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APRIL 2013 NISAN/IYAR 5773
Hakol The Voice of the Pelham Jewish Center
Major league baseball’s
opening day is around the corner.
Those of us with teams whose season
ended without a run at the playoffs
now have a chance to start over.
There are new faces in our uniforms
and freshly groomed parks enticing us
with moments of great drama. Even
teams that finish in the cellar will have
moments of elegance and grit on the
field. We have a few weeks to be
hopeful for a competitive season, but
come May, fans across the country
will accept what will seem to be inevi-
table defeat. And this, I believe, is
how we undersell the sport and our-
selves. Baseball is a game of beauty: it
is slow, methodical, strategic, and
meditative. Assessing one’s team
based only on wins and losses is like
determining whether or not yoga was
successful based on whether or not I
held my downward dog as long as my
fellow practitioner. The game itself
can be beautiful, even when your
team loses.
I wrote about this a few years
ago and took a lot of heat from fellow
baseball fans. I suggested that as a fan
of the game, you want your team to
win because of smart hitting, daring
base-running, strong defense, cunning
pitching, and explosive energy. When
people say that a win is a win, they are
saying that the athleticism, determina-
tion, and gracefulness that can drive a
team to victory are less important than
the bottom line.
This is, I know, very un-
American of me. We define success
based on the end result, not the proc-
ess it took to get there. Professionally
we assess ourselves based on a score-
card focused almost exclusively on
how much money we earn and our
professional commendations. We
define success based on the final out-
come of an achievement while we
ignore and forget the ways in which
we struggled and behaved and grew
during the journey itself. Our tradi-
tion desperately wants us to see the
short-sightedness of this approach to
life. The Torah is a masterpiece pre-
cisely because it is a book about a
journey. It ends without the triumph
of entering the Promised Land. Our
desert trek was strewn with anguished
failures of spirit alongside soaring
triumphs of faith and determination,
and it is these experiences that are the
centerpiece of our holiest book, not
the achievement of conquest.
On the Shabbat of Chol
Hamoed Pesach, today, we read the
Song of Songs because it is a poem
about a journey that is unfulfilled.
The language of the book explodes
with love’s possibilities and yearnings.
The focus of the poem is on the in-
tense desire, promise, and fretfulness
that always texture the courtship be-
tween two lovers. There is a dream-
like quality to the poem in which the
speakers merge into one another and
we are whisked through the ever
changing landscapes of the land of
Israel. We are accompanied by ga-
zelles and goats, frankincense and
pomegranates, and lillies and nut
groves, all the while, the seasons and
its shadows swirl around us. Harold
Fisch writes that this leads to a "kind
of imaginative overspill, as the rapture
of lovers overflows into the sphere of
geography, transforming the whole
land into an object of love." The Song
of Songs is a reminder of the all en-
veloping imprint that passion and love
leave on our hearts, and we need re-
minders right now that life demands
passion.
The love in Shir Hashirim is
never consummated, which is any-
thing but a failure. The holiness of
love is found in the contours of the
longing itself, regardless of whether
the lovers walk off together, hand in
hand. Having loved like this trans-
forms us in profound ways, even if we
remain separated from the object of
our desire as do the lovers of the
poem.
בי על כ ילות מש תי בל ת בקש ה א אהב נפ ש
תיו שי לא בקש אתיו ו צ :מ ON MY BED AT NIGHT, I
SOUGHT HIM WHOM MY
SOUL LOVES. I SOUGHT HIM,
BUT FOUND HIM NOT.
This refrain is repeated: אתיו צ מלא ו תיו "בקש I sought him, but found
him not." Even the final verse leaves
no question that this love is unful-
filled. "Be swift, my lover, and make
yourself like a gazelle or a young ram
on mountains of spices." She yearns
for her lover to return home to her
speedily, but we are left never know-
ing if that happens.
