Saints Constant ine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church 60 Traverse Road Newport News VA 23606

Volume Issue

March 2019

I N S I D E T H I S I S S U E :

T C + R

Hi-Lites Clean Mon-day, Lent Begins—March 11 HWPS Dinner Theatre—March 2 AHEPA Casino Night—March 9

Time seems to be rushing by more quickly, especially as we are all getting older. The last time I looked there was still 24 hours in a day with each hour counting 60 minutes.

In the hustle and bustle of our daily rou-tines, do we take time out for personal reflec-tion? The smallest effort can go the longest way when we are focused on listening care-fully to everything that God says.

As Orthodox Christians we have as one of our goals, the duty to identify with Jesus Christ and listen just as our Lord proclaimed in the Gospel of John (11:41), “Father, I thank you that you have heard me.” This verse of Holy Scripture comes to us as Jesus is preparing to raise his good friend Lazarus from the dead. In these words and actions we see how dependent Jesus was to his Father

for all the glory that would be seen at not only this miracle, but all the miracles that Jesus did.

We must use our sense of hearing in a positive way. We all have access to different kinds of music, but do we comprehend the lyrics and the messages that are being por-trayed? Do we listen to and follow along when the hymns are being chanted by our chanters and choirs? We are blessed to have the new hymnals in our pews as a tool for all to not only participate, but to live the richness of our Orthodox hymnology.

As Great and Holy Lent will begin with the Forgiveness Vespers on March 10th, let us all stop, look and listen to the rich Orthodox ser-vices and be participators in these services, not bystanders.

† F F G S , L , L February Sundays,

Acolytes, Readers 2-3, 9

Registry / Announcements 4

Church, Club & Community News 4-5

Our Lenten Journey 6-8

PC Minutes 9-11

Calendar 11

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MARCH 3 EPISTLE READING 1 Corinthians 8:8-13; 9:1-2 GOSPEL READING Matthew 25:31-46 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Judgment Sunday (Meatfare

Sunday) Theodoretos the Holy Martyr

of Antioch Nonnita, mother of Saint

David The Holy Martyrs Eutropius,

Cleonicus, and Basiliscus

WISDOM OF THE FATHERS He indicates the dispositions

of each, calling the one kids, the other sheep, that He might indi-cate the unfruitfulness of the one, for no fruit will come from kids; and the great profit from the other, for indeed from sheep great is the profit, as well from the milk, as from the wool, and from the young, of all which things the kid is destitute. St. John Chrysostom, Homily on Matt. XXV, 4th Century

HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in

the Grave Mode Thou didst abolish death by

Thy Cross; Thou didst open Para-dise to the thief; Thou didst transform the myrrh-bearers' lamentation, and didst bid Thine

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Philoptochos Stavroula Gailey, President

Religious Education Viola Allen, Frances Tsimplekis, Co-Directors

Greek School Paula Tofalli, Katerina Sanbar

Youth Ministry Mariam Canavos, Youth Director Stephanie Peri and Kent Paumier, Advisors Acolytes Barry Hendricks, Director

JOY/HOPE Mariam Canavos, Director

Bookstore Elizabeth Puckett

Weekly Bulletin Rebecca Pietronuto

Cross+Roads Nick Vlattas

Greek Orthodox Youth Association (GOYA) Christina Myers, President Kent Paumier, Advisor Young Adult League (YAL) Anastasia Theodorogiannis, President Golden Hearts Zoe Marcopoulos, President

Order of AHEPA Nick Matthews, President

Daughters of Penelope Helen Dennie, President

Hellenic Woman’s Penelope Society Sharon Otero (March)

Hellenic Youth Dancers Bobby Garofalis, Director

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M S MARCH 3 and 24 Team A Yianni Tsimplekis Dean Peri Michael Daoud Gabriel Daoud Christopher Micha Sameer Amireh MARCH 10 and 31 Team B James St. Martin Cris Campbell Soterios Tofalli Kyprianos Tofalli Konstantin Garofalis Aidan Capobianco MARCH 17 Team C Georgios Haramis Christos Konstantinou Christopher Myers Nolan Krisik Will Estes Alexandros Baxevanis

ACOLYTES

Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church 60 Traverse Road Newport News VA 23606

Glory Be To God

www.schgochurch.va.goarch.org Phone (757) 596-6151 Fax (757) 596-2967 Email Addresses: priest@ office@ parishcouncil@ youthdirector@ webmaster@ admin@ schgochurch.va.goarch.org

Office Hours Monday Through Friday 9:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m.

Priest Father George Chioros Work 596-6152 Home 597-7786 Mobile 288-4487 Email frgchioros@aol.com

Parish Council Frank Peri, President John Dermanis, Vice Pres. Bob Demson, Treasurer Zena Mageras, Asst. Treas. Kent Paumier, Secretary Greg Bicouvaris Elias Doulgerakis Bobby Garofalis Mike Kokorelis II Gary Nicholls Anastasia Theodorogiannis Chanters Tim Sofis Harry Fotiou John Williams Brian Fink George Petrakos Church Secretary Rebecca Pietronuto

Archdiocese on the web www.goarch.org

Please contact Barry Hen-dricks if you are interested in reading the Epistle during the Sunday Divine Liturgy. bhendricks@cox.net MARCH 03: Howard Mandeville 10: GOYA 17: Trish Demson 24: Joe Saur 31: Open

EPISTLE READERS

Apolytikion for Saints Con-stantine & Helen, Equal-to-the Apostles in the Plagal of the Fourth Tone

Having seen the image of Thy Cross in Heaven, and like Paul, having received the call not from men, Thine apostle among kings entrusted the commonwealth to Thy hand, O Lord. Keep us al-ways in peace, by the interces-sions of the Theotokos, O only Friend of man.

