Shell beforeresigning to set up a life and business coaching

    practice. He trains organizations, speaks in

    events around the world and holds weekly

    television and radio programs in Nigeria. He has

    written a book, Financial Freedom for Every

    Youth, the first in a series on financial freedom.

    Ogbo is a member of the presti gious

    International Coach Federation (ICF)

    WhoShouldYouGive

    ?

    There areamillion a

    ndoneways you cou

    ldgive

    butIwouldjustprovid

    eageneralguideline.

    1. Give to places w

    here youdraw spir

    itual

    nourishment.Giveto

    something,somewhe

    reor

    someonethatinspires

    you.

    2. Givetoyour par

    ents.Parental giving

    brings

    divingfavors.

    3. Givetowidowsan

    dmotherlesschildren

    .

    4. Sponsor jobless

    people for training

    and

    seminarsinsteadofgiving

    themmoney.

    5. Give to causes you believe in

    e.g. the

    environment, neigh

    borhoodsecurity, child

    abuse,domesticviolen

    ce,defendingthepoo

    rin

    court, etc.Whatever

    moves yourheart s

    hould

    receiveyourgiving.

    6. Givetoyouralma

    mater.Thatwaswhe

    reyour

    greatnessstartedbut

    theplaceisdilapidate

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    7. Givetotheteacher

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    rimary,

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    them areretired an

    dneedy oldpeople.

    Do

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    rteachers becausethe

    ymadeyou

    great.

    8. Giveback someth

    ingtoyour community.For

    instance, I visit seco

    ndary schools to fr

    eely

    mentorouryoungbo

    ysandgirls.Giveback

    .

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