The brilliance of this ambiguity is
found in its homiletical value: the
value of life is not found in the
acheivements and successes and wins
that we rack up over the years, but in
the process of moving toward some-
one whom we love, and something
about which we are passionate. It is
the journey and its unpredictable, and
messy, and challenging speed bumps
that endow our lives with meaning.
When we face them with courage and
dignity, even if the goal itself remains
unfulfilled, we achieve greatness. If
along the way we experience
A Message from the Rabbi
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THE
PELHAM
JEWISH
CENTER
451 ESPLANADE
PELHAM MANOR, NY 10803
PHONE: 914-738-6008
FAX: 914-931-2199
EMAIL: [email protected]
WEBSITE: www.thepjc.org
Rabbi David A. Schuck
Education Director Ana Turkienicz
Caretaker Adam Bukowski
Office Administrator Kim Lewis
BOARD OF DIRECTORS
President Kate Lauzar
Executive Vice President Andrea Prigot
Treasurer Jill Goldenberg
Secretary Marshall Jaffe
Religious Practices Steve Martin
Membership Maria Abeshouse
Social Action Rachel Collens
Fundraising Lisa Daley
House Darren Lee
Communications Jack Klebanow
Learning Center Hildy Martin
Youth Programming Michelle Dvorkin
Family Programming Liz Tzetzo
PROGRAM COORDINATORS
B’nei Mitzvah Beth Serebransky
B’nei Mitzvah Project Cheryl Goldstein
Continuing Education Jeanne Radvany
Hakol Kim Lewis
Accounts Receivables David Ploski
Kiddush Coordinator Leah Leonard
Israel Programming Virginia Lanoil
The deadline for articles and other sub-
missions for the May 2013 issue of the
Hakol is Monday, April 15th. Please
send to Kim Lewis at [email protected]
and copy to Jack Klebanow at
enthusiasm and we love, well then our
hearts enlarge and open to more experi-
ences of passion. The record of our
lives will not be recorded in wins and
losses, in promotions and awards, but in
how we carried ourselves on the way.
נים או הנצ ץ נר אר ת ב מיר ע הגיע הז
THE BUDS ARE SEEN IN THE
LAND, THE TIME OF SINGING
HAS ARRIVED.
As tiny little buds break through our
recently frozen earth, this moment of-
fers us new possibilities. This magnifi-
cent poem reminds us to approach the
excitement and growth of these possi-
bilities as ends in and of themselves,
rather than as prospects for achieve-
ments. We need to remember this right
now, right in this moment in which the
vines, in blossom, give forth fragrance.
As Pesach begins to wind
down and we begin to look forward to
Shavuot, the same homiletical message
is reinforced. Rabbi Riskin points out
that the word for the holiday that gives
meaning to the exodus from Egypt is
Shavuot, which means weeks. Right
now, we are preparing ourselves to re-
ceive the Torah anew, and we count
each day and each week of this prepara-
tion until we reach Shavuot. The holi-
day is named after the weeks of prepara-
tion for this moment, not the moment
itself because the achievement of kabba-
lat hatorah, of receiving the Torah is
directly influenced by the journey we
make in order to receive it. And next
year we will take the journey anew, and
as a result, the Torah that we receive
will be different, changed.
Today, let us take some time
to meditate on the way in which we are
playing the game of life. Are we so fo-
cused on some notion of the prize at the
end that we have failed to recognize the
opportunity of the journey itself?
L'shalom,
Rabbi David A. Schuck
A Message From the
President
Dear friends,
As many of you were unable to attend
our wonderful PARTY AT THE PJC
last month, I would like to share my
remarks from that evening with you:
Here we are tonight, standing in this
gorgeous building---this building that
reflects so perfectly in a physical way,
who we are as a community. But it
wasn't always so—about 9 yrs ago, this
building that the PJC had made its
home since the late 1950’s was in dire
need of repair, maintenance, and
overhaul, both aesthetically and physi-
cally, to accommodate the needs of
our active and growing congregation.
Many of us in the room remember
the process of how this---our reno-
vated building--- came to be. For those
of us who have only known this space,
let's just say that getting to a group
‘yes’ on the myriad issues inevitable in
an undertaking like this is never easy;
yet that’s exactly what this community
did.
