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Time management

Adam Sandelson LSE Student Counselling Service

18 January 2012

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AimsAims

• Identify useful strategies for better time management

• Examine psychological issues • Explore common difficulties with

perfectionism and procrastination

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Message from a friend:Message from a friend:

Failing to plan … is planning to fail

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IntroductionIntroduction

How do yougo aboutmanaging your time?

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Five basic principlesFive basic principles• Be realistic about the task….how long will it

take?

• Be determined…..limit distractions/displacement

• Be organised………books, pens, coffee

• Balance the other parts of your life

• Be flexible…things may change

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Taking control of timeTaking control of time

Ask yourself from time to time:• How am I using my mental and

physical energy now?• Is this good use of my time?

• Identify priorities/commitments for the week ahead and write on blank sheet all sessions/ meetings; leisure activities; paid work; time for self; adequate rest/sleep.

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Personal Timetable

Sun Mon Tues Weds Thurs Fri Sat

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1:00pm

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Use personal timetabling to:Use personal timetabling to:

• acknowledge what you have achieved• save mental energy • be purposeful and realistic• meet deadlines and keep up with work• have effective study time and effective

relaxation • Enjoy yourself without guilt and worry

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Causal Dimensions of Time Causal Dimensions of Time Management Problems for StudentsManagement Problems for Students

Intrinsic/Emotive Extrinsic/External• Feel overwhelmed &‘frozen’ by all the tasks

• Anxiety about what is expected of them

• Anxiety about writing: worried about the quality of their work

• Wanting to live up to other people’s standards

• Wanting to live up to their own image of themselves

• Bored – motivation is low

• Workload is heavy & appears overwhelming

• Lack of clarity about what is expected

• Student not experienced in managing time independently

• Cultural dimensions: come from a society that is relaxed

about time• Course is not interesting

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Tips for avoiding distractionTips for avoiding distraction• Start with the unpleasant tasks first • Set yourself a time limit for reading. • Use active reading techniques. • Distraction problems can occur when the

subject being studied appears totally removed from the real world.

• If you find a particular recommended or set book hard to follow, try another that offers you a simpler or clearer explanation.

• If other students are distracting you, go somewhere else. Where others are working quietly, you are likely to do the same.

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Four Tips for Managing TimeFour Tips for Managing Time1. Start with the unpleasant tasks first – get

them out of the way early. 2. Set yourself a short time limit for reading: 40

– 45 minutes tends to be the maximum time most people can read before their concentration slips. At the end of the set time, stop and take a break.

3. Don’t struggle with books you find hard to read. If you find a particular set book hard to follow, try another that offers you a simpler or clearer explanation of the same subject.

4. Keep your working area clear of clutter: the Wall Street Journal reported that typical US Executive wastes 5 hours a week looking for misfiled/mislaid items. (Lindley 2006).

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Writing StrategiesWriting Strategies• Free yourself up• Go for a walk; talk it out loud• Wait for a structure to arrive• Bullet points, mind maps, scribble ideas• Give yourself time to work it out – learning

and writing involve unconscious processes• Imagine looking back at this task in 6

months • Work with others, use study groups, etc.

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Common difficultiesCommon difficulties

• Perfectionism

• Procrastination

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Are you a perfectionist?Are you a perfectionist?• You are never good

enough, whatever you accomplish

• You can’t complete work or projects, waiting to get them just right

• You must always give 100% or else be mediocre or a failure

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What is perfectionism?What is perfectionism?• Self-defeating thoughts and behaviours associated with

high ideals, not realistic goals. • Often mistakenly seen as desirable or even necessary for

success. • Recent studies show that perfectionist attitudes actually

interfere with success. – The desire to be perfect can deny you a sense of

satisfaction and cause you to achieve far less than people with more realistic goals.

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Causes of perfectionismCauses of perfectionism

• You may have learned early in life that you were mainly valued for your achievements.

• You value yourself on the basis of other people's approval.

• Your self-esteem is based primarily on external standards.

• You are vulnerable and sensitive to the opinions and criticism of others.

• To protect yourself you decide that being perfect is the only defence.

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Negative thoughts andNegative thoughts and feelingsfeelings

• Fear of failure. • Fear of making

mistakes. • Fear of disapproval. • All-or-nothing

thinking. • Over-emphasis on

‘should’, ‘must’ and ‘ought’.

• Never being good enough.

