St. John Baptist de la salle June 21ST 2020

www.stjohnsfamilyoffaith.com TWEILFTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

MONDAY, June 22 – St. Paulinus of Nola & Sts. John Fisher & Thomas More 8:00 a.m. Debbie Moller TUESDAY, June 23 - Weekday 7:00 p.m. Marilyn Caltagirone WEDNESDAY, June 24 – The Nativity of St. John the Baptist 8:00 a.m. Mary Palka THURSDAY, June 25 - Weekday 7:00 p.m. Thomas Mihalik FRIDAY, June 26 - Weekday 8:00 a.m. Jessie Sockel

THIRTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME SATURDAY, JUNE 27 4:00 p.m. Claire & Jack Causa SUNDAY, JUNE 28 8:30 a.m. People of the Parish 10:30 a.m. Joseph Sottosanti

Please direct all bulletin and website inquiries to the Parish Communications Coordinator, Sarah Capato at 610.850.4978 or sarah@stjohnsfamilyoffaith.com.

Bulletin submissions are due Thursday, ten days prior to the Sunday of publication.

SATURDAY, JUNE 27 – 4:00PM Lector: Maria Biancone EM: TBD SUNDAY, JUNE 28 – 8:30AM Lector: Tony Farina EM: TBD SUNDAY, JUNE 28 – 10:30AM Lector: Trevor Schonen EM: TBD

Sanctuary Lamp for the week of June 21-27: In loving memory of June Yohn (requested by the Yohn Family)

Weekly stewardship SUNDAY: 6/7: $18,892.00

SUNDAY: 6/14: $10,474.00

Mass intentions for the week

Upcoming liturgical ministers

Away from home? Find a mass wherever you are by visiting www.masstimes.org

First Reading: Jeremiah 20:10-13 Because the prophet Jeremiah foretold disaster for Jerusalem, he was denounced. But Jeremiah trust-ed in the Lord and overcame his persecutors. Second Reading: Romans 5:12-15 Paul explains to the Romans that Adam’s sin brought death to all, but Christ’s gift of himself brought grace and life. Gospel: Matthew 10:26-33 In authoritative and encouraging words, Jesus urges the apostles to fear nothing ‑‑ only him who can destroy the soul. Telling them “every hair of your head has been counted,” he promises that “Whoever acknowledges me before men I will acknowledge before my Father in heaven.”

Todays readings

Virtual Mass with Fr. Rich can still be viewed

every Sunday after 9am on either our Parish

website www.stjohnsfamilyoffaith.com or our

parish Facebook page, St. John Baptist de la

Salle Family of Faith VBS: Unfortunately, due to the COVID 19 virus we had to cancel our VBS for this summer. God

willing, we will be returning next June for some awesome fun.

PRIME TIMER’S NEWS: Please be advised that all trips for the summer have been cancelled. Be on the lookout for the Fall/Winter trips in future bulletins. Thank you for your understanding in this matter. If you should have any questions please call Mary Stadelmeyer 484.955.9492

Prime timers news

Are you interested in getting involved in

community service? If you have a background in

teaching/education and are looking to get involved in

a volunteer activity, we invite you to consider being an

ESL (English as a Second Language) or GED (General

Education Development) class instructor for adult

students at the Mother Veronica Resource Center. The

GED instruction would involve teaching reading and

writing skills; for example, reading comprehension.

Materials needed for instruction are provided.

The Center is located at 449 S. 6th Street in Reading,

adjacent to SS. Cyril & Methodius Church at 6th and

Laurel Streets. Classes are offered two days a week,

either Monday and Wednesday or Tuesday and

Thursday, for an hour-and-a-half. Morning and

evening positions are available. Classes for the 2020-

2021 year are scheduled to start on Tuesday,

September 8, 2020 and end on Thursday, June 3,

2021. There is time off for Thanksgiving, Christmas,

and Easter. We ask that you volunteer for at least one

semester – September-mid-December or January to

the first week of June.

If you are open to considering this opportunity, please contact Sister Cara Garofalo at mveronicacenter@gmail.com or at 484.706.3570 to schedule an appointment to visit the Center and learn more about the opportunities available.

RCIA: We welcome into our parish family Julie Weaver who received her Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist) last week-end at the 10:30 AM Mass. Please keep Julie in your prayers as she begins a new journey in her life.

A THANK YOU NOTE FOR ST. JOHNS PARISHION-

ERS FROM THE MIFFLIN COMMUNTITY FOOD

MINISTRY- Thank you for your ongoing generous

donations of food and paper products to the Mifflin

Community Food Ministry throughout each month.

We were glad to assist 127 families this month and

your gifts will help us continue to make the food and

the hard to find paper products available to many

families in need.

The Mifflin Community Food Ministry is not affiliated

with Helping Harvest (formerly Greater Berks Food

Bank) therefore, we are especially grateful for any

gift. We use all gifts of time, money, food, paper

products, and other types of donations to serve God

and the families in need in our area through this

ministry. The Food Ministry is open the third Saturday

of every month at Zion EC Church at 57 N. Church

Street in Mohnton from 9-11am.