Τοῦ Σταυροῦ σου τὸν τύπον ἐν οὐρανῷ θεασάμενος, καὶ ὡς ὁ Παῦλος τὴν κλήσιν οὐκ ἐξ ἀνθρώπων δεξάμενος, ὁ ἐν βασιλεύσιν, Ἀπόστολός σου Κύριε, Βασιλεύουσαν πόλιν τὴ χειρί σου παρέθετο ἣν περίσωζε διὰ παντὸς ἐν εἰρήνῃ, πρεσβείαις τῆς Θεοτόκου, μόνε Φιλάνθρωπε.

Apostles to preach that Thou art risen, O Christ God, granting great mercy to the world.

Seasonal Kontakion in the First Mode

O God, when You come upon the earth in glory, the whole world will tremble. A river of fire will bring all before Your Judgment Seat and the books will be opened, and everything in secret will become public. At that time, deliver me from the fire which never dies, and enable me to stand by Your right hand, O Judge most just.

MARCH 10 EPISTLE READING Romans 13:11-14; 14:1-4 GOSPEL READING Matthew 6:14-21 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Anastasia of Alexandria Forgiveness Sunday

Quadratus the Martyr & his Companions

These Martyrs contested for piety's sake in Corinth during the reign of the Emperor Valerian (253-260).

Michael Mauroudes the New-Martyr

Trophimos and Thallos the Martyrs

WISDOM OF THE FATHERS Here it were well to sigh

aloud, and to wail bitterly: for not only do we imitate the hypocrites, but we have even surpassed them. St. John Chrysostom, Homi-ly 20 on Matthew 6, 4th Century

HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in

the Plagal Fourth Mode From on high didst Thou de-

scend, O Compassionate One; to burial of three days hast Thou

submitted that Thou mightest free us from our passions. O our Life and Resurrection, Lord, glory be to Thee.

Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Second Mode

O Master, Prudence, Guide of Wisdom, Instruction to the foolish and Defender of the poor, strengthen my heart and grant it discernment. Give me words, Word of the Father, for behold, I shall not keep my lips from crying out to You, "O Merciful One, have mercy on me who has fallen."

MARCH 17 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 11:24-26, 32-40 GOSPEL READING John 1:43-51 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Sunday of Orthodoxy

Paul the Righteous Martyr Alexis the Man of God Patrick the Enlightener of

Ireland Theocteristos the Confessor WISDOM OF THE FATHERS Peter, when after so many

miracles and such high doctrine he confessed that, "Thou art the Son of God" (Matt. xvi. 16), is called "blessed," as having re-ceived the revelation from the Father; St. John Chrysostom, Homily 21 on John 1, 1. B#58, pp. 72, 73, 4th Century

HMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in

the First Mode When the stone had been

sealed by the Jews and the sol-

diers were guarding Thine immac-ulate Body, Thou didst arise on the third day, O Saviour, granting life unto the world. Wherefore, the powers of the Heavens cried out to Thee, O Lifegiver: Glory to Thy Resurrection, O Christ. Glory to Thy Kingdom. Glory to Thy dispensation, O only Friend of man.

Apolytikion for Sun. of Ortho-doxy in the Second Mode

We worship Thine immaculate icon, O Good One, asking the forgiveness of our failings, O Christ our God; for of Thine own will Thou wast well-pleased to ascend the Cross in the flesh, that Thou mightest deliver from slavery to the enemy those whom Thou hadst fashioned. Where-fore, we cry to Thee thankfully: Thou didst fill all things with joy, O our Saviour, when Thou camest to save the world.

Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode

To you, Theotokos, invincible Defender, having been delivered from peril, I, your city, dedicate the victory festival as a thank offering. In your irresistible might, keep me safe from all trials, that I may call out to you: "Hail, unwed-ded bride!"

MARCH 24 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 1:10-14; 2:1-3 GOSPEL READING Mark 2:1-12 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Sunday of St. Gregory Pala-

mas Forefeast of the Annunciation

of the Theotokos Zachariah the Recluse Artemon the Presbyter WISDOM OF THE FATHERS Now Matthew indeed saith,

that "they brought him," but the others, that they also broke up the roof, and let him down. And they put the sick man before Christ, saying nothing, but com-mitting the whole to Him. St. John Chrysostom, Homily 29 on Matthew 9, 1. B#54, pp. 195, 196, 4th Century

HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in

the Second Mode

When Thou didst descend unto death, O Life Immortal, then didst Thou slay Hades with the lightning of Thy Divinity. And when Thou didst also raise the dead out of the nethermost depths, all the powers in the Heavens cried out: O Life-giver, Christ our God, glory be to Thee.

Apolytikion for Sun. of St. Gregory Palamas in the Plagal Fourth Mode

Light of Orthdoxy, pillar and teacher of the Church, adorn-ment of monastics, invincible champion of theologians, O Greg-ory thou wonderworker, boast of Thessalonica, herald of grace: ever pray that our souls be saved.

Seasonal Kontakion in the Fourth Mode

At the great Archangel's voice, O Theotokos, the All-holy Spirit came upon thee and thou didst conceive Him that is one in es-sence and throne with God the Father, O Adam's recovery.

