The CATHEDRAL TIMESThe weekly newsletter of the Cathedral of St. Philip · Serving Atlanta and the World · October 21, 2018

WE DIE THE WAY WE LIVE

By the Very Rev. Sam Candler Dean of the Cathedral

Famous last words! Conrad Hilton, who had assembled the huge hotel empire, the Hilton Hotels, was asked as he lay dying if he had any last words of wisdom for the world. He said, “Yes. Leave the shower curtain on the inside of the tub.”

When Thomas Edison lay dying of pneumonia at his home in Menlo Park, New Jersey, his wife leaned over and asked, “Are you suffering?” He replied, “Just waiting.” And then he looked out his bedroom window and declared, “It’s very beautiful over there.”

What will be your famous last words? I am often asked what death is going to be like. Surely, I have been with a lot of people as they lay dying. I have seen many folks die in many different ways. And here is what I have discovered. Except for the most sudden or dramatic or unusual circumstances –and there are some-- people die in the same way they have lived. The way most people die is the same way they have lived.

People who have lived happy lives generally die fairly happy. People who have lived fairly angry lives generally die angry. People who have lived fairly peaceful lives die rather peacefully. People who have lived violent lives generally die violently.

In scripture, when people prepare to meet their God, when they prepare for judgment of some sort or another, they generally discover that the God they meet is the same one they have been worshipping in their regular lives. Folks who believe in an angry God generally meet an angry God as they lie dying. Folks who believe in a loving God generally meet a loving God as they die. Folks who believe in a generous God generally meet a generous God.

In the parable of the talents according to St. Matthew (25:14-30), a man leaves his country for a time and gives five talents to one servant, two to another, and one to the last. When he returns, the first servant reveals that he has made five more talents. A second servant says he that he, too, has doubled his talents. “Well done, good and faithful servant,” says the man, “enter into the joy of your master.”

But the third servant comes wimpering up and says, “Here is your talent. I knew that you were a harsh man, and so I was afraid. I hid the talent in the ground.” And with that, the first man does reveal himself to be quite a harsh man indeed. He had not seemed harsh to the other two servants. The man was quite generous to the servants who had acted in hope and faith! Yet the same man was harsh to the servant who thought him harsh! Our God acts in the same way we act towards God.

My advice to people who want to die peacefully, then, is that they should start acting peacefully now. Most of us will die in the same way we have lived. Henry Ward Beecher, the abolitionist and clergyman, was esoteric. As he was about to die, he said simply, “Now comes the mystery.”

Maybe my favorite last words are those of Lady Astor, in 1964. She was dozing, in and out of consciousness. At one point, she awoke to find herself surrounded entirely by her whole family. “Am I dying,” she asked, “or is this my birthday?”

Of course it was her birthday! When we live well, we die well. When we die well, we are born again; it’s our birthday.

7:45 A.M. HOLY EUCHARIST, MIKELL CHAPEL Celebrant and Preacher: The Rev. Dr. Thee Smith

8:45 A.M. HOLY EUCHARIST, CATHEDRAL Celebrant: The Rev. Canon Cathy Zappa Preacher: The Very Rev. Sam Candler Schola: William Byrd, Teach me, O Lord, the way of thy statutes Orlando Gibbons, The eyes of all wait upon Thee, O Lord

9 A.M. HOLY EUCHARIST, MIKELL CHAPEL Celebrant and Preacher: The Rev. Dr. Thee Smith

11:15 A.M. HOLY EUCHARIST, CATHEDRAL Celebrant: The Rev. Dr. Thee Smith Preacher: The Very Rev. Sam Candler Cathedral Choir: William Byrd, Teach me, O Lord, the way of thy statutes Orlando Gibbons, The eyes of all wait upon Thee, O Lord

11:15 A.M. LA SANTA EUCARISTÍA, MIKELL CHAPEL Celebrant: The Rev. Canon Lauren Holder Preacher: The Rev. Deacon Juan Sandoval