FOUR WAYS FOR CATHOLIC FATHERS TO GIVE HEROIC WITNESS TO THEIR CHILDREN By Nicholas LaBanca As I look at my children every night before going to bed, I wonder what their futures will be: what type of vocation they’ll have, what kind of relationship they’ll have with each other. I wonder what kind of relationship they’ll have with God. And then, as I slowly leave the room and quietly close the door, I realize that the answers to those questions are contingent upon me, their father. Now that’s not to say that my wife doesn’t have a hand in this. If I didn’t have her by my side the entire house would be up for grabs. But studies clearly show the necessity of a father, or at least a father figure, in the life of children. Those that come from plac-es with an absent father or regular male role model in their lives are more likely to be in jail, more likely to be sexually promiscuous and more likely to be prone to a multitude of other problems. As a Catholic father, I have even greater demands on me, and these expectations are something I must fulfill, particularly because I vowed to follow through at each of my children’s baptisms. Now I’m far from being the father of the year (I pray that our Lord will allow me to raise my children well everyday), but with Father’s Day coming up, I’ve been thinking about how fathers, and Catholic fathers in particular, need to be bold. What does it mean to be a good Catholic father in this day and age? I only have about four years’ experience of being a father, so this may not be much that I’ve picked up, but here are four ways we as fathers can really live out our vocation in a heroic way. Because that’s what we’re called to do: to give a hero-ic witness to our children. 1. Pray with your children daily and let them see you pray. We as fathers (along with our wives) are our children’s primary instructors in the Faith. Not the religious education teacher, not our parish’s pastor, not even our own mothers. We are. Studies have shown that when a father does not practice his faith in front of his children, there is only a very small chance that the children will themselves be religious as adults. Your role as a father matters in the eternal salvation of your child. It can’t be any more blunt than that. You as a father need to pray with your kids, principally during Mass. Let them see you making the Sign of the Cross after dipping your hand in the holy water font, and do it slowly. Also let them see you genuflect before our Lord as you enter and exit church, and ensure that they do so when they are of age (my two-year-old old son can do it, so start them young). Make sure they see you strike your breast with sorrow for your sins at the Penitential Rite. Let them see you bow your head in reverence at the elevation of the Eu-charist. Also, pray before meals, and ensure that you, or your wife (or both of you) are praying with your kids before bedtime. Kids are great at memorization. Young children can easily memorize the Our Father, Hail Mary, and a few other prayers if you pray it with them each day. I’ve often read this Scripture passage when I pray Compline from the Liturgy of Hours, and it’s something all fathers need to remember: “You shall therefore lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul… And you shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise” (Deuteronomy 11:18-19). It’s always a good time to talk to our children about our Lord Jesus. 2. Always be on the same team as your wife, your children ’s mother. You and your wife have to be on the same page. In Familiaris consortio, St. John Paul addressed fathers in this way: “Love for his wife as mother of their children and love for the chil-dren themselves are for the man the natural way of understanding and fulfilling his own fatherhood … In revealing and in reliving on earth the very fatherhood of God, a man is called upon to ensure the harmonious and united development of all the members of the family: he will perform this task by exercising generous responsibility for the life conceived under the heart of the mother, by a more solicitous commitment to education, a task he shares with his wife, by work which is never a cause of division in the family but promotes its unity and stability, and by means of the witness he gives of an adult Christian life which effectively introduces the children into the living experience of Christ and the Church” (FC 25). Our children need to see that we love their mother. This is why we always need to put our wife at number one (well, two, after God of course). A lot of people in our culture flip flop that and put their kids before their spouse. We as Catholic fathers can’t afford to do that. Marriage is permanent. We know that. If our relationship isn’t good with our wife, it will have detrimental effects on our children. We have to keep harmony in our family, and if our kids see us being kind to their mother, they will be witnessing true manhood. Don’t fight in front of your kids, and always pray to St. Joseph that you may be a good husband so that you in turn may be a good father. 3. Tell your kids you love them. You have to tell your kids this, even your sons. We all know that our daughters are the apples of our eyes, and we are affectionate with them. But our sons need that, too. Whether you have all boys, all girls, or a mix of both, you have to let your kids know you love them. You can say that with those three simple words, or get down on the ground and play with them. Show interest in their activities, their creations, their sports. Show them by teaching them about your greatest love, Jesus Christ. We might think that our wives are the sole providers of “TLC.”, but that couldn’t be any farther from the truth. We as fathers might of course be a bit rougher with our kids, and take more chances with them than our wives would want us to, but we also need to be ten-der with them, and they need to see that too. St. John Paul II also warns against “the phenomenon of ‘machismo’”. Don’t be like the guys that you see in Hollywood or on TV. That isn’t authentic manhood. Kids need their dads to provide both toughness and tenderness. It’s not an either/or, but instead it’s a both/and. 4. Pray the Rosary often. Now I know I already said that fathers need to pray, but this deserves its own point. Numerous saints have attested to the power of the Rosary. St. Padre Pio continuously prayed the Rosary, often calling it his “weapon”. And that it is, as the Rosary is an excellent tool for spiritual combat. This means it’s good to get your kids using it early. When I was young, my father always led our family in the Rosary. It’s not a prayer for old women. It’s a prayer for all Catholics, especially for dads. Here’s something a lot of people might not know: one can attain a plenary indulgence for saying the Rosary with one’s family. This is something one can do daily. As I said, my dad (and mother) often prayed the Rosary with my three siblings and I. On top of that, it was not uncommon in my large, extended Italian family for over sixty people at once to recite the Rosary at family birthday parties. My father, grandfather, un-cles, and male cousins all joined in. It was a beautiful witness. Now, did things get crazy sometimes with kids running around, either at family parties or at home with just my immediate family? Yes. And things even get really crazy now when we try to pray the Rosary with two kids under the age of four. But it’s something we need to do. If you must, just say one decade of the Rosary. But I challenge you to start saying the entire five decade Rosary with your kids from the time they learn the Hail Mary. Let our Catholic faith be front and cen-ter with your family.