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]Tn¡mw kvt\l`mj2

PADIKKAAM SNEHA BHAASHAMalayalam

George Koshy Mylapra

E-version published by:

Kaithiri Malayalmwww.kaithiri.com

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kvt\lsØ°dn®v ]mSmØIhnIfn√. kvt\lw kz]v\wImWmØ lrZbßfn√.

kvt\ln°phm\pwkvt\ln°s∏Sphm\pwIgnbmØ Hcp hy‡nbpsSPohnXw FXamXwhnckhpwe£yt_m[an√mØXpambncn°pw?

"kvt\lan√¶n¬ Rm≥apgßp∂ sNtºm Nneºp∂ssIØmftam t]mseamXw'F∂v XncphN\hpwD]tZin°p∂Xns‚ kmchpwas‰m∂√.

hnthIap≈h¿°vAhKWn°m≥ ]‰mØtijvT KpWamWv kvt\lw.

kvt\lw PohnXsØkpµcam°p∂p._‘߃°v A¿∞hpwhym]vXnbpw Dd∏pw\evIp∂p. ]t£, ]tbmKØn¬ hcptºmƒ \mwFhnsS sbms°tbm]cmPbs∏Sp ∂nt√?

kvt\lw ]ISn∏n°ptºmƒAXp BtcmSmtWm,Ah¿°v a\knemIWwF∂Xv ]mYanI ]mTw.AXpt]mse Xs∂ \sΩkvt\ln°p∂ HcmfpsSkvt\lw a\knem°m\pw\ap°v km[n°Ww.AsXmcp `mja\knem°p∂Xpt]msebmWv.

AXn¬ ]cmPbs∏Sptºmƒkvt\lw A¿∞w \„s∏´NSßpIfmIp∂p. Aßs\D≠mIp∂ hnc‡nbpwhnckXbpw aqew_‘ßfn¬ DckepwAI¬®bpw kw`hn°p∂p.AXv IpSpw_ßsft∏mepwXI¿°p∂p. AXpsIm≠vIpSpw_Øn¬ CXns‚]m[m\yw GsdbmWv.

CXns\mcp ]cnlmcambnkvt\ln°p∂Xn¬ hnPbwBKln°p∂h¿°vhnhmlPohnXØn¬AsXßs\ km[n°mwF∂Xn\v 100% ]mtbmKnIamb Nne kqXhmIy߃CXm......

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Htc `mj Adn-bm-hp-∂-h¿XΩn¬ kwkm-cn-°p-tºmtgBi-b-hn-\n-abw \S-°p-I-bp-≈q. kwkm-cn-°p-∂-bm-fpsS`mj ^©pw, tIƒhn-°m-cs‚ `mj P¿Ω\pw BsW-¶n¬, FX aWn-°q-dp-Iƒian-®mepw Hcmƒ ]d-bp-∂XvA]-c\v a\- n-em-h-W-sa-∂n-√. kw`m-j-Ww-t]mseXs∂sImSp-°p-I-bpw sIm≈p-Ibpw sNtø≠ Hcp hnIm-c-amWv kvt\l-hpw.

kvt\ln-°p-hm≥ F√m-hcpwBK-ln-°p∂p; kvt\ln-°-s∏-Sp-hm-\pw.... ]t£ Cukvt\lw an°-t∏mgpw Xncn-®-dn-b-s∏-Sp-∂n-√. `mcym-`¿Øm-°-∑m-cpsS CS-bn¬ CXvhfsc Kpcp-X-c-amb Hcp]iv\-am-Wv.

Zº-Xn-Iƒ XΩn¬kvt\ln-°m-Ø-tXm,-kvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°m-ØtXm A√- ]-iv\w. kvt\ln-°p∂pF∂Xv a\- n-em-°-s∏-SmsX t]mIp-∂-XmWv ]iv\w.

kwkm-cn-°p-hm≥ hnhn[`mj-Iƒ D≠v F∂-Xp-t]mse kvt\l-]-I-S-\-Øn\pw hnhn[ `mj-IƒD≠v.

]d-bp∂ hy‡nbpwtIƒ°p∂ hy‡nbpw Htc`mjb√ D]-tbm-Kn-°msXBi-b-hn-\n-abw \S-°m-Ø-Xp-t]m-se -kvt\lw ]I-Sn∏n°p∂bmƒ°pw kzoI-cn-°p-∂bmƒ °pw kvt\l-Øns‚ `mj s]mXp-hm-b-X--s√-¶n¬, kvt\l-hn-\n-abw\S-°p-I-bn-√.

kvt\lwAdnbs¸SmsXt]mIpt¼mÄ

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Cµp-hn-t‚Xpw ]tam-Zn-s‚Xpw t]a-hn-hm-l-am-bn-cp-∂p. hfsc Bth-i-tØm-sSbpw ]Xo-£-tbm-sS-bp-amWv Ah¿ Zmº-Xy-Øn-te°v Imeq-∂nb-Xv.BZysØ Nne amk-߃Imcy-ß-sfms° kmam\yw\∂mbn \oßn. F∂m¬ItaW Cµp-hns‚ a\- n¬Hcp kwibw \mºn-´p.-]tamZv k-Xy-Øn¬ Xs∂kvt\ln-°p-∂pt≠m? F√mwHcp A`n-\bw amX-am-bn-cp-∂nt√?

F∂m¬ ]tamZv BW-bn´p]d-bp-∂Xv Xm≥ Cµp-hns\]≠-sØ-°mƒ Bflm¿∞-ambn kvt\ln-°p-∂p-s≠-∂v,Ah-kcw In´p-tºm-sgms°AXv ]I-Sn-∏n-°p-∂p-ap-≠v.

“Ah-fpsS Nncn FX kpµ-c-am-sWt∂m..., Rm≥ ]eXhW B Imcyw Ah-tfmSv]d-™n-´p-≠v. \∂mbn]mNIw sNøm\pw Cµp-hn-\-dn-bmw. Rm≥ AXn\v AhsfA`n-\-µn-®n-´p-ap-≠v. kvt\l-

“kmtd, Cu IeymWw Ign-™p-I-gn-bp-tºmƒ, kvt\lwFhn-sS-bmWv t]mbv ad-bp-∂-Xv,” Bdp-am-ksØ IpSpw-_-Po-hn-X-Øn-\p-tijw Hcphnhm-l-tam-N-\-Øns‚ h°n-seØn \n¬°p∂ ]tamZvtNmZn-°p∂ tNmZy-amWn-Xv.

kvt\ln°m≥ Hcp `mj!

