WINTER 2013 |

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

All AboardWedding daytransportation tips

Victoria BridalExhibition PreviewJanuary 13 at Pearkes Recreation Centre

Cover photo supplied by Brawns Photography

P R O M O T I O N A L S U P P L E M E N T

WINTER 2013

2 | WINTER 2013

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Everything to create a Healthy You usingthe best products from all over the Globe

250-370-1818 bull 770 Spruce Ave wwwtrianglehealingproductscom

We now have 100 Latex natural mattresses mattress pads amp pillows

Weighted Acu Hula Hoops

Titanium Non-Stick Cookware Set

Excalibur Dehydratory

GreenStar Juicer

BlendTec Total Blender

Radiant Health Saunas with CarbonFlowtrade heating from Japan

Photonic Portable Water UnitThis is the structuring device that can travel with you to add a bio-photon infusion to water wine or any beverage All you need is Gravity Come to the store for a taste of structured water from the Portable Unit

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2 | WINTER 2013

NAME NEWSPAPER bull Month Date Year 3

Everything to create a Healthy You usingthe best products from all over the Globe

250-370-1818 bull 770 Spruce Ave wwwtrianglehealingproductscom

We now have 100 Latex natural mattresses mattress pads amp pillows

Weighted Acu Hula Hoops

Titanium Non-Stick Cookware Set

Excalibur Dehydratory

GreenStar Juicer

BlendTec Total Blender

Radiant Health Saunas with CarbonFlowtrade heating from Japan

Photonic Portable Water UnitThis is the structuring device that can travel with you to add a bio-photon infusion to water wine or any beverage All you need is Gravity Come to the store for a taste of structured water from the Portable Unit

Bellicon Rebounder

Made in GermanyConsidered the best rebounder

in the world

3WINTER 2013 |

Find a gown they all will love

Getting guests to and fro Wedding day transportation tips

Tips for trying on wedding gowns

Herersquos to you Tips for a great best man toast

Victoria Bridal Exposition Preview

Variety is the spice of life with wedding cuisine

How to find the right banquet hall for your big day

Seating your wedding guests

Floral terms to know

Cash registry It does exist

Packing pointers for destination weddings

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Close friends and family members are an important component of a couplersquos

wedding day Individuals who are especially close to the bride and groom are often asked to become members of the wedding party which means a bride-to-be will be asking one or more women to play an integral role in the celebration To set these ladies apart from other guests at the wedding they are often asked to wear coordinating bridesmaid gowns Selecting a style and colour that is fitting to the unique people of the bridal party can be challenging but itrsquos not impossible

As if choosing your maid of honour wasnrsquot tricky enough you now must make a host of other decisions as well all while playing stylist to the wedding party Fashion sense is as unique as a fingerprint and it is unlikely the bridesmaids will be able to agree on every aspect of the gowns they will be asked to wear However there are ways to narrow down the choices and be as accommodating as possible to their needs

Size mattersThe body shapes and sizes of the women in your bridal party will be different and this should be kept in mind when selecting a gown style and cut There are certain dress shapes that are universally flattering such as A-line Try to avoid gowns that are extremely form-fitting as only a few of the bridesmaids may be able to pull off this look successfully The remainder could be left feeling self-conscious and uncomfortable Plus form-fitting clothing will be restrictive and can be difficult to move around in mdash particularly considering the gown will be worn for an entire day

Flattering ColourAs a bride you may have a colourscape in your mind for the wedding But what looks good in table linens and flowers is not always the right choice for clothing Take the skin tones and hair colours of your bridesmaids into consideration before choosing a dress Green- and yellow-hued dresses may not look nice on women with olive skin

Find a gown they all will loveA little patience can help a bride-to-be select bridesmaid gowns that are flattering to all the members of her bridal party

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Personalize Your Wedding Photos with the Creative Photo Kioskbull Books bull Mugs bull Calendars bull T-Shirts bull And So Much More

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5WINTER 2013 |

tones while very pale colours may wash out women with fair skin Those with dark skin may need a brighter-coloured dress

Price TagIt is an honour to be asked to be part of a bridal party but that honour can be very expensive The bridesmaids are expected to pay for their wardrobe hair styling and makeup as well as parties and gifts for the happy couple As a courtesy to the women who already will be investing a considerable amount to be a part of your wedding make every effort to select a gown that is affordable There are plenty of retailers offering stylish options that may not be as expensive as some specialty stores

Other TipsOnce yoursquove decided on the basic elements consider the following suggestions to find a gown that the bridal party will enjoy

bull Take one or two bridesmaids shopping with you Try to select ones with opposite body types so you can see how the gown looks on a woman who is thin and one who may be more full-figured

bull Think about choosing separates The bridesmaids can mix and match tops and bottoms to find a fit that works This may enable a woman with a larger bust size to select a top with supportive straps while another bridesmaid can opt for strapless Many stores have increased their inventory of separates because of their growing popularitybull Choose one colour and then let the bridesmaids choose the style they like the best for themselves The look will still be cohesive but it wonrsquot be boring with one type of gown Also each bridesmaid will be comfortable with a gown that flatters her shapebull Go with a tea-length gown These gowns have become quite trendy and are less formal and cumbersome than full-length gowns Plus there is a greater likelihood that the gown can be used again at a later datebull Purchase the bridesmaid gowns at the same store where you will be purchasing your wedding gown Most shops will offer a courtesy discount if the bridesmaid gowns are purchased at the same storeEnsuring bridesmaids are happy in their gowns takes a little work but will be well worth the effort

wwwknickerbockersca

SIDNEYat the foot of Beacon

in the Sidney Pier Hotel250-656-5506

ROYAL OAK DRIVEin the Broadmead Village

Shopping Centre250-658-5578

ldquoI dordquoDo you know where to find the perfect wedding gift

Elopement to Elaborate Turning Your Moments into Memories

250 995 3607 empcateringfairmontcomfairmontcomempress

6 | WINTER 2013

When paring down the guest list for their wedding day many couples come to the

realization that their lists are loaded with out-of-town friends and family members Though out-of-town guests who accept an invitation to the wedding are responsible for their own travel to the wedding destination many couples feel obligated to arrange for travel to and from the wedding as well as the reception The latter is especially important as couples want to ensure their guests make it home safely once the reception endsTransportation for guests to and from the wedding and reception is something couples can easily overlook but such arrangements can ensure guests are on time for the ceremony and that no guest has to worry about whether or not itrsquos safe to drive home after the reception Couples who donrsquot know where to begin with regard to transportation for their wedding guests might want to start with the following tipsbull Shop around for shuttle service Shuttle service can be costly but itrsquos also very convenient Couples can arrange for shuttle service from the hotel to the wedding and then from the wedding site to the banquet hall where the reception is being held and finally from the reception site back to the hotel at the end of the night Depending on the size of the wedding party the shuttle service will likely recommend staggering the runs so every guest can take advantage of this convenient service More runs will be necessary for larger parties while a handful of runs is likely all thatrsquos necessary for ceremonies with fewer guestsbull Consider a bus for smaller parties Couples without an extensive guest list may also be able to get by with a single bus to get guests around throughout the day A bus will provide similar service as a series of shuttles The bus will likely only pick up guests at one specific time making it an ideal choice for smaller parties but less convenient for larger parties where some guests might want to retire earlier than others come the end of the night A bus can be more fun for guests who can reunite on the bus with others they have not seen in a while

or make new friends with guests who might be affiliated with the other half of the wedding party

bull Discuss transportation with the hotel where guests will be staying Some couples may find that a shuttle service or another transportation option will stretch their budget too thin In such instances speak with the hotel where guests will be staying Some hotels provide airport shuttle service to guests and may be able to offer a similar service to the wedding for guests who register their rooms under the wedding partyrsquos name This may come at a fee but compare the cost of arranging transportation with the hotel versus a private shuttle service The former might be more affordable than the latter

