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Relationships. Learning Targets I can define relationship. I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship. I can explain the difference between constructive

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Page 1: Relationships. Learning Targets I can define relationship. I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship. I can explain the difference between constructive

Relationships

Page 2: Relationships. Learning Targets I can define relationship. I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship. I can explain the difference between constructive

Learning Targets

I can define relationship.I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship.I can explain the difference between constructive and destructive relationships.

Page 3: Relationships. Learning Targets I can define relationship. I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship. I can explain the difference between constructive

JournalWeek 4 11-9-15

What makes your best friend your best friend?

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Your Relationships

List people whom you have a relationship with (parents, siblings, teacher, coach, etc.)Under each of your people, list qualities you expect in that relationship

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A relationship is the process of connecting with another

Humans are social creatures that want to belong and feel included, which is what being in a relationship gives us.

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Types of relationshipsVoluntary

We choose to be in themFriends, significant others, etc.

InvoluntaryWe don’t have a choice to be in the relationship

Partners, siblings, peers at school or work, etc.

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Closeness Circle

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Constructive vs. DestructiveConstructive Characteristics

Can be dependent, independent, or interdependent, according to the situationAllow one another independence and freedom to grow and developCan communicate effectively to resolve conflicts and solve problemsFlexibilityAccept differences and work to resolve themAre willing to compromiseDemonstrate care and concern for one anotherTake responsibility for their own behavior and for the relationship

Construction Relationships = balance

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Destructive Relationship Expect total loyal or no loyalty at allDemonstrate a lack of love or concern or use “smother love”Avoid conflicts entirely or fight and disagree constantlyWant to control one another’s behaviorCommunicate ineffectivelyAre overly possessiveNeglect one another’s needsFind themselves in win/lose situationsBecome locked into a dependent or independent role

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People in destructive relationships tend to be at the extreme ends

Don’t care at all about one another

“Smother Love”

Care about self & others

Behavioral Continuum

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Improving Your Relationships

Keep promisesBe loyalListenSay you’re sorrySet clear expectations

Do small acts of kindnessImportant People Lessons

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Review

Define relationship.Provide 2 qualities of a healthy relationship.Explain the difference between constructive and destructive relationships.

Provide 2 examples of destructive behavior.