4 P.M. CHORAL EVENSONG, CATHEDRAL THE FEAST OF ST. LUKE, OBSERVED Celebrant and Preacher: The Rev. Canon Cathy Zappa Choristers and Staff Singers: Bernard Rose, Preces and Responses George Dyson in D Spiritual, arr. Robert Poovey, There is a balm in Gilead Orlando Gibbons, Almighty and everlasting God

This SUNDAYOCTOBER 21, 2018 · The Twenty-Second Sunday after Pentecost: Proper 23, Year B

Job 38:1-7, 34-41 · Psalm 104:1-9, 25, 37b · Hebrews 5:1-10 · Mark 10:35-45

The CATHEDRAL of ST. PHILIPThe Very Rev. Samuel G. Candler, DeanDale Adelmann, Ph.D., Canon for Music

The Rev. Lauren R. Holder, Canon for Outreach and Congregational LifeThe Rev. George M. Maxwell, Jr., Vicar

The Rev. Catherine Zappa, Canon for Education and WorshipThe Rev. John William Harkins III, Ph.D., Priest Associate

The Rev. Deacon Juan Sandoval, Deacon for Hispanic MinistriesThe Rev. Theophus “Thee” Smith, Ph.D., Priest Associate

The Rev. Carolynne G. Williams, Canon Associate for Pastoral Care and Elder Ministry

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Adult EDUCATION

ADULT CONFIRMATION CLASS

Our fall confirmation class is underway! This class is for adults who want to be confirmed in the Episcopal Church and for those who are new to the Episcopal Church or to the Cathedral and would like to learn more. We are meeting on Wednesdays, October 17 – December 5, from 6:30 – 8 p.m. in Room 120. (We will not meet on October 31 or November 21.) The confirmation service is at 4 p.m. on Sunday, December 9. For more information or to register, please contact Canon Cathy Zappa at czappa@cathedralATL.org or 404-365-1043.

Sunday classes meet at 10:10 a.m.

OLD FASHIONED SUNDAY SCHOOL

Child HallCanon George Maxwell continues a series focusing on what Paul, the apostle, was actually doing and why. This Sunday, we will discuss A Biography of Paul: To and From Galatia. All are welcome. You will find a light heart, warm welcome, and good coffee! For more information, contact Canon Maxwell at gmaxwell@cathedralATL.org.

LIVING FAITH:

FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE BIBLE AGAIN

Room 120 Join Canon Holder and Canon Zappa as we explore what it means to live out our faith through conversation with scripture and tradition, contemporary books, and, most important, one another. This fall, we are taking a new look at an old book, the Bible, as we explore how we read it as Episcopalians and how we make sense of it today and, hopefully, fall in love with it all over again! We are using Rachel Held Evans’ book, Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again, as a starting point for our conversation.

THE PATH OF COMPASSIONRoom 239Life itself—to awaken this morning—is grace. Join us for good conversation and exchange of ideas in living and perhaps caring. Family, friends, neighbors, and perhaps others will benefit from your input. Join Canon Carolynne Williams and seminarian Caroline Carson Sundays, October 14 – November 4 as we discuss The Path of Compassion: Living with Heart, Soul, and Mind by Ron Greer.

OUR TRUE SELVES

Room 240The Rev. Dr. Thee Smith leads this series of co-listening classes that aim to enhance our ability to be fully ourselves—our true, worthy, and estimable selves. Topics can include everyday experiences and range through tough political issues as well as lifestyle choices and faith matters. For more information contact the Rev. Dr. Smith, tsmith@cathedralATL.org or 404-365-1093.

ESTUDIO DE LA BIBLIA EN ESPAÑOL

(SPANISH BIBLE STUDY)

Walthour LibraryÚnase al Diácono Juan Sandoval y otros hispanohablantes (hablantes nativos y estudiantes por igual), para estudiar nuestras lecturas del leccionario y analizar lo que significan para nosotros hoy en día—todo en español. Esta clase se reúne del 23 de septiembre al 21 de octubre.

Join Deacon Juan Sandoval and other Spanish speakers (native speakers and learners alike) to study our lectionary readings and discuss what they mean for us today—all in Spanish. This class meets September 23–October 21.

