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The elusive art of giving feedback Ania Kolbuszewska Barcelona, 4 Feb 2017

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The elusive art of giving feedback

Ania KolbuszewskaBarcelona, 4 Feb 2017

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Feedback

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If you have nothing nice to say…

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good news

bad stuff

encouragement

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My hats

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My hats

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Why is feedback difficult?

observer observed teacher• fear of giving negative

feedback and hurting the teacher's feelings

• fear of confrontation • difficult to give teacher

time and space (esp. commercial organisations)

• fear of being criticised• expectations: "tell me

what was wrong"• not sure what to expect

(esp. first feedback)• fear for their job

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Why is feedback difficult?observer observed teacher

STRONG EMOTIONS

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Putting up a mirror

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Effective feedback

• produce an agreement as to what is good and what action should be taken

• be efficient

• improve (or at least not worsen) the relationship between the sides

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• produce an agreement as to what is good and what action should be taken

• be efficient

• improve (or at least not worsen) the relationship between the sides

Effective feedback

.

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Do / Don't / It depends • concentrate on concrete details / examples

• give very general comments ("This was a really good lesson")

• take responsibility for your comments ("I think..., in my opinion")

• refer to an authority ("everybody says..., experienced teachers say... / do...”)

• allow for some time for the teacher to take in what happened in the lesson

• talk about your feelings and probe the attitudes and views of the teacher

• give advice "on a plate”

• use specific quantifiers (in this situation, on this particular occasion, in this

lesson)

• use universal quantifiers (you never / always...)

• separate problem from person

• criticize the person („You just can’t ..., can you”)

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1. level of detail

• give detailed comments,

concentrate on

concrete details

• don’t give comments

which are too general to

be really helpful

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1. level of detail

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2. feedback giver

• take responsibility for your

comments („I think..., in my

opinion...”)

(f/back giver available for

discussion)

• don’t refer to an unknown

/ absent authority

(„everybody says...,

experienced teachers

say... / do...”)

(teacher has no chance to

discuss issues raised with

author of comment)

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3. time between lesson and f/b

• allow for some time for the

teacher to take in what has

happened; give them a

chance to evaluate what

has happened themselves

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4. participation

• talk about your feelings

• probe the attitudes and

views of the teacher - allow

the teacher to actively

participate in feedback

• do not give advice "on a

plate”

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5. quantifiers

• use specific quantifiers (in

this situation, on this

particular occasion, in this

lesson)

• do not use universal

quantifiers (you never /

always...)

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6. person vs problem

• separate problem from

person (make it clear that

you’re not criticizing the

person, merely trying to

eliminate a problem)

• do not criticize the person

(„You just can’t ..., can

you”)

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• let the teacher know purpose of

observation and purpose of feedback

• give the teacher a feeling of being

listened to

and…

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Observer says…1. This was a great lesson, Jamie, thank you very much. I don't think I'm

going to come observe another lesson you teach for the next six

months, because I can see you're totally on track.

2. I can see that you have problems with classroom management. It's

important to make sure that students understand your instructions

and that pairwork is organised efficiently.

3. During the reading lead-in, I noticed that some students seemed

unhappy and were looking round. Did you notice this as well? What

do you think was the reason for this? Do you think you could have

done anything differently? How?

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Drama triangle

Stephen Karpman M.D.(1968)

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Transactional analysis

• Eric Berne: insight could be gained by

analyzing patients' social interactions

• interpersonal interactions = transactions

• Berne investigated communications between

individuals

• certain patterns of transactions which

happen repeatedly in everyday life = games

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Drama trianglePersecutor

Victim

Rescuer

It's all your fault

Poor me!

Poor you! Let me

help

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Persecutor: • controlling• knows better• blaming• "critical" parent

Rescuer: • enabler• pain reliever• gives permission

to fail

Victim: • powerless• helpless• unable to achieve

insights

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B1, GE, monolingual

• pairwork is not set up efficiently

• students seem not to have understood instructions

for pairwork

• result: students use L1

• teacher does not react to students' use of L1

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Persecutor: It's your fault that sts don't use English in class

Rescuer: I'll tell you how to set up pairwork in class and everything will be fine

Victim: I've spent so much time explaining things to you and you still don't do what you should be doing.

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Persecutor

Victim

Rescuer

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Getting out of drama triangle

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Persecutor

Victim

Rescuer

It's all your fault

Poor me!

Poor you! Let me

help

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Assertive

Vulnerable

Caring

I have needs

I'm struggling

I'm listening

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1. Level of detail of feedback comments

2. The feedback giver

3. Time between observation and feedback

4. Feelings vs advice

5. Generalisations

How do I know I get it right?

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Thank you

images: Morguefile (classroom), Photobucket

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