Even if the hotel cannot provide shuttle service the concierge or front desk staff may be able to suggest an affordable shuttle service This can be especially valuable to couples having a destination wedding who donrsquot know the area very well

bull Get the details spelled out in writing Like all aspects of planning a wedding make sure you get the nuts and bolts of the transportation package in writing before writing any checks This should include the minimum hours the company will be available for guests as well as if there are any charges related to total mileage travelled In addition make sure the agreement clearly spells out how many drivers will be available Note when shuttles to the ceremony and the ensuing reception will run as well as how frequently shuttles will be available to guests once the reception begins and when the last shuttle will leave the reception site at the end of the night Before signing any agreements research the company to ensure all of its drivers are properly licensed

bull Inform the guests Of course the guests will need to be informed of the transportation arrangements upon checking into the hotel Donrsquot assume you will see each guest before the ceremony as some may not be making it into town until the morning of your wedding day when you will likely be too busy to meet with them So be sure to include transportation instructions in the welcome packages guests will receive when they check into the hotel Consult with hotel staff a day or two before your wedding to ensure those packages are ready to go and that the correct transportation information is included

Transportation for wedding guests might not be at the top of many couplesrsquo priority lists but arranging for such transportation can ensure everyone enjoys the ceremony and makes it home safe and sound at the end of the night

Getting guests to and fro Wedding daytransportation tips

MURPHYWALL-BEDS

Itrsquos Like Adding Another Room

3075 Douglas Street Victoria

250-744-2195wwwmurphybeds-victoriacom

Let us show you howto increase your useable space

bull Office bull Kids Room bull Fitness Room

bull Rental Properties bull Custom Cabinetry

We off er a FREE DESIGN SERVICE with 3D drawings

7WINTER 2013 |

Many brides-to-be look forward to the day when they visit

a bridal salon and are able to try on gowns for the first time However a few tips can make the day go much smoother and may reduce the amount of time it takes to find the perfect gown

bull Wear a supportive well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size If you will be wearing

a petticoat also have the right size available

bull Go without face makeup when trying on gowns so they remain cleanbull Try to wear your hair similar to the style you have in mind for your wedding

bull Note that the size of the wedding gown you will wear is typically one to two sizes larger than your day-to-day clothes Proper

measurements can be matched to designersrsquo size charts

bull Itrsquos best to limit the number of people with whom you shop to one or two trusted friends or family membersAn entourage can be confusing

bull Itrsquos always better to order a slightly larger gown and leave room for alterations if you are between sizes

Tips for trying on wedding gowns

Look and feel your best

Call 2503848663esteemtreatmentscom

Suite 350 1105 Pandora(corner of Pandora and Cook)

Not just for brides We are here for anyone

wanting to be at their best

Esteem Treatments is always up to date with the latest technology and techniques to help you tighten tone and smooth your skin Call Alana to customize a series of treatments just for you to look and feel your best

Tone lift tighten and drop a pants size with Eurowave

Choose Acoustic Wave treatment to reduce the appearance of cellulite and for skin smoothing and regeneration

Our Radio Frequency treatments using the exclusive Tri-Pollar system tighten and smooth your skin all over

These are just three of the many treatments we offer Visit esteemtreatmentscom for details and pricing on all our services

Like us on Facebook or mention this ad amp receive 15 off any treatment packages

with a customized package of skin and body treatments

to the ldquoevent expertsrdquoto the ldquoevent expertsrdquo

FOR A LOVE THAT RINGS TRUEWE HAVE EVERYTHING FOR YOU

Victoriarsquos Premier Balloon Store

Best Selection and Prices

Check us out atwwwthepartycrashersca

HOURS Monday - Saturday 930 - 900 Sunday 1000 - 500

Next to Boston Pizza on Veterans Memorial Parkway

7784305959

wwHOURS Mond

SHOPLOCAL

scay 1000 - 500

y

DOLLARSTOREPRICES

bull Balloonsbull Napkinsbull Candlesbull Paper Streamers

From the balloons to decorate your hall to the just married sign on the back of your car we have it all

bull Theme Suppliesbull Craft Suppliesbull Stationerybull Makeup Items

bull Hair Care amp Beauty Itemsbull Mailing Suppliesbull Plastic amp Foam Tablewarebull Beads amp Boas

bull Bridal Suppliesbull Novelty Itemsbull Gift Bagsbull Tissue Paperbull Party Favoursbull Bannersbull Signs

Bachelorette amp

Stag Party Supplies

8 | WINTER 2013

The best man toast can be one of the most memorable parts of a couplersquos wedding Sometimes a toast is memorable for its humour and heartfelt sense of appreciation for the groom and his bride while other toasts are more memorable for all

the wrong reasonsOne of the reasons best man toasts can be so unpredictable is that giving a best man toast is such a unique experience Itrsquos something many men never do while those who do give a best man toast may only do it once in a lifetime Itrsquos understandable to be nervous when asked to give a toast but there are a few tricks of the trade a best man can employ to calm those nerves and ensure his toast is memorable for all the right reasonsbull Practice makes perfect Few people are capable of standing in front of a crowd of people and speaking off the cuff A best man should take this into account and practice his speech before the big day A spur-of-the-moment speech may provide an adrenaline rush but such an endeavor may come off as if you didnrsquot care enough to put the effort into writing a thoughtful toast ahead of time In addition practicing the toast once itrsquos been written will make you feel more comfortable and

confident in front of the crowd If possible practice in front of a friend or family member so you can solicit feedback A friend or relative might be able to help you fine-tune the speech which in turn can calm your nerves once yoursquore handed the microphonebull Avoid alcohol Drinking prior to your toast is a recipe for disaster Though it may seem like a good idea to employ alcohol to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions itrsquos not a good idea Consuming alcohol before your toast increases the chance that you will end up embarrassing the bride and groom as well as yourself bull Get to the point Men and women who have attended their fair share of wedding receptions no doubt have sat through a long-winded toast from the best man or maid of honour Such toasts can bring a festive reception to a grinding halt and guests will likely tune out before the best man or maid of honour gets to the point Being succinct should

be a goal for a best man with regard to his toast Avoid long-winded walks down Memory Lane in favour of a toast that thoughtfully cuts to the chase and lets everyone get back to celebrating

bull Spin a yarn While itrsquos important to be brief donrsquot be so brief that no one at the reception learns about your relationship to the groom Share a humourous anecdote from your mutual past to illustrate the type of relationship you and the groom share with one another This story should have an element of humour but donrsquot include anything too embarrassing and all ex-girlfriends should be considered off-limits

bull Congratulate the couple Because nerves play such a significant part in many best man toasts it can be easy to forget to congratulate both the bride and groom Donrsquot just toast the groom at the end of your best man speech toast his new bride as well

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

A PAL Weddinguard Policy Covershearts Bridal Attirehearts Wedding Photos

and Videohearts Wedding Presentshearts Wedding Cancellationhearts Honeymoon Cancellation

Packages Starting at $200Worldwide Coverage Available

(some restrictions apply)

wwwpalcanadacom1-800-265-8098

hearts Loss Deposithearts General Liability including

Host Liquor for three 24-hourperiods such as Rehearsal Dinner Ceremony and Reception and Gift Opening

5WINTER 2013 |

tones while very pale colours may wash out women with fair skin Those with dark skin may need a brighter-coloured dress

Price TagIt is an honour to be asked to be part of a bridal party but that honour can be very expensive The bridesmaids are expected to pay for their wardrobe hair styling and makeup as well as parties and gifts for the happy couple As a courtesy to the women who already will be investing a considerable amount to be a part of your wedding make every effort to select a gown that is affordable There are plenty of retailers offering stylish options that may not be as expensive as some specialty stores