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kvt\l-`mjan-s√-¶n¬ CsXms° ]d-bptam? FX ]d-™mepwCµp-hn\v a\- n-em-In-s√∂vh®m¬ F¥p sNøpw km¿?”]tamZv CXp ]d-bp-tºmƒIÆn¬ \o¿ s]mSn-°p-∂p-≠m-bn-cp-∂p..

]s£ Cµp-hns‚ adp-]SnCß-s\: “lpw, kvt\l-ap-s≠∂m ]d-bp-t∂... D≠m-bn-cp-s∂-¶n¬ BgvN-bn¬ HcpZnh-k-sa-¶nepw Fs‚ IqsSH∂v tjm∏nw-Kn\v ]tamZvhcp-am-bn-cp-∂n-t√... Rm≥ASp-°-f-bn¬ ]mNIw sNøp-tºmƒ Fs‚ IqsS hs∂m-∂n-cn-°m-am-bn-cp-∂n-t√...Fs∂-°mƒ IqSp-X¬ Iw]yq-´-dn-t\mSm kvt\lw. Hm^o-knepw ho´nepw AXns\sI´n-∏n-Sn-®t√ Ccn∏pw \S-∏pw...”

]mhw ]tamZv! ]mhw Cµp!!c≠p-t]cpw ]c-kv]cwkvt\ln-°p-∂p-≠v. kvt\lw]I-Sn-∏n-°m≥ Adn-bm-hp-∂-Xp-t]m-se-sbms° ian-°p-∂p-ap≠v. ]t£ Hcm-fpsS`mj ^©pw, as‰-bm-fpsS`mj P¿Ω-\pw... ]ns∂¥psNøpw.?

kvt\l-Øn-\p-ap≠v `mj-Iƒ.... ASn-ÿm-\-]-c-ambA©p `mj-Iƒ. hy‡n-IƒsshIm-cnI kvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°p-Ibpw Xncn-®-dn-bp-IbpwsNøp∂ 5 am¿§-ß-fm-W-h.Hmtcm `mjbv°pw hyXy-kvX-amb D®m-cW coXn-IfpwD≠v.

`mcybpw `¿ØmhpwXß-fpsSPohnX]¶m-fn-bpsSkvt\l- mj GXm-sW∂v Xncn-®-dn-b-Ww. IpSpw-_-Po-hn-X-hn-P-b-Øns‚ BZy-]-Sn-bm-W-Xv.

P\n-®p-h-f¿Ø-s∏-Sp∂ ]›m-Ø-e-Øn¬ D]-tbm-Kn°-s∏-Sp∂ `mj-bmWv \ΩpsSamXr-`m-j-bmbn Øocp-∂-Xv.ae-bm-fn-bm-sW-¶nepw HcpDØ-tc-¥y≥ Kma-Øn¬P\n®p hf¿Ø-s∏-Sp-Ibpwho´nepw \m´nepw Ft∏mgpw

lnµn amXw tIƒ°p-I-bpw-sN-øp∂ Hcp hy‡n-bpsSamXr-`mj lnµn-bm-bn-cn-°pw.

Hcp ]s£ \ap°v H∂n-e-[nIw `mj-Iƒ X´n-ap-´n-∏-d-bm≥ Ign-s™-∂p-h-cmw.F∂m¬ A\m-bm-tk-\ -ssI-Imcyw sNøm-\m-hp∂ `mj-bmWv \ΩpsS ]nb `mj-bm-bn-Øo-cp-∂-Xv.

P\n®v hf¿Ø-s∏-Sp∂ ]›m-Ø-e-Øn¬\n-∂mWv hy‡n-Iƒ kvt\l-`m-jbpw ]Tn-s®-Sp-°p-∂-Xv. c≠v IpSpw_]›m-Ø-e-Øn¬ \n∂pwhcp∂ Zº-Xn-I-fpsS kvt\l-`mj c≠pw c≠m-Im-\mWvIqSp-X¬ km[y-X. X߃°-dn-bm-hp∂ `mj-bn-em-bn-cn°pw `mcybpw `¿Ømhpwkvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°p-I. as‰-bm-fn\v AXv Adn-bm≥ Ign-bp-∂n-s√-¶n¬ ]¶m-fn-bpsSkvt\lsØ kwi-btØmsSamXta ImWm-\m-hp-I-bp-≈q. AtXm-Sp-IqsS ]iv\-߃ DS-seSp°p-I-bp-am-bn.GsXm-s°-bmWv kvt\l-`m-j-Iƒ?

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hfsc efn-X-amb hm°p-I-fn-eqsSbmhmw AXv Ah-X-cn-∏n-°-s∏-Sp-I.

“Cu ]pXnb j¿´v\n߃°v \∂mbn tNcp-∂p-≠v.”

“\ns∂-t∏mse CX cpNn-I-c-ambn Cd-®n-°dn hbv°p∂Bcp≠v?”

“apdn-sb√mw ASp-°n-Ø-∂-Xn\v ]tXyIw \µn-bp≠v,tIt´m”

“\o B _mw ]pc-´n-Ø-∂-t∏mƒ Fs‚ thZ\ ]º IS-∂p. CXp-t]m-se-bp≈ kXy-k-‘hpw Bflm¿∞-hp-ambhm°p-Iƒ, tIƒ°p-∂-bmƒ°v \¬Ip∂ Du¿÷wA]m-c-am-Wv.

-cm-[n-Ibv°v `¿Øm-hn-s\-°p-dn®v ]cmXn amXta D≠m-bn-cp-∂p-≈q.

“Rm≥ Bdp amk-ambn ]d-™p-sIm-≠n-cn-°p-IbmFs‚ `¿Øm-hn-t\m-Sv,hoSns‚ tNm¿® H∂-S-∏n®vhrØn-bmbn s]bn‚p sNøn-∏n-°m≥. F√m am¿Khpw

“Bsc-¶nepw Hcp \√-Imcyw]d™v Fs∂ t]m’m-ln-∏n-®m¬, ]ns∂ c≠p-amkwF\n-°-Xp-a-Xn, kpK-a-ambnap≥t]m´v t]mIp-hm≥,”am¿°v Szbn≥ ]d-™-Xm-Wn-Xv. At±-l-Øns‚ hm°p-IƒA£-cm¿∞-Øn-se-Sp-Øm¬,Bdv BizmkhmN-I-߃aXn Szbn-\n\v Hcp h¿j-tØ°v Npdp-Np-dp-t°msSapt∂m´v IpXn-°p-hm≥. Hcp]s£ \nß-fpsS PohnX]¶m-fn°v IqSp-X¬ th≠nht∂-°mw. AXv \nß-fmWvIs≠-tØW-≠-Xv.

