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Strengthening Family Resilience Facilitating Healing & Positive Growth
From Adversity
Centro di Psicologia e Analisi TransazionaleMilan, Italy ~ June 25, 2012
Froma Walsh, PhD
Co-Director, Chicago Center for Family HealthFirestone Professor Emerita, The University of Chicago
[email protected] www.ccfhchicago.org
Myth: Healthy Families are Problem-Free
Chronic Stress -- The “New Normal”
ResilienceStrengths in the context of adversity
The ability to withstandand rebound from
stressful life challenges ---emerging
strengthened and more resourceful
ResilienceHow we Deal with Adversity
Coping + Adaptation + Positive Growth
More than Surviving: Ability to ThriveTransformation
Crisis = Challenge + Opportunity
!
Varied Images of Resilience ~
Popular view: “Just Bounce back!”
~ “A tree that bends in the stormbut does not break”
~ “Suffering that is deep but not without hope”
~ “Fall down 5 times; get up 6 times!”
Many Varied Pathways in Resilience: Positive Development ~ Future Life Vision
Myth:
The Rugged Individual
Invulnerable
Self-Reliant
“We encourage people to rescue themselves”
Studies of Resilient Youth: Models and Mentors
Resilience is Nurtured in Relationships:
To thrive,
Individuals need “Relational Lifelines”:
Supportive Bonds, Models & Mentors who:
Believe in their Worth and Potential Draw out, Affirm Strengths, Abilities Inspire Hopes and Dreams Encourage Best Efforts See Failures as Opportunities for Learning, Growth Celebrate Successes
Nourishing Bonds
Relational Resilience:
Mutual Support
Identify and Draw on Extended Family Resources
Guardian Angel
Multigenerational Family Tree
Family Photos, Stories of Resilience
Bonds with Companion Animals
Pet Role -- Child Resilience in Family Transition
Strengthen:
Family Community Cultural&SpiritualResources
Strengthening Resilience: Relational Lifelines
~~~~~~~~~~Facilitate coping and positive growth
Through Vital Connections: Family network
Social and community Cultural and Spiritual
Family Resilience
Team Effort CollaborationMutual Support Leadership
Walsh Family Resilience Framework
Integrates 3 decades of research on resilience & effective family functioning to inform, guide clinical & community-based services, prevention programs
Identify & strengthen key family processes & multi-systemic resources for coping, adaptation, and positive growth
Use in Community-based settings; wide range of applications, formats: – Family Consultation; Brief Counseling; Family Therapy– Multi-family Groups; Workshops; Community Forums
Family Resilience
Strengths & Resources for Families to Thrivein the face of Adversity
Rebound from Crises Navigate Disruptive Changes
Weather Multi-stress Conditions Overcome Obstacles to Success
Chicago Center for Family HealthResilience-Oriented Program Applications
– Recover from Crisis, Trauma, Loss• Traumatic Loss; Community Disaster • Refugees; War-related trauma; Military families
– Navigate Disruptive Life Changes• Migration; Separation / Divorce; Foster Care
– Cope, manage Multi-Stress Conditions• e.g. Chronic illness, Disabilities • Financial strain, Unemployment• Ongoing complex trauma; Neighborhood blight
– Overcome Barriers to Success• At-risk youth: Family - School Partnership;
– L.A. Gang Prevention / Youth Development
KEYS TO FAMILY RESILIENCEBelief Systems
1. Making Meaning of Crisis & Challenge2. Positive Outlook: Hope – Master the Possible3. Transcendence & Spirituality
Organizational Resources
4. Flexibility / Stability5. Connectedness; Leadership6. Kin, Social, & Economic Resources: “Lifelines”
Communication Processes
7. Clear, consistent messages8. Emotional Sharing; Pain /Humor / Joy /respite9. Collaborative Problem-solving / Proaction
Belief Systems
The Heart and Soul of Resilience
Rooted in Cultural & Spiritual Heritage
Multigenerational Legacies
Dominant Society Norms, Values, Biases
Past Experience & Future Expectations
The Power of Beliefs
Seeing is believing~ Western view
We must believe in somethingTo be able to see it
~ Native American view
We do not see things as they are --We see them as we are.