Other TipsOnce yoursquove decided on the basic elements consider the following suggestions to find a gown that the bridal party will enjoy

bull Take one or two bridesmaids shopping with you Try to select ones with opposite body types so you can see how the gown looks on a woman who is thin and one who may be more full-figured

bull Think about choosing separates The bridesmaids can mix and match tops and bottoms to find a fit that works This may enable a woman with a larger bust size to select a top with supportive straps while another bridesmaid can opt for strapless Many stores have increased their inventory of separates because of their growing popularitybull Choose one colour and then let the bridesmaids choose the style they like the best for themselves The look will still be cohesive but it wonrsquot be boring with one type of gown Also each bridesmaid will be comfortable with a gown that flatters her shapebull Go with a tea-length gown These gowns have become quite trendy and are less formal and cumbersome than full-length gowns Plus there is a greater likelihood that the gown can be used again at a later datebull Purchase the bridesmaid gowns at the same store where you will be purchasing your wedding gown Most shops will offer a courtesy discount if the bridesmaid gowns are purchased at the same storeEnsuring bridesmaids are happy in their gowns takes a little work but will be well worth the effort

wwwknickerbockersca

SIDNEYat the foot of Beacon

in the Sidney Pier Hotel250-656-5506

ROYAL OAK DRIVEin the Broadmead Village

Shopping Centre250-658-5578

ldquoI dordquoDo you know where to find the perfect wedding gift

Elopement to Elaborate Turning Your Moments into Memories

250 995 3607 empcateringfairmontcomfairmontcomempress

6 | WINTER 2013

When paring down the guest list for their wedding day many couples come to the

realization that their lists are loaded with out-of-town friends and family members Though out-of-town guests who accept an invitation to the wedding are responsible for their own travel to the wedding destination many couples feel obligated to arrange for travel to and from the wedding as well as the reception The latter is especially important as couples want to ensure their guests make it home safely once the reception endsTransportation for guests to and from the wedding and reception is something couples can easily overlook but such arrangements can ensure guests are on time for the ceremony and that no guest has to worry about whether or not itrsquos safe to drive home after the reception Couples who donrsquot know where to begin with regard to transportation for their wedding guests might want to start with the following tipsbull Shop around for shuttle service Shuttle service can be costly but itrsquos also very convenient Couples can arrange for shuttle service from the hotel to the wedding and then from the wedding site to the banquet hall where the reception is being held and finally from the reception site back to the hotel at the end of the night Depending on the size of the wedding party the shuttle service will likely recommend staggering the runs so every guest can take advantage of this convenient service More runs will be necessary for larger parties while a handful of runs is likely all thatrsquos necessary for ceremonies with fewer guestsbull Consider a bus for smaller parties Couples without an extensive guest list may also be able to get by with a single bus to get guests around throughout the day A bus will provide similar service as a series of shuttles The bus will likely only pick up guests at one specific time making it an ideal choice for smaller parties but less convenient for larger parties where some guests might want to retire earlier than others come the end of the night A bus can be more fun for guests who can reunite on the bus with others they have not seen in a while

or make new friends with guests who might be affiliated with the other half of the wedding party

bull Discuss transportation with the hotel where guests will be staying Some couples may find that a shuttle service or another transportation option will stretch their budget too thin In such instances speak with the hotel where guests will be staying Some hotels provide airport shuttle service to guests and may be able to offer a similar service to the wedding for guests who register their rooms under the wedding partyrsquos name This may come at a fee but compare the cost of arranging transportation with the hotel versus a private shuttle service The former might be more affordable than the latter

Even if the hotel cannot provide shuttle service the concierge or front desk staff may be able to suggest an affordable shuttle service This can be especially valuable to couples having a destination wedding who donrsquot know the area very well

bull Get the details spelled out in writing Like all aspects of planning a wedding make sure you get the nuts and bolts of the transportation package in writing before writing any checks This should include the minimum hours the company will be available for guests as well as if there are any charges related to total mileage travelled In addition make sure the agreement clearly spells out how many drivers will be available Note when shuttles to the ceremony and the ensuing reception will run as well as how frequently shuttles will be available to guests once the reception begins and when the last shuttle will leave the reception site at the end of the night Before signing any agreements research the company to ensure all of its drivers are properly licensed

bull Inform the guests Of course the guests will need to be informed of the transportation arrangements upon checking into the hotel Donrsquot assume you will see each guest before the ceremony as some may not be making it into town until the morning of your wedding day when you will likely be too busy to meet with them So be sure to include transportation instructions in the welcome packages guests will receive when they check into the hotel Consult with hotel staff a day or two before your wedding to ensure those packages are ready to go and that the correct transportation information is included

Transportation for wedding guests might not be at the top of many couplesrsquo priority lists but arranging for such transportation can ensure everyone enjoys the ceremony and makes it home safe and sound at the end of the night

Getting guests to and fro Wedding daytransportation tips

MURPHYWALL-BEDS

Itrsquos Like Adding Another Room

3075 Douglas Street Victoria

250-744-2195wwwmurphybeds-victoriacom

Let us show you howto increase your useable space

bull Office bull Kids Room bull Fitness Room

bull Rental Properties bull Custom Cabinetry

We off er a FREE DESIGN SERVICE with 3D drawings

7WINTER 2013 |

Many brides-to-be look forward to the day when they visit

a bridal salon and are able to try on gowns for the first time However a few tips can make the day go much smoother and may reduce the amount of time it takes to find the perfect gown

bull Wear a supportive well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size If you will be wearing

a petticoat also have the right size available

bull Go without face makeup when trying on gowns so they remain cleanbull Try to wear your hair similar to the style you have in mind for your wedding

bull Note that the size of the wedding gown you will wear is typically one to two sizes larger than your day-to-day clothes Proper

measurements can be matched to designersrsquo size charts

bull Itrsquos best to limit the number of people with whom you shop to one or two trusted friends or family membersAn entourage can be confusing

bull Itrsquos always better to order a slightly larger gown and leave room for alterations if you are between sizes

Tips for trying on wedding gowns

Look and feel your best

Call 2503848663esteemtreatmentscom

Suite 350 1105 Pandora(corner of Pandora and Cook)

Not just for brides We are here for anyone

wanting to be at their best

Esteem Treatments is always up to date with the latest technology and techniques to help you tighten tone and smooth your skin Call Alana to customize a series of treatments just for you to look and feel your best

Tone lift tighten and drop a pants size with Eurowave

Choose Acoustic Wave treatment to reduce the appearance of cellulite and for skin smoothing and regeneration

Our Radio Frequency treatments using the exclusive Tri-Pollar system tighten and smooth your skin all over

These are just three of the many treatments we offer Visit esteemtreatmentscom for details and pricing on all our services

Like us on Facebook or mention this ad amp receive 15 off any treatment packages

with a customized package of skin and body treatments

to the ldquoevent expertsrdquoto the ldquoevent expertsrdquo

FOR A LOVE THAT RINGS TRUEWE HAVE EVERYTHING FOR YOU

Victoriarsquos Premier Balloon Store

Best Selection and Prices

Check us out atwwwthepartycrashersca

HOURS Monday - Saturday 930 - 900 Sunday 1000 - 500

Next to Boston Pizza on Veterans Memorial Parkway

7784305959

wwHOURS Mond

SHOPLOCAL

scay 1000 - 500

y

DOLLARSTOREPRICES

bull Balloonsbull Napkinsbull Candlesbull Paper Streamers

From the balloons to decorate your hall to the just married sign on the back of your car we have it all

bull Theme Suppliesbull Craft Suppliesbull Stationerybull Makeup Items

bull Hair Care amp Beauty Itemsbull Mailing Suppliesbull Plastic amp Foam Tablewarebull Beads amp Boas

bull Bridal Suppliesbull Novelty Itemsbull Gift Bagsbull Tissue Paperbull Party Favoursbull Bannersbull Signs

Bachelorette amp

Stag Party Supplies

8 | WINTER 2013

The best man toast can be one of the most memorable parts of a couplersquos wedding Sometimes a toast is memorable for its humour and heartfelt sense of appreciation for the groom and his bride while other toasts are more memorable for all

the wrong reasonsOne of the reasons best man toasts can be so unpredictable is that giving a best man toast is such a unique experience Itrsquos something many men never do while those who do give a best man toast may only do it once in a lifetime Itrsquos understandable to be nervous when asked to give a toast but there are a few tricks of the trade a best man can employ to calm those nerves and ensure his toast is memorable for all the right reasonsbull Practice makes perfect Few people are capable of standing in front of a crowd of people and speaking off the cuff A best man should take this into account and practice his speech before the big day A spur-of-the-moment speech may provide an adrenaline rush but such an endeavor may come off as if you didnrsquot care enough to put the effort into writing a thoughtful toast ahead of time In addition practicing the toast once itrsquos been written will make you feel more comfortable and

confident in front of the crowd If possible practice in front of a friend or family member so you can solicit feedback A friend or relative might be able to help you fine-tune the speech which in turn can calm your nerves once yoursquore handed the microphonebull Avoid alcohol Drinking prior to your toast is a recipe for disaster Though it may seem like a good idea to employ alcohol to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions itrsquos not a good idea Consuming alcohol before your toast increases the chance that you will end up embarrassing the bride and groom as well as yourself bull Get to the point Men and women who have attended their fair share of wedding receptions no doubt have sat through a long-winded toast from the best man or maid of honour Such toasts can bring a festive reception to a grinding halt and guests will likely tune out before the best man or maid of honour gets to the point Being succinct should

be a goal for a best man with regard to his toast Avoid long-winded walks down Memory Lane in favour of a toast that thoughtfully cuts to the chase and lets everyone get back to celebrating

bull Spin a yarn While itrsquos important to be brief donrsquot be so brief that no one at the reception learns about your relationship to the groom Share a humourous anecdote from your mutual past to illustrate the type of relationship you and the groom share with one another This story should have an element of humour but donrsquot include anything too embarrassing and all ex-girlfriends should be considered off-limits

bull Congratulate the couple Because nerves play such a significant part in many best man toasts it can be easy to forget to congratulate both the bride and groom Donrsquot just toast the groom at the end of your best man speech toast his new bride as well