MARCH 31 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 4:14-16; 5:1-6 GOSPEL READING Mark 8:34-38; 9:1 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Innocent, Enlightener of Sibe-

ria & Alaska Theophilos the Martyr and

those with him The Holy Hieromartyr Hypati-

us, Bishop of Gangra Sunday of the Holy Cross Akakios the Confessor

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ATTENDANCE

February 3 134

February 10 124

February 17 149

February 24 170

Feb 2019 Ave 140

Feb 2018 Ave 173

YTD 2019 Ave 146

YTD 2018 Ave 156

C R / A BAPTISM: The infant daughter of Andrew & Antonia

Reeves was baptized in our Church February 17 and was given the name Arianne Sophia by her godmother, Miranthe Golas. May the blessings of our Church be with the newly-baptized infant, Our sincere congratulations to her parents, grandparents, godmother and her entire family.

Na sas zisi !!!!!!!

ILL AND NEEDING OUR PRAYERS: We wish a speedy recovery to our friend

and fellow parishioner, Tony Anthony, whose has been sick and recently hospitalized.

PERASTIKA SOU, Tony !!!!!!!

DEATHS: Our sincere condolences to the family of

Kathleen Touloupas who died in December in Burlington, NC. The late Kathleen Touloupas was the sister of Nick Andre.

Our sincere condolences to the family of Jim Botelis who died January 26 and for whom funeral prayers were held at graveside, January 28.

Our sincere condolences to the family of Jimmy Koumbas who died February 10 and

whose funeral service was held in our Church, February 15.

Our sincere condolences to the family of Olympia Plethos, who died February 12 and whose funeral service was held in our Church February 16,.

MAY THEIR MEMORY BE ETERNAL!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU: Thank you to the anonymous donors who

contributed $400 for the publishing and mail-ing of the last edition of the Cross+Roads.

SUNDAY SCHOOL DONATIONS REQUESTED: The Sunday School is requesting donations

from Parishioners to help purchase new ta-bles, chairs, carpet, and other items to im-prove Sunday School classrooms. Any size donation to help fund this effort is appreciat-ed.

At the Parish Assembly meeting held on February 24 it was reported that the Parish Council has prioritized a list of maintenance items to improve our facilities and grounds. Please see President Frank Peri or another Parish Council member if you could help with your time, talents, or financial contributions to help accomplish these much needed items to improve our church.

If you would like to purchase Koliva for memorials, you may contact: Mary Graham and Christine Fulmore 595-7871 Helen Nichollls 817-8215 Anastasia Savrides 595-1581 Athena Savvas 589-1484

Koliva

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We thank all those parishion-ers who served as hosts for the months of February. The hosts for March are:

March 3: Ms. Christine St. Martin, Ms. Angela Gionis, M/M Paul Summa

March 10: Philoptochos Tea March 17: M/M Pete Sun,

Ms. Anastasia Theolorogiannis, M/M Angelo Theodorogiannis, Mr. C. Theodorogiannis

March 24: M/M F. Peri , Ms. Molly Theophilos, M/M John Thomas

March 31: The Katsantonis family, Ms. S. Valentin

REFRESHMENTS

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C , C C N PHILOPTOCHOS First and foremost, we

want to continue thanking the team of volunteers of our AOK project for their continued participation in this very worthwhile project as well as to thank all those persons who support our team mem-bers with their contributions both monetarily and by mak-ing sandwiches for the team members to take to our pa-tients. Again, if you would like to contribute to this very wor-thy project, whether a mem-ber of Philoptochos or a member of our SS Constan-tine and Helen Community, please, contact

Ellie Costulis, H833-8181, C303-3080 and offer your help. Many thanks for your consideration.

Our Literacy Committee continues to collect "Box Tops for Education". Do bring to Church the box tops you col-lect and put them in the ap-propriate receptacle that is placed in the Narthex.

Our Scholarship Committee is now accepting applications and asks that all those young people interested in applying for one of the two scholar-ships (The Platon Gailey and the Philoptochos Chapter ) that Philoptochos gives pick up an application form in a

timely manner. Application forms will be available in the Church Office. Competed applications must be returned to the Philoptochos Scholar-ship Committee postmarked no later than April 30, 2019.

As part of our membership drive, Philoptochos will host the coffee after Church on Sunday, March 10. We invite all our parishioners to join us for coffee and refreshments in the Community Center at the conclusion of the Divine Liturgy on that Sunday.

We also invite all those members of SS Constantine and Helen Community who are not as yet members of Philoptochos, to consider becoming members. Philoptochos is the right hand of our Church. Our charitable work reaches far and wide and enhances our Church's philanthropic efforts. Please, consider becoming part of Philoptochos. Our dues are only $30.00 annually.

To our current members: If you have not paid your 2019 dues, do so as soon as possi-ble.

Dues can be given to Chris-tine St. Martin, Maggie Thompson or mailed to the Church Office, ATTN: Philopto-chos.

On Sunday, March 17, Philoptochos will pass a tray

in observance of the Sunday of Orthodoxy. Do contribute generously, everyone. These funds are used to support our various charitable endeavors.

Our obligations to the Na-tional for the month of March are: A contribution to the Or-thodox Christian Mission Cen-ter - Support a Mission Priest (OCMC/SAMP) which provides financial support to the mis-sionary priests and teams; and a contribution to Hellenic College Holy Cross Lenten Event - Veneration of the Holy Cross, the proceeds of which provide for Hellenic College Holy Cross operational ex-penses.

Our March meeting will be Monday, March 4, beginning with refreshments at 6:30 p.m. Hosting this meeting are Cleo Pileggi and Athena Sav-vas.

HELLENIC WOMAN’S PENELOPE SOCIETY The March meeting of the

Hellenic Woman’s Penelope Society (HWPS) will be held on Thursday, March 7th at 6:00 pm at the Hellenic Cen-ter. Violet Samman will be the hostess and Sharon Otero will be presiding.

On March 2nd, we held our 19th Annual Dinner/Dance. A detailed description of the

event will be included in the April issue of Cross+Roads.