SMALL GROUP BIBLE STUDY

Room 122Jim Bingham and Gordon Mathis lead an ongoing small group Bible Study focusing on a particular book of the Bible for several months at a time. This year, we are reading the book of Exodus. For more information, please contact Jim Bingham at 404-373-3273 or binghamjim@bellsouth.net.

BIBLICAL GREEK

Room 356Beginning Biblical Greek is offered on a drop-in basis on Sunday mornings at 10:10 a.m. Continuing Biblical Greek classes are offered on Sundays from 1:15–2:45 p.m. for anyone who wants to learn the basics of translation using grammar aids, lexicons, and commentaries. For more information, contact the Rev. Dr. Thee Smith at tsmith@cathedralATL.org.

ORGANIST WAYNE GILREATH TO PERFORM

This Sunday, October 21 at 3:15 p.m., the Cathedral welcomes organist Wayne Gilreath as our Sunday afternoon recitalist. Gilreath currently serves as the organist and choirmaster at First United Methodist Church in Douglasville. A graduate of the University of West Georgia and the University of Tennessee, Gilreath’s program will include works by Bach, Messiaen, and Locklair. Don’t miss the opportunity to hear this talented local organist!

Wayne Gilreath, organ (First United Methodist Church, Douglasville)

Olivier Messiaen, Apparition de l ’Eglise éternelle

Johann Sebastian Bach, Fantasia in G Major, BWV 572

Dan Locklair, Rubrics

MUSIC

IN CONCERT AT THE CATHEDRAL

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 12

7:30 PMPresented by Friends of Cathedral Music

VOCES8 is one of the most sensational new choirs on the international music scene, having earned its place as a first-rank chamber ensemble through stunningly beautiful video recordings for YouTube, music streaming services, and tours throughout the world. This first ever Atlanta performance by VOCES8 will be an evening not to be missed!

TICKETS AT CATHEDRALATL.ORG/CONCERTS

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CHILDREN'S MinistriesCOSTUME BLESSING

All goblins, princesses, witches, and superheroes are invited to our Halloween costume blessing, Sunday, October 28. Dinner is served at 5 p.m., followed by our spooky procession around the campus, complete with a thrilling visit from the Phantom of the Opera and s’mores at our final destination. The event will wrap up by 7 p.m.

Thursday, November 1, 2018

Homeless requiem at the Cathedral of St. Philip

The 30th Annual

The Cathedral has a long tradition of outreach, discipleship, and caring for others in our Atlanta community— particularly those in need. Please join us in fellowship and support at our 30th annual Homeless Requiem on Thursday, November 1. We know that you will find this special service to be both moving and transformational. To support the Homeless Requiem, please consider:

• Volunteering to welcome and serve dinner to our guests—the many homeless men, women, and children of Atlanta. Please sign up at cathedralATL.org/homelessrequiem.

• Making a donation to help fund this event and other Cathedral outreach ministries. Go to cathedralATL.org/homelessrequiem to contribute.

Contact Canon Lauren Holder, lholder@cathedralATL.org, with any questions.

ANNUAL CHILDREN’S BOOK DRIVE

For the fourth year, the Cathedral Book Store is collecting new books for the children at the Homeless Requiem, the children at the Arrendale Prison Children’s Center, the young people at Covenant House, and the children at Wilderness Works, this year’s Antiques Show beneficiary. Books are available to purchase at the Cathedral Book Store during regular business hours or in the Atrium from 9 -11 a.m. each Sunday in October. Our goal is to collect 250 books to be distributed to children attending the Homeless Requiem in November and to the other groups in December. Please purchase a book and help each of these beautiful children receive a wonderful gift this year!

PAJAMA DAY IN SUPPORT OF EMMA’S CLOSET

Emma’s Closet is now collecting coats and shoes to be distributed at the Homeless Requiem. Children who bring items on Sunday, October 21 to donate are invited to wear their PJs to church. This year we are collecting items for all people. We have noticed a high demand for men’s shoes. We would love to collect a large selection of men’s track shoes or outdoor thick-soled shoes in assorted sizes. We still need items for children but we are expanding our inventory this year to adults.