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

A PAL Weddinguard Policy Covershearts Bridal Attirehearts Wedding Photos

and Videohearts Wedding Presentshearts Wedding Cancellationhearts Honeymoon Cancellation

Packages Starting at $200Worldwide Coverage Available

(some restrictions apply)

wwwpalcanadacom1-800-265-8098

hearts Loss Deposithearts General Liability including

Host Liquor for three 24-hourperiods such as Rehearsal Dinner Ceremony and Reception and Gift Opening

6 | WINTER 2013

When paring down the guest list for their wedding day many couples come to the

realization that their lists are loaded with out-of-town friends and family members Though out-of-town guests who accept an invitation to the wedding are responsible for their own travel to the wedding destination many couples feel obligated to arrange for travel to and from the wedding as well as the reception The latter is especially important as couples want to ensure their guests make it home safely once the reception endsTransportation for guests to and from the wedding and reception is something couples can easily overlook but such arrangements can ensure guests are on time for the ceremony and that no guest has to worry about whether or not itrsquos safe to drive home after the reception Couples who donrsquot know where to begin with regard to transportation for their wedding guests might want to start with the following tipsbull Shop around for shuttle service Shuttle service can be costly but itrsquos also very convenient Couples can arrange for shuttle service from the hotel to the wedding and then from the wedding site to the banquet hall where the reception is being held and finally from the reception site back to the hotel at the end of the night Depending on the size of the wedding party the shuttle service will likely recommend staggering the runs so every guest can take advantage of this convenient service More runs will be necessary for larger parties while a handful of runs is likely all thatrsquos necessary for ceremonies with fewer guestsbull Consider a bus for smaller parties Couples without an extensive guest list may also be able to get by with a single bus to get guests around throughout the day A bus will provide similar service as a series of shuttles The bus will likely only pick up guests at one specific time making it an ideal choice for smaller parties but less convenient for larger parties where some guests might want to retire earlier than others come the end of the night A bus can be more fun for guests who can reunite on the bus with others they have not seen in a while

or make new friends with guests who might be affiliated with the other half of the wedding party

bull Discuss transportation with the hotel where guests will be staying Some couples may find that a shuttle service or another transportation option will stretch their budget too thin In such instances speak with the hotel where guests will be staying Some hotels provide airport shuttle service to guests and may be able to offer a similar service to the wedding for guests who register their rooms under the wedding partyrsquos name This may come at a fee but compare the cost of arranging transportation with the hotel versus a private shuttle service The former might be more affordable than the latter

Even if the hotel cannot provide shuttle service the concierge or front desk staff may be able to suggest an affordable shuttle service This can be especially valuable to couples having a destination wedding who donrsquot know the area very well

bull Get the details spelled out in writing Like all aspects of planning a wedding make sure you get the nuts and bolts of the transportation package in writing before writing any checks This should include the minimum hours the company will be available for guests as well as if there are any charges related to total mileage travelled In addition make sure the agreement clearly spells out how many drivers will be available Note when shuttles to the ceremony and the ensuing reception will run as well as how frequently shuttles will be available to guests once the reception begins and when the last shuttle will leave the reception site at the end of the night Before signing any agreements research the company to ensure all of its drivers are properly licensed

bull Inform the guests Of course the guests will need to be informed of the transportation arrangements upon checking into the hotel Donrsquot assume you will see each guest before the ceremony as some may not be making it into town until the morning of your wedding day when you will likely be too busy to meet with them So be sure to include transportation instructions in the welcome packages guests will receive when they check into the hotel Consult with hotel staff a day or two before your wedding to ensure those packages are ready to go and that the correct transportation information is included

Transportation for wedding guests might not be at the top of many couplesrsquo priority lists but arranging for such transportation can ensure everyone enjoys the ceremony and makes it home safe and sound at the end of the night

Getting guests to and fro Wedding daytransportation tips

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Let us show you howto increase your useable space

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7WINTER 2013 |

Many brides-to-be look forward to the day when they visit

a bridal salon and are able to try on gowns for the first time However a few tips can make the day go much smoother and may reduce the amount of time it takes to find the perfect gown

bull Wear a supportive well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size If you will be wearing

a petticoat also have the right size available

bull Go without face makeup when trying on gowns so they remain cleanbull Try to wear your hair similar to the style you have in mind for your wedding

bull Note that the size of the wedding gown you will wear is typically one to two sizes larger than your day-to-day clothes Proper

measurements can be matched to designersrsquo size charts

bull Itrsquos best to limit the number of people with whom you shop to one or two trusted friends or family membersAn entourage can be confusing

bull Itrsquos always better to order a slightly larger gown and leave room for alterations if you are between sizes

Tips for trying on wedding gowns

Look and feel your best

Call 2503848663esteemtreatmentscom

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Not just for brides We are here for anyone

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Esteem Treatments is always up to date with the latest technology and techniques to help you tighten tone and smooth your skin Call Alana to customize a series of treatments just for you to look and feel your best

Tone lift tighten and drop a pants size with Eurowave

Choose Acoustic Wave treatment to reduce the appearance of cellulite and for skin smoothing and regeneration

Our Radio Frequency treatments using the exclusive Tri-Pollar system tighten and smooth your skin all over

These are just three of the many treatments we offer Visit esteemtreatmentscom for details and pricing on all our services

Like us on Facebook or mention this ad amp receive 15 off any treatment packages

with a customized package of skin and body treatments

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FOR A LOVE THAT RINGS TRUEWE HAVE EVERYTHING FOR YOU

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Best Selection and Prices

Check us out atwwwthepartycrashersca

HOURS Monday - Saturday 930 - 900 Sunday 1000 - 500

Next to Boston Pizza on Veterans Memorial Parkway

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SHOPLOCAL

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y

DOLLARSTOREPRICES

bull Balloonsbull Napkinsbull Candlesbull Paper Streamers

From the balloons to decorate your hall to the just married sign on the back of your car we have it all

bull Theme Suppliesbull Craft Suppliesbull Stationerybull Makeup Items

bull Hair Care amp Beauty Itemsbull Mailing Suppliesbull Plastic amp Foam Tablewarebull Beads amp Boas

bull Bridal Suppliesbull Novelty Itemsbull Gift Bagsbull Tissue Paperbull Party Favoursbull Bannersbull Signs

Bachelorette amp

Stag Party Supplies

8 | WINTER 2013

The best man toast can be one of the most memorable parts of a couplersquos wedding Sometimes a toast is memorable for its humour and heartfelt sense of appreciation for the groom and his bride while other toasts are more memorable for all

the wrong reasonsOne of the reasons best man toasts can be so unpredictable is that giving a best man toast is such a unique experience Itrsquos something many men never do while those who do give a best man toast may only do it once in a lifetime Itrsquos understandable to be nervous when asked to give a toast but there are a few tricks of the trade a best man can employ to calm those nerves and ensure his toast is memorable for all the right reasonsbull Practice makes perfect Few people are capable of standing in front of a crowd of people and speaking off the cuff A best man should take this into account and practice his speech before the big day A spur-of-the-moment speech may provide an adrenaline rush but such an endeavor may come off as if you didnrsquot care enough to put the effort into writing a thoughtful toast ahead of time In addition practicing the toast once itrsquos been written will make you feel more comfortable and

confident in front of the crowd If possible practice in front of a friend or family member so you can solicit feedback A friend or relative might be able to help you fine-tune the speech which in turn can calm your nerves once yoursquore handed the microphonebull Avoid alcohol Drinking prior to your toast is a recipe for disaster Though it may seem like a good idea to employ alcohol to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions itrsquos not a good idea Consuming alcohol before your toast increases the chance that you will end up embarrassing the bride and groom as well as yourself bull Get to the point Men and women who have attended their fair share of wedding receptions no doubt have sat through a long-winded toast from the best man or maid of honour Such toasts can bring a festive reception to a grinding halt and guests will likely tune out before the best man or maid of honour gets to the point Being succinct should

be a goal for a best man with regard to his toast Avoid long-winded walks down Memory Lane in favour of a toast that thoughtfully cuts to the chase and lets everyone get back to celebrating

bull Spin a yarn While itrsquos important to be brief donrsquot be so brief that no one at the reception learns about your relationship to the groom Share a humourous anecdote from your mutual past to illustrate the type of relationship you and the groom share with one another This story should have an element of humour but donrsquot include anything too embarrassing and all ex-girlfriends should be considered off-limits

bull Congratulate the couple Because nerves play such a significant part in many best man toasts it can be easy to forget to congratulate both the bride and groom Donrsquot just toast the groom at the end of your best man speech toast his new bride as well