We are saddened by the passing of our beloved long-time member, Olympia Plethos. Olympia joined HWPS in 1956 and was a very active member, serving as treasurer for many years. Her earthly departure will be greatly missed by all of us. To her beloved family, we express our love and heartfelt sympa-thy. May her memory be eter-nal.

We also express our sin-cerest and heartfelt sympathy to the family of our dear pa-rishioner, Jimmy Koumbas, who also passed away recent-ly. May his memory be eter-nal.

AHEPA FAMILY SCHOLARSHIPS The AHEPA Family Scholar-

ships and the District 3 Schol-arships applications are avail-able in the AHEPA Family Cen-ter. Reminder for the AHEPA Family Scholarships the par-ent must me current with their 2019 Dues. AHEPA Dis-trict 3 Scholarships must be Postmarked by April 15,2019. Local AHEPA Family Scholar-ships must be Postmarked by April 30, 2019. For any ques-tion please call George Anas at (757) 439-3207 or Hope Zambas at (757) 826-7212.

WISDOM OF THE FATHERS And see how He also makes

His discourse unexceptionable: not saying at all, "whether you will, or no, you must suffer this," but how? "If any man will come after me." St. John Chrysostom, Homily 55 on Matthew 16, 1. B#54, p.339., 4th Century

HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in

the Third Mode

Let the Heavens rejoice; let earthly things be glad; for the Lord hath wrought might with His arm, He hath trampled upon death by death. The first-born of the dead hath He become. From the belly of Hades hath He deliv-ered us, and hath granted great mercy to the world.

Apolytikion for Sun. of the Holy Cross in the First Mode

Save, O Lord, Thy people and bless Thine inheritance; grant Thou unto the faithful victory over

adversaries. And by the power of Thy Cross do Thou preserve Thy commonwealth.

Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode

To you, Theotokos, invincible Defender, having been delivered from peril, I, your city, dedicate the victory festival as a thank offering. In your irresistible might, keep me safe from all trials, that I may call out to you: "Hail, un-wedded bride!"

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PREPARING FOR THE PASSION &

RESURRECTION OF OUR LORD

Great Lent is a time for self-examination and self-denial – a time for taking control of our lives and our bodies. The purpose of the fast is to give us a greater awareness of our dependence on God. It is a time to improve our-selves and our relationship with God.

Lent is a time for greater works of mercy and charity for those less fortunate than us. It is a time for visitation of the sick and assistance to the poor, and generally a more joyful relation-ship with those who are close to us – our family and friends.

Most of all, Lent is a time of joy and a new beginning. We cleanse ourselves –mind, body and soul– through the physical and spiritual fast, keeping a Christian attitude in all that we do. All this is done to prepare us for the Great Feast of Pascha – the Resurrection of Christ.

May God bless you and guide you, and may you reach your Paschal destination with the joy of renewed faith in Christ.

PRAYER Have no anxiety about any-

thing, but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiv-ing let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passes all under-

standing will keep your hearts and your minds in Jesus Christ.

-St. Paul’s letter to the Philippians One key to a more fulfilling life

is prayer. For Orthodox Chris-tians, the aim of prayer is to en-ter into conversation with God. Prayer is sometimes referred to as dialogue with God. Often it is a waiting on God in silence. In the church it is defined as the lifting of the mind and heart to God, and also as walking in the presence of God. We turn our mind and thoughts toward Him. We mentally gaze at Him and speak with Him in reverence, fear, and hope. At times we speak to Him with words and at other times we stand in reverent silence, saying nothing, but being aware of His presence. In this dialogue with God we praise Him and thank Him. We ask Him for what we need. Our mind and our heart are opened to Him. Prayer is not only repeating words, it is trust in God that he hears and directs us in His Way involving spiritual growth and develop-ment.

The Prayer of St. Ephraim the Syrian Read each week-day during

Great Lent O Lord and Master of my life,

take from me the spirit of sloth, despair, lust of power, and idle

talk. But give rather the spirit of chas-

tity, humility, patience, and love to Thy serv-

ant. Yea, O Lord and King, grant me to see my own transgressions,

and not to judge my brother, for blessed art Thou, unto ages of ages.

Amen.

Prayer to the Holy Spirit Heavenly King, Comforter, the

Spirit of Truth, present in all places and filling all

things, the treasury of blessings and

Giver of life: come and abide in us.

Cleanse us from all impurity, and save our souls,

O Gracious Lord.

FASTING The fast for the forty days of

Lent is indicated below, though many are not able to hold to the strict fast. We offer the following guidelines to be considered prayerfully with the guidance of your spiritual father and in con-sideration of any medical condi-tion or dietary requirements.

STRICT FAST No Meat, Fish, Milk, Dairy Prod-

ucts, Oil, or Oil Products PALM SUNDAY

Fish, Oil & Wine permitted FEAST OF THE ANNUNCIA-

TION/MARCH 25TH March 25th - all day: Fish, Oil &

Wine Permitted Shellfish are permitted throughout

Great Lent Resource: The Orthodox Daily

Planner and Resource Guide published by the Department of Youth and Young Adult Ministries provides daily guidance in fast-ing, scripture, feast days and more.

St. John Chrysostom on Fasting

Do you fast? Give me proof of it by your works.

If you see a poor man, take pity on him.

If you see a friend being hon-ored, do not envy him.

Do not let only your mouth fast, but also the eye and the ear and the feet and the hands and all the members of our bodies.

Let the hands fast, by being free of avarice.

Let the feet fast, by ceasing to run after sin.

Let the eyes fast, by disciplin-ing them not to glare at that which is sinful.

Let the ear fast, by not listen-ing to evil talk and gossip.

Let the mouth fast from foul words and unjust criticism.