The PJC community came together to
make it happen. Many congregants
contributed to this project, in many
ways---they gave their time, they gave
their expertise, and they gave finan-
cially. In addition to the tremendous
sweat equity that went
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into this renovation, nothing could
have happened without the funding
necessary to underwrite a project of
this size. The capital campaign of
2004 - 2005 raised over 1.5 million
dollars to make this vision a reality.
While a significant portion of the
congregation contributed to the
campaign, there were six families in
particular whose contributions
formed the cornerstone of the fund-
ing, and we would like to recognize
their generous support this evening.
As you look around the shul to-
night, you will notice plaques on the
walls, with their names, acknowledg-
ing their gifts. Tonight, with deep
gratitude and heartfelt appreciation,
together, as a community, we would
like to give special thanks to:
Steve & Elizabeth Edersheim
Barry & Jill Goldenberg
David Haft & Jacqueline Schachter
Les & Sybil Rosenberg
Rob & Janice Rossman
Efrem & Freddie Sigel
Please join me in celebrating these
families who gave so generously to
the capital campaign, and who con-
tinue to support the PJC each year.
We recognize that there are many
needs in our world, and many
places that would benefit from our
individual donations of time and
and money. Each of us has an ar-
ray of choices when considering
where to make philanthropic con-
tributions, or for whom to volun-
teer our time. So we appreciate all
the more when the choice is
made, with intention (kavanah), to
direct that support here, to the
PJC.
Finally, as we celebrate giving to-
night--- a heartfelt thanks to all of
you who have dedicated your
time, and dare I say, given your
heart and soul to filling this build-
ing with your friendships, laughter
and good food; with your hugs
and hand-holding, both in won-
derful times and less-than-
wonderful times; with your
prayers, your longings and your
dreams----- for yourselves, for your
families and for our community.
Together-- we all have made this
house into our home.
All best,
Kate
A Message From the
Education Director
“1 And it came to pass in the four
hundred and eightieth year after the
children of Israel were come out of
the land of Egypt, in the fourth year
of Solomon's reign over Israel, in
the month Ziv, which is the second
month that he began to build the
house of the LORD.” (1 Kings 6:1)
The verse above, from the book of
Kings, tells us about the month of
“Ziv”, the “second month”. At that
time, the Jewish calendar started to
count the months starting from Nis-
san, the month of Passover, since it
was the first month of spring, the
renewal of all things. The second
month, now known as the month of
“Eyiar”, which this year will start on
April 11th, is the one referred in the
TaNaKh as “Ziv”. The name Eyiar
is originally from the Babylonian
Exile period. Both “Ziv” and
“Eyiar” mean “light”, the special sun
light, and the radiance that fills out
the world as we enter the second
month of spring. This is also the
month when we continue counting
the “Omer”, the 49 days of ascent
from Pessach to Shavuot, and it is a
time of mourning, with the excep-
tion of the celebration of a four im-
portant Jewish national historical
holidays that are celebrated in Eyiar.
The Four National holidays cele-
brated in Eyiar (Ziv) are four
“Windows” into cardinal moments
in Jewish History, happening while
the Jewish people are in the midst
of counting the Omer, the days be-
t we e n Y e t z y i a t M i t z r a y im
(Passover ) and Matan Torah (the
Revelation at Sinai), two key biblical
moments in the epic narrative of the
Jewish nation. The 4 Modern
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Pelham, NY
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“windows” into Jewish History are
celebrated as holidays called
“deRabanan”- holidays that came
after biblical times and were desig-
nated as holidays by our rabbis,
whilst Pessach and Shavuot are
called holidays “midehoraita”- holi-
days from biblical times. The 4
“modern” Holidays are: Eyiar 4th -
Yom Hazikaron (IDF soldiers’
Memorial Day), Eyiar 5th - Yom
Ha’atzmaut (Israel’s Independence
Day), Eyiar 18th - Lag BaOmer
(Commemoration of the Rebellion
against the Roman Empire), and
finally Eyiar 28th - Yom Yerusha-
layim (The Day of the reunification
of Jerusalem).
