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“THE HEART OF MONEY” CO-CREATING A HARMONIOUS
WORK/MONEY LIFE TOGETHER
What is Money Coaching?
Money Coaching is a rapidly growing field and new paradigm.
Bridges two worlds, the financial services industry and the field of psychology.
Works with people around their unconsciouspatterns, beliefs and behaviors around money through a step-by-step process.
Helps to create new levels of awareness fromwhich positive financial change can occur.
What is Money Coaching? Identifies underlying “hard-wired” patterns.
Determines “core” money behaviors that stem from this patterning.
Helps clients gain awareness into their unconscious patterns, beliefs and behaviors and how they influence their financial life.
Coaches and supports clients through positive change and helps to become financially empowered.
Common Issues with Couples who Work Together
Conflicting money & work patterns Unconscious roles assumed Unclear agreements Boundary issues Unexpressed emotions (anger; resentment) Differences in communication styles Clash of values & priorities Issues of control and power
Key Fact: Money is a core survival issue.
One that most have little, if any, preparation for.
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According to the Center for Financial Social Work, money issues are: • The # 1 Stressor in peoples’ lives. • The # 1 Cause of divorce. • A major source of depression, anxiety, and insomnia
• An emotional roller coaster that diminishes decision making and coping skills.
How Can Couples Change This?
By moving beyond the “money taboo” and learning to talk about money openly.
By accepting that many of our money beliefs may be flawed and need to be re-calibrated.
By recognizing that as an adult, we have the power through awareness to change our patterns and challenge our beliefs.
Work Together Harmoniously
Understand your core money & work patterns Creating clear roles and agreements Establishing healthy boundaries Learn to speak your truth, communicate
clearly Respect your differences Become aligned in your vision & value Learn to empower, rather than control one
another.
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The Money Coaching Institute’s Eight Money Types
Innocent Fool
Victim Creator/Artist
Warrior Tyrant
Martyr Magician
These all can exist to some degree in each of us.
They are not your personality. They are not “who we are” but “where you are” with respect to work and money.
You can determine your own Money Types on our website:
moneycoachinginstitute.com
Take it online now if you wish!
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Summary of The Eight Money TypesThe Innocent
Financially Passive
Naive
Fearful/Anxious
Indecisive
Seeks Security
Financially dependent
Non-confrontational
Feel powerless
Repress feelings and beliefs
Ostrich approach to money
The Victim
Prone to blaming others Highly emotional Lives in the past Passive Aggressive Feels betrayed Disempowered Resentful Unforgiving Often has been
“victimized” Living out a self-fulfilling
prophecy
The Warrior Driven Competitive Disciplined Goal oriented Financially successful Confident Generous Rescuers Discerning
The Martyr Wise Controlling Long-suffering Caretakers Self-sacrificing Perfectionist Can harbor resentment Passive-aggressive Compassionate
The Fool Risk-taker/Gambler
Restless
Undisciplined
Impetuous
Optimistic
Overly generous
Adventurous
Lives for today
The Creator/Artist
Highly artistic and/or spiritual
Passive
Internally motivated
Detached
Non-materialistic
Seekers of truth
Conflicted
Love/hate relationship with money
The Tyrant Controlling Manipulative Fearful Secretive Oppressive Critical and judgmental Financially aggressive Unforgiving Often highly
materialistic
Mine, Yours & Ours Patterns
Step One - Identify and Understand Your Individual Work/Money Types
Warrior/Martyr/Tyrant – Husband Innocent/Fool /Victim - Wife
WHO’S DRIVING?
WHO’S RUNNING YOUR RELATIONSHIP’S MONEY DYNAMICS?
WHO’S THE DRIVER?
WHO’S THE PASSENGER?
Why are these archetypes in your life and what do you have to learn from them?
Archetypes are teachers and allies in showing you where you need to grow!
Let’s hear from you…
What questions or comments would you like to share?
