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Preventing an Ethical Blowout. Mike Shaub Grace 360 Conference January 18, 2014. One Day You’re Cruising. The Next Your Life is on Fire. Goals of this Workshop. Help you consider possible indicators of susceptibility to an ethical blowout in your life - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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Preventing an Ethical Blowout
Mike ShaubGrace 360 Conference
January 18, 2014
One Day You’re Cruising
The Next Your Life is on Fire
Goals of this WorkshopHelp you consider possible indicators of susceptibility
to an ethical blowout in your lifeRecognize that tendency in others so that you can
Help those who give you accessStay clear of the explosion for those who don’t
Develop strategies to reduce the possibility of an ethical blowout, always focused on dependence on Jesus Christ.
What is an Ethical Blowout?
A moral failure that is a one-time or short window event that changes the course of your life or ministry.
Not the collapse that inevitably comes from a life lived in rebellion to God over the long-term.
It is a sudden, cataclysmic failure, though the process may take months.
Classic Example: RehoboamListen, walk, doI Kings 11:3-6—why God had to use JeroboamI Kings 11:38—what God told Jeroboam to doI Kings 12:1-15 Rehoboam forsook wise counsel (v. 8), didn’t
listen (v. 15). Didn’t think long-term, but short-term Decided he would do it his own way, be
tougher than his father was
What is Going Through the Mind of a Person Before an Ethical Blowout?
Stop listening—suppress the truthThink short-termMake it work—getting by on your own devices,
self-sufficient
Stop Listening
Leaving home as a college student naturally means listening less to prior authority.
Truth suppression is the problem.Truth inserts itself in many ways when we rebel. Word of God Spirit of God Wise counsel
Truth Suppression
Romans 1:18-27 Suppress the truth in unrighteousness Profess to be wiseIsaiah 44:18-20 Worshipping things we make with our own
hands Ignoring obvious truth
Reckless
RecklessUtterly unconcerned about the consequences of some action
Without caution, careless“Reck”: to have care, concern or regard; to take heed
Allen Stanford Before
Telegraph.co.uk
Allen Stanford After
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Articles.businessinsider.com
Recklessness• After the fact, recklessness makes you
ask, “What was he thinking?”• Generally, the person bypasses the
controls designed to prevent the behavior.
• The person either doesn’t care or doesn’t listen. Others’ opinions are irrelevant.
• This is truth suppression.
Truth Invasion: Word of God
The first way truth inserts itself is through the Word of God.
John 17:17James 1:22-25 It’s a mirror. Listen and do.Hebrews 4:12
PiercingJudges the heart
Truth Invasion: Spirit of GodJohn 16:13-15 The Spirit won’t take you where you want
to go. The Spirit guides you into all the truth,
whether you like it or not. The Spirit discloses.The Spirit is full disclosure. We want to
cover up.
Truth Invasion: Wise CounselSpouse—Prov 19:14 (prudent wife), 31:10-11
(trustworthy)Friends—Prov 20:6 (trustworthy)Mentors—Heb 13:7 (considering the outcome of
their way of life, imitate their faith)Instead, we surround ourselves with “yes men.” With fellow false worshippers, who agree with
us (Romans 1) If you have power, with “you” worshippers. True with CEOs, football coaches, athletes
In Summary
The first thing that leads to an ethical blowout is truth suppression.
This means we stop listening to theWord of GodSpirit of GodWise counsel
Secondly, We Think Short-TermHabit of underthinking the implications—
Rehoboam (I Kings 12:7)Surprised at how things turn outTypical behaviors Pouting at setbacks or when others push back Rash decisions that bring regret In students, skipping class or assignments Ending friendships instead of apologizing
Third, We Make it WorkPsalm 81:8-12Listen: Walk in My ways.Don’t listen: Walk in their own devices.Self-sufficiency leads to the self-worship
and truth suppression that Paul describes in Romans 1:18-27.
“Walk in their own devices”We figure out what works and do it. Even if it’s cutting corners Even if it hurts others Even if it violates your faithWhat I see in students Sexual intimacy with others to fill emotional
needs Cheating Free riding on others’ work and taking credit Relying on connections rather than the hard work
that leads to competence
Coping Behaviors
Our “own devices” can often be behaviors to cope with sub-optimal circumstances.
Loneliness—drinking, partying, counterproductive sexual behaviors
Exclusion from the group—gossip Frustrated ambitions—outbursts of anger
So How Do I Prevent a Blowout?1. Listen and embrace truth. Gal 4:16—Have I therefore become your enemy by
telling you the truth? Hang around truth-tellers, even when they make you
uncomfortable. Develop truth habits.
Seek the truth in God’s Word.Listen to the Spirit of God in time alone with Him.
2. Think long-term.3. Connect with others.
• Tell yourself the truth as a habit, good or bad news.• Speak truth to others, but remember that the truth is
often the aroma of death to people.– II Cor 2:14-16
• Don’t shoot the wounded.– II Cor 4:3-4—satan blinds to truth– II Tim 2:23-26—prisoners of war
• Practice on believers before you go dumping on pre-Christians.– Eph 4:14-15—speak the truth in love
Strategies for Truth-Telling
Think Long-Term
Think Long-Term
Think Long-Term
Connect with OthersLack of communication and carelessness seem
to have been at the root of the Deepwater Horizon explosion.
If you live in isolation, you are very susceptible to an ethical blowout, no matter your spiritual history.
You need accountability, so hang around truth-tellers.
Beware the Enticement of SuccessProverbs 1:8-16 A habit of taking advantage of others Quick success, leaving victims in your wakeProverbs 1:24-28 There is a point where it’s too late to be wise. So be careful who you hang around.
“When your dread comes like a storm”
Time.com
Articles.businessinsider.com
Remember1. Listen and embrace truth.2. Think long-term.3. Connect with others.
Only daily dependence on God can deliver us from an ethical blowout.
But these habits help.