I know this seems TMI (too much
information) for the era of 140 char-
acters in a Tweet…I have probably
lost most of the readers by now. If
you are still reading up to here, I
want to pause and reflect a bit about
all of this. How does that impact us
today? What can we learn from
juxtaposing the ideas of: Light,
spring, Passover, Sinai, and 4 com-
memorations of Modern Jewish
history related to our ongoing strug-
gle for survival?
Moreover, how does that translate
to the role of Jewish Education and
the work we do at the Learning
Center in Pelham, April 2013?
Does any of it affect the lives of our
students and their families?
Let’s think about concentric circles
of Jewish Identity around one LC
student. The child is in the center;
next, his family, and his extended
family; then, the circle of the PJC
community, and the larger circle of
the American Jewish Community;
then a broader circle of the World
Jewish Community.
What holds all these circles to-
gether, connecting them in a series
of interchangeable relationships?
Our broader Jewish narrative, the
outer broader circles, of Modern
Jewish History, Ancient Jewish His-
tory, Bible stories and circling all of
them, a strong belief in G-d and in
the Covenant that we are accounted
for, from the moment of our little
child’s “Brit Milah” until his last
day.
The month of Eyiar, with its biblical
and non-biblical quilt of Jewish cele-
brations offers us an opportunity to
work within the asynchronous ideas
and concepts that sustained the Jew-
ish people to this day. If we exam-
ine the 4 Eyiar holidays in their es-
sential motifs, we can see a common
thread of belief and hope in the
survival of Judaism and the promise
of growth and light it can bring into
the world. If we look at these holi-
days in a historic continuum, Lag
BaOmer is the oldest one, telling
the story of the Jewish uprising
against Hadrian’s Roman Empire
from 132-135 CE, led by a man
widely known as Bar Kokhba, with
the spiritual guidance of Rabbi
Akiva, one of the wisest men of his
time. Rabbi Akiva was convinced
that God would help the Jews regain
control of Judea, and so Bar Kok-
hba led an armed force of as many
as 100,000 men to fight the Roman
troops. The revolt resulted in the
fall of Jerusalem, and ended in 135,
in a village called Betar, where Bar
Kokhba was killed in the battle, and
Rabbi Akiva was captured, impris-
oned, tortured and killed. This
marked the end of the Jewish state,
and it was only after almost 2,000
years a modern Jewish nation was
created in Israel, on the 5th of Eyiar,
5708 (May 15th, 1948) with the es-
tablishment of the State of Israel.
One day before its celebration, we
devote our thoughts to honor the
soldiers who lost their lives
protecting the modern Israel state;
on Eyiar 28th, we celebrate the reuni-
fication of the city of Jerusalem after
the 6th day war in 1967, the moment
that allowed Jews to return to the
Old City and pray at the Western
Wall.
How do these dates connect to the
biblical 49 days between Passover
and Shavuot, between Exodus and
Revelation? One might say - be-
cause what held the Jewish people
together throughout the 2,000 years
in the Diaspora was their strong
connection to the Torah, its study
and the way Jews conducted their
lives according to their understand-
ing and their ongoing relationship
with G-d.
Leaping forward to Pelham and
Jerusalem, April, 2013: we are
sometimes puzzled as we hear in
the news that the same place that is
central to Jewish belief and has been
a symbol for the continued survival
of our people is now the source of
other fierce battles - the battle for
the legitimacy of women prayer at
the Wall, the battle for peaceful
coexistence between Jews and non-
Jews, Israelis and Palestinians, Or-
thodox and progressive Jews in Is-
rael. Learning and knowledge of our
tradition and history can help us over-
come the critical and complex ques-
tions that Judaism currently faces.
