Copyright Gus Lee CLU 1

TEACH the HMA

ACT OUT HMA DESPITE RISKS TO SELF

DISCERN the Highest Moral Action

BEHAVIORAL INTEGRITY DAT

Copyright Gus Lee CLU 2

BEHAVIORAL INTEGRITY DAT 1-5 Rate self: 1-5, no 3’s

INTEGRITY BEHAVIOR RATE SELF

BATTLE BUDDY

DISCERN THE HIGHEST MORAL (RIGHT) ACTION (HMA)

ACT OUT HIGHEST MORAL ACTION Despite Risk to Self

TEACH OTHERS FROM THAT HMA

Copyright Gus Lee CLU 3

COURAGE CARS: 7 SOLVE moral problems at root cause

6 UnconPos

RESPECT ALL

5 Respectfully ADDRESS wrongs in others

4 MORALLY CORRECT THE SELF

Copyright Gus Lee CLU 4

BEHAVIORAL COURAGE CARS 1-5 Rate self: 1-5, no 3’s

COURAGE BEHAVIOR RATE SELF

Battle Buddy

CORRECT THE SELF MORALLY

RESPECTFULLY ADDRESS WRONGS IN OTHERS

RESPECT ALL PERSONS POSITIVELY & UNCONDITIONALLY (UPR)

SOLVE PROBLEMS @ MORAL ROOT CAUSE

Copyright Gus Lee CLU 5

OPEN ON

COLLEGIALITY/COMRADESHIP

Not: Go do it now.

WOWWarm Open Welcoming

LISTENINTENTLY

Not:Uh-huh. Yup.

Get the meaningPhillip VI

EMPATHY Not:I’m kinda busy… tired…ticked…

Unconditional Positive Respect despite mood

ASK QUESTIONS TO UNDERSTAND

Not:Got it, go away.

Understand the other. Really get it.

Trenton

CLOSE ON A PROFESSIONAL COURAGEOUS

RELATIONSHIP

Not:(Leave without a

word)

Appreciate the other: UPR

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SE AC • State Encouragement– Other does the Harder Right or Highest Moral

Action– We recognize that with words from the heart

• Ask Challenges– Other is in a moral fix (10 tough skits)– Real comrades give Buddy Checks– Ask open-ended questions to engage

other

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AeR • Action – “when you (did a behavior, i.e., cut me off)

• emotional Reaction – I felt (emotion, i.e., disrespected)

• When you played that video, I felt disrespected.

• Not: “You made me feel disrespected…” “Everyone knows…you’re always doing that…”