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

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and Videohearts Wedding Presentshearts Wedding Cancellationhearts Honeymoon Cancellation

Packages Starting at $200Worldwide Coverage Available

(some restrictions apply)

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hearts Loss Deposithearts General Liability including

Host Liquor for three 24-hourperiods such as Rehearsal Dinner Ceremony and Reception and Gift Opening

7WINTER 2013 |

Many brides-to-be look forward to the day when they visit

a bridal salon and are able to try on gowns for the first time However a few tips can make the day go much smoother and may reduce the amount of time it takes to find the perfect gown

bull Wear a supportive well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size If you will be wearing

a petticoat also have the right size available

bull Go without face makeup when trying on gowns so they remain cleanbull Try to wear your hair similar to the style you have in mind for your wedding

bull Note that the size of the wedding gown you will wear is typically one to two sizes larger than your day-to-day clothes Proper

measurements can be matched to designersrsquo size charts

bull Itrsquos best to limit the number of people with whom you shop to one or two trusted friends or family membersAn entourage can be confusing

bull Itrsquos always better to order a slightly larger gown and leave room for alterations if you are between sizes

Tips for trying on wedding gowns

Look and feel your best

Call 2503848663esteemtreatmentscom

Suite 350 1105 Pandora(corner of Pandora and Cook)

Not just for brides We are here for anyone

wanting to be at their best

Esteem Treatments is always up to date with the latest technology and techniques to help you tighten tone and smooth your skin Call Alana to customize a series of treatments just for you to look and feel your best

Tone lift tighten and drop a pants size with Eurowave

Choose Acoustic Wave treatment to reduce the appearance of cellulite and for skin smoothing and regeneration

Our Radio Frequency treatments using the exclusive Tri-Pollar system tighten and smooth your skin all over

These are just three of the many treatments we offer Visit esteemtreatmentscom for details and pricing on all our services

Like us on Facebook or mention this ad amp receive 15 off any treatment packages

with a customized package of skin and body treatments

to the ldquoevent expertsrdquoto the ldquoevent expertsrdquo

FOR A LOVE THAT RINGS TRUEWE HAVE EVERYTHING FOR YOU

Victoriarsquos Premier Balloon Store

Best Selection and Prices

Check us out atwwwthepartycrashersca

HOURS Monday - Saturday 930 - 900 Sunday 1000 - 500

Next to Boston Pizza on Veterans Memorial Parkway

7784305959

wwHOURS Mond

SHOPLOCAL

scay 1000 - 500

y

DOLLARSTOREPRICES

bull Balloonsbull Napkinsbull Candlesbull Paper Streamers

From the balloons to decorate your hall to the just married sign on the back of your car we have it all

bull Theme Suppliesbull Craft Suppliesbull Stationerybull Makeup Items

bull Hair Care amp Beauty Itemsbull Mailing Suppliesbull Plastic amp Foam Tablewarebull Beads amp Boas

bull Bridal Suppliesbull Novelty Itemsbull Gift Bagsbull Tissue Paperbull Party Favoursbull Bannersbull Signs

Bachelorette amp

Stag Party Supplies

8 | WINTER 2013

The best man toast can be one of the most memorable parts of a couplersquos wedding Sometimes a toast is memorable for its humour and heartfelt sense of appreciation for the groom and his bride while other toasts are more memorable for all

the wrong reasonsOne of the reasons best man toasts can be so unpredictable is that giving a best man toast is such a unique experience Itrsquos something many men never do while those who do give a best man toast may only do it once in a lifetime Itrsquos understandable to be nervous when asked to give a toast but there are a few tricks of the trade a best man can employ to calm those nerves and ensure his toast is memorable for all the right reasonsbull Practice makes perfect Few people are capable of standing in front of a crowd of people and speaking off the cuff A best man should take this into account and practice his speech before the big day A spur-of-the-moment speech may provide an adrenaline rush but such an endeavor may come off as if you didnrsquot care enough to put the effort into writing a thoughtful toast ahead of time In addition practicing the toast once itrsquos been written will make you feel more comfortable and

confident in front of the crowd If possible practice in front of a friend or family member so you can solicit feedback A friend or relative might be able to help you fine-tune the speech which in turn can calm your nerves once yoursquore handed the microphonebull Avoid alcohol Drinking prior to your toast is a recipe for disaster Though it may seem like a good idea to employ alcohol to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions itrsquos not a good idea Consuming alcohol before your toast increases the chance that you will end up embarrassing the bride and groom as well as yourself bull Get to the point Men and women who have attended their fair share of wedding receptions no doubt have sat through a long-winded toast from the best man or maid of honour Such toasts can bring a festive reception to a grinding halt and guests will likely tune out before the best man or maid of honour gets to the point Being succinct should

be a goal for a best man with regard to his toast Avoid long-winded walks down Memory Lane in favour of a toast that thoughtfully cuts to the chase and lets everyone get back to celebrating

bull Spin a yarn While itrsquos important to be brief donrsquot be so brief that no one at the reception learns about your relationship to the groom Share a humourous anecdote from your mutual past to illustrate the type of relationship you and the groom share with one another This story should have an element of humour but donrsquot include anything too embarrassing and all ex-girlfriends should be considered off-limits

bull Congratulate the couple Because nerves play such a significant part in many best man toasts it can be easy to forget to congratulate both the bride and groom Donrsquot just toast the groom at the end of your best man speech toast his new bride as well

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

A PAL Weddinguard Policy Covershearts Bridal Attirehearts Wedding Photos

and Videohearts Wedding Presentshearts Wedding Cancellationhearts Honeymoon Cancellation

Packages Starting at $200Worldwide Coverage Available

(some restrictions apply)

wwwpalcanadacom1-800-265-8098

hearts Loss Deposithearts General Liability including

Host Liquor for three 24-hourperiods such as Rehearsal Dinner Ceremony and Reception and Gift Opening

8 | WINTER 2013

The best man toast can be one of the most memorable parts of a couplersquos wedding Sometimes a toast is memorable for its humour and heartfelt sense of appreciation for the groom and his bride while other toasts are more memorable for all

the wrong reasonsOne of the reasons best man toasts can be so unpredictable is that giving a best man toast is such a unique experience Itrsquos something many men never do while those who do give a best man toast may only do it once in a lifetime Itrsquos understandable to be nervous when asked to give a toast but there are a few tricks of the trade a best man can employ to calm those nerves and ensure his toast is memorable for all the right reasonsbull Practice makes perfect Few people are capable of standing in front of a crowd of people and speaking off the cuff A best man should take this into account and practice his speech before the big day A spur-of-the-moment speech may provide an adrenaline rush but such an endeavor may come off as if you didnrsquot care enough to put the effort into writing a thoughtful toast ahead of time In addition practicing the toast once itrsquos been written will make you feel more comfortable and

confident in front of the crowd If possible practice in front of a friend or family member so you can solicit feedback A friend or relative might be able to help you fine-tune the speech which in turn can calm your nerves once yoursquore handed the microphonebull Avoid alcohol Drinking prior to your toast is a recipe for disaster Though it may seem like a good idea to employ alcohol to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions itrsquos not a good idea Consuming alcohol before your toast increases the chance that you will end up embarrassing the bride and groom as well as yourself bull Get to the point Men and women who have attended their fair share of wedding receptions no doubt have sat through a long-winded toast from the best man or maid of honour Such toasts can bring a festive reception to a grinding halt and guests will likely tune out before the best man or maid of honour gets to the point Being succinct should

be a goal for a best man with regard to his toast Avoid long-winded walks down Memory Lane in favour of a toast that thoughtfully cuts to the chase and lets everyone get back to celebrating

bull Spin a yarn While itrsquos important to be brief donrsquot be so brief that no one at the reception learns about your relationship to the groom Share a humourous anecdote from your mutual past to illustrate the type of relationship you and the groom share with one another This story should have an element of humour but donrsquot include anything too embarrassing and all ex-girlfriends should be considered off-limits

bull Congratulate the couple Because nerves play such a significant part in many best man toasts it can be easy to forget to congratulate both the bride and groom Donrsquot just toast the groom at the end of your best man speech toast his new bride as well