Our child, the center of the concen-
tric circles, represents the future and
the continuity of our legacy. It is our
role to equip him/her with the best
tools so s/he can take a stance, ques-
tion and impact what will be written in
the future books of Jewish history;
what will become the future holidays
to be celebrated by the future genera-
tions. Let’s hope we can do it with
much light and wisdom, with clarity
and a shared vision of how we want
them to be able to shape their Juda-
ism - with much Ziv!
L’shalom,
Ana Turkienicz
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ADULT EDUCATION BREAKFAST SERIES
Come join us for the next Adult Education Breakfast Series in April featur-
ing Gloria Goldreich (Horowitz).
This session will be fascinating and will take you back to your childhood, to
your Jewish roots when you listened to your grandparents’ stories in Yid-
dish.
Sunday, April 21st, 10AM , Yiddish in America, Yiddish Theater: Isaac
Bashevis Singer and Chaim Grade
Please RSVP to Ginny Herron-Lanoil at [email protected] or 914-
420-7157 by April17h
ISRAEL EVENTS IN WESTCHESTER IN THE
COMING MONTHS
4/15 Monday, 7:00 PM Yom Hazikaron/Yom Haatzmaut Commemora-
tion at the PJC
4/16 Tuesday,7:30PM Celebrate Israel Film Night, sponsored by West-
chester Jewish Council at the Jacob Burns Film Center
4/28 Sunday, (Lag B’Omer) 1:30-5:30 PM Israel at 65 Westchester County-
wide Celebration at Westchester Day School/Westchester Hebrew High
School in Mamaroneck
5/1 Wednesday, 7:30PM An Evening with Israeli Artist Boaz Vaadia, sculp-
tor at the Arts Westchester, 31 Mamaroneck Avenue in White Plains.
6/2 Sunday, Celebrate Israel Parade in NYC
SAVE THE DATE
PJC SHABBATON
2013 FRIDAY, June 7—
SUNDAY, JUNE 9 Do you like to have fun? It
doesn’t get much better than
this!!
A wonderful community
Shabbat
Perfect for ALL ages
Where can you pray, play
tennis, see a sky full of stars
and have a bonfire and sing
a long?? that's right the PJC
Shabbaton June 7-9 at Camp
Ramah Berkshires. Plan on
being there!
BLOOD DRIVE
AT
THE PJC
Sunday, April 7, 2013
9:00am - 1:30pm
WON’T YOU DONATE
Contact Linda Levine at
(914) 494-4962
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The Next Midnight Run is Saturday Night April 20th at 9:00pm
WHEN: Saturday Night, April 20th. We will be collecting clothing and toiletries on Sunday, April 14th from 9:00 AM - 12:00 noon
WE NEED: 1.) PEOPLE TO SIGN UP TO ATTEND ...
Please email Rachel Collens at [email protected] or call her at (914) 738-4160 2.) PEOPLE TO PROVIDE BAGGED MEALS THAT WILL CONTAIN:
A hearty turkey sandwich A granola bar A bottle of water A banana or orange A package of cookies
3.) THE FOLLOWING ITEMS - Backpacks or bags - Men's pants size 34-42 - Men's sneakers & shoes
- Men's hats like baseball caps
- Toiletries - especially razors, shaving cream, toothpaste and toothbrushes
- New underwear, undershirts and socks - Men's sweatshirts
Anyone wishing to donate cash so we can buy any of the items listed above, should contact Rachel Collens
[email protected], (914) 738-4160
Why Celebrate Israel@65?
It is important to celebrate Israel’s 65 years of independence. The sacrifices being made today in Israel remind us that
the same strength and determination we see in the Israeli people now is what has kept the Jewish homeland thriving
since its beginning as a state in 1948.
That spirit comes from remembering to celebrate life, even in the face of tragedy—it’s no coincidence that Israeli Memo-
rial Day (Yom HaZikaron) flows directly into Israel’s Independence Day (Yom Ha’Atzmaut). As we stand in solidarity
with our brothers and sisters in Israel, and as we mourn the suffering and loss of life, we also celebrate Israel’s existence
and contributions to humanity over the past 65 years.
