The Ulimate Gift Guide for loving

yourself more

@ishagaines

February 2015

Co-Published by Afrophire &

HoneyBeNatural Magazines

....the power to love yourself through whatever, whenever and however...no matter what anyone says or what anyone does...all of you.. the good & the bad...embracing all that you are...through the inside out.... your truth and your reality.

MANY FOLKS DON'T KNOW WHO THEY ARE...and in noticing this came the idea of the selfie love guide.

"And now these three

remain: faith, hope and love.

But the greatest of these is love."

(Corinthians 13:13, NIV)

...selfie love is so important and we thought it would be very creative if we created a guide centered around loving yourself, treating yourself and being kind to yourself. I for one have to do a better job in taking care of myself, working out, doing things that make me feel pretty, wearing things that make me feel pretty, using the right aromas that stimulate and having the right things around me that inspire me. So important are these things and if you're a creative, they can be the very thing that encourages you to keep moving forward.

We are glad that you took out the time to download this collaboration full of love from Cherese of Afrophire Magazine and myself. Cherese beams with love on her website and Instagram page so teaming up with this editor was the perfect thing to do! If you hadn't noticed positive collaboration and selfie love is what the world needs more of, but it can start with you.

So for this year, give yourself the gift of love.... we are just here to help you start the process.

I'sha GainesFounding Editor of HoneyBeNatural

PHOTOS BY I'SHA GAINES

The Heart of the Matter A

IF SOMEONE WERE TO ASK, “Do you love yourself?” I’m betting that your immediate response would be, “Of course I love myself!” But I want you to take a minute to think about how much time you actually spend loving yourself the right way.

I’ll be the first to admit that I used to be my own worst critic–and sometimes that critic still tries show up! For every positive remark someone would say about me I had ten negative to share with them. What I’ve learned is that how we truly feel about ourselves deep down in our heart of hearts impacts every single area of our lives.

Showing Selfie Love is deeper than treating yourself to something new because that’s only going to provide temporary satisfaction. Give yourself something from your heart. After all, it’s the gifts from the heart that matter the most.

Cherese Agee Founding Editor of AFROPHIRE

P H O T O G R A P H S B Y J A M E L A G E E

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“But above all these things put on love,

which is the bond of perfection.”

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(Colossians 3:14, NKJV)

The List A

•Clut c h + Go

Bold, chic, and fabulous describe the Dorkas Clutch to a tee. This bag is a no brainer when you’re looking to add an eye catcher to your ensemble. ($80, bkyoafrika.com)

Editor’s Selfie Love Picks

•Fac ial Exp re ss ion

Moisture is the key to any healthy skin care regimen. NBI Facial Moisturizer leaves dry skin feeling soft and hydrated. ($15, nbiallnatural.com)

Cherese Agee, Founding Editor of AFROPHIRE

•So ap A ddi c te d

These beautifully handcrafted artisan soaps are soothing to the skin and delightful to smell. The Passion & Ice set is perfect to share with your sweetie. ($12, ginsoapcompany.com)

•Lo ve M ug

Start your day with a cute and relaxing cup of coffee or tea. ($13, alegnamedia.spreadshirt.com)

Editor's Selfie Love Picks

. Make It SweetTry the HoneyPot Feminine

Wash $14 and The Curls

Passion Fruit Control Paste

$8, Target

YOU + CameraFor ultimate love take a

selfie. CHEESE!

Embrace your inner smart

girl with a

SmartBrownGirls Tee by

Vlogger Jouelzyshop.smartbrowngirl.com

$20

. Dress + Go

. Walk IT OutWhen life gets you down, bling

it out with a studded black

pump. Tamar Collection

Limited Quantity $69

I'sha Gaines, Founding Editor of HoneyBeNatural

Jewelry can be purchased through my Etsy shop at: www.NspiyahdWorks.etsy.com

Our blog on black family life and personal development can be found here : www.NspiyahdLife.wordpress.com

The meaning of gold is illumination, wisdom, and

wealth. Gold often symbolizes high quality. Yellow. ¨ Yellow is the color of sunshine. It's associated with joy, happiness, intellect, and energy.... Sounds like we need some GOLD ladies. Shall we?