For what good is it if we ab-stain from birds and fishes, but bite and devour our brothers?

May He who came to the world to save sinners strengthen us to complete the fast with hu-mility, have mercy on us and save us.

Jesus’ Instructions

on Fasting "Moreover, when you fast, do

not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfig-ure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, so that you do not appear to men to be fasting, but to your Father who is in the se-cret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.”

BIBLE READING In private study, when a Chris-

tian profitably reads the Bible, receiving inspiration and strength from it, family members, friends, relatives and even acquaintanc-es will inevitably notice the differ-ence. Any person who comes into contact with such a Christian cannot but notice the growing peace, love and inner assurance - the spirit of Christ - in that Chris-tian, and will frequently ask (if not ask, certainly think) what gives that person such strength and radiance. God will provide many opportunities to the grow-ing Christian for sharing with others his or her experience with the Bible. What better witness for the truth of the Christian faith than a solid Christian life nour-

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ished by Holy Scripture and radi-ating true Christian love at home, at Church and at work? The Christian's own life becomes a kind of gospel, a living Bible, in which other people observe, read and experience the truths of God in action. From Bread for Life, by Father Theodore

Stylianopoulos Greek Orthodox Archdiocese Department

of Religious Education

Suggestions for family Bible reading:

Set aside a regular time for daily reading preferably in the evening at the supper table when the whole family is together. When the children are young, mom or dad can do the reading. When the children grow older, they may share in the reading. Reading to children is one of life's greatest joys. Children treasure it.

Don't read too much or too fast. One chapter a day is suffi-cient. Let what you read sink in slowly. If the children are young, read from a Bible story book-one that has pictures which you can show the children.

Start with the biographies of Jesus (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John).

Read with the faith and the expectation that God will really and truly speak to you through what you read.

Don't worry about the passag-es you do not understand. Con-centrate on what you do under-stand. The more you read, the more you will understand. One passage explains another.

Each day memorize at least one verse that grips you. Say it out loud as a family three or four times. Encourage your children to fall asleep with this verse on their lips.

Get a translation your children understand.

As you read, try to have an icon of Jesus before you if you are reading the Gospels; one of St. Paul if you are reading his epistles, etc. This will help you realize who it is who is speaking to you.

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REPENTANCE & CONFESSION

Repentance has its roots in the apostles. In the Book of Acts the Apostle Peter says, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” (Acts 2:37-38)

When we fall away from God, we have removed ourselves from His communion – with Him and with other Christians. We have excommunicated ourselves. To re-enter communion with God is the on-going activity of all Christians. We fall away daily in some way or another. No one is exempt.

Often, when children play in competitive games, one will call out “that’s a do over!” Haven’t we all wished for that chance to un-do the past and start over? Re-pentance offers us this new be-ginning.

We are telling God that we have changed our mind about our past direction and want to be back in communion with him. The Greek work for repentance, metanoia, implies a very deep change in the way we see our-selves, our world, and our rela-tionship to God. To change our mind in repentance is the start-ing point in our Lenten journey. We leave behind regret as we move toward hope. Repentance is not a single action but an atti-tude, a frame of mind.

Think back over your life of things which you regret having said or done – hurtful, inconsid-erate, selfish, deceitful. Think also of those things which you have done which may not have directly affected others, but which you know to be wrong ac-cording to the teachings of the

Church. Bring them to mind as if they were occurring right now. Think of how it would have been if you had acted differently. Take this regret and turn it into repent-ance. Acknowledge that you have offended another person or the Church, and in doing so you have offended God.

If we are to be forgiven by God, He requires of us that we also forgive one another. For many of us, this is the most diffi-cult aspect of repentance and confession. Yet we say it each time we pray the Lord’s prayer, “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”

Just as God’s love for us is personal, so must ours be for Him. As the Christian grows from child to adult, his or her personal response to God becomes cru-cial. This personal response is the act of confession.

HOLY COMMUNION

The Sacrament of Holy Com-munion—the Eucharist—which literally means "Thanksgiving," is the Mystery whereby the bread and wine of offering are changed, actually, not symbolically, into the very Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. The Eucharist is at the very center of the Church's life, and from it flows the prayer of believers in a sacrifice of entreaty for the peace of the world, for all those who ask for help, and for all men and women '"The Eucha-rist unites us in the most intimate fashion with the Lord; it nourish-es our soul and body, and aids our strengthening, increase, and growth in spiritual life. According to the promise of the Gospel, “He that eats this bread will live forev-er.” (The Gospel of John 6:58)

The cup which holds the wine that becomes the blood of Christ is the chalice, the cup of salva-tion. When we kneel during the liturgy, we pray with the priest that God the Holy Spirit may change the bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Jesus. This means that when we receive Holy Communion, Jesus comes to live in us.

How do we prepare to receive the Body and Blood of Jesus? We pray. We should have love in our hearts for all people. We should ask forgiveness from God and from our parents, brothers, and sisters, and from anyone we may have hurt.

When we come before the priest for Communion, we make the sign of the cross, tell the priest our baptismal name, hold the Communion cloth under our chin, and open our mouth wide. After receiving, we wipe our lips with the Communion cloth, make the sign of the cross, and hand the Communion cloth to the per-son next to us.

Once we have received Com-munion, we must remember that we have become one with Christ and with all those who received Communion with us. Christ now lives in all of us. We are all living icons of Jesus. It is by loving one another that we love Jesus. After receiving Communion our bodies become holy chalices. God lives in us.