Come join us on Monday April 15th
at 7PM for our Yom HaZikaron and Yom Ha’Atzmaut Commemoration. Music, Israeli food and dancing! More details to follow.
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JEWISH FILM FESTIVAL 2013
JEWISH FILM FESTIVAL 2013
The PJC is a proud communal partner of the 2013 Westchester Jewish Film Festival at the
Jacob Burns Film Center from April 3-25, 2013. This year's festival is the 11th anniversary
of AJC Westchester's sponsorship of the Festival, the largest annual Jewish event in the
County.
This year's Festival will feature more than 30 films that reflect the true diversity and spirit of
the global Jewish community. AJC Westchester will be bringing high-level speakers to four
of the screenings.
Tickets for this year's Festival are now on sale!
Suffering from Spring Fever!? Sign up for Rabbinic
Intern Shira Wallach’s Mini Class!
Shira Wallach’s Intergenerational Midrash Class Gets Rave Reviews
On Monday, March 11, an intergenerational group of 14 participated in a lively final session of
Shira Wallach’s “Women in Midrash” class. The class primarily focused on the biblical character
of Miriam as she is portrayed at the very beginning of Exodus 1-2:10. After a brief discussion of
what midrash is, participants paired up to study in havruta, coming back together as a group to
share and react to different rabbinic midrashic interpretations of the verses from the Babylonian
Talmud. Teens were actively engaged in discussions alongside adults and ended the class asking
for more study opportunities.
We are very pleased to share the news that Shira Wallach has generously agreed to conduct three
more intergenerational Torah study sessions through the lens of midrash this spring, Monday, April
8th, Thursday, April 18th, and/or Thursday, May 2nd from 7:15pm—8:45pm. Contact Jeanne
Radvany ([email protected]) to sign up.
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Ruth W. Messinger is coming to the PJC for Shabbat,
May 11, 2013
Ruth W. Messinger is president of American Jewish World Service (AJWS), an
international development organization that supports human rights for marginal-
ized people around the world. In addition to its grantmaking to over 375 grass-
roots organizations around the world, AJWS works within the American Jewish
community to promote global citizenship and social justice through activism, vol-
unteer service and education.
Ms. Messinger assumed this role in 1998 following a 20-year career in public ser-
vice in New York City, where she served for 12 years on the New York City
Council and eight as Manhattan borough president. She was the first woman to secure the Democratic Party’s
nomination for mayor in 1997.
Considered a national leader in the movement to end the genocide in Sudan, Ms. Messinger has been called upon
several times to advise President Obama about creating a sustainable path toward peace in that country. In recog-
nition of her leadership, she has served on the Obama administration’s Task Force on Global Poverty and Devel-
opment and currently sits on the State Department’s Religion and Foreign Policy Working Group.
Ms. Messinger has been honored for her inspirational efforts to deepen our people’s commitment to tikkun olam by many national Jewish organizations, including the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, the Women’s Funding
Network, the Union for Reform Judaism and the American Jewish Committee. In recognition of her work, Ruth
has been named one of the Forward’s “50 most influential Jews of the year” for 10 years and was recently listed
6th in the Jerusalem Post’s “World’s Most Influential Jews of 2011” list.
Ms. Messinger is an active member of her congregation, the Society for the Advancement of Judaism, and serves
on the boards of CIFA (Center for Interfaith Action on Global Poverty), Hazon, the Jewish Foundation for Edu-
cation of Women (emeritus), United to End Genocide, Interaction and Surprise Lake Camp. She is a member of
the Leadership Council of Repair the World, and the Executive Committee of the Jewish Social Justice Roundta-
ble.
Ms. Messinger graduated from Radcliffe College in 1962 and received a master’s degree in social work from the
University of Oklahoma in 1964. She began her professional career in public service in Oklahoma, running a
child-welfare agency. Her husband, Andrew Lachman, directs an educational foundation in Connecticut, and she
has three children, eight grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.