~ The Talmud
1. Meaning -Making Encourage Relational View of Resilience
Normalize, Contextualize Distress, – De-pathologize Blame, Shame, Stigma, Guilt
Gain Sense of Coherence– View Crisis as Shared Challenges:
• Meaningful, Comprehensible, Manageable
Appraise Situation; Options:
Facilitative vs. Constraining Beliefs:– Explain Events, causal: – Future expectations / catastrophic fears:
What can we do? Active Agency
2. Positive Outlook Instill Hope;
– En-Courage; build Confidence
Affirm Strengths, Abilities; – Build on Potential
Active Initiative & Perseverance– Seize Opportunities
Master the Possible Accept what can't be changed
Tolerate uncertainty
Master the Art of the Possible:
Do all you can With what you have
In the time you have In the place you are
3. Transcendence ~ Spirituality Larger Values, Purpose
Spiritual Resources: Faith, Practices, Community, Nature
Inspiration: Envision New Possibilities– Aspirations: Role Models, Life dreams – Invention; Innovative Solutions – Creative Expression--writing, art, music
Transformation: Learning, Change, & Growth– Redirect life priorities; deepen bonds– Compassion Acts to Benefit Others
• Service, activism, social justice
Spirituality: a Dimension of Human Experience
We are Bio-psycho-social-spiritual Beings
~~~~~~~~~~
Streams of influence flowing through all aspects of lifeo Family & Cultural Heritage o Transcendent Beliefs, Spiritual Practices, Community
Within or outside religion: we can express:o humanistic values, nature, the arts, social action
Fosters Meaning, Wholeness, Harmony Deep Connection within Self & With all Others Influences Suffering; Promotes Healing & Resilience
Family Organization Relational Shock Absorbers
4. Flexibility -- to change, Adapt Provide Stability --Structure, Reliability
Leadership - Nurture, Protect, Guide
5. Connectedness -- Mutual SupportCommitment, collaboration, caregiving
• Social, Community, Larger Systems Workplace, Healthcare, Child / Elder care
Overcome odds / Change odds to thrive
Communication Processes 7. Clear, consistent messages
-- Information: Truth seeking / speaking
8. Share Feelings; Respect Differences -- Suffering, Struggle, Fear, Regrets -- Pride, Appreciation, Joy, Humor, Fun
-- Respite: Refuel Energies & Spirit
9. Collaborative Problem-Solving -- Build Resourcefulness
-- Celebrate successes; learn from mistakes -- Be Proactive: Planning, Preparedness
Families are Sanctuaries
of Life and Love
Family Resilience Practice Framework
Shift Focus from family Deficits, Limitations to Strengths, Potential, Hopes & Dreams
Developmental, Systemic Perspective•Bio-Psycho-Social-Spiritual Influences•Family Challenged by Adversity –timeline: stress events•Family Response: Facilitates Adaptation
of all Members, Relationships, Family Unit
Relational View of Human ResilienceResilience-focused genogram: identify kin, social, community, spiritual resources
•Recruit models, mentors •Build relational life-lines, teams, networks
• Varied Challenges and Pathways in Resilience:
• No single model fits all families, their values, situations, & challenges
Prevention: • By strengthening resilience, families and their members become more resourceful to meet future challenges.
Facilitating Family Resilience : Practice Guidelines
• Core Conviction in Strengths, Potential of all Families, alongside Vulnerabilities, Limitations
• Language, Framing to Depathologize, Humanize
• Contextualize Distress; Decrease Shame, Blame
• Compassion for Suffering, Struggle, Losses
• View Crisis as Opportunity: Learning, Healing, & Positive Growth
• Shift Focus from Problems to Possibilities for Mastery, Thriving, Relational RepairSteps toward Future Vision: Hopes and Dreams
• Integrate Challenges and Resilience into the Fabric of Personal & Relational Lives.
Guidelines to Facilitate Healing, Resiliencefrom Complicated or Traumatic Loss
Start by grounding in their family, community,
cultural, & spiritual connections. Invite them to share their loss experience. Offer compassionate witnessing of recent (&
ongoing) losses, hardships, or injustices suffered. Draw out, affirm strengths in coping efforts; Link with kin, community resources Re-member persons & relationships lost;
• Continuing Bonds: Spiritual connection, Stories, Deeds
Future orientation: renew / revise hopes, dreams
Resilience of theHuman Spirit
Let nothing dim the light that shines from within ~ Maya Angelou
ThePowerOfConnection
In strengthening resilience,
We strive to integrate the experience
of adversity-- and our resilient response –
Into the fabric of our individual and shared identity,
Influencing how we go on to live our lives.
“A hero is one who doesthe best of thingsin the worst of timesSeizing every opportunity.”
--Joseph Campbell
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