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 1

5 p.m. Dinner for our guests in Child Hall6:15 p.m. Choral Prelude by Voices of Hope 7 p.m. Homeless Requiem service Celebrant: The Very Rev. Sam Candler Preacher: The Rev. Monica Manwairing vicar, Church of the Common Ground

2018 ECW HAPPENINGS AND INFO!

All women of the Episcopal Church are automatically members of ECW, and there are many great ways to get involved! The Cathedral ECW has six guilds—groups of similarly aged women who gather for fellowship, Bible studies, speakers, service, and a variety of other fun events and occasions.

In addition to guilds, ECW encompasses many other ways to get involved. Whether it’s the St. Ruth’s Hospitality Ministry, Cathedral Antiques Show, Cathedral Book Store, Thrift House, Flower Guild, Cathedral Preschool, or Daughters of the King, there is a place for you! For more information and guild contacts, go to cathedralATL.org/ECW and join us today!

Episcopal Church WOMEN

THRIFT HOUSE VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Volunteers are needed Monday-Saturday from 10 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. either once a week for a couple of hours or when it suits your schedule. Many different jobs are available, and it is a fun and rewarding place to volunteer. All proceeds go to help others in our community. Contact Anne Young, 404-351-6028 or adyoung@bellsouth.net.

ANTIQUES SHOW BENEFICIARY BREAKFAST

The Cathedral recently hosted a breakfast to introduce Wilderness Works, our 2019 Cathedral Antiques Show beneficiary. Wilderness Works has served Atlanta’s chronically homeless, impoverished, and extremely vulnerable children for over 20 years. They provide year-round enrichment, experiential education, and character development through city camps, summer nature camps, and outdoor living field camps in our national parks. One hundred percent of net proceeds of the show will go to Wilderness Works. The 2019 Cathedral Antiques Show will be held January 23-27. For more information, visit cathedralantiques.org.

Bill Mickler, Wilderness Works founder and executive director, and Quan Contreras, recruiting coordinator, presented a video at the breakfast and answered questions about their work.

DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS ART PROJECT

The whole Cathedral community is invited to participate in the making of a Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) art installation of remembrance. The next two Sundays and throughout the week, you’ll find a table in the Atrium with bright strips of fabric and markers. Please write the name of a loved one who has died—or several loved ones—on a strip of fabric. We will gather all the brightly colored remembrances and hang them up on the railing of the Atrium for all to see. It will be a celebration of color and light and life and love. If you’d like to learn more about Día de los Muertos, swing by the Cathedral Book Store, watch the movie Coco, or come to our 11:15 a.m. Spanish service on November 4.

Congregational LIFE

FOR THOSE WHO ARE ILL OR RECOVERING: LONG TERM PRAYERS

T. Mayo and Pat Atkins • Virginia Bicksler • John Blair • Pat Brinson • Dick Burgin • Kaye Cairney • J. Franklin Clark • Heather Clark • Lawrence Cowart • Terry Dornbush • Sarah duBignon • Kitty Dukehart • Randy Farmer • Philip Gwynn • William Ham • Jane Hannah • Caroline Hatcher • Katie Harris • Louise Kan • Elaine Lyon • Lorri McClain • Carol McDonald • Jim McKenzie • Charlie Neal • Paul O'Connor • Marian Palmore • Garry Pryor • Rubye and Wayne Reid • Pamela Reid • Agnes Elizabeth Robertson • Louis "Skip" Schueddig • Peggy (Margaret) Shaw • Jane Skogstad • Jim Segars • Ruth Swanson • Andy Westafer • Sandy Williamson • Hollis Youngner

