Stages Of Falling In Love

(Intensity of Love Curve)

Siddharth Jha

Stages Of Falling In Love

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Stage 1 – Appreciation:

This is all about physical appearance and instant attraction. Men are

rather shallow when it comes to getting attracted at first sight. While women may fall in love in the first conversation, men are attracted to a woman only for her physical aspects, and nothing else.

A man may not even know what it is about a girl that he likes, but if he finds something attractive in her, he may experience the appreciation stage.

Stage 2 – Infatuation:Men appreciate a lot of women on a daily basis. They try to steal second glances or get a girl’s attention all the time. It’s easier for a man to like a girl one day and forget he ever liked her the next because he has so many stages to deal with before he even makes up his mind on falling in love.

Stage 3 – Attraction:If the girl reciprocates to a guy’s advances, they enters into the attraction stage of love. Until this stage, a guy can walk away from a girl without any pain or heartbreak even if the girl rejects him. He’s not really trying too hard, and he’s not really fallen in love to care about a rejection when he’s just trying to get lucky.But if a girl does show the slightest sign of reciprocation or interest in the guy, or even if he assumes she’s into him, the guy digs deep into this stage, the attraction stage. In this stage, he decides to pursue the girl and make her like him.

Stage 4 – Impression:

If he’s able to convince the girl and make her fall in love with him, he’s a

happy man. He likes where the game is heading.

Now if the girl is in love with him, he takes a couple of days to sit back and weigh the pros and the cons of being in a relationship with that girl. Does he really love the girl too? Will he be happy with her? Is she the woman he wants and needs?

Stage 5 -Love:

If a man’s convinced that he truly likes the girl and wants to be with

her, he enters this final stage of love where he’s ready to fall in love with the girl.

Assumptions :

1. —No Family Pressures.

2. The intensity of feelings should not change.

3. There should not be any second thoughts in the minds of both the parties.

4. Emotions should be restricted only to one. It should not keep on

fluctuating .

5. —There should not be any undesired behavior for any of the parties.