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How to StayPOSI
+IVEin a
TOUGH
Work Environmen
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-Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead
- No one appreciates your contributions
- Too much work . . . not enough help- Deadlines are unrealistic
- Longer hours . . . additional work
- Budget Constraints- Competition is eating us alive
- Poor management / direction
- Job insecurity
Negative WorkEnvironment
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Other PeoplesBehavior
Bulldozers
Snipers
Exploders
Clams
Patronizers
Complainers
Controllers
Backstabbers
WalkingWounded
Negatives
Gossips
BrownNosers
Sluffers
Whiners
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CHANGE . . .
u Challenges our paradigmsu Alters the way we thinku Makes life more difficult for
a while
u Causes Stressu Is an ongoing fact of life
ChangingEnvironment
The only person who alwayslikes change is a wet baby
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PastExperiences
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
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MediaFrenzy
NegativeWorld View
A recent Statistic:
Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,Look at what you are looking at !!!
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u GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.(Inherited traits)
u PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.(Upbringing)
u ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss,the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing
this to me. (Surroundings)
DeterminismTheory
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Choose the Right Luggage
Dodge
Bullets Be
Bulletproof
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Youre going to get hit!
The Problem With DodgingBullets
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Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
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Bulletproof ArmorComes from
SELF CHANGE
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Putting onthe Armor
Change
3Things
!
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How to Change YourAttitude
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
Changes happen
personallyfrom the
INSIDE OUT!
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I am responsible . ..
. . . for who I am
. . . for what I
have
. . . for what I doATTIT
UDE
So . . . AcceptResponsibility
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Negativeworld view
YOU
FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!
Owne
rship Values
Mission Disc
ipline
ATTITUDE
Step #2 Take Control
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How to Change YourThinking
THINKING
THINKING
Changes comefrom observing
logicallyinevery situation
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Observe Your Thinking
THINKING
Itsuckstobe
him.
Irefus
etole
t
thishoo
kme!
This is allveryinteresting
WhatcanIdo
todefusethis?
Tomorrow it willlook verydifferent.
Idlike
tobea
t
the
anage our e a
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This is going to be
a wonderful day!This is going to
be a crappy day!
anage our e - a
If you think you Can, or you think you CantYOURE RIGHT! Henry Ford
THINKING
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How to Change YourBehavior
BEHAVIOR
BEHAVIOR
Changes take
true assessment,determination &discipline
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St T d Ch i
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Steps Toward ChangingBehavior
1. Unconscious Incompetence
2. Conscience Incompetence
3. Conscience Competence
4. Unconscious Competence
BEHAVIOR
The New YOU!
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AddPOSI
+IVEBehavior
INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!
Sprinkle some positive on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the feeding frenzies Say please and thank you Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOURbehavior Never miss an opportunity to complement
Spread a SMILE around
Replace the BAD HABITS!
BEHAVIOR
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Watch your definitions -
they become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -
they become wordsWatch your words -
they become actions
Watch our actions -
Remember to . . .
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The Choice is YOURS
With a Bad attitude
you can never have apositive day
With a Positive attitudeyou can never have a
bad day
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ChoosePOSI+IVELiving
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HAVE A WONDERFULL &
A positive 2011
E N J O
Y !!!!!!!!!!