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Fear of failure. Perfectionists often equate failure to achieve their goals with a lack of personal worth or value.•Fear of making mistakes. Perfectionists often equate mistakes with failure. In building their lives around avoiding mistakes, perfectionists miss opportunities to learn and grow.•Fear of disapproval. If they let others see their flaws, perfectionists often fear that they will no longer be accepted. Trying to be perfect is a way of trying to protect themselves from criticism, rejection, and disapproval.•All-or-nothing thinking. Perfectionists frequently believe that they are worthless if their accomplishments are not perfect. Perfectionists have difficulty seeing situations in perspective. For example, a straight ‘A’ student who receives a ‘B’ might believe, "I am a total failure".•Over-emphasis on ‘should’, ‘must’ and ‘ought’. Perfectionists often live with an endless list of rigid rules for what they must accomplish. With the emphasis on how everything has to be done, perfectionists rarely listen to what they really feel like doing.•Never good enough. Perfectionists tend to see others as achieving success with a minimum of effort, few errors, little emotional stress, and maximum self-confidence. At the same time, perfectionists view their own efforts as unending and forever inadequate.
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How is it maintained?How is it maintained?

• Current triggers – eg research pressure• Negative predictions – ‘I won’t do it well’• Unhelpful behaviours,

– eg avoidance of writing, constant checking• Confirming negative beliefs• Self Critical thoughts – ‘I’ve failed again’

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Vicious circleVicious circle

• Set an unreachable goal.• Fail, as the goal was impossible.• Constant pressure leads to

chronic failure and reduces effectiveness.

• Self criticism and self-blaming leads to low self - esteem, anxiety and depression.

• At this point you may give up completely on your original goal and set yourself another unrealistic goal, thinking "This time if only I try harder I will succeed".

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4 common myths with 4 common myths with perfectionism perfectionism

• You can’t succeed without it

• It gets you the best results

• It enables you to overcome obstacles

• It helps you achieve and please others

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What can I do about it?What can I do about it?

• Realize that perfectionism is undesirable– perfection is an illusion that is

unattainable.• Challenge self-defeating thoughts

and behaviours that fuel perfectionism.

• Cost benefit analysis of keeping high standards

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Strategies to move forwardStrategies to move forward• Set goals

– realistic, reachable, sequential• Experiment with standards for

success– Try for 80% or even 60%

• Focus on the process not the end result

• Evaluate success in terms of what you accomplished and what you enjoyed

• Celebrate and learn from mistakes

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Realistic goals. Set realistic and reachable goals based on your own wants and needs and on what you have accomplished in the past. This will enable you to achieve and also will lead to a greater sense of self-esteem.Modest improvements. Set subsequent goals in a sequential manner. As you reach a goal, set your next goal one level beyond your present level.Try for less than 100%. Experiment with your standards for success. Choose any activity and instead of aiming for 100%, try for 90%, 80%, or even 60% success. This will help you to realise that world does not end when you are not perfect. Focus on process. Focus on the process of doing an activity not just on the end result. Evaluate your success not only in terms of what you accomplished but also in terms of how much you enjoyed the task.
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Common difficultiesCommon difficulties

• Perfectionism

• Procrastination

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What is What is procrastination?procrastination?

• Putting off a task which needs to be done

• It can affect our study and writing• We may disguise avoidance by being

very busy • We may find things to do that are

interesting or even useful, but don't contribute towards the main goal

• It may involve feelings of anxiety, stress, guilt, shame and depression

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Overcoming ProcrastinationOvercoming Procrastination

• Use a diary• Prioritise and set

achievable targets• Revise targets• Acknowledge progress• Stay focussed• Avoid avoidant

activities!• Reward yourself

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Procrastination – Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?so what can you do about it ?Aversion to the task- Develop motivation• Find a personal engagement with subject …• … how can I use this idea ?• … what’s significant in this for me ?• Why have I found this difficult in the past ?

…• … how is this different now ?• If I had to explain this to others simply, how

would I best summarise it for them ?

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Procrastination – Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?so what can you do about it ?Impulsiveness / distractions- Long term vision - ‘Unpleasant’ tasks first- Short tasks / short term rewards- Involve others in pay-offs- Mix active / passive work e.g. reading- Study groups

• sharing research• teaching learning

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Procrastination – Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?so what can you do about it ?Time management issues:

- Allow more time for assignments … - … draft, leave, edit, redraft- Simple, realistic, daily goal-setting- Link short-term priorities to long-term

goals- Lower your expectations ?

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Procrastination – Procrastination – so what can you do about it ?so what can you do about it ?Environmental Factors

- Ask library staff for guidance- Find your favourite space- Keep it clear, focussed on one activity- Symbolise it ?

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Dynamics of studyDynamics of study

Pastrelationships

My relationship

with mystudies

Currentrelationships

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What can I do?What can I do?

• Look at your internal dynamics

• Write down any historic messages you carry about yourself

• Develop a more realistic assessment of your ability and worth as a person

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ConclusionsConclusions

• Look after yourself (diet, sleep)

• Keep a supportive structure for your daily life; have relaxation time

• See this as a time of discovery • Recall past achievements• Challenge negative thoughts• Imagine looking back at the

task from a future vantage point

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LSE Student Counselling LSE Student Counselling ServiceService

• Free and confidential • Groups and Workshops programme

– Self Esteem Group – Stress Management Group

• Website has information about the Service– Stress management handout– Relaxation tape MP3’s– Links to self help resources