Watch for the schedule of Ms. Messinger at the PJC! Join us!
Congratulations Leah Leonard!! Winner of Julian Y. Bernstein Distinguished Service Award
Each year at its Annual Meeting of the Westchester Jewish Council, the Council honors 18 volunteers from among its
member organizations whose dedication strengthens our community. The award ceremony event will take place on May
22, 2013 at JCC Harrison.
Leah has been an essential and tireless volunteer at the Pelham Jewish Center. Under her organization and careful plan-
ning, kiddushes are organized for every Shabbat service throughout the year. Leah has also been a faithful editor of the
Weekly Announcements and monthly Hakol. Leah also serves on the LC Board and organizes the monthly Women’s
group. We are deeply grateful to her for all her hard work!!!
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The Pelham Jewish Center Remembers ...
April Yahrzeits
4/2 Helen Mark, mother of Len Mark
4/4 Esther Rothberg, mother of Peter Rothberg
4/6 Ruth Perkis, mother of Daniel Perkis
4/8 Herb Kasper, father of Jonathan Kasper
4/10 Israel Lanoil, father of Jerry Lanoil
4/14 Ralph Lemberg, father of Lori Lemberg
4/15 Charles Blumenthal, grandfather of Barry Goldenberg
4/19 Dora Cabin, grandmother of Daniel Cabin
4/19 Helene D. Weber, Founding member of the Pelham
Jewish Center
4/21 Egon Radvany, father of David Radvany
4/22 Edgar Read, father of Lydia Read
Ted Silverman, father of Doris-Patt Smith
4/25 Myron Wolpow, father of Paula Geller
4/26 Richard Isaacs, brother of Stephen Isaacs
Emanuel Kahn, uncle of Robert Kahn
4/27 Rhoda Levine, mother of Mark Levine
4/30 Hyman Bloom, father of Norman Bloom
Isidore Zipser, father of Eleanor Einzig
Help support the PJC’s
SOUP KITCHEN Tuesday, April 16th
Each month the PJC cooks and serves for the Community Services Associates Soup Kitchen in Mount Vernon. It’s an opportu-
nity to support our larger community by providing food for people in need who live right in our back yard.
The menu for this month is as follows:
Meatloaf (enough for 10 adults)
1 Box Instant Mashed Potatoes
Salad
Brownies
If you would like to participate:
Contact Rachel Collens at [email protected] or call her at 738-4160 to sign up
Purchase the menu items for ten adults and prepare them in your own kitchen
Drop the food off at Rachel's house as early as Sunday, April 14th and no later than 1:00 PM on Tuesday, April 16th
If you would like to serve the food at the Soup Kitchen, please let Rachel know and arrive at the soup kitchen by 4:50 on April
16th. The address is 115 Sharpe Boulevard South in Mount Vernon.
Don’t miss a chance to do a mitzvah! Join us!
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Kiddush Korner
Only one Kiddush date remains open this spring, June 29th—won’t you consider sponsoring? Our PJC Kid-
dush represents a wonderful conclusion to the meaningful Saturday morning Shabbat service. It is a time to
talk with fellow congregants, welcome new members & guests, and include our children in the weekly tradi-
tions. The weekly Kiddush is a special way to celebrate a simcha--birthdays, anniversaries, and graduations
are just a few occasions to acknowledge. It is also customary to observe a yahrzeit by sponsoring a Kiddush
in memory of a loved one.
Sponsorship is simple—we do it all, from menu planning to set-up and clean-up. Kiddush package options
start at just $150. Please contact PJC Kiddush Coordinator Leah Leonard at [email protected] to re-
serve this last remaining spring date or plan ahead now for summer / fall 2013 occasions, beginning with July
13th. Thank you for helping to maintain an important PJC tradition!