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1. Sorority

Beauties Earrings

$22 2. Patriots

Bow Ties (Adult

to Infant) $30 3.

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$24 4. BAM!

Dress $34 5. No

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$24

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Sale items are excluded

1. Afro-Vegan Cookbook $17.40 Amazon.com 2. Migoals.com Diary $19.95 3. Beyonce Throw Pillow Luxecolore.com $45 4. Puma X Solange Disc Collection $180 openceremony.us 5. Fujifilm Instax Mini 8 $84.95 Amazon 6. Thierry Mugler

$120 Sephora 7. Kat Von D Vampira $19 Sephora 8. $249 wearefriends.com

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"Inner Love"

BoutiqueDeBandeaux is an accessory shop that provides hair trinkets for thick and naturally curly hair.

Purchase the goodies through the Etsy shop at www.etsy.com/shop/Bout-iqueDeBandeaux

with Erma W., Blogger and Owner of The Pomade Shop

1.Autumn Flowers $50.00

2. Silver Grey Rosette $25

3. Champagne Flowers Bridal Headband $50.00

4. Radiant Orchid Chiffon Ruffle Jewel $25.00

5. Brown Jewel Satin Rosettes $25.00

6. Dazzling Blue Elastic Beaded $35.00

Heather  Lindsey:  Pink  Lips  &  Empty  Hearts

An invitation for every woman who's ever felt like she isn't good enough, pretty enough, saved enough, content enough or doing enough. (This was in the description from Amazon and her website) Where to Buy: Amazon$13.49 -$14.99

Heather  Lindsey:  The  Perfect  Recipe  An invitation for the woman desires to get closer to Christ, eat healthier and feel better. Have you ever wanted an all-in-one book that encourages you to spend time with God, challenges your daily walk to grow as a Christian, and provides great recipes and awesome health tips?

Where  to  Buy:  Amazon  $13.49  -­‐  $15.99

Alexandra Elle: Words from a Wander

Words From A Wanderer is a timeless and beautiful compilation of notes and poetry. This book was created with hopes of uplifting and encouraging readers in many ways. There is a journal in the back of the book for readers and fellow writers to indulge in to keep the "conversation" going. Author, Alexandra Elle, wrote this book to shed light on the fact that indeed not all who wander are lost; some are simply still finding their way.

Amazon $7.99

Michelle McKinney Hammond: The Diva Principle

Drawing examples from some of the Bible's great divas such as Deborah, and translating them into everyday practical principles for living, Michelle shows readers how to excel in every area of life whether young or old, single or married by mastering the art of diva-tude!

Amazon Kindle:  $9.99  Paperback  from:$3.02  

Chimene  Jackson:  Vagabroad  Journals

I name Vagabroad Journal collections after seasons we go through as we are moving forward to the places our purpose is taking us. From Sankofa to Allons-y! there's a story unfolding, meant to help us narrate ourselves wherever we are in our journeys. I hope these journals aid in the story-finding, story-writing process for us as tea-stained women. Because our journeys are soulful, and our stories will matter

years down the line. I make the books for you to put them in... www.etsy.com/shop/VagabroadPricing  Information:  $20.00-­‐$30.00

The Blokehead : Every Flower Must Grow Through Dirt Keep motivated with the new Bloke Head Motivational Quotes Journal. This journal contains several motivational quotes that will certainly keep you inspired and has lots of space to write in your day to day reflections.

