Saying Goodbye to Ghosts of Lovers Past

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Even if we never talk again after this day, please remember that I am forever changed by who you are and whatyou meant to me. ~ Unknown

As the clock struck 12 and my friends around me erupted into cheers and leaned into the sweet

kisses of their expectant lovers, I raised my glass of champagne and said goodbye to my past

lover.

But what becomes of the others?
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Saying goodbye to our lovers and their ghosts are two different things.

Goodbyes are something Ive struggled with my entire life, because I am a forever kind of person.

ride or die

People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. ~ Michelle Ventor


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I am not scared of being alone anymore, simply because I have faith that this was the right choice.

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Author: Kate Rose

Editor: Ashleigh Hitchcock

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