\m°n-s‚bpw hm°n-s‚bpwDu°n-s\-°p-dn®v Gsdt_m[-h-\m-bn-cp∂p ⁄m\n-I-fn¬ ⁄m\n-bmb tkmf-a≥. AXp-sIm-≠mWv ac-Whpw Poh\pw \mhns‚A[n-Im-c-Øn¬ -C-cn-°p∂p(k-Zr. 18:21) F∂v At±lwtcJ-s∏-Sp-Øn-b-Xv.

kvt\l-Øns‚ AXn-i-‡-amb Hcp ]I-S-t\m-]m-[n-bmWv Dd-t∏-Ip∂ hm°p-Iƒ.

]co-£n®p t\m°n. tMtl]mew Ipep-ßn-bm-epw.... ho´n-setbm Fs‚tbm HcpImcyhpw sNøm≥Atß¿°v t\c-an-√,- Xm¬∏-cy-hp-an-√. ]ns∂¥v sNøpw,”Ah¿ thZ-\-tbm-sS-bmWv]d-™-Xv.

“Hcp Imcyhpw sNøm-dnt√,”a\x-im-kvX-⁄≥ tNmZn-®p.

“tM.. tl..,” \ntj-[m-XvI-am-bn-cp∂p adp-]-Sn.

“Id-≠v, -t^m¨ _n√p-I-f-S-bv°p-∂-Xmcm ?”

“AXv At±-l-am-Wv.”

“tÃj-\dn km[-\-߃hmßp-∂tXm ?”

“AXpw At±-lam.”

“\n߃°v tcmKw hcp-tºmƒ acp-∂p-hmßn Xcp-∂-tXm....

“AXpw At±-lam”

“CsXms° sNbvXp Xcp-tºmƒ Xncns®mcp \√-hm-s°-¶nepw ]d-bm-dpt≠m?”

“AsX-¥n-\m.? kz¥w Npa-X-e-bt√ sNøp-∂Xv.”

H∂masØ kvt\l`mj: Dd-t∏-Ip∂ hm°p-Iƒ (Affirming Words)

]Tn¡mw kvt\l`mj6

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I. AXp aXn. kvt\ln-°p-∂-h¿°p-th-≠n, kvt\lw Xncn-®-dn-bp-tºmƒ F¥pwsNøm≥ kvt\ln-°-s∏-Sp-∂-h¿ Xøm-dm-Ip-∂Xv XnI®pwkzm`m-hnIw.

t]m’m-ln-∏n-°pI F∂p]d-™m¬ ‘ss[cyw ]I-cpI’ F∂pw A¿∞-ap-≠v.(Encourage = give courage)`ocp-Xzw-aqew ]e- Im-cy-߃°pw ap∂n-´n-d-ßmsXaSn-®p-\n¬°p-∂-h-cp-≠v.Akm-[m-cW km[y-i-‡n-bp-≈-h-cmImw Ah¿. ]s£Xp\n-™n-d-ßp-hm≥ aSnbpwAss[-cy-hp-am-Wv. Ah-cpsSD≈n¬ Dd-ßn-°n-S-°p∂knwl-°p-´n-Iƒ kS-Ip-S-s™-gp-t∂¬°p-hm≥,ss[cyw ]I-cp∂ hm°p-IƒsIm≠p≈ Hcp Xtem-S-en-\m-hpw. Pohn-X-]-¶m-fn, Fgp-Xm-t\m kwL-Sn-∏n-°m-t\m]mSmt\m Hs° Ign-hp≈hy‡n-bm-hmw. ]t£ A\y¿F¥v IcpXpw F∂ Nn¥-aqew AsX√mw a\- ns‚D≈-d-I-fn-se-hn-sStbm ]q´nh®n-cn-°p-I-bm-hmw. H∂ps]mSn- X-´n-sb-Sp-°m≥, aq¿®Iq´m≥ \n߃ klm-bn®pt\m°q... ]¶mfn as‰m-cm-fmbn amdp-∂Xv A`n-am-\-tØmsS t\m°n-°m-Wq.

“icn Rm≥ Hcp \n¿t±iw]dbmw,” a\x-im-kvX-⁄≥A`n-]m-b-s∏-´p.,

“C\n taen¬ hoSns‚tNm¿®-sb-°p-dn®v At±-l-tØmSv an≠p-Itb Acp-Xv.amX-a-√, Fs¥-¶nepw ImcywsNbvXm¬- A-Xns\ H∂vA`n-\-µn-°pIbpw thWw.”

a\- n√m a\-t msS cm[nIAXv kΩ-Xn-®p. c≠m-gvN-bv°-∏pdw Ah-cpsS t^m¨h∂p. “km¿ Fs‚ `¿ØmhvhoSns‚ ]Wn-I-sf√mwsNbvXp. s]bn‚pw ASn-∏n-®p-X∂p.”

“AXp-sIm-≈m-at√mFßs\ km[n-®p..?”

“Rm≥ km¿ ]d-™-Xp-t]mse sNbvXp. AXamXw.”

cm[n-I-bpsS `¿Øm-hns\kw_-‘n®v am¥n-I-sam-gn-I-fm-bn-cp∂p `mcy-bpsSt]m’m-l\ hm°p-Iƒ.

PohnX ]¶m-fn-bn¬\n∂pwImcyw km[n-s®-Sp-°m≥th≠n apJ-kvXpXn ]d-bpIF∂√ CXn-\¿∞w.Ah¿°v a\- n-em-Ip∂`mj-bn¬ \nß-fpsS D≈n-ep≈ kvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°p-

hm°p-I-tfm-sSm-∏w-Xs∂AXns‚ D®m-cW coXn-bpw,BwKy-hn-t£-]-ßfpw i_vZ-Øns‚ G‰-°p-d-®n-ep-sa√mw(tone & gestures) hmNm-e-ambn kwkm-cn-°p-∂-Xm-sW∂pw ad-°-cp-Xv.

hm°p-I-fn¬ imk-\-bp-sS-tbm, Iev]-\-bp-sStbm [z\nhcp-tºmƒ \n߃ Hcpt]c‚ns‚ Ip∏mbw AWn-bp-I-bm-Wv. ]¶m-fnsb Hcp Ip´n-bpsS ÿm\-tØ°v HXp°n\n¿Øp-I-bm-hpw.

