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Flirting comes natural for most women. But flirting and not looking easy or skankish is a skill many fail to

exceed in. You can send many different signals with flirting. Sending the right one to capture your “Mr.

Right” is the key. Body language speaks loudest, yes even louder than words. Knowing what acceptable

body language is often the case. Decide what the message you want to send is. If you actually are

shooting for a one night stand then go ahead and throw yourself in. But if you want to tease your “Mr.

Right” and intrigue him with interest, then follow my flirty steps. Look at it like this… Let’s say your best

friend set you up on this “really hot date,” In the words of your best friend. This person doesn’t know

anything about you and you don’t know much about him. Here’s a fresh start. Get to know him. The

more interest you show the more he will talk and feel good about what he is saying. Forward leaning

shows that you are comfortable with him. Also it plays a little bit of peek a boo if you have a sort of low

cut blouse on. This can go one of two ways 1. He will want to know whats under the shirt more so than

what you are saying or who you are. Or 2. It can go a better way he will be sexually attracted to you as

well as attracted to knowing the woman you are. Always relate; don’t let him do all the talking. Guys

hate for a woman to talk a lot but they hate a woman with a dull conversation or just nothing at all to

say. Mutual sharing is the key. Talk about things the both of you can relate to. Base it off the information

he just shared with you. Share with him a brief rundown of your success and goals. Guys also love a

woman with goals and knows what she wants and doesn’t have a problem going after it. If you are really

into him gentle touches on the hand, and shoulder show you like him and you like what you see. It also

shows your enjoying yourself. From then on things should be clear whether this guy is interested into

you or not. Now just be yourself. Don’t hide who you are because in the long run secrets always run out

of storage space and are soon pushed to the light. You don’t want to appear what you are not, or give

the wrong impression. Don’t lead the guy on. At all times remain yourself. This doesn’t mean fart freely

or burp at the dinner table. Those are the things that are to be saved for after he is well drawn in.

ReCap

Forward lean

Listen

Interest

Relate

Touch

You!

By Lorrin Cash