Jesus wants to use our hands, which have now become His hands, to help those in need. When we receive Communion, we become members of Christ's Body, the Church. This means that Jesus has no eyes but our eyes, no feet but our feet to do His work in the world today. What kind, thoughtful act will you do for Jesus today? From Let’s Take a Walk Through

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P C M DECEMBER 10, 2018 I: Call to Order & Opening

Prayer: Present: Father George

Chioros, Frank Peri, John Der-manis, Zena Mageras, Bobby Garofalis, Kent Paumier, Greg Bicouvaris, Tom Grepiotis, Nick Matthews, Anastasia Theodoro-giannis

Absent: Elias Doulgerakis, Stavroula Gailey

Guest: Gary Nicholls, Howard Mandeville

The meeting convened at 18:30 with an opening prayer by Father George. The following items were discussed:

II: Minutes: Mageras - motion to approve

the meeting minutes of the 19 Nov 18 meeting; seconded by Theodorogiannis, passed unani-mously.

III: Correspondence: ·Thank You Letter from Virgin-

ia Peninsula Foodbank, DTD 28 Nov 18, for our food donation of Sixty-six pounds of food.

·Christmas Card and donation request from Ronald McDonald House New York “Greek Divi-sion”, DTD December 2018. Motion Theodorogiannis to do-nate $100.00 to Ronald McDon-ald House New York “Greek Divi-sion”; Seconded by Garofalis, passed unanimously.

IV: Treasurer’s Report: By Zena Mageras attached with minutes.

·Account Item 10100 – re-named Maintenance Reserve / Organ Fund Replacement

·Account Item 10101 re-named to “Gifting”.

V: Visitor’s Comments: · Howard has worked up

a maintenance list and is work-ing on a priority list. Attached herein

VI: Committee Reports: ·Youth Ministry – Mariam

Canavos GOYA lock-in December 8th-

9th in Richmond GOYA giving tree has been set

up in the Narthex Christmas pageant Dec 16th W&M OCF/ Young Adult re-

treat in February

12-13 Jan- Richmond GOYA Tournament

Orthodoxy on Tap upcoming House Committee – Barbra

France Bible and Shipyard breakfasts

are continuing with good attend-ance. Our last breakfast was December 6th. Due to PORT and Holiday break, our next breakfasts begin on January 8th with the shipyard breakfast.

We had three (3) rentals since last meeting. The HYD Event, Baby Shower held in front cof-fee/fellowship hall and the DOP Craft Fair. All events went well. The Cappucino/Hot Cocoa ma-chine was knocked over. I have spoken to Jessie Allen who will be looking into whether or not door hinges are available. There was damage to the drywall and the tile floor trim from the fall. The Kwanis Club rental 21 Sept 19 will require a Rider from their insurance company for an out-side tent. The House Rules up-date is still being worked.

Upcoming Events thru 2018: December 12th thru 19th –

PORT December 22nd – Baptism

(Parishioner) December 29th – Quin-

ceanera Festival Committee – John

Dermanis Still working on the final num-

bers. There are some outstand-ing checks and expenses to be captured.

Maintenance Committee See Mandeville’s Mainte-

nance List attached herein Stewardship Ministry – Nick

Matthews: As of 11/30/2018 Stewardship (Fund 1) $147,958.20 Other (Funds 1 & 2) $193,654.22 Total (Funds l, 2 & 3) $196,682.08 Families Pledged 166 Stewardship Commitment $169,494.00 Average Family Pledged $892.89

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Offered for the Glory of God and the prayers of: Wreaths Given by: Mike & Nia Kokorelis Poinsettias Given by: The Accardi Family George & Jackie Anas: In Memory of our Parents, Chet, Alice, Theodore & Helen Georgia Mamangakis & Barney Barnes: In Memory of Shelia Barnes and In Honor of Elizabeth Puckett Mr. & Mrs. Leroy & Joanna Bos-setti: In Thanksgiving for Leroy & Joan-na Bossetti Beth Campbell & Family: In Memory of Ada Van Ness Fr George, Presv. Flora, Constan-tine Chioros, Fr Nick Despotides: In Memory of Presvytera Moscha & John Despotides Patricia Beaudry Demson: In Memory of Jerome Beaudry Dermanis Family: In Memory of Sylvia & John Mat-thews, Anna & George Gasparis Faye Evans: In Memory of Steve & Dorothy Andrews John & Barbara France: In Memory of Paul E. France, John & Maria Nemechek Vicki Freeman: In Honor of Helen Siokis; In Memory of Steve Siokis/Dot Free-man, Laney, Dora & Fofi Alvin & Alexa Garrison: In Memory of Our Parents Bill Georges: In Memory of Voula & Stacey Koumbas; Sam & Frank Mageras The Grepiotis Family: Tom, Libby, Thomas, Matthew, Maxine, Jo In Memory of Arthur Grepiotis & John Grepiotis Chris & Elaine Jansen: In Memory of Phoebus Kara-georgis & Sophie Kiklis Gonny Maria Kaoudis: In Thanksgiving for the Kaoudis Family John Karatsikis: In Thanksgiving for the Karatsikis Family Anna & Zena Mageras: In Memory of Sam Mageras, Grandparents, Stacey Koumbas & Thanksgiving & Health for Anna