“Hcp h¿j-ambn Cu ho´n¬tI°v D≠m-°n-bn-´v. Hmh-s\ms° Xpcp-ºn®p ImWpw.C∂p sshIn´v Rm≥ hcp-tºm-th°pw Hcp tI°v- D-≠m-°n-h-bv°-Ww.” F∂v`¿Ømhv `mcy-tbmSv ]d-bp-tºmƒ `¿Ømhv Hcpt]c‚ns‚ A[n-ImcwFSpØp Nm¿Øp-I-bm-Wv.F∂m¬, “kqko, \o ]≠vD≠m-°p-am-bn-cp∂ tI°vF¥v cpNn-bp-≈-Xm-bn-cp-∂p.hmbn¬ Ct∏m-gpw AXns‚cpNn Xßn- \n¬°p-∂p≠v.C∂v, H∂p ian-®mtem?F∂mWv ]d-bp-∂-sX-¶n¬\nc-kn-°m≥ `mcybv°vBhptam?

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Hm^o-kv- B-h-iy-߃°p-th≠n aq∂m-gvN, t_mws_-bn¬ Bbn-cp∂p kmP≥.cmhnse h∂p Ib-dn-b-tX-bp-≈q. ]Xn-hp-t]mse bmXm-th-f-bn¬ `mcy B\n°vG‰hpw ]pXnb ^mj-\n-ep≈ Npcn-Zm¿ hmßn-s°m-≠p-h-cm≥ kmP≥ ad-∂n-√.]t£ ho´n-seØn Ac aWn-°q¿ Ign-™-t∏m-tg°pwHm^o-kn¬\n∂pw t^m¨h∂p. Hm^o-kn¬ Nne]iv\-߃. kmPs‚km∂n≤yw ASn-b-¥n-c-ambnthWw. _mKv Xpd∂v kΩm-\-s∏mXn B\n°v \¬In-bn´vkmP≥ Hm^o-kn-te°v IpXn-®p. ]iv\-ß-sf√mw H∂vim¥-am°n XncnsI ho´n-se-Øn-b-t∏mƒ cmXn 9 aWnBbn-cp-∂p.

cmhnse sImSpØ kΩm-\-s∏mXn B\n Xpd-∂p-t\m-°n-bn-´p-IqsS D≠m-bn-cp-∂n-√.t_Iv ^mÃpw e©pwBcpw Ign°msX ssU\nwKvtS_n-fn¬ Ccn-∏p-≠v.ho¿Øp-sI-´nb apJ-hp-ambnB\n s_Uvdq-an¬ InS-°p-∂pap≠v. Imcy-sa-s¥-∂-dn-bmsX `mcysb km¥z-\n-∏n-°m≥th≠n kmP≥ InS-°-bv°-cn-In-te°v sN∂p.

Abm-fpsS ssI X´n-am-‰n-bn´vB\n s]m´n-sØ-dn-®p,

“\n߃°v Hcp Xcn-sº-¶nepw Ft∂mSv kvt\l-apt≠m? aq∂m-gvN-bmbnRm≥ IÆn-se-Æ-bp-sam-gn®vImØn-cn-°p-I-bm... F∂n´vh∂p Ib-dnb DSs\ Hm^o-kn-te°v Hcp t]m°v. Ahn-sS-bßv Xma-kn-®p-Iq-tS.. F-¥n\m Ctßm-´p-h-∂-Xv.”

]mhw kmP≥ ! Aº-c-∂p-t]m-bn. t_mws_-bnse Xnc-°n-\n-S-bnepw _mµ-bnse^mj≥ kvSo‰n¬ t]mbnG‰-hpw-hn-e-]n-Sn-∏p≈ Npcn-Zm¿ hmßn-s°m≠v h∂Xv`mcy-tbm-Sp≈ kvt\lwsIm≠m-bn-cp-∂p. ]t£Ct∏m-gnXm Ah¿ tNmZn-°p-∂p, Xcn-sº-¶nepw kvt\l-ap-t≠m-F-∂v. A¥n-®p-\n¬°mt\ kmP\v Ign-™p-≈p.

`mcybv°v hne-]n-Sn-∏p≈kΩm\w hmßn-b-Xn-eqsSkvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°m≥ian-°p-I-bm-bn-cp∂pkmP≥. F∂m¬ B\n°vB `mj Xosc a\- n-em-bn-√.. ImcWw Ah-cpsSkvt\l-`mj Izm-fn‰n ssSwBbn-cp-∂-t√m.

Hcp-an®v Sn.-hn. ImWp-∂-tXm,km[-\-߃ hmßm≥ IS-bn¬ t]mIp-tºmƒ Hcp-an®vbmX sNøp-∂-tXm, ¢∫n¬Hcp-an®v t]mIp-∂-tXm A√Izmfn‰n ssSw. as‰m-∂n\pwhn`-Pn®p \¬ImsX ]¶m-fn°v amX-ambn ]Ip-Øp-sIm-Sp-°p∂ ka-b-amWv ¢mfn‰nssSw. ]¶m-fn-Iƒ°v Xß-fpsS Izmfn‰n ssSan¬, H∂p\S-°m≥ t]mhp-I-tbm, Hcp-an®v _mUvan‚¨ Ifn-°p-Itbm H°w Bhmw. ]s£B \S∏pw Ifnbpw H∂pw\S-∏nt\m Ifn-t°m th≠n-bm-I-cp-Xv.

“Rm≥ Fs‚ `mcy-bpsSapºn¬ Ah¿ ]d-bp-∂Xn¬i≤n®v 20 an\n‰v Ccp-∂m¬,hne-]n-Sn® Fs‚ Pohn-X-Ønse 20 an\n-‰p-I-ft√Rm≥ Ahƒ°v sImSp-°p-∂-Xv. Fs‚ Bbp- ns‚ Hcp`mKw-Xs∂ Ah¿°v kΩm-\n®v kvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°p-I-bmWv Rm≥ At∏mƒ sNøp-∂-Xv,” it≤-b-\mb Hcp_nkn-\- p-Im-cs‚ hm°p-I-fm-Wnh.

“Rm≥ InS-°p∂ AtX I´n-en¬ Nmcn-bn-cp-∂p-sIm≠vHcp aWn-°q¿ t\cw

\ne-hm-c-ap≈ ka-b-amWv (quality time) c≠m-asØ kvt\l- mj

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At±lw C‚¿s\‰v _ukvsNøpw. F∂n´v Ft∂mSv CS-bv°nsS Fs¥-¶n-ep-sams°tNmZn-°pw. BZy-sams°Rm≥ adp-]Sn ]d-bp-am-bn-cp-∂p. ]n∂oSv Rm\pw ]Tn-®p.Ct∏mƒ Rm\pw AXbpwkabw Fs¥-¶nepw hmbn-®p-sIm-≠n-cn-°pw. ASp-Øn-cp-∂m¬ ASp-∏-am-Iptam?”Iu¨kn-enw-Kn-s\-Ønb Hcp`mcy- tNmZn-°p-∂p. AsX,ASp-Øn-cp-∂m¬ ASp-∏-am-hp-I-bn-√.