Herersquos to youTips for a great best man toast

A PAL Weddinguard Policy Covershearts Bridal Attirehearts Wedding Photos

and Videohearts Wedding Presentshearts Wedding Cancellationhearts Honeymoon Cancellation

Packages Starting at $200Worldwide Coverage Available

(some restrictions apply)

wwwpalcanadacom1-800-265-8098

hearts Loss Deposithearts General Liability including

Host Liquor for three 24-hourperiods such as Rehearsal Dinner Ceremony and Reception and Gift Opening

9WINTER 2013 |

VANCOUVER ISLANDrsquoS Bridal Exhibi tionca 2013SUNDAY JAN 13TH

PEARKESRECREATION CENTRE

Meet the Bridal ExpertsVancouver Island Wedding Ring magazine Our registered couples will also receive a complimentary Bridal Rewards card when they attend our show which entitles them to all types of savings from our participating Bridal Exhibition Vendors

We look forward to seeing all the soon to be newlyweds and their guests and family at our show and encourage all couples to pre-register at wwwbridalexhibitionca Tickets can also be purchased through our site or at any Thrifty Foods location Advance tickets are $10 and are $1500 at the door

We would like to thank our sponsors Black Press The Ocean 985 amp and Marlin Travel amp Transat HolidaysWithout them we could not have made this event possible

We would also like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who attends the Victoria Bridal Exhibition and wish much happiness on your wedding day

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Sherri Martin Photographywwwsherrimartinsmugmugcom

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January 15 - March 31

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Our website is also an online Bridal Guide to help you organize your special day For exhibitor information bridal resources and wedding planning guides please go to wwwbridalexhibitionca or call us at 1-888-501-9696

SincerelyRick Scheffers Owner Producer Beckie Ross Co - Producer

You are invited to the islandrsquos largest wedding show on Sunday January 13th 2013 at the Pearkes Rec Center Meet with top wedding professionals and organize every aspect of your wedding in one day Come taste see feel and plan that special day We are a Vancouver Island owned and operated company and have hosted the Bridal Exhibition for over eighteen yearsEach show has been very successful and this one promises to once again live up to those expectations Come spend the day meeting with wedding enthusiasts check out the on stage presentations fashion shows and take in the samples freebies and fun

The event runs from 1000am to 400pm and features the islandrsquos top wedding exhibitors from every avenue of the wedding industry Make sure you donrsquot miss out on our three fashion shows and on stage presentations We will be giving away door prizes every hour and each registered couple at the show will have the opportunity to enter the draw for a honeymoon or 1 of 2 Trips to Las Vegas provided through Marlin Travel and Transat Holidays All couples will also receive a free Wedding Experts Bridal Resource Directory and the new issue of

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Salon J and their talented team will pamper you from head to toe and vows to leave you looking flawless and feeling fabulous

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10 | WINTER 2013

VANCOUVER ISLANDrsquoS SUNDAY JAN 13TH

PEARKES RECREATION CENTREBridal Exhibi tioncaExhibitors

2013

Organizing Your Special DayThe Vancouver Island Bridal Exhibition is looking forward to helping you organize your special day and to do that use your Bridal Rewards CardEvery registered couple that will be attending the Bridal Exhibition will receive one of these valuable Bridal Rewards Cards The Bridal Rewards Card will allow you one admission to future Bridal Exhibitions in 2013 and an opportunity to receive various rewards such as discounts on merchandise andor services or a free gift with a purchase of merchandise andor services from participating Bridal Exhibition vendorsExamples of how the Bridal Rewards Card Program can work for you1) Discount of off your order2) Buy 3 receive one Free3) Free Gift with a purchase of the followingThese are just examples of the types of savings your Bridal Rewards Card can do for youAlong with the Bridal Rewards Card you will receive a current list of the participating vendors in the program and also what type of reward they are offering for a complete up to date list or more information please visit our website bridalexhibitionca If you have any questions please do not hesitate to give us a callBridal Rewards Card Program is subject to change without notice vendors have the ability to change the reward or opt out of the program at any time

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pay for three groomsmen or any attendant in wedding partyCarlys Bridal and Accessories 10 off Already Lowest Prices on Bridal GownCreative Exposure Photography 15 discount on services and productsDelta Victoria Ocean Pointe Resort amp Spa

15 off treatments in the spa at Delta Victoria Ocean Pointe Resort and Spa (does not include

products)Details Special Event Planning and Deacutecor 10 off ServicesElephant Flowers Grooms Boutonniere with purchase of Brides BouquetHome Outfitters Receive a 10 Completion Discount for up to one year from your event date for any items registered prior to the event (Valid at Langford Store only)Jennings Florist A complimentary orchid corsage and matching orchid boutonniegravere

Kingfisher Oceanside Resort amp Spa Complimentary 2 nights accommodations in a romance beach front suite when you book your wedding with Kingfisher for 2013 or 2014 Lawless Brown Mortgage Team Free Home Appraisal when required for funding of a mortgage (Lawless Brown Mortgage Team a $400 value) + A $100 cash back when purchasing a home with Cheryl Laidlaw from Royal LePageRSM Productions DJ Services Free ceremony services when you book a Deluxe Premium or Ultimate Wedding Package Must be booked by April 30th 2013Salon J Hair Studios 15 off any services + 10 off any productSimpliCITY Events and Weddings $599 for wedding day management packageThe Brides Closet Free Veil (valued up to $100) with purchase of wedding gown over $800The Garden of Eden 20 off anything in the store not including sales items

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11WINTER 2013 |

VANCOUVER ISLANDrsquoS SUNDAY JAN 13TH

PEARKES RECREATION CENTREBridal Exhibi tioncaExhibitors

2013

Organizing Your Special DayThe Vancouver Island Bridal Exhibition is looking forward to helping you organize your special day and to do that use your Bridal Rewards CardEvery registered couple that will be attending the Bridal Exhibition will receive one of these valuable Bridal Rewards Cards The Bridal Rewards Card will allow you one admission to future Bridal Exhibitions in 2013 and an opportunity to receive various rewards such as discounts on merchandise andor services or a free gift with a purchase of merchandise andor services from participating Bridal Exhibition vendorsExamples of how the Bridal Rewards Card Program can work for you1) Discount of off your order2) Buy 3 receive one Free3) Free Gift with a purchase of the followingThese are just examples of the types of savings your Bridal Rewards Card can do for youAlong with the Bridal Rewards Card you will receive a current list of the participating vendors in the program and also what type of reward they are offering for a complete up to date list or more information please visit our website bridalexhibitionca If you have any questions please do not hesitate to give us a callBridal Rewards Card Program is subject to change without notice vendors have the ability to change the reward or opt out of the program at any time

