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For all the girls.. who are married or going to marry some expert advises by Admin Voice of Women

* DONTs *

1- Never say "Laayen ammi mein kardun"... "Aray bhabi mujhe de den".... "Aray Nanhi chaaye bana doon?".. ye over acting

shuru mein achaye baney gi.. baad mein Jaan ki azaaab.. jub ghar walay bagher aap k poochay kahen gay "Aray bahu! ye

kardo, Haan suno ye zara Teesri manzil se to laado, Bhaabi chaaye to banaden"

2- See each and every thing with eyes wide open... but glue ur lips. Dont give muft mashwaras to any if nobody asks you.

Its like "Aaa bail.. mujhe aa k Zorr se maar"

3- No matter, how serious is the situation "NEVER Shout" infront of ur in-laws [read it 10 times to get it well through your

mind- N E V E R - S H O U T] it really creates such a bad impression. ("Maa ne tameez nahe sikhaaye", Hawww kesey

Jahilon ki tarhan cheekh rahe thhi na? toba toba etc will be the expected outcomes)

4- If you are going out for dinner, always ask your Saas "Ammi aap k liye kuch le aayen"..? rather than "Pleasee Ammi aap

saath chale na. Aap k bagher kia maza aaye ga". Biliv me agar aik dafa pooch lia.. to meri tarhan hamesha poochna paray

ga

5- Don't try to be Over Smart. It will create so many hurdles for you. Try to be as simple as you can. Do what you can.DONT dare to do what you cannot..!

6- Don't try to be "Who YOU are NOT"... try to be as NATURAL as u can. Fake "baaten" and "Fake Daaway" aap ko ley

dooben gay!

7- Never compare your husband with ur brother or ur frends husband, or your sis-in-law's husband. Nothing is more

disgusting for your husband than this..Biliv me..!

8- Dont demand anything that ur husband cant afford. Try to understand his financial situation. Be a reason of his smile

rather than Depression

9- Dont be a burden for anyone, specially if u dont do any other ghar ka kaam. Atleast ur HUSBAND is your responsibility.

Take care of his Likes and Dislikes. Care for his meals. Ur saas will be so glad .. aur kaheen na kaheen, kabhi na kabhiaapko ye jumla sunnay ko mil hi jaaye ga .. "Kuch bhi hai merey betey ka to khayal rakhti hai"

10- Always remember, aap apni saas ko apni "Maan" zaroor samjhen. Lekin kabhi bhi apney aapko unki BETI samajhnay ki

ghalti na karen. I can say out loud thousand times.."Saas kabhi MAA nahe ban sakti"

* DOs *

1- If you are a working lady, then in ur "Jahez", an Electric Kettle is a must buy..!

Ji haaan My amma out of her extreme love bought me an electric kettle, so that I dont need to run downstairs for making

breakfast early in the morning.

Now I dont rush to kitchen early in the morning for that damn cup of tea. My husband makes the tea.. & I butter the

slice..!

2- If your "to be bedroom" is not too spacious, then dont buy the big Refrigerator, instead buy room fridge. Bara fridge -

baray maslay. Na hogi kamray mein itna jaga wo bechara bahar rakha jaye ga.. to aap ka kia faida hua..!?? KADDU..!

3- Always give respect to your Saas and Susar. Thats really important. If you have any problem with them, try to discuss it

with your husband in a very light tone, in a calm relaxing environment. Dont try to fight. Dont shout.

I asked my husband difference between the girl friend and wife. He told me straight : "Bivian bewaqoof hoti hein. Cheekhti

chillati bohat hain. Girl friends samajhdar hoti hain.. achi si tayyar ho k soft si voice mein baat keh k saaaaaaab manwaleti

hein"

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I asked : to aapki girlfriends aise manwaleti hon gi saaaab baaten?

 Ali: (nervous) "nahe yaar mein to aik general baat kar raha tha. tum cheekho mat"

Me : mein cheekhi kab?!

 Ali : *Khamoshi*

4- Always remember all the birthdays of Susralis plus Mother-in-Law Day and Father in Law Day & Jeth Day & Dewar Day & 

Nand Day & Maasi day & Mother-in-Law's most favorite friends Day.It will generate some space in their Hearts and u never know, they might remember your Birthday too...

5- If you r earning and living in combined family system, then must bring something for ur in laws. have dinner with them,

give gits, help them if they required so. Thats really important.

Meri Shaadi ka aik sala tajarba cheeckh cheekh k kehta hai k Shaadi chahay Arrange ho ya Love.. aik saal baad saaaaaaab

aik jesi hojati hein...

Piyaar Mohabbat ki baaten kia pakayen, kia khaayen tak reh jaati hein.

But still in the end, what matters is your husbands love, care and appreciation

I know I am still Ali's girlfriend. I discuss each and every little thing with him. Thats another thing, he doesnt listen to me

anymore He plays Angry Birds, and I keep on telling him that I want to have nandos Peri bites! He watches TV , & I tell him

what I did all day Long, He listen to songs , Volume Full and Headfones on ears.. & I tell him k aap ki ammi ne ye kaha wo

kiaSince we both are working, we celebrate our friday nites with full enthusiasm. Movie, Lays, Pepsi. Bag mein chupa k laaye

gaye Chinese Rice.. after the film, nearly at 03:00 am, as a girl friend, I ask Ali k chhat pe chalen aur wahan chal k taray

ginen..Initially he used to say "Tumhara dimaagh to sahe hai?", but now he insists me "Chalo taray gintay hein!"

& u know what..!? Feelings of being Alone with my Love at my home's Chhat..at 3 am, nangay paaon in such garmi..aur

bohat saari betuki baaten.. ufffff Just unexplainable..! [alag rehnay walon ko kia pata.. combined system k mazay HUH :D]

So dear Girls, All you need to do is..be well prepared for the worst if u r going to a huge combined family system, so that

little khushian will seem toooooooooo big

HUgs and wish u all Luck 

IK is not pathan - he is Punjabi. having the name khan as your last name does not make one a Pathan - there are many

urdu speaking people with last name khan as well. and second, your ethnicity is primarily decided by language according to

sociology and anthropology. IK's mother tongue is SERAIKI not pushto.

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