]¶m-fn-bpsS hm°p-I-fpw, AXns‚ ]n∂n-ep≈ hnIm-chpwXncn-®-dn-b-Ø-°-hn[w kwkm-cn-°p-I-bpw, CS-bv°nsStNmZy-߃ D∂-bn®vBflm¿ ∞X shfn-s∏-Sp-Øp-IbpwthWw.

‘Fs‚ `¿Ømhv Ft∂mSvH∂pw kwkm-cn-°m-dn√’F∂v Hcp `mcy ]cm-Xn-s∏-´m¬ AXn-s‚-b¿∞w,H∂pta kwkm-cn-°m-dn√F∂√. ]Xyp-X, Izmfn‰nssSw F\n°v e`n-°p-∂n√F∂mWv.

Hm^o-knse taep-tZym-K-ÿ-\p-am-bp-≠mb Hcp ]iv\w`¿Øm-hn-t\mSv ]¶p-h-bv°p-hm≥ ian® `mcy-bpsS IYHm¿Ω-h-cp-∂p.

]iv\-hn-h-cWw ]mXn-bm-b-t∏m-tg°pw amt\-Pva‚ vI¨kƒ´‚ v IqsS-bmb_p≤n-am-\mb `¿Øm-hn\vAXns‚ aqe-Im-cWw a\- n-em-bn. CØcw \nc-h[n]iv\-ßsf \n m-c-ambn]cn-l-cn-®n-´p≈ At±lw`mcy-bpsS hni-Zo-I-cWw]mXn-h-gn-bn¬ \n¿Øn-°p-I-bpw, ]iv\ ]cn-lm-c-Øn-\p≈ kpK-aamb hgn ]d-™p-sIm-Sp-°p-IbpwsNbvXp. ]t£ `mcy kwXr-]vX-bm-bn-√. Imc-Ww,Ah¿°v At∏mƒ th≠n-bn-cp-∂Xv ]iv\w ]cn-l-cn-°m-\p≈ \n¿t±-i-am-bn-cp-∂n-√.X\n-°p-≠mb hnj-a-X-Iƒkl-Xm-]-]q¿∆w tIƒ°p-Ibpw Xt∂m-sSm∏w AXns‚`mK-`m-°m-Ip-Ibpw sNøp∂Hcp `¿Øm-hns‚ ImXp-I-fm-bn-cp∂p Ahƒ°m-h-iyw.

CXv a\- n-em-°m≥ Ign-bmØ `¿Ømhv FX amt\-Pvsa‚ v FIvkvt]¿´v BsW-

¶nepw IpSpw-_-Po-hn-X-Øn¬Hcp h´-∏q-Pyw- X-s∂-bm-Wv.

A]-cs‚ kwkmcw tI´p-sIm-≠n-cn-°m-\p≈ Bfp-I-fpsS £a-bpsS AXn¿ØnCt∏mƒ 17 sk°‚mbn Ipd-™n-cn-°p-∂p-sh∂v ]T-\-߃ shfn-s∏-Sp-Øp-∂p. 17sk°‚n\v apºp-Xs∂ Ah-cpsS kwkm-c-Øns‚ CS-bn¬ Ib-dp-hm≥ \mw hyKXImWn-°p-∂p. F∂m¬PohnX ]¶m-fn-bpsS kw`m-jWw sX√v Zo¿Ln-®mepwA£-a-cm-ImsX AXn\vImXp \¬Ip-I-bmWv th≠-Xv. ]tXy-In®v kvt\l-`mjIzmfn‰n ssSw Bb Hcphy‡n-tbmSv kwkm-cn-°p-tºmƒ. AXn-\p-≈ -k-abwAt∏mƒ Cs√-¶n¬ AXpwXpd∂p ]d-bmw,

“t\m°q, \o ]d-bp-∂Xv apgp-h≥ F\n°v tI´p a\- n-em-°-Ww. ]t£ Ct∏m-gXn-\p≈ kml-N-cy-an-√-t√m. Hcp]t£ C∂v sshIn´v F√mwFt∂mSv hni-Z-ambn ]d-b-Ww, ad-°-cp-tX”. F∂v`¿Ømhv `mcy-tbmSv]d™m¬ F√mw Xpd-∂p-]-d™ kwXr-]vXn-bmWv`mcybv°v In´p-∂-Xv.

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a‰v kvt\l-`m-j-I-sfm-∂pw-Xs∂ Iøn-se-Sp-°p-hm≥km[n-°n-√. F∂m¬ kΩm-\-ß-fm-I-s´, Zriycq-]-ap≈Hcp kvt\l-`m-j-bm-Wv.

\n߃ ]¶m-fn°v sImSpØHcp kΩm\w Iøn-se-SpØvXmtem-en-®p-sIm≠v Bhy‡n-sb-°p-dn®v ]d-bm-\m-hpw, “It≠m, Fs∂-°p-dn®vHm¿Ωn-®-Xp-sIm-≠t√ CukΩm\w hmßn-s°m-≠p-h-∂-Xv ” F∂v.

Xo¿®-bmbpw Hcm-sf-°p-dn®vHm¿Ωn-°msX \ap°v At±-l-Øn-\p-th≠n HcpkΩm\w hmßm-\m-hn-√. BNn¥-bpsS Hcp ]Xn-^-e-\-amWv kΩm-\w.

kΩm-\-Øn-\√ hne. BNn¥bv°pw Icp-X-en-\p-am-Wv.F∂m¬ D≈n-ep≈ Nn¥bpwkvt\lhpw ]I-Sn-∏n-°-s∏-Sp-∂Xv Cu kΩm-\-Øn-eq-sS-bm-Wv.

kΩm-\-߃ kvt\l-`m-j-bmbn Xncn-®-dn-bp-∂ -hy-‡n-Iƒ°vHmtcm sNdnb kΩm-\-Øn-s‚bpw hnehfsc hen-b-Xm-Wv.

Ch hmßn-b-tXm, kzbwD≠m-°n-btXm Is≠-Øn-btXm Hs° Bhmw.

