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Active Listening Tips and Techniques SEIS 605 Technical Communication

SEIS 605 Technical Communication. Steps to ensure you listen actively: 1. Consciously decide to listen actively. 2. Define your purpose for listening

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Active ListeningTips and

Techniques

SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Page 2: SEIS 605 Technical Communication. Steps to ensure you listen actively: 1. Consciously decide to listen actively. 2. Define your purpose for listening

Active Listening

Part 1:From the

Alred Handbook

SEIS 605 Technical Communication

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Active Listening

SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Steps to ensure you listen actively:

1. Consciously decide to listen actively.

2. Define your purpose for listening.

3. Take specific actions to listen more effectively.

4. Adapt to the situation.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Consciously decide to listen actively:

• Simply make up your mind that you will listen actively.

• Active listening requires a conscious effort.

• “Seek first to understand, and then to be understood.”

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Define your purpose for listening (Part 1 of 2):

• Important for keeping your attention from drifting.

• Important for avoiding formulating your response while the speaker is still talking.

• Important for ensuring you don’t interrupt the speaker.

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Define your purpose for listening (Part 2 of 2):

Ask yourself . . .• “What information do I hope to get, and how will I

use it?”• “What message do I want to send while I listen

(e.g., understanding, flexibility, competence)?”• “How can I keep present factors (e.g., boredom,

anger) from interfering with my ability to listen?”

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Take specific actions to listen more effectively:

• Make a conscious effort to be impartial.

• Slow the communication by asking for clarifications or by paraphrasing the message.

• Put yourself in the speaker’s position.

• TAKE NOTES.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Adapt to the situation:

• The requirements for active listening are different for each situation.

• Listening for information (e.g., a lecture) involves less engagement.

• Listening for a team project requires a high level of engagement (e.g., subtleties, hidden opportunities).

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Active Listening

Part 2:From the

Anderson Textbook

SEIS 605 Technical Communication

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

• Give everyone a chance to speak—If someone is quiet, ask for his or her ideas.

• Let each speaker finish—Hold your thoughts until the speaker has finished hers.

• Focus on ideas—Be sure you understand what the person is saying.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

• Ask for clarification and elaboration—Before responding with your comment or idea, make sure you have the complete picture of the speaker’s points.

• Show that you are paying attention—If you agree with the speaker, say things such as, “That’s interesting,” “I hadn’t thought of that,” or even “Uh-huh.”

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

• Look at the speaker—Eye contact appears more friendly and attentive than not using eye contact.

• Refrain from distracting gestures—Speakers are often uncomfortable when listeners use nervous gestures such as cleaning their fingernails, drumming their fingers, or holding their hands over their mouths.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Review (from Alred Handbook):

1. Consciously decide to listen actively. 2. Define your purpose for listening. 3. Take specific actions to listen more effectively. 4. Adapt to the situation.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Review (from Anderson textbook 1 of 2):

• Give everyone a chance to speak. • Let each speaker finish. • Focus on ideas. • Ask for clarification and elaboration.

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SEIS 605 Technical Communication

Review (from Anderson textbook 2 of 2):

• Show that you are paying attention. • Look at the speaker. • Refrain from distracting gestures.

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