& Zena Debbie Malliarakis: In Honnor of Julia Malliarakis and In Memory of Nicholas John Mal-liarakis Sylvia Marcin: In Memory of John Michael, Thomas & Christine & all loved ones gone to their rest Athena T. Markos: In Memory of Pete N. Markos Ted & Maria Maroulis Joanie Michalos: In Memory of Alex J. Michalos Mary & John Michos: In Memory of Antigoni Marcou, Aristides Michos Camelia Pana: In Memory of Radu Sturzu Kent & Georgene Paumier: In Memory of Lambros & Paumier Families Russian School of Hampton Roads Jane & Joe Saur: : In Honor of Dr. & Mrs. James Lent, Mr. & Mrs. Joseph C. Saur Dianne & Pete Sun: In Memory of Chris & Cleo Zervos Angelo & Nia Theodorogiannis: In Memory of Athanasios & Ana-stasia Kokinos & Konstantinos & Zoe Theodorogiannis Sotos & Panayiota Tofalli: In Memory of Christofi Fanari Dr. Lambros P. Tzerefos: In Honor of Erika Oahms Joanna Vallas: In Memory of Theo & Domna Vallas Barb & Nick Vlattas In Memory of Pat, Wilbur, Bob Burgin; Anne, Emmanuel Vlattas Voula & Nick Vretakis: In Memory of John & Maria Myrsi-ades; George & Fotini Vretakis James E. A. Woodbury In Memory of Victoria A. Babenko-Woodbury

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Gave Regularly but not Pledged 51

VII: Priest’s Report – Fa-ther George

Father went over the Christ-mas Service hours

Christmas Program is this Sunday

Port Project starts this Wednesday. We are providing the dinner on the 16 TH Dec and breakfast the 17 TH.

26 Nov – Parish Council Elec-tion results sent to the diocese

Thank You to Teddy Fotiou for fixing the old church sign dam-age by Michael combining and hanging the Steward of the Year Plaque in the church office hall-way.

New Years Eve Dance is in Norfolk this year

Dress code for ushers some parishioners have complained.

Thanked the outgoing Parish Council members and welcomed the incoming members. 13 Jan 19 he will swear in the new Par-ish Council members.

Father is getting the church credit card from TownBank

VIII: Unfinished Business: 1. Fence Repair – Still

waiting for final bids. The insur-ance deductible is $1000.00

2. Review Actions from General Assembly Meeting:

a. Fall Festival – Louka-mades machine location for next year or hood/extinguisher modifi-cations in the kitchen to support temp location.

b. Insurance discount for addition of security cameras to the property.

c. Lighting outside of Church office need to check. Done

d. Active shooting train-ing/drill for the community what to do. Twenty-five interested, tentative date 14 Jan 19

e. Door/Egress evaluation - doors open downstairs people are upstairs or in the gym. People can enter the building without being seen. Start locking doors.

f. Hiring security for days of service.

g. Maintenance/Repair List. Attached herein

h. Nick Vrettos – Chal-lenge Council & Stewardship Committee - Making Christ in the Church. Give us a plan Growing the community, bringing people who have not been attending back to the Church.

i. Joanna Bossetti – Chil-dren not in the church for ser-vices. Need to bring them from Sunday School. How many kids are in Sunday School, basketball, dance etc... all need to be in church.

3. Organ/Maintenance account change

4. Safety Deposit Box Con-tents – Get 2ND apprais-al or sell items. TBD by 21Jan19.

VIII: New Business: 1. Recent Donations a. Lighting in the Nave.

Teddy is working estimates for LED replacements and ceiling tile replacements which should be accomplished at the same time utilizing the scaffolding.

b. New Desks for Sunday School rooms donated by Chris and Hope Zambas. TBD for deliv-ery

2. Around the Room a. Bicouvaris thanked the

outgoing Parish Council mem-bers (Matthews, Grepiotis and Gailey) for their service.

b. Mageras – Flags need to be replaced.

IX: Adjournment: Fr. George offered the closing

prayer at 19:30. Next PC meeting will be 28 Jan 19 at 1830.

X: Certification: Respectfully Submitted Kent M. Paumier Secretary JANUARY 28, 2019 I: Call to Order & Opening

Prayer: Present: Father George

Chioros, Frank Peri, Zena Mageras, Kent Paumier, Robert Demson, Greg Bicouvaris, Elias Doulgerakis, Anastasia Theodoro-giannis, Bobby Garofalis, Michael Kokorelis, Gary Nicholls

Absent: John Dermanis The meeting convened at

18:34 with an opening prayer by Father George. The following

items were discussed: II: Minutes: Bicouvaris made motion to

approve the meeting minutes of the 10 Dec 18 meeting; second-ed by Nicholls, passed unani-mously.

III: Correspondence: Thank You Letter from Virginia

Peninsula Foodbank, DTD 23 Jan 19, for our food donation of 119 pounds of food.

Letter of Thanks from Annun-ciation Greek Orthodox Cathe-dral, DTD 16 Jan 19, J. Katsias Parish Council President, for our communities attendance at their 2018 New Year’s Eve Celebra-tion.

IV: Treasurer’s Report: Rob-ert Demson & Zena Mageras attached with minutes.

Mageras – The Treasures’ Report from 19 Nov 18 minutes was incorrect. The full $10K was transferred from the General Account to the Maintenance Re-serve/Organ Fund Replacement. The cost of recent organ repairs were not deducted.

V: Visitor’s Comments: None

VI: Committee Reports: Youth Ministry – Mariam Ca-

navos The Youth Directors from Rich-

mond had a meeting on January 16th to plan upcoming events

Richmond Basketball Tourna-ment Jan 12-13 got canceled due to weather.

8-9 Feb – OCF/Young Adult Retreat

23 Feb – JOY/HOPE Movie Night

Annual GOYA Spaghetti lunch March 24th

15-17 Mar – GOYA Retreat 13 Apr – Oratorical Festival 20 Apr – Teaching liturgy Laz-

arus Saturday 25-29 June – VBS 7-13 Jul – Camp Good Shep-

herd House Committee – Barbra

France Bible and Shipyard breakfasts

are continuing with ok attend-ance. The cold weather takes its toll. Also, the leader of the bible breakfast will be out for 3 weeks minimum for double hip replace-

ment surgery. We had two (2) rentals since last meeting. A parishioner baptism and a Quin-ceanera. Both events went well. There are no rentals thru January and February. However, once we get into March, there are no available weekends until June 29th.