]pjv]-ßfpw sNSn-IfpwFhnsS I≠mepw Gsdt\cw IuXp-I-tØmsSt\m°n-\n¬°p∂ kz`m-h-amWv tla-eXbptSXv.Ah¿°v kmam\yw \√ Hcp]qt¥m-´-hp-ap-≠v. Hcn-°¬tla-bpsS `¿Ømhv Fhn-sStbm t]mbn´v Xncn-sI-sb-Øn-b-t∏mƒ A]q¿∆-ambHcp ]qs®Sn sIm≠p-F-Sp-Øp. AXp- I≠v Ah¿Xp≈n-®m-Sn. hgn-tbm-c-sØ-hn-sStbm I≠ Hcp A]q¿∆-Xcw Im´p-sN-Sn-bm-bn-cp∂pAXv. hgn-bn¬ Cu sNSnI≠ `¿Ømhv DSs\ Im¿\n¿Øn AXv thscmsS ]dn-®p-sIm-≠p-t]m-cn-I-bm-bn-cp-∂p. Im´p-sN-Sn-bm-bn-cp-∂p-sh-

¶nepw tla-e-Xsb kw_-‘n®v AXns‚ hne Af-°m-\m-hm-Ø-Xm-Wv. ImcWwAh-cpsS kvt\l-`mjkΩm-\-am-bn-cp-∂p.

“F\n°v Cu kΩm\wsImSp-°p∂ kz`m-h-sam-∂p-an-√, kΩm\w sXc-s™-Sp-°m\pw F\n-°-dn-bn-√, F\n-°mcpw X∂n-´p-an-√,” Ipsd-°m-ew -apºv tla-e-X-bpsS`¿Ømhv Bflm¿∞-ambnCu Ipº-kmcw \S-Øn-b-t∏mƒ Abmƒ al-ØmbHcp I≠p-]n-SpØw \S-Øp-I-bm-bn-cp-∂p. Xs‚bpw `mcy-bp-sSbpw kvt\l-`m-j-IƒhyXy-kvX-am-sW∂ I≠p-]n-Sp-Øw. Ah-cpsS IpSpw-_-Po-hnX hnP-b-Øns‚ BZy-]-Sn-bm-bn-cp∂p AXv.

]¶m-fn-bpsS ico-c-km-∂n≤yw Hcp henb kΩm-\-am-bn-Øo-cp∂ L´-ßfpwD≠v. Nne kµnKv≤ thf-I-fn¬ `¿Øm-hns‚ / `mcy-bpsS km∂n≤yw tImSm-\p-tImSn cq]-tb-°mƒ aqey-ap≈ kΩm-\-am-bn-Øo¿s∂-∂p-h-cmw.

aq∂m-asØ kvt\l- mj kΩm-\-ß-fmWv (Gifts)

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“F\n-s°s‚ `mcysb hfscCjvS-am-Wv,” Hcn-°¬ -Hcp`¿Ømhv shfn-s∏-Sp-Øn.AXns‚ Imc-WhpwAt±lw hy‡-am-°n,“Ahƒ F\n°v D≠m-°n-Ø-cp∂ Blm-cw F¥v cpNn-I-c-am-sW-t∂m, Fs‚ hkvX-sa√mw Ae°n tX®v Ae-am-c-bn¬- A-Sp-°n-h-bv°pw.Hm^o-kn¬ \n∂pw Rm≥hcp-tºmƒ IrXy-ambpw HcpNqSp-Nm-b. ]ns∂ BgvN-bn-sem-cn-°¬ Im¿ Igp-Ipw.”

`mcy-sb-s°m≠v tPmensNøn-∏n-°m≥ hyKX ImWn-°p∂ Iqc\pw aSn-b-\p-ambHcp `¿Øm-hmbn At±-

lsØ hne-bn-cp-tØ-≠.At±-l-Øns‚ apJy-kvt\-l-`mj klm-bhpw tkh-\hpwBsWs∂ AXn-\¿∞-ap-≈q. A\y¿ \ap°v sNbvXp-X-cp∂ klm-b-k-l-I-cWßfn-eq-sS-bmWv C°q-´¿kvt\l-Øns‚ Afhv Xn´-s∏-Sp-Øp-I.

“Fs‚ `¿Ømhv sshIn´vFt∂m-sSm∏w In®-Wn¬ImWpw. ]mXw Igp-Ip-tºmƒ XpS®v It_m-Un¬hbv°pw. hncp-∂p-Im¿ hcp-tºmƒ tS_nƒ sk‰vsNøp∂Xpw hmjv t_kn-\-SpØv ]pXnb S∆epwtkm∏pw hbv°p-∂Xpw At±-l-am-Wv. CSbv°v Rm≥ Ae-°nb XpWn FSpØv aS-°n-h-bv°m-dp-≠v. cmhnse Fgp-t∂¬°p-tºmƒ I´n¬

IpS™v hncn-°p-∂XpwAt±lw Xs∂. \√ kvt\l-ap≈ a\p-jy≥,” kqk≥Xs‚ `¿Ømhv tPm_n-sb-°p-dn®v ]d-bp-∂Xv tIƒ°p-tºmtg \ap°v a\- n-em°mw Ah-cpsS apJy-kvt\-l-`mj tkh-\-amWv F∂v.

“Ieym-W-Øn-\p-apºvRms\s‚ ho´n¬ H∂pwsNbvXn-´n-√. ]n∂t√Ct∏mƒ. Rms\¥m `mcy-bpsS iº-f-°m-c-\mtWm?em¬ F∂ bphmhv tNmZn-®Xv Cßs-s\-bm-bn-cp-∂p,“Rm≥ ho´p-Imcyw t\m°n\S-Øm≥ th≠ ]Wwkºm-Zn-°p-∂p-≠v. AXns‚Xe-th-Z\ Ah¿°v Adn-tb-≠-t√m.” hnhm-l-tam-N-\-Øns‚ h°n-seØn \n¬°p-I-bm-Wv. emepw `mcy kpNn-X-bpw.-

“\n-ß-sfmcp \√ `¿Øm-hm-sW-¶n¬ F\n°nXv sNbvXpXcpw” F∂p ]d-bp∂ `mcy-bpw. ‘CXp sNbvXn-s√-¶n¬\o A\p-`-hn°pw F∂p`oj-Wns-∏-Sp-Øp∂ `¿Øm-hpw.’kvt\lw ]¶m-fn-bn¬\n∂pw Ih¿s∂-Sp-°m≥ian-°p-I-bm-Wv. Ah-cpsSkvt\l-`mj tkh-\-am-Wv.]t£ ]¶m-fn-bn¬ \n-∂XvIn´p-∂-Xp-an-√. At∏mƒ\n¿_-‘-]q¿∆w kvt\lw]nSn-s®-Sp-°m≥ ian-°p-tºmƒ hm°p-Iƒ ]cp-j-am-bn-Øo-cpw. ^ew hn]-coXam-bn-Øo-cp-Ibpw sNøpw.