ToneThatZone

A Naturally Infused Body

Wrap

tighten tone contour your body

wwwfacebookcomWhitePeonyBridaltwittercomthewhitepeony

25059080441816 Government Street

wwwthewhitepeonycom

Make your first dance special comfortable and memorable

Learn from The Leaders

250-220-8426Spencer Brawn

Contact our Wedding Specialist2504806559

wwwharbourtowerscom

glimmerphotoboothhotmailcom

250-597-4358

Start your married life right in a new home

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Weddings are a celebration wherein guests look forward to the reception as much as the

actual ceremony and the food served at the wedding is often hotly anticipatedWedding receptions feature a bevy of different foods to tempt the palates of those in attendance From appetizers served during the cocktail hour to the last crumb of cake food plays a big role in a wedding reception Choosing foods for a reception can take a little forethought especially when the wedding party is large The following are a few suggestions to ensure most guests are happy with the menu selectionsThe first rule of thumb is variety As much as budget allows give guests the choice over what they eat During the cocktail hour mdash if there is one mdash couples can play

with many different tastes and offerings For those who want to be creative this is the time to do so Exotic flavours can be served alongside more traditional offerings that guests recognize For example offer Asian fusion appetizers that may be spicier alongside more traditional items like miniature quichesDuring the main course of the meal give guests a few options Most catering facilities will offer suggestions in their meal packages Couples can typically choose to offer a meat dish a poultry and a seafood This caters to a wide variety of dinersIt is important for couples to recognize that many people have food allergies or are on restricted diets While it may not be possible to provide for everyonersquos specific requirements it is possible to make some accommodations First ask the catering manager how his company provides for guests who are vegetarians or vegans Ensure that the meal will not be simply a bunch of garnishes and vegetable side dishes lumped together In addition couples should recognize that many people have now adopted gluten-free lifestyles More and more restaurants and establishments have expanded their offerings to include gluten-free items so it is important for the bride and groom to confirm People who are diabetic and must limit their consumption of sugars and carbohydrates may appreciate a selection of sugar-free desserts or lower carbohydrate foods When couples focus on meeting the needs of their guests it shows they have put in the effort to make

everyone feel welcome and comfortable at the wedding

Couples who have the environment in mind can choose to serve organic foods and look to catering facilities that purchase foods from local vendors and farms If a banquet hall does not make such concessions ask if specialty items that benefit organic and local food producers can be brought in Some caterers will be happy to make the change but it will likely affect the cost of the wedding package to do so

Food and drink will be some of the most costly portions of a wedding and couples who are interested in keeping costs down can still offer quality foods if they make some changes Varying the time of day that the wedding is held can enable a brunch or luncheon wedding to take place These foods are often less expensive and labour-intensive to prepare and therefore the cost savings are passed down to the bride and groom Some couples opt for a cocktail and hors drsquooeuvre-only reception mdash which should clearly be indicated on the invitation so that guests can plan accordingly An informal wedding may feature only a selection of desserts and specialty liquors This may be the least expensive option

Food is an important factor at a wedding and it is in a couplersquos best interest to ensure that the food served is tasty full of variety and acceptable to the majority of the guests who will be attending the reception

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Planning a wedding is no small feat as couples are faced with many decisions

seemingly from the moment they get engaged right up until they walk down the aisle as man and wife One of the biggest decisions is where to host the receptionCouples must consider a variety of factors when looking for the right banquet hall to host their reception The wedding is a celebration and the banquet hall is where the couple and their guests will let their hair down and hopefully enjoy a festive and memorable night Because the reception is typically the most lengthy portion of a couplersquos wedding day itrsquos important to find a place where everyone can be comfortable and enjoy themselves Following are a few tips for couples looking to find the ideal banquet hall to host their wedding receptionbull Ask around Word-of-mouth is a great way to find the right banquet hall Ask friends or family members who got hitched in the same town if they can recommend a reception site These friends or family members can provide a behind-the-scenes look at a reception hall from how accommodating the staff was to how flexible the banquet hall was with regard to pricing to how open the staff was to suggestions Wedding planning isnrsquot easy so if friends family members or co-workers recommend a hassle-free banquet hall that recommendation can remove a lot of stress from planning

the reception

bull Consider the size of the facility Some couples prefer an intimate affair with relatively few guests while others will desire a large wedding party with lots of guests Couples can find a banquet hall thatrsquos capable of catering to small or large wedding parties but find one that fits your party specifically If your wedding party is small avoid a larger facility that will appear empty If the party is large ensure therersquos adequate room so guests wonrsquot feel like theyrsquore sitting on top of one another during dinner and dessert

bull Donrsquot downplay deacutecor A banquet hall with an attractive deacutecor is not only aesthetically appealing but can appeal to a couplersquos finances as well Such a hall likely wonrsquot need any additional decorations while a banquet hall thatrsquos unadorned and lacks embellishments will and those decorations can dip into a couplersquos overall wedding budget Compare the costs of the more decorated banquet hall with the one thatrsquos more plain in appearance factoring in the cost to decorate the latter and you might just realize the one with more aesthetic appeal is more affordable in the long run

bull Prioritize privacy Few couples would be open to strangers having easy access to their wedding reception When shopping for a banquet hall look for one that gives you and your guests all the privacy you need Many couples have taken

to hosting the entire ceremony at a hotel which may handle the bulk of the planning and remove the hassle of transportation for out-of-town guests However couples considering a hotel should look for one that can promise privacy from other guests who arenrsquot there for the wedding The reception room should be secluded from the rest of the hotel so other passers-by arenrsquot tempted to walk in on the festivities The banquet hall is where couples can expect to spend most of their time on their wedding day so they should exercise their due diligence to ensure they find an inviting and festive facility

How to find the right banquet hall for your big day

15WINTER 2013 |

Weddings are filled with many emotions happiness excitement and anticipation

to name a few With all of the positive emotions a wedding may drum up a few negative ones may also appear including feelings of being overwhelmed at all the details that need to be completed on a deadlineOne aspect of wedding planning that tends to send people into panic is wedding reception seating arrangements The thought of having 200 friends and family members together under one roof mdash and then attempting to seat them next to an acceptable group of people mdash can cause some couples to hyperventilateEvery family has its ups and downs and there are certain people who get along well and a few who clash Ensuring that a wedding is memorable for all the right reasons (and not for the brawl at table 3) is why seating arrangements are so important Many couples can use a little advice when seating guests while others would love another person to handle the seating arrangements for them

Seating your wedding guests

Here are some guidelines for reception seating arrangementsbull Place yourselves as well as the bridal party at a separate table that is in a prime location in the room Be sure to allow the spouses or dates of bridal party members at the same table so couples remain togetherbull Some couples choose to seat both sets of parents at one table together mdash the parentsrsquo table Grandparents may also be seated at this table depending on the number of people each table can accommodatebull If children under the age of seven are invited they should be seated with their parents Children between ages seven and 14 can be seated at a separate kidsrsquo tablebull Be mindful of guests with disabilities or mobility issues Seat them close to the door bathrooms or food stationbull Instead of separating the bride and the groomrsquos families to separate sides intermingle the tables to promote conversationbull Consider arranging guests by common interests at each table seating business associates or parentsrsquo friends togetherbull Take into consideration people who have relationship rifts and try to seat them separately But donrsquot stress about this too much because it wonrsquot be possible to accommodate everyone Yoursquoll have to hope that at your wedding a certain level of decorum will presidebull Itrsquos not unheard of to let guests seat themselves This takes the pressure of finding a seat for everyone off of you as a couple and enables you to think about the other tasks at hand This can take place at a buffet wedding or a smaller affair

Award-winning Sooke Harbour House is known as one of Canadarsquos most spectacular wedding venues Offering 28 luxury guest rooms and some of West Coastrsquos fi nest cuisine let the water be your ldquosomething bluerdquo at your oceanside wedding

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15WINTER 2013 |

Weddings are filled with many emotions happiness excitement and anticipation

to name a few With all of the positive emotions a wedding may drum up a few negative ones may also appear including feelings of being overwhelmed at all the details that need to be completed on a deadlineOne aspect of wedding planning that tends to send people into panic is wedding reception seating arrangements The thought of having 200 friends and family members together under one roof mdash and then attempting to seat them next to an acceptable group of people mdash can cause some couples to hyperventilateEvery family has its ups and downs and there are certain people who get along well and a few who clash Ensuring that a wedding is memorable for all the right reasons (and not for the brawl at table 3) is why seating arrangements are so important Many couples can use a little advice when seating guests while others would love another person to handle the seating arrangements for them

Seating your wedding guests

Here are some guidelines for reception seating arrangementsbull Place yourselves as well as the bridal party at a separate table that is in a prime location in the room Be sure to allow the spouses or dates of bridal party members at the same table so couples remain togetherbull Some couples choose to seat both sets of parents at one table together mdash the parentsrsquo table Grandparents may also be seated at this table depending on the number of people each table can accommodatebull If children under the age of seven are invited they should be seated with their parents Children between ages seven and 14 can be seated at a separate kidsrsquo tablebull Be mindful of guests with disabilities or mobility issues Seat them close to the door bathrooms or food stationbull Instead of separating the bride and the groomrsquos families to separate sides intermingle the tables to promote conversationbull Consider arranging guests by common interests at each table seating business associates or parentsrsquo friends togetherbull Take into consideration people who have relationship rifts and try to seat them separately But donrsquot stress about this too much because it wonrsquot be possible to accommodate everyone Yoursquoll have to hope that at your wedding a certain level of decorum will presidebull Itrsquos not unheard of to let guests seat themselves This takes the pressure of finding a seat for everyone off of you as a couple and enables you to think about the other tasks at hand This can take place at a buffet wedding or a smaller affair