The PJC thanks the following congregants for hosting a Kiddush last month:
March 2 Zev & Melissa Haber and family In honor of Daphne’s 4th birthday and in memory of
her sister, Leah
March 9 The Dvorkin / Epstein / Rubin / Salama Families In honor of Alana, Hannah, Elena,
Ariana, and Jonathan reading Torah during Shabbat services
March 16 Steven Leisman & Karen Dukess and family In honor of Jonathan’s Bar Mitzvah
March 23 Marshall & Naomi Jaffe and family In honor of many family March birthday celebrations
March 30 Adam & Maria Abeshouse and family In honor of the PJC community
Tributes Made to The PJC In Honor of …
Make tributes online … go to www.thepjc.org and click DONATE in the top right corner!
Jeanne & David Radvany, in honor of Marty Druckerman’s special birthday
Ted & Vivian Brown, in honor of Diane Friedman’s birthday, also their contribution to the PJC
Contributions to The Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund
George Driesen, in thanks to Rabbi Schuck
Renee Jolles & Michael Rubin, in honor of Rabbi Schuck for his help with Ariana’s Bat Mitzvah, and also in honor of
the teens that read Torah.
Meryl & Marty Druckerman, in memory of their parents, Arnie and Sam Merkin, and Sadie and Harry Druckerman.
Also in condolences to the family of Skip Reiss, their very good friend.
Shari Chinitz, for the honor of Gabbai.
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Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat
1 Nisan 21 9:30 AM: Shaharit
8:01 PM: Erev 8th Day of
Passover: Candle Light-
ing After 8:01 pm
2 Nisan 22 Learning Center Closed-
Passover Break
9:30 AM: Shaharit
(YIZOR)
8:02 PM: Passover Ends
3 Nisan 23 4 Nisan 24 6:15 PM: Faculty
Meeting
5 Nisan 25 6:30 PM: Kabbalat
Shabbat Service
7:06 PM: Candle Light-
ing
6 Nisan 26 9:30 AM: Shabbat Services
8:06 PM: Shabbat Ends
7 Nisan 27 9:00 AM: Blood Drive
4:00 PM: Yom HaShoah
Service
8 Nisan 28 7:15 PM: Intergenera-
tional Torah Study with
Shira Wallach
9 Nisan 29 4:00 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
7:30 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
10 Nisan 30 8:00 PM: Board Meeting
11 Iyar 1
12 Iyar 2 6:30 PM: Kabbalat
Shabbat Service
7:13 PM: Candle Light-
ing
13 Iyar 3 Birthday Shabbat
9:30 AM: Shabbat Services
10:30 AM: Junior & Young
Junior Congregation
11:00 AM: Torah Time
8:14 PM: Shabbat Ends
14 Iyar 4 3:30 PM Israel Bond Wine &
Cheese Reception at The Haft
Residence
15 Iyar 5 7:00 PM: Yom Hazikaron
- Yom Ha'atzmaut Cele-
bration
16 Iyar 6
17 Iyar 7
18 Iyar 8 7:15 PM: Intergenera-
tional Torah Study with
Shira Wallach
19 Iyar 9 6:30 PM: Kabbalat
Shabbat Service
7:20 PM: Candle Light-
ing
7:30 PM: Bnei Mitzvah
Family Dinner (Gimmel
& HS)
20 Iyar 10 Midnight Run
9:30 AM: Shabbat Services
1:00 PM: Women's Group
8:22 PM: Shabbat Ends
21 Iyar11 10:00 AM: Adult Ed Break-
fast
22 Iyar 12
23 Iyar13 4:00 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
6:00 PM: Madrachim
Meeting
7:30 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
24 Iyar14
25 Iyar15 Bet & Gimmel Class Not
In Session
26 Iyar16 6:30 PM: Kabbalat
Shabbat Service
7:28 PM: Candle Light-
ing
27 Iyar17 9:30 AM: Shabbat Services
1:00 PM: Artists’ Beit
Midrash with Shira
Wallach
8:31 PM: Shabbat Ends
28 Iyar18
29 Iyar19
30 Iyar 20 4:00 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
7:30 PM: Wisdom
Literature-Adult Educa-
tion
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Pelham Manor, NY 10803