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\mem-asØ kvt\l- mj tkh-\hpw klm-b-hp-am-Wv. (Acts & Services)

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imco-cnI kv]¿i\w sshIm-cnI kvt\l-Øns‚ _mly-]-I-S-\-amWv. sIm®p-Ip-™n-\p-t]mepw AXv Xncn-®-dn-bm-\m-hpw. AXp-sIm-≠--mWt√mNne¿ FSp-Øm¬ Ip™vs]m´n-°-c-bp-I-bpw, a‰v Nne-cpsS H°-sØ-Øp-tºmƒNncn-°p-Ibpw sNøp-∂-Xv.

Xß-fpsS inip-hns\ sXmtS-≠-Xn\v ]me-kvXo-\nseamXm-]n-Xm-°ƒ Ip™p-ß-tf-bpw-sIm≠v tbip-hns\kao-]n-®-Xmbn ss__nƒ]d-bp-∂p-≠v. F∂m¬injy∑m¿ amXm-]n-Xm-°-∑msc XS-™p. AXp-I≠vtbip Ip-™p-ßsf ASp-Øp-hn-fn®v Xmtem-en-°p-IbpwNpw_n-°p-Ibpw amtdm-S-W-bv°p-Ibpw sNbvXp. kv]¿i-\-Øns‚ hnebpw al-XzhpwXncn-®-dn-™-h-cmWv al-Øp-°ƒ. ZºXn-I-fpsS _‘-Ønepw AXns‚ ÿm\wAZzn-Xo-b-am-Wv. Xtem-Sp-I,]c-kv]cw ssItIm¿Øv]nSn-°p-I, Npw_n-°p-I,sXm´p-cp-Ωn-bn-cn-°p-I, Benw-K\w sNøp-I, imco-cnI_‘-Øn-te¿s∏-SpI F∂-sXms° kvt\l ]I-S-\-Øns‚ hnhn[ Af-hp-I-fm-Wv.

imco-cnI kv]¿i-\w, apJy-kvt\-l-`m-j-bm-bn-´p-≈-h¿°v]¶m-fn-bpsS kv]¿i\w e`n-°msX hcp-tºmƒ izmkwap´p-∂-Xmbn A\p-`-h-s∏-t´-°mw. t\sc adn®v ]¶m-fn-bpsS Ic-h-e-b-Øn-\p-≈n¬Ah¿ A\p-`-hn-°p∂ kpc-£n-XXzw Ah¿Æ-\o-b-am-Wv.

Zº-Xn-I-fpsS imco-cn-I-_‘w ]Xyp-ev]m-Z-\-]cwamX-a-√, kv\l-Øns‚ ]mc-ay-Øn¬ \n-∂p-≠m-tI≠ HcphnImc ]I-S\w IqsS-bmW-Xv.

‘]pcp-js‚ lrZ-b-Øn-te-°p≈ hgn DZ-c-Øn-eqsS’F∂v tI´-dn™ `¿Øm-hns\ ]km-Zn-∏n-°m≥ Ggp-Xcw Iq´m-\p-≠m°n hn`-h-k-ar-≤-amb A-Øm-g-sam-cp°nImØn-cp∂p skeo-\.Blmcw Ign™v InS-°-bn-se-Ønb ju°Øv Ipsd-

t\cw skeo-\sb ImØn-cp-∂p. F∂m¬ h®p-hn-f-ºnb]mX-sa√mw IgpIn, In®\pw¢o≥ sNbvXn´v sken≥ InS-∏p-ap-dn-bn-se-Øn-b-t∏mƒIq¿°w hen-®p-d-ßp∂ju°-Øn-\-bmWv I≠-Xv.

“kmtd, F¥n\m F\n°vGgv Iq´m≥. Ht∂m ct≠mt]mtc. t\csØ Xo¿Øn´vh∂p-IqsS Ahƒ°v.. ‘thsdFXtbm Imcy-߃ InS-°p-∂p,” Aß-s\-bm-bn-cp∂pju°-Øns‚ ]Xn-I-c-Ww.

AZv-tZ-l-Øns‚ kvt\l-`mj `£-W-am-bn-cp-∂n-√.kv]¿i-\-am-bn-cp-∂p. AXvXncn-®-dn-bp-hm≥ ]mhwsken\v Ign-™n-√.

]t©-µn-b-ß-fn¬ H∂pamX-am-Wv N¿Ωw. F∂m¬a‰v \men¬ \n∂pw hyXy-kvX-ambn B]m-Z-NqVwihi-co-csØ s]mXn™vN¿Ω-ap-≠v. Fhn-sSbpw e`n-°p∂ Hcp kv]¿isØAXns‚ ]q¿Æ Kuc-h-tØmsS Xe-t®m-dn¬ FØn-°p-hm≥ k÷-cmb \mUnRc-ºp-I-fmWv \ap-°p-≈-Xv.ktµ-i-߃ e`n-°p-tºmƒXe-t®m¿ B kv]¿i-\-Øns‚ `mj hymJym-\n®vhm-bn-s®-Sp-°pw. ‘Rm≥\ns∂ kvt\ln-°p∂p’F∂p Xs∂-bmtWm AXn-\¿∞w F∂v.

kv]¿i-\-amWv (Physical touch)A©m-asØ kvt\l- mj

F\n-°p-≈-sX√mwFs‚ ico-c-Øn-et√IpSn-sIm-≈p-∂-Xv.AXp-sIm≠v Fs‚ico-c-Øn¬ Hcmƒkv]¿in-°p-tºmƒFs∂-Ø-s∂-bmWvkv]¿in-°p-∂-Xv.Fs∂ kv]¿in-°msX amdn-\n¬°p-tºmƒ F∂n¬\n-∂p-amWv B hy‡nAI∂p \n¬°p-∂-Xv.

\nß-fpsS PohnX ]¶m-fn-bpsS apJy-kvt\-l-`mjkv]¿i-\-am-sW-¶n¬, IÆo-cns‚ thf-I-fn¬ Bhy‡nsb H∂p tN¿Øp-]n-Sn-°p-∂-Xn-s\-°mƒ Bizm-k-I-c-ambn as‰m-∂p-an-√.kt¥m-j-th-f-I-fn¬\¬Ip∂ Hcm-enw-K-\-tØmfwBth-i-I-c-ambpw as‰m-∂p-an-√.

Hcp D®-`m-jn-Wn-bn-eqsS‘sF ehv bq’ F∂v hnfn-®p-Iqhn ]d-bp-∂-Xnepw i‡-amWv Ah¿°v Hcp arZp-kv]¿i-\w.