FAMILY AND FRIENDS

Brooks Benton • Bettina Bass  • Jamie Carswell  • Jay C. Clark • Andrew Clark • Carleton Fuller  • Peggy Govan • Bobby Hearn • Greg Hentz • Liz Grant Hilton • Sun Ja Kim • Betty C. Lyons • Brian Makuck • Pat Martin • Michelle Maxwell • Michael McClelland • Andy Nelson • Irene Nesper • Betty and Bill Poole • Frank Roth • James Sands • Patricia Schooley • Jeff Straw • Tina Susco • Hubert Tate, Sr. • Piearson Thames • Roger Traylor • Janiece Townshend • Christi Vasquez • Peter Veverka • Nina Vila • Ron M. Wallace • Jacqueline Watkins • Susan Wellman • Marion Wilson • Whit A. Wright • Patricia Young

FOR THOSE WHO HAVE DIED

Crystal Allen • David Stills • Ed Irvin • Billy Lewis Ivey

PRAYER List

Episcopal Church WOMENA GENEROUS START FOR PLANTING BCM’S

“CLIENT CHOICE” FOOD PANTRY CONCEPT

St. Anne’s Guild, as volunteer ambassadors for Buckhead Christian Ministry (BCM), are pleased to announce the results of their Cathedral-wide collection to fund the newly proposed “Client Choice” food pantry concept at BCM. The generosity of our Cathedral parishioners in August yielded a record $9,190 in seed money. The guild is very thankful for such tremendous support of this new BCM direction; we will hope for your ongoing help to match or exceed this great result at our next scheduled collection in February. As the Cathedral takes the lead in sponsoring BCM’s new food assistance concept, kudos to all who are contributing the seed for exciting growth ahead!

MEMBERSHIP TRANSITIONS BIRTHS

Josh Mosby Eckerd Hill, son of Ben and Allison Hill,

brother of Benjy Hill, born on October 4, 2018

DEATHS

Dona Singletary Sorenson, wife of Dick Sorenson,

mother of Richard and Lindsay Sorenson, died October 3, 2018

Clases de Instruida Primera Comunión comienzan 28 de

Octobre para niños 8 y arriba. Clases dado en la biblioteca

10 a.m. Pueden recoger una forma para llenar después de la

misa.

Bendición de Los Trajes de Halloween El día 28 de Octubre

a las 5 de la tarde, Habrá Bendición de Los Trajes de

Halloween para los niños. Lleguen a compartir en comida,

marchen en un desfilo de costumbres y otros diversiones!

Esquina HISPÁNICA

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Inside!

THE WORD IN WOOD

Join us on Wednesday, October 24 from 5:30-7:30 p.m. to meet artist Bernard Gore. An Atlanta native and Vietnam War veteran, Mr. Gore is a self-taught artist. Several of his paintings from the series the Word in wood will be on display in the Cathedral Atrium through January. At the reception on October 24, Mr. Gore and members of the Cathedral Art Committee will speak about the works and the Cathedral’s art initiatives. Refreshments will be served. For more information, please contact David Rocchio at 404-365-1033 or drocchio@cathedralATL.org.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 3, 2018 9:30 A.M. – 3 P.M.

The cost is $65/person and includes lunch. Group rate is $60/person for groups of 5 or more; after October 31 registration will cost $70/person. For more information, contact Jeannie Mahood, jmahood@cathedralATL.org.

Becca Stevens’ life and work illustrate the healing power of love and of story. She is an author, speaker, priest, social entrepreneur, and founder and president of Thistle Farms.

After experiencing the death of her father and subsequent child abuse when she was five, Becca longed to open a sanctuary for survivors offering a loving community. In 1997, five women who had experienced trafficking, violence, and addiction were welcomed home. Twenty years later, the organization continues to welcome women with free residences that provide housing, medical care, therapy, and education for two years. Residents and graduates earn income through one of four social enterprises. Thistle Farms' global market helps employ more than 1,800 women worldwide, and the national network has more than 40 sister communities.

CATHEDRALATL.ORG/SPIRITUALITYCONFERENCE

10TH ANNUAL SPIRITUALITY CONFERENCE

Exploring Creative and Relevant Ways of Practicing Justice, Healing, and Love:A Day with the Rev. Becca Stevens

Congregational LIFE