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© 2009 Byron Katie, Inc. All rights reserved. www.thework.com One-Belief-at-a-Time Worksheet The Work — A Written Meditation On the line below, write down a stressful concept about someone (alive or dead) whom you haven't forgiven one hundred percent. (For example, “He doesn’t care about me” or “I did it wrong.”) Then question the c oncept in writing, using the following questions and turnarounds. (Use additional paper as needed.) When answering the questions, close your eyes, be still, and go deeply as you contemplate. Inquiry stops working the moment you stop answering the questions. Belief:  ________________________________________________________________________ 1. Is it true? ________   The answer is a “yes” or a “no” only.  If your answer is "no," continue to question #3. 2. Can you absolutely know that it’s true?  ________ 3. How do you react, what happens, when you believe  that thought?  ________________________________________________________________________________  ________________________________________________________________________________ Use any of the following sub-questions that apply.  What emotions happen when you believe that thought? (Depression, anxiety, etc. If needed, an Emotions and Reactions List is available on www.thework.com.)  Does that thought bring peace or stress into your life?  What images do you see, past and future, when you believe that thought?  Describe the physical sensations that happen when you believe that thought.  How do you treat that person and others when you believe that thought?  How do you treat yourself when you believe that thought?  What addictions/obsessions begin to manifest when you believe that thought? (Alcohol, credit cards, food, the TV remote?)  Where and at what age did that thought first occur to you?  Whose business are you in mentally when you believe that thought?  What’s the payoff for holding on to that belief?  What do you fear would happen if you didn’t believe that thought? (Later, take this list of fears to inquiry.)  What are you not able to do when you believe that thought?  __________ _________  __________ _________  __________ _________  __________ _________  __________ _________  __________ _________ (Continued on back)  www.thework.com

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© 2009 Byron Katie, Inc. All rights reserved. www.thework.com 

One-Belief-at-a-Time WorksheetThe Work — A Written Meditation

On the line below, write down a stressful concept about someone (alive or

dead) whom you haven't forgiven one hundred percent. (For example, “He

doesn’t care about me” or “I did it wrong.”) Then question the concept inwriting, using the following questions and turnarounds. (Use additionalpaper as needed.) When answering the questions, close your eyes, be still,and go deeply as you contemplate. Inquiry stops working the moment you

stop answering the questions.

Belief:  ________________________________________________________________________ 

1. Is it true? ________ •   The answer is a “yes” or a “no” only.

•  If your answer is "no," continue to question #3.

2. Can you absolutely know that it’s true? ________ 

3. How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought?

 ________________________________________________________________________________ 

 ________________________________________________________________________________ 

Use any of the following sub-questions that apply.•  What emotions happen when you believe that thought? (Depression, anxiety, etc.

If needed, an Emotions and Reactions List is available on www.thework.com.)

•  Does that thought bring peace or stress into your life?

•  What images do you see, past and future, when you believe that thought?•  Describe the physical sensations that happen when you believe that thought.

•  How do you treat that person and others when you believe that thought?

•  How do you treat yourself when you believe that thought?

•  What addictions/obsessions begin to manifest when you believe that thought?(Alcohol, credit cards, food, the TV remote?)

•  Where and at what age did that thought first occur to you?

•  Whose business are you in mentally when you believe that thought?

•  What’s the payoff for holding on to that belief?

•  What do you fear would happen if you didn’t believe that thought? (Later, take thislist of fears to inquiry.)

•  What are you not able to do when you believe that thought?

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 The One Belief At-A-Time Worksheet (continued)

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Belief you are working on: ___________________________________________________   

4. Who would you be without the thought? __________________________________ 

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Additional follow-ups: Close your eyes and observe, contemplate. Who or what are you without thatthought?

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Turn the thought around. (Example of a statement: He hurt me.)

Turn it around to the opposite. (He didn’t hurt me.) ________________________ How is this turnaround as true as or truer than your original statement? (For “He 

didn’t hurt me” or “He helped me ,” exactly how did he not hurt you? How specifically 

has he helped you?) Give at least three specific, genuine examples: 

 ___________________________________________________________________________________ 

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Turn it around to the self. (I hurt me.) _____________________________________ How is this turnaround as true as or truer than your original statement? (For “I hurt 

me ,” exactly how did  you hurt yourself in this situation? In other situations?) Give at

least three specific, genuine examples: _____________________________________________ 

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Turn it around to the other. (I hurt him.) ___________________________________ How is this turnaround as true as or truer than your original statement? (For “I hurt 

him,” exactly how did  you hurt him in this situation? In other situations?) Give atleast three specific, genuine examples: _____________________________________________ 

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For information on how to do The Work or how to use the free Do The Work helpline, go to www.thework.com.