Maintenance Committee – Howard Mandeville

Hall Storage Room – water is leaking from a drain pipe in the wall. Doulgerakis to look at it.

Fall Festival Loukamades fryer – Reconfigure hood & suppres-sion system to cover the fryer or place it outside.

Refrigeration equipment sup-port structure, outside over the kitchen back door, metal decking is rusting and need to be checked.

The area in front of the dump-sters a load of aggregate is need-ed to fill in mud hole. Contact Randy Pingley about availability of grader to spread the aggre-gate.

Stewardship Ministry – TBD: Stewardship (Fund 1) As of 01/28/2019 $18,821.00 Stewardship Other (Fund 2) $2,360,.05 Other (Funds 1 & 2) $21,181.05 Total (Funds l, 2 & 3) $21,181.05 Families Pledged 98 Stewardship Commitment $115,647.00 Average Family Pledged $1,180.07 Gave Regularly but not

Pledged 51 VII: Priest’s Report – Fa-

ther George Barry Hendricks petition for

Ordination has been approved. Awaiting an Ordination date from his Eminence.

22 Jan – Offered the Opening Prayer at the city council meeting

25 Jan – Signature papers taken to Towne Bank

3-5 Feb – Clergy Retreat Ocean City, MD

3 Feb – AHEPA Super Bowl Party

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2 Saturday First Saturday of Souls 9:00 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 6:00 pm HWPS Dinner Dance 3 Sunday Judgement Sunday - Meatfare 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 4 Monday 6:30 pm Philoptochos 5 Tuesday 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm Greek School Classes 6 Wednesday 6:00 pm Paraclesis 6:00 pm Basketball/GOYA Hangout 7:00 pm Adult Education Lenten Series 7:15 pm Choir 7 Thursday 6:30 pm HWPS 9 Saturday Second Saturday of Souls 9:00 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 6:00 pm AHEPA Casino Night 10 Sunday Forgiveness Sunday - Cheesefare 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 5:00 pm Forgiveness Vespers 11 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 12 Tuesday 5:00 pm – 8:00pm Greek School Classes 13 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 6:00 pm Basketball/GOYA Hangout

7:00 pm Adult Education Lenten Series 7:15 pm Choir 15 Friday First Salutations Goya Lenten Retreat 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Sacalis Hall 7:00 pm First Salutations 16 Saturday Third Saturday of Souls Goya Lenten Retreat 9:00 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 17 Sunday Sunday of Orthodoxy Goya Lenten Retreat 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy Artoclasia for the Zambas Family 40 Day Memorial for James Koumbas 6:30 pm Pan Orthodox Vespers at St. Basil Hampton 18 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 7:00 pm Parish Council 19 Tuesday 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm Greek School Classes 20 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 6:00 pm Basketball/GOYA Hangout 7:00 pm Adult Education Lenten Series 7:15 pm Choir 22 Friday Second Salutations 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Sacalis Hall 7:00 pm Second Salutations

24 Sunday Sunday of St. Gregory Palamas 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 1 Year Memorial for Charita Stavrou 12:00 pm Greek School Program Goya Luncheon 6:30 pm Annunciation Vespers Norfolk 25 Monday Feast of the Annunciation Greek Independence Day 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 26 Tuesday 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm Greek School Classes 27 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 6:00 pm Basketball/GOYA Hangout 7:00 pm Adult Education Lenten Series 7:15 pm Choir 28 Thursday 6:45 pm AHEPA/DOP 29 Friday Third Salutations 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Sacalis Hall 7:00 pm Third Salutations 31 Sunday Sunday of Holy Cross 9:00 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 1 Year Memorial for Perri Katsan-tonis Special Tray for Hellenic College/Holy Cross

8 Feb – Paraclesis Service at ST. Demetrios in Williamsburg.

Please leave audio system on until the chanters are done.

Sylvia Marcin, on 2 Jan 19, submitted her Letter of Resigna-tion effective 5 Feb 19.

24 Feb – Spring Assembly after church. 50 parishioners required for a quorum.

The Ecumenical Patriarchate sent a letter to Princeton Univer-sity for return of early church papers stolen during WWI

VIII: Unfinished Business: 1. Repair of fence at prop-

erty border – vendor selected, parts ordered, expect completion in 4 weeks. Down selected New Leaf to repair the fence for ap-proximately $1,272.00

2. Maintenance priorities 3. Recent Donations a. Lighting in the Nave.

Awaiting info from Teddy Fotiou b. New Desks for Sunday

School rooms donated by Chris and Hope Zambas. Obtaining sample before ordering

VIII: New Business: 1. Budget Approval –

Reviewed the budget for 24 Feb 19 Parish Assembly.

Paumier – motion to approve the budget as amended with the change of $28,095.00 from surplus to the Maintenance/Repair account; seconded by Nicholls, passed unanimously.

2. Agenda for General Assembly – Mike Chalkias will help with the presentation of the 2019 budget. Demson will pre-sent the 2018 summary. Action – Paumier for Agenda Draft

3. Ushering 101 – Please be attentive of the Usher’s Schedule especially the early time.

4. Around the Room Barbara France – The Hall

has some down time and looking to get the Hall and kitchen cleaned.

·Theodorogiannis – Getting with France to determine a Sun-day date for 70TH Anniversary Luncheon

IX: Adjournment: Fr. George offered the closing

prayer at 20:55. Next PC meet-ing will be 18 Feb 19 at 1830.

X: Certification: Respectfully Submitted Kent M. Paumier Secretary

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