Barnes & NoblePricing Information: $11.68

Dawn DeVries Sokol: Art Doodle Love Many women love the idea of leading a more creative life, but don’t know where to begin. With Art Doodle Love, art journal expert Dawn DeVries Sokol provides the perfect jump start: an interactive fill-in book of prompts that will motivate women to “discover” themselves and their inner creative goddesses. Loosely inspired by Eat Pray Love, Elizabeth Gilbert’s memoir of self-discovery, Art Doodle Love overflows with colorful pages for recording thoughts and collecting ideas, as well as venting, soul-searching, and documenting everyday life. By following the insightful prompts, the journal keeper develops her artistic skills, gains confidence in her natural creativity, and learns about herself through self-reflection. Barnes & Nobles $12.97

FROM BLACK AUTHORSwith Poet, Marquisha Applewhite

@alwaysmarq

Shea Moisture has several skin care products that help to hydrate, soften, and moisturize. These products will also calm, brighten, firm, tone, heal, and rejuvenate your skin leaving it beautifully healthy. Visit SheaMoisture.com to shop their hair and skin care collections.

African Black Soap treats dandruff,

eczema, and psoriasis. It is a blend of organic

Shea Butter that is used to hydrate and

balance blemishes and oily skin. ($5)

Coconut & Hibiscus Hand & Body Scrub

tones, firms, and brightens the skin by evening out unwanted

blemishes and discolorations of the

skin. ($10)

Lavender & Wild Orchid Body Wash calms, soothes, and hydrates the skin. It

also helps to take care of minor skin

irritations, while healing the skin. ($10)

Raw Shea Butter Body Lotion

heals, moisturizes, and rejuvenates dull and

dry skin. It also assists in preventing early

signs of aging. ($10)

Nubian Heritage products provide a total body experience from top to bottom. Their products range from deodorant to hand cream. Visit NubianHeritage.com to shop their wide variety of products and collections.

Coconut & Papaya w/Vanilla Oil 24 hour All-Natural Deodorant can be used for all skin types. It is made from corn and contains oils, Vanilla Beans, and Shea Butter to nourish and soothe the skin. It is also infused with the fresh smell of Coconut & Papaya fragrance. ($8)

100% Organic Shea Butter infused with Olive Oil & Green Tea contains an anti-agent and antioxidant property. Contains a Green Tea extract to help compliment the Olive Oil used to assist in the total calm and soft body feeling. ($13)

Carrot & Pomegranate Bar Soap handles your everyday bath needs. The bar contains Carrot Seed Oil, Ground Cranberry and Pomegranate Seeds blended into the Shea Butter-based soap. Other ingredients include Vitamins A, E, and F to help soothe minor skin irritations. ($5)

Honey & Black Seed Body Lotion helps to soften and hydrate your skin. This lotion contains antioxidant-rich Black Seed Oil. The oil is blended with Arabian Honey and Apricot Oil to produce a great moisturizing body lotion. ($12)

Tree Hut produces products that can be used to rehydrate, soften, and rejuvenate the skin. Visit TreeHutShea.com to find a retailer near you.

SPF Daily Defense protects against the sun’s harmful UV rays. It is infused with Shea Butter, Raspberry Oil, Macadamia Oil and Aloe. Try this product in the body lotion or the dry oil mist for lasting protection from the sun. ($9, Amazon.com)

Italian Mocha Shea Sugar Body Scrub will smooth and firm your skin. It contains Coffee Seed Powder, and is infused with Shea Butter, Caffeine, Evening Primrose Oil, Sweet Almond Oil, Avocado, Safflower Seed, Macadamia Seed, and Orange Oil. Real sugar grains and ground coffee grains help to buff away dry and damaged skin. ($7, Amazon.com)

Pedi Kit (Hand & Foot Care) promotes softer hands and feet. It contains organic Shea Butter and Peppermint Oil, which are great for healing dry, cracked skin. The product comes with an exfoliating foot scrub, soothing foot cream, a wooden heel file, and a forever nail file. Perfect for a daily routine to naturally treat rough hands and feet. ($26, Amazon.com)

Tropical Mango Shea Body Butter is an extra thick body butter with real mango puree that helps limit the amount of wrinkles and helps to naturally nourish aged and tired skin. If you have rough and dry skin, this product is for you. ($9, Amazon.com)

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Selfie Loving Your “Little Piggies”

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Professional Nail Polish $1-$3 7. Cozy Socks $10

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