//Notes from RSD’s Mastermind 7 : Day Game//

Saad’s Personal story

How he came to NY and noticed how was easy to open set‟s in parks.

It‟s much easier to approach „turbo‟ girl during daygame than in night game.

Opening

Most guys try to go Indirect with their approach >> Nonsense & Random small talk => solicitor.

Nothing is more important to a woman than her sexual validation.

Solution? Go direct within 20s.

“if you‟re talking about her then you‟re definatly getting her attention”.

Proper intent => Light up like a Christmas tree !

Misc. issues

Girls are shy

*Negative responses; It‟s something about the situation

*In bars/clubs , 6/10 girls are going to meet a guy during that day.

*In daytime, it‟s 4/10. [40% less likely that she‟s a girl looking for a guy than in a bar.]

*Girls don‟t know how to deal with a guy approaching them during the day.[They just show

their defence mechanisms.]

*Solution? Ease up: give the impression that you‟re doing this all the time => No big deal.

*Example: Girl in bookstore : “do you always do that ?” “ yeah !”

Plowing

*When getting negative response, don‟t just talk in order to TALK !!

*Plowing is not overcoming the situation with your words, but with your positivity.

*Throwing words strengthen her frame of avoiding you.

*“If you react you‟re done; but you play with it, you‟re IN”

*Girls don‟t know any better than being shy during daygame. Don‟t let that stop you.

*Example1: The cougar sitting in the kids section reading a book. Saad‟s friends came up with

excuses, but he noticed that she‟s got nice legs => “Hey ! I saw you from over there and I had to meet you,

I‟m Saad.” She LOVED it! “do you always talk to girls in the kids section?” “yeah, when they‟re cute!!” … //The

key of getting her was Personal Communication: Talk about THEM. (earn trust asap) => being interesting while

you‟re interested.

*Example2: Very hot girl in airport: noticing about her/talk about it/quickly relate to it… =>

They built up such a good connection for each others.

Escalation

*Escalation during daygame is the quickest way to get arrested You can not touch a girl right

after you meet her.

*Solution? Physical escalation of daygame AKA Leading. RSD‟s assertive dominance: CLAW,

take charge of the interaction. Inside a girl‟s head : “ I‟m following this guy so I‟m attracted to him!”

*Not leading during day is EXACTLY the same as not escalating during the night.

*Example: What to do in a girl‟s store in santa monica ? //Be spontaneous. Lead even if you

don‟t know anything about the situation.

*How to lead? Ask the following question: what is she doing right now.

*Example: “what are you doing right now?” “I‟m shopping” “Ok ! let‟s shop together.” figuring

out that she‟s got all the dad free. “Let‟s go …”

*”Once they see you leading them, they let go”

Stopping girls in weird situations

*Go direct or they won‟t talk to you.

*Get them to comply on something: “I must at least get to talk to this guy.” And start all over.

*Example: Bad day at NY.At the subway.Noticing Hot girl :”Hey! have you ever had a guy

randomly come up to you at the subway and tell you that you are adorable?” “what‟s your name?” “give

me your email I‟ll add you on FaceBook.” => start all over & easy going.

*Keep in mind that you don‟t want to quickly meet up with her again.”I just met him on the

street!”

*Use social networks : MySpace & FaceBook.

*One call is all what you need to show her that you‟re a real person.

Q&A

“Where should I go in an instant date?”

*get her to a park nearby or grab a bite. Favorite thing to do: get them to shop with you.Make her

ancre some sort of experience to you.

“How to get it sexual without being sexual?”

Getting sexual is different from getting physical. Use misinterpretations & sexual humor: show them

cheesy romance novels; dance in front of them; Ridiculous X-shops.

“Can you pull them home?”

maybe!but it‟s very rare. Daygame is the same game but much slower. Act as if she‟s someone you

know and you‟re just enjoying your time. If you rush things, they‟d be willing to leave asap.Don‟t

miscalibrate and ruin the whole thing.

“I have a lotsa numbers but no dates !”

You should probably take them out immediately. //Guys are not creating the right intrigue: give her

ideas of adventure. Call her, intrigue her. Girls go nuts while being intrigued. While you leaving a

message, assume that she will go out with you “…Talk to you soon !”

“How to pickup hired guns?”

the same.Direct, show you intentions. Hired guns are lot easier because the guy owning his own

intentions hit‟em up. You wanna steal the leading frame.

Example: “I wanna pickup some shoes …whatever shoes bought me the most of your time!”

“dunno …!” “you wanna be my tour guide!” => leading: make fun of her opinions: “that one?? come

ooon ! no no , you‟re fired ” => Massive attraction.If they give you their number,it‟s typically VERY

solid.