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C hristians are caring people. To
follow Christ means that we
seek to serve others and pray that we
have the heart of Jesus. Galatians 6:9-10 reminds us,
“Let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due
season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Therefore,
as we have opportunity, let us do good to all….” But
what happens when our source of compassion seems to
run dry? When we do get weary? What do we do when
caring for others comes at the expense of caring for
ourselves. Compassion fatigue is a phrase that is used
to describe the “cost of caring.” Recently, Katy and I
found ourselves exhausted during a time of crisis for a
friend. We wanted to continue to help in the best way
possible and be present in a time of need, but we also
needed to have energy and clear minds to do so.
And that’s the first thing to remember about caring for
others: we cannot provide good care unless we are
practicing self-care. Self-care is not selfish. It’s just rec-
ognizing we are human. It is common for those who are
constantly concerned with the needs of others to wind
up neglecting their own. An apt analogy I have heard
several times speaks to this need: Airline flight attend-
ants instruct their passengers, “In the case of an emer-
gency, place your oxygen mask on first before helping
someone else.” We need to secure our own air supply
first so that we are able and ready to assist those who
need our care. Self-care allows us to “not grow weary”
as we reach out and help others.
Here are a few things that may help.
Remember that you are not God. This may seem
obvious(!) but so often it is the first commandment we
break. We want to be in control. We want to rescue and
save others. God is omnipotent; we are not. We are to
assist others, but we cannot take on the sins of the
world. Jesus already did that. We can help shoulder an-
other’s burdens, but we cannot take on the whole load
ourselves. Be aware of your limitations. Jesus grew
tired, got hungry, and needed time alone to rest and re-
flect. Certainly, we need that as well.
Set Boundaries. If someone is stuck down in a pit,
one option is to go down into the pit with them, but
that’s a terrible long-term solution! We may feel such
compassion for someone that we can over identify with
their pain and suffering. We need some distance so that
we can care for their plight, and also have the strength
to help them. A better idea is if someone is stuck in a
pit is to reach down an arm to help them out.
Eat. Sleep. Breath. In the ear ly days of my ministry
I discovered that man cannot live on coffee alone. Last-
ing energy come from eating nutritious food, restful
sleep, and times of prayer and meditation. Our care for
others is less effective if we are exhausted. It’s ok to
take a break and walk outside. Its not selfish to get the
sleep that we need. If we neglect good eating habits, we
will either grow weak or end up eating junk food. A
caring person also takes care of themselves. We all
need to make sacrifices at times, but it is important to
get back to an equilibrium as soon as possible.
I have discovered that Redeemer is a very caring
church. I don’t want any of us to grow weary of doing
good. The healthier we are, the more we can help meet
the needs of others.
Blessings in your caring,
Pastor Jon Christenson
Volume 48—Number 06 June 2018
Voice of Redeemer
Redeemer Lutheran Church
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There are some wonderful principles in the Old Testament which apply to present-day Christians. One of these is in Deuteronomy 8:10-18. Stated in contemporary language, it says, "When you have eaten and are full, and when your cars, houses and bank accounts multiply, don't forget where it came from: Remember the Lord your God." In truth, all that we have comes from God. He determines what we will receive, whether it be money, gold, silver, houses, land, bank accounts, stocks, bonds, etc. It all belongs
to Him in the first place, and He entrusts it to us. According to David's prayer in 1 Chronicles 29, riches, honor, power,
and wealth all come from God. That's why there is no such thing as a self-made man or woman. Oh, we have to do our
part. God's plan is not that we just sit around praying and reading the Bible all day long so that what we need to survive will
miraculously drop into our hands. We're not just to pray for our "daily bread," but we're also to get up each day and work for it! That's why the Apostle Paul stated clear-ly, "Whoever refuses to work is not allowed to eat" (2 Thes. 3:10). But in reality, the
amount of money and wealth which we receive is determined by God. According to His divine will and knowledge, He entrusts to each of us the amount which He knows will be best for us.
What should be our reaction to our financial state? Some might pray, "Dear Lord, you
must have made a mistake concerning me and my finances. Please give me more mon-ey." Others might try to circumvent God's design for their lives by trying to win the lot-tery or to obtain large sums of money through some other means. Mature Christians,
however, will realize God's infinite wisdom far surpasses their limited perspective. They will accept with a thankful spirit what God has entrusted to them and seek to honor
God by their living and by their giving.
REDEEMER IMPROVEMENTS COMING SOON!
If you recall, at our congregational meeting in January, a loan for $100,000 was unanimously
approved for various improvements needed to keep our property in good repair. The GOOD NEWS is
that the loan was approved and we now have the money to begin the projects: parking lot resurfac-
ing; new air conditioning/heating units; and paint/oil inside and out of our sanctuary.
The REALITY NEWS is we now have monthly loan payments. Payments of $1085.00 will be automati-
cally deducted every month. The council is working on ideas for increased giving to make sure we
cover these monthly payments and continue to maintain our regular budget. IDEAS WELCOME!
Expect to see much needed work on these improvements to start soon and remember:
GOD LOVES A CHEERFUL GIVER!!! Jan Lemley Pres.