Award-winning Sooke Harbour House is known as one of Canadarsquos most spectacular wedding venues Offering 28 luxury guest rooms and some of West Coastrsquos fi nest cuisine let the water be your ldquosomething bluerdquo at your oceanside wedding

2506423421 sookeharbourhousecom functionssookeharbourhousecom

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16 | WINTER 2013

Before discussing with florists the flower

arrangements for their weddings many couples find it helpful to brush up on some floral terminologyIt can make you appear more knowledgeable and prepared if you understand and so make it easier to choose what you want It also helps to ensure your money is being spent in the best way possibleHere are some common and some lesser known florist terms that can be advantageous to know

Floral terms to know

Biedermeier A nosegay arranged tightly with concentric circles of differently colored flowers The flowers are wired into a holder with only one type of flower in each ringBouquet A dense bunch of blooms that are kept together in a bouquet holder wired or tied with ribbonCrescent One full flower and a flowering stem wired together to form a slender handle that is held in one handGarden A centerpiece featuring wildflowersNosegay Small round bouquets composed of densely packed round flowers and fillOasis Specialized foam that is used in bouquet holders and centerpieces to retain water and keep blooms freshPomander A flower-covered ball that is suspended from a ribbon It is often carried by child attendantsPosies Smaller than nosegays but similar in designPresentation A bunch of long-stemmed flowers cradled in the bridersquos arms Itrsquos sometimes known as a pageant bouquetTopiary Flowers trimmed into geometric shapesTossing A smaller copy of the bridersquos bouquet to use in the bouquet tossTussy mussy A small metallic holder to carry a posy

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It is sometimes difficult to ask for what you truly want as a gift After all you donrsquot want to seem like you

are picky overly choosy or ungrateful when receiving gifts So for holidays and birthdays you may make do with keeping mum and being thankful for those sweaters or knickknacks you donrsquot need But what about when it comes to your weddingIndustry experts say that more and more couples are coming into the marriage with their household already established Whether theyrsquove chosen to live together during their engagement or have already accumulated their own housewares therersquos a good chance that a new toaster or set of towels is not high on their priority lists What many couples need and can use is cold hard cash But itrsquos not so easy to ask for cash in a tactful way Thatrsquos where specialized gift registries come into playWith the services of a cash or other type of gift registry like Deposit a Gift (wwwdepositagiftcom) couples can create a customized registry and website and ask guests to help build their dreams one dollar at a timeInstead of shower or wedding guests showing up with a gift box or bag in tow they simply deposit money toward an

item the couple is saving for This may be a new set of cabinets for their newly purchased home or a tool to place in the garage With a brief description and a price attached to the registry item guests can help fulfill the dollar amount needed for the couple to later purchase things they truly needCouples can use the registry as a savings account and watch the dollar amount grow Later on they can go out and purchase the items they need or use the money for another purpose Therersquos no need to worry about duplicate blenders or engraved flatware that may never be put to use Also precious time doesnrsquot need to be spent before the wedding sorting storing and exchanging items that were giftedThere are also advantages for the people doing the gifting With the ease of a few mouse clicks theyrsquore able to deposit money into the registry account That means no fussing with stores or gift wrap and certainly no lugging large gifts to a remote bridal shower location mdash a task not easily done in heelsA site like Deposit a Gift will charge a minimum service fee to oversee the bank account where the funds are being stored and for credit card and other processing charges The fee can be paid by the person establishing the registry or the gift-givers The money is held in an bank account and can be withdrawn whenever you choose to cash out the account and the method of paymentCash registries provide a polite way of asking friends and relatives for the items you can really use to start your new lives together as a married couple Furthermore the same registry concept can be applied to any major events in life moving forward from the birth of children to birthdays to holidaysLearn more about cash registries at sites like DepositAGiftcom OurWishingWellcom and GoGiftcom

CASH REGISTRYIt does existCash registries provide a polite way of asking friends and relatives for the items you can really use to start your new lives together as a married couple

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In a 2012 study of destination weddings conducted by The Knot Market Intelligence a research wing of TheKnotcom researchers found that 350000 destination weddings occur each year That figure means nearly one in four couples who tied the knot in 2011 had a destination wedding roughly a five per cent increase from 2009Destination weddings have grown in popularity for a variety of reasons not the least of which is the appeal of getting married in an exotic or unique locale In addition 65 per cent of survey respondents said they chose a destination wedding because they wanted a more intimate affair with fewer guests Whatever the reason behind a couplersquos decision to have a destination wedding there are things such couples must

consider that others who chose a local ceremony can afford to overlook or place a smaller emphasis upon Packing is one aspect of a wedding thatrsquos more important to couples having a destination wedding than those getting married closer to home Once a couple boards a plane to head off to their destination wedding any items left behind will stay behind So itrsquos important for couples getting married far away from their homes to develop a plan with respect to packing so they donrsquot forget or damage any important elements of the weddingbull Start with a checklist Couples should develop of checklist of items they will need to bring with them Make this list as extensive as possible including everything that will have to be packed such as clothing toiletries jewellery reservation information and anything else you expect to need on your trip Check off items on this list as you pack them away and check the list the night before you embark to make sure you have everythingbull Carry on especially important items Some items are simply to important to pack A bridersquos wedding gown and the groomrsquos tuxedo fall into this category Unfortunately checked bags can get lost and no bride or groom wants to arrive at their destination without their gown or tux An airline may provide brides with a garment bag to store the wedding gown and the gown and tux can likely be hung

Packing pointers for destination weddings

in the planersquos closet without fear of other passengers putting items on top of them In addition to the wedding day attire donrsquot store items like the wedding rings or family heirlooms in a checked bag Carry these items in a purse or securely store them in a carry-on bagbull Consider mailing welcome packages after you return home Welcome packages are nice gestures that show your guests just how much you appreciate their being there for your big day However when having a destination wedding couples may discover that their premade welcome packages are too bulky or just too numerous to easily fit into luggage Instead of taking these to your destination mail them to your guests after you return home The packages might not be there to welcome

guests but the sentiment is still the same and guests will appreciate the gesture just the same If you plan to go this route talk to the hotel in advance to see if they can help you put together a smaller package so guests are still welcomed to the destinationbull Be wary of shipping items ahead of you Some couples ship some important items to their hotel ahead of time While this might seem like an easy solution to packing welcome packages or other special items such as decorations these items can easily get lost in the mail or stranded at customs Shipping items ahead might seem like a great idea but couples must weigh the potential risks before placing important items in someone elsersquos hands

Guests at the Modern Bride Show Feb 2 at The Bay Centre will find a whole host of experts to help them with their wedding plans but they can also feel good knowing theyrsquore helping animals at the same time The show from 10 am to 6 pm is a fundraiser for the Just Love Animals Society an independent non-profit organization founded by Lonnie Powell Jordan Illingworth and Anne LeeLonnie Jordan and Anne all have a long history of working with animals and are committed to improving their welfare Their JLA Society receives no provincial or federal funding relying solely on fundraising donations and dedicated volunteers to help animals and raise awareness of related issues The Modern Bride Show will feature bride and groom lounges wine and beer tasting a casino limo viewings a wedding cake display and

complimentary manicures and pedicures Enjoy chair messages hair and makeup consultations an on-site sex therapist a honeymoon game with favourite local radio DJs and a live performance by the Victoria Soul Gospel Choir Enter to win a dream vacation from SunLovers and see a live wedding as the showrsquos finale The Modern Bride Show will also cater to the groom with ldquothe man caverdquo for all his manly needsBrides and grooms along with their friends and families will have a lot to see touch and experience through the Modern Bride Show and with free admission couples can bring their entire bridal party The first 150 brides to sign up as a VIP at wwwjlasocietycom will receive a free swag bag from the Bay Centre Visit wwwjlasocietycom for a full list of the days events

Just Love Animals Society brings Modern Bride Show to the Bay Centre

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