At∏mƒXs∂ i≤n-t°≠Hcp Imcy-ap-≠v. ]¶m-fnsb\n߃ kv]¿in-°p-∂Xv\n߃ BK-ln-°p∂ ka-b-Øpw, coXn-bnepw AI-cp-Xv.AXv hn]-coX ^ew Df-hm-°n-sb∂v hcpw. adn®v Ah-cpsS ka-bØpw Ah¿ BK-ln-°p∂ coXn-bn-ep-am-h-WwB kv]¿iw.

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Pohn-X-]-¶m-fn-bpsS kvt\l-Øns‚ Sm¶v \nd-®p-h-bv°-W-sa-¶n¬ B hy‡n-bpsSkvt\l-`mj GXm-sW∂vXncn-®-dn-b-Ww. ]s£ AXn-\p-apºv kz¥w kvt\l-`mjGXm-sW∂v a\- n-em-°-Ww.apI-fn¬]-d™ A©p `mj-I-sf-°p-dn®v Nn¥n-°p-tºmƒXs∂ Nne¿°v Xß-fpsS ]Ya kvt\l-`mjGXm-sW∂v t_m[y-am-tb-°mw. A√m-Ø-h¿ C\n-∏-d-bp∂ tNmZy-ß-fpsS DØcwkzbw Is≠-Øp-I.

1. \nß-fpsS ]¶mfnt\csØ ]d™ 5 Imcy-ß-fn¬ F¥p sNøm-sX-bn-cn-°p-tºm-gmWv \n߃ IqSp-X¬hWn-X-cm-Ip-∂-Xv.?

2. \nß-fpsS ]¶m-fn-bn¬\n∂pw IqSp-X-embn\n߃ Bin-®Xpw Bh-iy-s∏-´-Xp-amb ImcywF¥mWv?

3. \nß-fpsS ]¶m-fn-tbm-Sp≈kvt\lw km[m-cW ]I-Sn-∏n-°m≥ Xp\n-bp-∂Xv Fß-s\-bmWv?

Cu tNmZy-ß-fpsS DØ-c-Øn¬ \n∂pw \nß-fpsSapJy-kvt\-l-`mj GXm-sW∂v Xncn-®-dn-bm≥ Ign-bpw. ap‰p \mev Imcy-ß-fp-sSbpw ap≥K-W-\m-∏-´nIXøm-dm-°p-I.

C\nbpw sNtø-≠Xv ]¶m-fn-bpsS kvt\l-`mj Is≠-ØpI F∂-Xm-Wv. AXn\vXmsg-∏-d-bp∂ tNmZy-߃°vadp-]Sn Xøm-dm-°-Ww.

1. ]¶mfn Fß-s\-bmWvFt∂mSv kvt\lw ]I-Sn-∏n-°m-dp-≈Xv?

2. an°-t∏mgpw ]¶mfn F¥n-s\-∏-‰n-bmWv e`n-°p-∂n√F∂v ]cmXn ]d-bm-dp-≈Xv?

3. Fs‚ ]¶mfn IqsS-°qsSFt∂m-Sm-h-iy-s∏-Sp∂Imcyw F¥mWv?

4. \nß-fpsS Nn¥-Ifpwkvt\lhpw hm°p-I-fn-eqsSth≠pw-hn[w ]I-Sn-∏n-°m\m-hptam?

5. kΩm\w hmßn-s°m-Sp-°m\pw AXv G‰p hmßp-∂-h-cpsS apJsØ kt¥m-j-]-I-S\w Bkz-Zn-°m\pw CjvS-amtWm?

6. Hcp Nmbbpw IpSn-®p-sIm≠v ]¶m-fn-tbm-sSm∏wsIm®p h¿Ø-am\w ]d-™n-cn-°m≥ \n߃ BK-ln-°p-∂pthm?

7. ]¶m-fn-bpsS Bh-iy-L-´-ß-fn¬ Ahsc klm-bn-°m≥ Ft∏mgpw apt∂m´vhcptam? AtXm X¥-]q¿∆wcwK-Øp-\n∂v Hgn-™p-am-dptam?

8. kvt\l-]-I-S-\-ambn CS-bvs°ms° H∂p sXm´pXtem-Sm-dpt≠m?

C\n ]¶m-fn-tbm-sSm∏wCcp∂v Cu Imcy-߃ ]c-kv]cw ]¶p-h-bv°p-I. Dul-߃ icn-bm-bn-cpt∂m F∂vtNmZn®v a\- n-em-°p-I.

“F¥v sNbvXp X∂m¬F\n°v \ns∂ kt¥m-jn-∏n-°m\mhpw F∂v Hcp Znhkw

Hm^o-kn¬ \n∂v h∂-t∏mƒRms\s‚ `mcy-tbmSv tNmZn-®p. Ahƒ ]d™p, ‘XpWn-sb√mw hmjnwKv sajo-\n-en´v Ae°n sImSp-°-W-’sa-∂v. ]nt∂... XpWn-b-e-°p-∂Xpw kvt\l-]-I-S-\hpwXΩn-se-¥mWv _‘w?”cmPo-h\v AXp sX√pw a\- n-em-Ip-∂p-≠m-bn-cp-∂n-√.

“AXmWv ]iv\w. `mcy-bpsSapJy kvt\l-`mj cmPo-hv,C\nbpw \n߃ Xncn-®-dn-™n-´n-√. Hm^o-kn¬\n∂vhcp-tºmƒ Ah¿ \n߃F¥p sNbvXp Xc-W-sa-∂mWv \n߃ BK-ln-°p-∂Xv?” a\x-im-kvX-⁄≥cmPo-hn-t\mSv tNmZn-®p.

“hmXn¬Xp-d∂v Fs∂kzoI-cn®v F\n-s°mcpNpw_\w Xc-Ww.”“Hcp Npw_\w e`n-°p-tºmƒ`mcy-bn¬\n∂pw \n߃A\p-`-hn-°p∂ AtXkvt\l-amWv \n߃ XpWnhmjnwKv sajo-\n-enSptºmƒAh¿ A\p-`-hn-°p-∂-Xpw.”a\x-im-kvX-⁄s‚ hm°p-Iƒ tI´-t∏mƒ cmPo-hs‚adp-]Sn Cß-s\-bm-bn-cp-∂p.

“kXy-tam, F¶n¬ C∂papX¬ F√m-Zn-h-khpw XpWn-I-gp-Ip∂ tPmen Rm≥ Gs‰-Sp-°pw.”

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