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Happy Birthday ,June Evans
Sunday, May 27—all church luncheon , we also celebrated June Evans birthday.
Congratulations to June on the big 9-0!!!
HIGHLIGHTS OF MAY’S COUNCIL MEETING ON MAY 14, 2018
Summer Service starting June 3, 2018 to be held at 9:30 a.m.
Upcoming Events
Yard Sale – June 2, 2018 7:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.
VBS – July 16-20, 2018 HERO’s theme
Lutheran Night @ Dodger Stadium – August 25, 2018 if interested contact Mary
Ellen Saldana ASAP Tickets $39 infield/$33 preferred
Coffee Hour Hosts still needed please check sign-in sheets
Still waiting on Constitution approval by Synod
Security Concerns: looking to install Wireless Cameras and new EXIT signs in Fellowship
Hall
Loan is waiting to be approved – Loan Repayment Plan ideas in the works in the form of
PLEDGE DRIVE / STEWARDSHIP
SAVE
THE
DATE
JULY
16-20
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INTERESTED IN GOING TO A DODGER GAME?
WE CAN CARPOOL AND GO AS A GROUP
FOR LUTHERAN NIGHT—AUGUST 25
BUT WE ACT SOON TO GET SEATS TOGETHER
CONTACT MARY ELLEN SALDANA A.S.A.P.
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ICE CREAM SOCIAL
JUNE 24th
JOIN US
AFTER
WORSHIP
June 14
5:30 pm
DATES TO
REMEMBER
Sat. June 9
Monday June 11
6 pm
Everyone is Welcome
WINE & DINE is Thursday 6/28/18
@6:15pm, LA Costa Mariscos, 10100
Stockdale Hwy. Please make reservations
with Caroline Reid.
JUNE
ACTIVITIES
LUNCH BUNCH: Everyone is invited to join
us at the Great Castle Chinese restaurant, 410 Union Ave. on Wednesday, 6/6/18 @ 11 am. Please make reservations with Judy Olson-Peterson.
QUILTING AND PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY is cancelled
for June. Please plan to join this ministry in July. You are
so welcome to join this ministry—wanted those who are
eager to knit or crochet or help with quilting. Not sure of
your skills? - we’ll help
June Evans
Arlene Lee
Bill Silveira
Mara Ziegler
Karen Musgrove
Trulaine Woken
Hannah Shellgren
Laura Haywood
McKenna Evert
Jamie Spillers
Dianne Ladd
Gladys Stilwill
Jeff Uecker
Dorothy Goff
Guy & Rachel Hairfield
George & Gladys Stilwill
Scott & Susan Perry
Robert & Arlene Hamstreet
Schuyler & Catherine
Johnson
Jack & Sherry Clayton
RUTH CIRCLE : will be on hiatus for summer. We will
resume Monday, September 3.
AFTERNOON CIRCLE is cancelled for the month of June.
Watch for information for July.
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May 26, 2018 April 24, 2018
Area of Service
Altar Guild
Flowers
Assistant
Minister
Communion
Assistant
Reader
Head Usher
Greeter
Coffee Hour
June 3 June 10 June 17 June 24
Phyllis Elrod
Michael Jacobsen
Ice Cream Social
Following is a list of our friends who have been lifted up in prayer by our faithful Prayer Warriors.
Please know that your prayers are so very much appreciated. Thanks and Blessings to all!
Louise Hall
Caroline Reid
IN HIS SERVICE
JUNE 2018
Katy & Pastor Jon
Ken Svendsen
Jan Lemley
Ed Saltzman
John Lemley
Mary Ellen Saldana
Haywood family
Laura Haywood
Jan Lemley
NOTE: THIS SCHEDULE DOES NOT REFLECT CHANGES MADE AFTER MAY 26
Piper Brantley
Lilian Powell
Rosie Baker
Marie Nick
Brett Birkmire
Fran
Scott Allen
Sheri Hunter
Annesah Dreger
REDEEMER LUTHERAN CHURCH
EVANGELICAL LUTHERAN CHURCH IN AMERICA
2525 BELLE TERRACE, P O BOX 13132-93389, BAKERSFIELD, CA 93304
Pastor: Rev. Jon Christenson ………... 832-7881 ……………. Secretary: Phyllis Elrod
E-mail address: [email protected] Web site address: www.bakersfieldlutheran.org
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SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THRUSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY
2/11ansfJJUNE
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Worship 9:30
Coffee hour 10:30
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5
Pacifica 3 pm
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Lunch Bunch
11 am
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9 am—noon
10
Worship 9:30
Coffee hour 10:30
11
Worship &
Music 6 pm
12
Pacifica 3 pm
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14 Pacifica
10:15
Council 5:30
pm
Flag Day
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16
17
Worship 9:30
Coffee hour 10:30
Father’s Day
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Pacifica 3 pm
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Worship 9:30
Coffee hour 10:30
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Pacifica 3 pm
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Pacifica
10:15
Wine &
Dine 6:15
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June 17
PLEASE NOTE:
STARTING JUNE 3
ONE SERVICE ONLY
9:30 AM